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chaos122512

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  1. may mga guy na na-pa panoid because of Love at First Sight naka-katakot specially sa mga girl na naka-raranas nito like sa mga artista madaming stalker, matinding pagpapaliwanag ito.

     

     

    We always tend to think that people who wanted to commit suicide because of love are paranoid, weak, dangerous psychopaths that can't continue to live after being left... I had a friend once, and he was cheated on by his gf for 6yrs... imagine, 6yrs all went down the drain, and he was really intent on suicide... I knew I couldn't stop him, and I knew he was not like the others that were just needing attention. I talked to him and i asked him why he wanted to do it, why he felt so hopeless as to end his life... He looked at me and said something in the tune of: "Pare, do you think I'm really that stupid and desperate??? common sense pre, why would I k*ll myself to be with someone alive?? I'm doing it not because I can't live without her,nor because I want her back, coz frankly, I don't want a cheater in my life. I want to do it because I want her to have a sense that she's important, and she can overcome being a cheater... "

     

    As the weeks passed, We both learned that the girl replaced her with a single dad who was her high school friend. I asked him again if he was going to push through with his plans. He said not anymore because after finding out that the girl cheated on him for someone who already has a child, it had proven to him that he was the stupid one, trying to see the girl in a light more than what the girl was really worth... It proved to him that the girl was only after money and nothing else...

     

    Humaba na 'to... wala lang, i just wanted to share this experience... My personal thought of the matter is that it really depends on the person and the situation. Our heroes knew they were headed for death yet they continued to press on and they got thier deaths, we don't call them suicidal psychopaths, but rather, we call them martyrs... I think if one will take his own life for his personal reasons based on negativity (fear, loneliness, despair) then i think that is cowardice... but if one is willing to take his own life out of joy and service, then we are really in no position to judge them. just my two cents

  2. Hey... I was just wondering if someone here can advise me on a legal matter... Let me tell you guys a short story first... One of my friends now (female) whom I'm getting quite fond of was raped a year ago by her boyfriend for six (6) years... She gave birth to a very beautiful child just this year... My friend doesn't want to press charges, taking into consideration that her parents are both suffering from heart ailments and the knowledge of what transpired might end her parents lives... She had talked to the guy to tell him not to ever bother her anymore, but still the guy is persistent, to the point of texting her parents and sending her money for child care, which she had always returned. Another thing to take into consideration is that the rapist/ex-bf is a good lawyer and comes from a powerful family.

     

    My questions are as follows:

     

    1. Since my friend is adamant and had swore that she will never let her ex/rapist see her child, what can she do in order to make sure this happens without resulting to filing a criminal case against her rapist?

    2. Are rapists in the constitution allowed parental privileges?

    3. Is there a chance that her child might be dragged into court for parental custody in case she doesn't file a case???

    4, Knowing that the rapist/ex is a lawyer and has strong connections, what are the chances of her winning in case she files even though they had been together for 6 years in the past before the rape occurred??

    5. What do you advise on the said matter???

     

    I am looking forward to any advice regarding this matter. thank you for the time in reading this.

  3. IMHO, dog training should be done by the owner. Earning your dog's trust and companionship is the best reward in training your own dog. I have two rotties and I learned to train them from books, other trainers and videos, but I had never had them trained by a professional trainer. I wanted to personally train them, and I studied how to because I didn't want the chance to destroy their temperaments because of a novice mistake, specially in giving corrections. I painstakingly downloaded every dog training material I can find only, bought every rott book I can get my hands on, and had watched and read the leerburg series over and over again. I still have a complete list of his PDF files before about training, and I had learned a lot from them. Researching gives balance in training. Some look at training as nothing more than dominance and leadership, while there are others who uses pure positive reinforcements. Learning to balance this is the key to training any dog.

  4. Hi Neville...

     

    makiki-alam lang... hehehe

     

    I think the best investment that you have for now is it focus on your masters, and look for a business that you will love and that you can maintain til your old ripe age. Nothing against those that are advising you to invest in companies, stocks, etc, for that is what normal people do... The problem is that normal people don't usually get rich, i mean really rich, and they end up with just being comfortable getting by. Investing in yourself by believing in what you can do, what you can achieve and creating your own business empire at this age is really feasible, as long as you find that one thing that you always love to do. It'll be hard, at first, but it sure will be worth it in the end. The difference between starting your own company and investing in other companies is that you make yourself grow, and you can adjust your company, not the other way around, and you will not be enslaved by the general economics. Successful businessmen have one common thing they believed in and invested all their money and efforts on that particular aspect: THEMSELVES.

     

    Anyway, who am I to advice you? I'm not a financially adequate person nor have I invested in anything worth more than friendship.

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