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hindi naman kayo magiging atm machine kung di kayo nagpapalabas ng pera eh. di kayo lalapitan ng social climbers if you don't strike them as one of those guys who would give them money just to sit on your lap. besides may mga lalake din naman iyong kuripot o pa date-date wala namang pera tas iyong babae pinagagasta. nakakadiri.. i don't know sa ibang babae ha pero di naman ako parati nalang nagpapalibre i know how to balance and i will offer to treat you and give you gifts pero ayo ko iyong sinasabihan ako "ay sorry i'm hella broke pwede bang ikaw muna?" yucky talaga!

kasi it's overrated

depende ano bang love yan? libog lang o pakakasalan mo ba silang dalawa? kung marami kang moolah marry them both magpa convert ka sa religion na pwede mo silang pakasalan dalawa lols. no but for reals man, you can easily mistake lust for love and love for lust. kahit nga infatuation kala mo nga love na eh so if i were you, mag mumuni-muni nalang ako hanggang sa nasigurado kong love nga for them both ang nararamdaman ko. bago pa ako masampal sa magkabilang pisngi! good luck!

at first it's freedom of course.. lol but then again it gets lonely.. well in my case not because he's gone.. i mean thank God for that.. it's about worrying that you might never find that someone.. and you might end up alone for the rest of your life.. geez i'm 21... but hey, that's a possibility

call me a braggart.. i happen to not have the qualities stated here.. that doesn't really mean i'm not being avoided.. in fact i think i'm being avoided even more.

what i'm trying to say is.. maybe the reason why is that.. the lot of you guys go out with these kinds of women.. and you like it cause you know what they're like and you know what they want.. you can actually use that information to your advantage. it's just like the nice guys finish last theory.. girls tend to fall in love with the jerks and never realize that what they need is that nice guy who's been giving her advices with the jerk.

So i mean, you can say what you want to avoid.. but i do hope you really can..

if it's love why make it secret

yeah i.. i think telling it straight is the best way. i'd like to have it that way too

almost.. lol i got close to begging twice.. but somehow some spirit of enlightenment comes over me at the nick of time and saves me from the humiliation and patheticness if there's such a word although somehow I ask myself what if it would have made a difference? but thinking twice, i just can't bare having to beg. I'd feel pathetic all my life!

guy: i want us to be friends.. plus the benefits

me: you can only have one, why can't you be contented with just having the benefits?

guy: because I want to be friends with you, i wanna care somehow about you even if we're not committed

me: aww.. how sweet of you (at the back of my mind "BULLSHIT!")

More like "I want to have the GF experience with you without having to pay or giving you power to have a say at anything! I mean, that's why I'm still single right now cause I have the same relationship with all the women I'm with and it's sooooo much better to not be committed cause It's just like having a GF minus the hard times!"

This crap is never gonna work! I don't have anything against the being Fubus concept but wanting us to be friends and f#&k me at the same time is just pure bullshit.

This is the hierarchy:

1.) Bf/Gf relationship- is higher than friends, it involves friendship, sex and commitment

2.) Friends- is lower than bf/gf relationship, it does not involve sex! gawd! can you imagine f#&king your friend whom you spill your guts to?

3.) Fubu- is definitely lower than bf/gf relationship and even friends! Yeah, you talk about something after the sex but that's not friends.. i mean not friends FRIENDS! It's just for conversations sake so you have something to talk about while you're both recharging for another round! You don't expect a fubu to come running towards you when you call their name! You don't expect them to be there when you need them (not unless you both need to let something out like uh.. i dunno.. THE HEAT?!).

I understand the Fubus are for horniness sake so I don't understand saying crap about being friends and s@%t that's just plain WRONG. So please please don't talk about how you care cause we both know for a fact that the reason why we are at this point is because you are having problems with committing let's not make it complicated by pretending we're friends!

Well to be honest, I'm usually attracted to men 10-20+ older than me. I must admit it's kinda hard. But societies norms has nothing to do with that. I'm not one who cares what people say. It's not that hards since I'm the female which makes me unsure when it's the other way around.

The main problem I've had with it is that the guy is most probably not at the same level that I am in. I'm not talking about level of thinking. It's more like the lifestyle. Most men at that age would most probably not be enjoying what I enjoy. It's also hard for them to take you seriously cause they're worried that you are still young and there's still lots of things in store for you and all "the world is open to you" crap and that they can't afford to play games at their age.

It's hard to convince them otherwise because you of course cannot tell what's in the future.

*sigh* I'm losing my mind. I better stop here.

I'll answer your question with a question.

Some people think love is just a made-up idea. Some don't even know what love means. So..

How do you know that you mean what you say when you don't even know what you're saying is true or existing in that case? anyway.. just a thought

i've to catch the guy red handed to know that he's cheating.. when i'm in a relationship i of course trust my partner. not unless he does things for me not to apply that in our relationship which i don't think happens cause i never tolerate a guy who would start to take me for granted... or ignoring me or if he pretends to be busy. so yeah, this applies only in cases where the words are there the actions are there only that you won't be there to see his every move. So i guess my guy is innocent until i catch him myself...

i can't remember.. but i think i might have slept or watched csi..

Now that you've asked... I've been thinking hard what were my "WHAT IF's". Somehow I can't seem to find what if's (for the past).

I'm more of "What if i do this" (present or future) then that's when I think about probable results/consequences.. I usually do that a lot when I'm about to make a decision.

They say... it has something to do with me being a Gemini... that... I look at both sides of the situation thus the "What if" attitude.

P.S.

this is outta d topic but somehow my tummy aches lol... nesvita ad really meant it when it said PRO-DIGESTION.. arg!

The not so good times we shared?

"Kumain ka na?"<-- on sms

why would i not eat?

you only ask this if you're about to invite me to eat something

i love you..

because.. being sorry is more realistic. some people don't even believe in love. that's why it's harder to say I love you than saying you're sorry.

knowing that i am wrong and that i have to apologize isn't that hard.

knowing that i am in fact in love is hard.. dictionaries can't even make up their mind what love really means.

this anyway, is really cheesy.. but i'm wondering why i'm still answering these kinds of questions lol stop me

pano kung valid yung reason..

 

like di pa pala sya nakaka-over sa ex nya..

 

eto kwento ko..

 

naging kami nung ex ko withoput me knowing na cool off lng pala sila nung guy ..

 

then after 6 months.. nakipagbalikan sya dun sa ex nya..

pero naguguluhan sya..

 

kasi all the while mahal nya daw ako pero di nya magawang malimutan yung ex nya..

 

tama bang ginawa ko na i-give up sya. ,, baka kailangan mangyari.. para magkaron sila ng closure nung ex nya

at nang sa ganon magkaron na rin sya ng chance na magmahal ulit ng iba?

 

 

should i go and love her and try to win her back? dapat ba akong umasa.. knowing na naguguluhan sya at kahit daw kasama na nya nagyon ang ex nya eh di pa rin sya masaya? or kalimutan ka na sya?

i'm kind.. so i'll be as honest as i possibly can. that girl is not confused. she just doesn't want to decide because she wants to have both of you at once. it's a nice feeling knowing that you have two guys who are after you.

why would you be confused if you know who you really love in the first place?

it's this easy: 1 person loves another person = maayos na relationship.. pretty easy equation..

on the other hand.. i cannot tell you if what you did was right or wrong... you are the only person who can say that.. i do not know what you believe in. i just hope that you know yourself well so you know what you really want.

I know i don't want a bf who still thinks about his ex. so it would only be right for me to kick his ass back to his ex's arms... and say GOOD RIDDANCE!

well, if my partner is cheating it just means he's not considering our relationship serious.

i don't believe about the "tikim ng ibang ulam" reason.. i think it's crap. there might be different kind of pussies and different kinds of women with different styles but if you're mature enough to see how exactly alike we are in composition then cheating wont be an option for you at all.

the "something different" you want is already in front of you and that's why you chose to be with that person and not with anybody else. if you are cheating.. you either have serious issues with commitment or you're just a birdbrain who makes cheating a pathetic excuse to try something different when the truth is, you're cheating because you have no love or respect for your partner. i'm saying this in cases wherein both parties know they are in a serious relationship.

ergo, i wont mind if my partner is cheating on me so long as i wont catch him. if i ever do, i'll think about not nailing his ass upside down or cutting his balls and feeding it to my dogs.. just watch your back guys.. be a good liar!

hmmm.. i think it should.. lol but for me it doesn't.. only if it's just a few inches. having a midget bf is different lol.. kidding i would as much as possible would want my partner to be taller than me. if he's a bit short that don't matter. i'm just gonna have to say goodbye to my heels

im not sure.. but me and my girlfriends have been talking about this beauty and the beast topic and we were thinking that maybe we see that scenario more often because the woman to man ratio is approximately 1:10... so women might not have that much choice..LOL we have also agreed that there's actually A LOT of pretty women but you can't find pretty men as easily as you can find pretty women.

it's sorta convincing, just take the celebrities for example. How many hot celebrity women can you name? then try How many hot celebrity men can you name?

anyhow, personally i don't have that much standards only that my man should watch his personal hygiene, his manners and feed his brain from time to time.. aside from that I just follow my guts.. maybe the guy's sex appeal might have something to do with it. sex appeal anyway doesn't mean you're supposed to be a looker.

if already taken.. uh.. don't think so.. but if really really really like him that much? no.. still don't think so... lol if i love him? i might try but trying would be as easy as "who do you effin love?" that simple.. if he doesn't love me back.. move on.. if he does then take the necessary actions e.g. kulamin iyong current gf lol kidding...