4Rings

These are the usual tricks of theras to gain more clients. Clients who are suckers may fall into these traps.

true true.. although this thera i'm pertaining to.. i haven't given her any tip/money since our 2nd meeting... so its a little mind boggling.. you are there for the money but won't take my money.. very difficult to explain the situation through words.. although at this point.. i already gave up on her, and we have totally no contact.

 

As long as she remains in the industry bro, you can't. Even if she goes out with you, tells you she has feelings for you and insists she doesn't engage with other clients, as long as she works in that environment, there is 99% certainty that she will....I have been exposed in this enterprise long enough to know the inner machinations of therapists.

 

If you have read my real life anecdotes, some of those theras I got have serious BFs, some of them dating some active GMs who post in this thread.Lol...The only time you know that she has completely stopped is if she quits the spa and be with you for real.

totally agree.... there's this thera now who is asking me to love her, but not willing to give anything back for that love.. I asked her to quit and i'll support her.. she said: wag daw pakialaman yung work nya kasi work lang and need nya for family, hiwalay naman daw yung work sa love..(the situation is just totally different from normal relationships that do not start with money transactions) she asked me to trust her kasi work lang.. so i asked her to tone down the ES to standard only, hindi daw pwede kasi yan puhunan nya.. then i would have to schedule just to see her.. and one time when i said i couldnt go when she wanted me to visit.. bakit daw di ko mag sacrifice for her?

let's just say, she's not out there to play with me... but she's looking for love but not willing to give up any part of the industry? ano yun diba?

i'm sure you've passed thru this thera les.. just don't wana mention names, but with your expertise and experience with these theras, i'm sure you've seen all possible angles.. true or all for show.