punisherxxx

the easiest and simplest way to get rid of this problem is to treat this people like playthings, you went to them to get your quick fix, believe me...Sakit lang to sa bulsa and mas lalo na emotionally.. my advice... dont take the risk...unless gusto mo na mag suicide ...these girls are trained through experience and most of them hate men... or at least dont trust them... just play safe... ,... TREAT THEM AS WHORES OR AS f#&k THINGS.. no matter how much u fall for them.. coz in the end , if u give in ...your on the LOSING END.. PLAY THE GAME... DONT TRUST THEM ,THE WAY THEY DONT TRUST YOU... YOUR THERE FOR THE LUST, THEY ARE THERE FOR THE MONEY... FAIR TRADE... THAT SIMPLE... PARAUSAN LANG SILA DAPAT SAYO ....KAHIT ANO PA DRAMA NILA SA BUHAY, 220 MAN O HINDI.. THATS LIFE !!! LETS PLAY THE GAME!!! ANG p#ta AY p#ta, LETS BE REALISTIC

TOTOO.. pero

 

hindi pedeng masilipan lang.. ng iba.. know why??

mataas na presyo namen eh,, libre silip for me NO WAY,, bayad sya, silip sya. ganun yun pre.

 

 

 

 

I was actually reffering to gro dancers na nagsasayaw ng hubad.. pati mga waiter at mga bouncer kita lahat, librepa, tapos araw araw hehehehe

I JUST WANNA ASK? IS THERE SUCH A THING AS A HAPPY ENDING FOR THE POSTERS HERE? COZ SO FAR I HAVENT HEARD ANYONE SHARE THEIR PERSONAL HAPPY ENDING/ IS IT BECAUSE OF US? COMMITING TO OUR PRIDE AND NOT DOING ANYTHING TO FIX IT? THEY SAY A HERO WHEN FACED WITH SEEMINGLY IMPOSSIBLE OBSTACLES DOES AN UNEXPECTING ACT WHICH REVERSES THE SITUATION...PROBLEM IS.. I DONT SEE MYSELF AS A HERO...NOT A KNIGHT IN SHINING ARMOR...EVEN IF I WANTED TO

when this involves more than just sex and money for either or both parties, it becomes complicated.

 

the irony is it needs to go beyond sex and money to grow. otherwise, it's just a transaction.

 

it requires a lot of understanding, and shedding of traditional beliefs about relationships. you may even need to reorient your moral compass.

 

i remember an incident some years ago, when i had snacks with my friend, his mpa gf, and one or two of her friends.

 

the mpa gf kept on bragging that she had a lot of suitors, all from the mp. they were rich, pogi, mabait, etc. eventually, one of the girls got so annoyed that she said: eh bakit ka pa nila kailangan ligawan, eh for 3 thou, sex at gfe na ang binibigay mo!

 

there was a moment of stunned silence and then everyone just laughed.

 

what struck me was not the comment, but that the mpa gf didn't take offense, and as my friend later confirmed, she totally forgot about the incident. for her it was normal, harmless, and she didn't even realize that my friend got hurt.

yeah very true, para kase sa kanila , pangkaraniwan na yun, kase pag nakasanayan mo na gawin o marinig ang isang bagay parang nagiging normal na, para bang try mo wag magsalawal sa loob ng 31 days sa una mahihiya ka pero bandang huli pangkaraniwan nalang, as for othe rpeople, parang ung taong grasa dito sa amin , common site na laging sumusuntok sa hangin , so indi na big deal, to this girls sex is just sex, hindi na sila nahihiya kung masilipan sila , its like sanay ka nang tumanggap ng suntok na parang kalabit nalang sayo, ask pacqiaou...but oras na sumingut na ung love.. saka nila naiisip kung ano ba pede nila pagmalaki sa guy

just want to add sa mga naunang post ko...

 

 

guys, kung mamahalin niyo yung mga gro/mpa/psp niyo... not because of AWA and not because MAHAL ka nung babae... kasi mas masakit yun kaysa sa mahalin niyo sila dahil sa sex... (ang gulo noh!?) promise... believe me... MASAKIT... sobra sobra... :cry: mabuti pang mahalin niyo sila o magsimula sa sex kaysa sa AWA LANG...

ALAM MO TAMA UN SINABI MO , KAYA LANG SANA PAKI ELABORATE LANG TONG SINABI MO , KASE NAALALA KO MADALAS SABIHIN SAKIN NG GIRL KO NOON NA ALAM NYA NA NAAAWA LANG AKO SA KANYA, KAYA KO GINAGAWA UN, IT MEANS LOW SELF ESTEEM DIBA? INDI NAMAN AKO NAAWA SA KANYA PERO UN ANG LAGI NYA SINASABI , PAKI ELABORATE LANG PLEASE........

thanks bro, cguro nga kailangan dagdagan ko. the problem is, pag nandun ako sa club na un, ang nakukuha ko lang is either cya or yung sis nya. i have experience from both of them.. (you know...). pero since nung sinab nya sakin na she feels the same way. aba!! nagtatampo na pag kumukuha ko ng ibang angels. pati tuloy yung sis nya di ko na makuha. saka I always find myself waiting na makuha cya everytime i go there.

 

pero bro! salamats!! I will do ur suggestion. maybe trying other club other than this club would also be helpful.

doesnt it feel awkward na parehong magkapatid ang nadale mo dun and parang ok lang sa gro mo..well anyway you have a family and yes masarap pero it might just be the sex or dahil sinabi nya na may feeling din sya sayo..ingat ka na lang

KUNG MAWALA MAN ANG LOVE AND TRUST..SANA HINDI MAWALA YUN RESPETO PARIN SA ISA'T ISA..

MAGREREACT DIN AKO SA POST MO HEHEHE... PARA KASING PAG NAWALA NA UNG TRUST MO SA ISANG TAO ,MAWAWALA NA RIN UNG RESPECT MO E...IN MY CASE THE MORE I FELL FOR HER , THE MORE I WAS AWARE OF WHAT SHE WAS DOING, NAKIKIPAGLAPLAPAN SA CUSTOMER , SUMASAYAW NG HUBO.. I MEAN THE MORE I LOVED HER THE MORE NA PARANG DI KO MATANGGAP GINAGAWA NYA, ALTHOUGH HINDI NYA AKO NILOKO, KAYA LANG HIRAP MATANGGAP UNG TRABAHO NYA E, ISIPIN MO NALANG KUNWARI LEGIT GF MO NA HINDI NAMAN GANUN WORK TAPOS NAKIKIPAG 1 NYT STAND SA MGA LALAKI, HINDI BA MAWAWALA RESPETO MO? ANG LOVE ANDYAN PARIN KASE KAYA KA NGA MASASAKTAN E...HEHEHE INDI AKO NAKIKIPAG AWAY HA? BAKA BARAHIN MO RIN AKO, OPINYON LANG..PEACE BALL!!! :thumbsupsmiley:

sorry if sapol ah? hehehe

 

but yeah you're right.. sana nga hindi magtake advantage ang mpa/gro/psp sa clients

pretending they're in love out of money lang pala... pero may babae talaga na mataas mangarap eh

kaya kahit makasakit, walang pakialam..

 

sana nga din ano,, yung mga iba clients wont take advantage din sa PagkaHUMALING ni mpa/gro/psp

para lang pala makalibre, may pang-display(kung pretty-prettyhan)..

wear a mask of a PRINCE CHARMING.. prince charring lang pala diba?

na kahit anong profession nia,, or natapos nia, sang skul sya,,

kung assh*le sya.. ganun na eh..

 

wawa lang.. p a r e h o (fair enuf?)

 

 

 

For the 1st time i agree with yer post ,angel... honestly ... sinabi ko na naman dati yan e, both parties dont trust each other,i analyze natin kung ano ang mga possibilities sa gantong relationship.. kase ganto lang yan e... to make it simple....

1. both of them love each other and were willing to fight for it, then they end up happily

2. client loves gro/psp/mp, but the girl was just using her

3.gro/mp/psp loves the guy, but the guy was just toying with her

4.they both love each other but they dont trust each other, causing both of them to f#&k up the romance

TO MARBLE BAY, dont be too hard on yerself, actually I admire you for being not afraid to fall for a girl who didnt deserve you, {not bec shes an mp}, yes it ego , but think of it these way, I prioritized my ego more than i did her, even if i loved her... and i ended up bitter with myself, at least you tried, I know how hard it is to fall for girls with these kind of work, madaming issues.... honesty, loyalty, trust but still ya fought for it, right? parang pinagpag mo lang lahat yun , un nga lang you fell for the wrong person, at least you knew, diba?I think thats better than to be always wondering what could have been... mga babae kase in this line of work thinks , sex lang naman e, im a sex worker, life sucks ,ganun talaga buhay e, ligo lang katapat and ya know they accept that...the only thing that separates these girls from each other is may mga nananamantala at may mga babaeng may delicadeza at prinsipyo pa rin sa sarili nya kahit ganun work nya

for the record ,I am not angry with my GRO, I am angry with the system and myself,feeling ko kase nilamon ako ng sistema.. kaya lang wala ako magagawa diba?I used to care less about girls on these line of work , thats until i fell for her... indi ko naman kaya bigyan ng trabaho mga babaeng to...i just ended up not trusting her, buti kapa marble bay nalaman mo nga totoong kulay ng girl mo noon , ako...ill always wonder what myt have been...up to now it still tears me apart even though I smile at people and pretend that i am ok even if im not...

Good evening, all.

 

Punisher, if "sana wag na banggitin and pangalan ni god" is a reference to the saying in my post, "There but for the grace of God go i," i'm afraid you missed the meaning by a mile. In case that's what you're referring to, it's an expression meaning you could have been just as easily the other person by happenstance...

 

And your clarification that you "went to a club not a mp" really makes a world of difference, doesn't it... and you didn't plan any monkey business... Sigh.

 

Also, this is not to take sides, but when you get to saying things like "u don't know what yer talking about" and "think first before ya post," that's sliding towards argumentum ad hominem, which basically means attacking the person instead of addressing the point at issue, which usually indicates one is losing the argument.

 

Finally, you referred to being "bitter." I am sorry about your pain, brother, and i hope that in time you will resolve your issues, and stop being a "punisher" most of all to yourself.

 

I sincerely wish you, and the other posters here, all the best.

 

My last post on this thread.

 

Peace.

OK first I didnt realize that I was arguing with the guy who invented the dictionary... quote or not ya still used the term GOD, and it seems like you felt like its more appropriate than the word POKPOK... on this thread, Lets not be hypocrites..pls.... and yes an mp and a club does make a world of difference.... in an mp ,guys go there not just for the massage, in a club... some or most guys who go there dont even table girls...does that make ya feel better? and i wasnt the first one who attacked, I just retaliated...its easier to post something like, ...yes your absolutely right sister!!! even if i dont get yer point coz its easier ryt? And yes yer not taking sides...your just a knight in shining armor out to rescue a damsel in distress, I Like the way ya use words though It makes me think that ya might be a Minister of some sort than a poster on this forum and peace to you too and goodwill to all men...

OK nag react cya kase "pokpok" tawag ko...i was just trying to prove a point na un ang nakapagpababa sa self esteem nila , ung perception ng society like that word, kaya nga nagreract ka ng ganun pero i didnt called you directly, ryt? i was trying to explain that is just what society labels girls on this profession , its like labeling guys who go there as mga manyakis..im ur angel was the first one who accused guys as na challenge lang and flavor of the month lang?sorry ha , not all guys who come to this place are what ya think and then u retract yer post na minahal ka nga ng guy mo na may asawa? ano ba talaga? cge tawagin na nating psp mas maganda ba pakinggan? parang ang pulis , synonym nya buwaya.. YES tama ung sinabi ng isang nag post ...it takes 2 to tango , which means kung walang demand , walang supply diba? guess we are all gulity ryt? so we can just all go to hell in the end... and sana wag na banggitin ang pangalan ni god sa post na to kase kinikilabutan ako...coz we are talking about sex trade like god allows it and 'fyi' i went to a club not a mp, i only wanted to drink with a friend when i met her and didnt plan any monkey business, i didnt even touch her like the 1st or the 2nd time or even the 3rd, coz im not fond of places like this, i was just fond of her(i guess)

 

 

see.. SOME are afraid for these questions,,

yes i have met who are successful with their relationship (client&mpa)

sila yun,, hindi tayo... at hindi ikaw(lalu kana)..

 

 

 

 

 

first and foremost we didnt had a relationship because i chose not to, and mawalang galang lang ha? u dont know what yer talking about , feelings mo kase pinapairal mo, halatang nag sosour graping kaparin. YES mahirap mapaliwanag ang love hindi natin masabi kung bakit pero we still express it na kase mabait cya etc... ang kinakainis ko lang e parang pinapalabas mo na mga nag popost dito e sobrang taglibog lang kaya na confuse sila sa love...kung galit ka sa mga manyak... doon ka magpost sa mga nagpopost sa frs. about mpos and bars.. wag dito, kase imbes na makatulong ka lalo lang naguguluhan mga nagbabasa, and yes they agree with u all the time, masayado gentlemen mga tao dito, baka gusto kunin service mo or sumthing and dont get mad ha? LUMabas na rin sa bibig mo na ang love , quote kita ha? "if HE can explain y HE IS in love with the POKPOK(ouch???)

then its not love at all.. love is unanswered, unexplained.. if you have reasons then what is it?" unexplained ba kamo? which means mababaw nga, ang pinakamababaw sa lahat ng mababaw is ung hindi mo mapaliwanag , ..tapos sasabihin mo...."hahaha! totoo naman eh.. pag mababaw rason mo kung baket ka na-inlove..wag mo na ituloy..

ex:

cute sya eh

strong personality(lahat naman eh nuh!)

iba sya eh(talaga naman iba-iba..syet naman oh..)

matalino(kaya nga nagwork na MPA/gro/psp.. ginamit lang utak..nu ba yun!oo na, gusto ko lang icomment.. tho mali)

hindi ko lang talaga sya maalis sa isip ko..(eww babaw)

sobrang love nia family nia..bilib ako sa KANYA(dapat lang,, hirap work namen nuh)

mga ganyang kababaw... wag na po ituloy.. ha? (storbo)

hindi naman kaya tapusin eh..(NUNG IBA LANG JAN! sus.. kikisali nanaman oh iba nga eh)"

think first before ya post, and yes guilty ako at hinusgahan ko cya kahit anong ganda pinakita nya, the main reason is her job and what she is, what im trying to tell you is that some people will accept her for what she is, and some will be happier kung iniwan nya ang work nya dahil sa lalaking mahal nya, which is sad to say for you coz , yer so called sinasamba na lalaki na may asawa didnt show u that...yer posts is not about everybody on this thread , its all about you, at least ako im hurt pero tinatanggap ko sa sarili ko na kasalanan ko, im bitter but not with her but for myself

if u wanna play.. better study the GAME..

have fun playing.. dont forget.. ur not MARIO(mario3).. you dont have 100 lives.. to re-do everything..

BOW!

 

Love is never a Game ...Instinct yan at hindi nag iisip ...puro damdamin lang yan, love fails when you use yer head over yer brain(for men huh) wag mo isipin na dapat pag client ka at pumasok ka sa ganitong situation e hindi mo paiiralin feelings mo kase in the first place un ung dahilan kung baket ka na inlove... sino ba gusto O NAGPLANONG magkagusto sa pokpok in the first place(ouch!), walang customer na papasok sa isang establichment na nakatatak na sa isip nila na maiinolve sila pwera nalang kung intensyon lang talaga nilang makahanap ng KABIT o pampalipas oras(ouch uli) hehehehe

hahaha! totoo naman eh.. pag mababaw rason mo kung baket ka na-inlove..wag mo na ituloy..

ex:

cute sya eh

strong personality(lahat naman eh nuh!)

iba sya eh(talaga naman iba-iba..syet naman oh..)

matalino(kaya nga nagwork na MPA/gro/psp.. ginamit lang utak..nu ba yun!oo na, gusto ko lang icomment.. tho mali)

hindi ko lang talaga sya maalis sa isip ko..(eww babaw)

sobrang love nia family nia..bilib ako sa KANYA(dapat lang,, hirap work namen nuh)

mga ganyang kababaw... wag na po ituloy.. ha? (storbo)

hindi naman kaya tapusin eh..(NUNG IBA LANG JAN! sus.. kikisali nanaman oh iba nga eh)

 

 

 

ahhh kikisali lang me ? ano ba ang hindi mababaw? lahat kase nilalagyan u ng dahilan e, parang lahat na ng dahilan ng mga nai inlove sinabi mong mababaw! ano ba ung malalim ... example.. nainlove ako sa kanya kase magaling sya sa algebra ..ano ba ung hindi mababaw sayo na dahilan...un bang kase hindi na ako masaya sa aswa ko tapos nakita ko sayo ung hindi ko nakita sa kanya....eeer ano naman un? matalino, mabaet, masipag...di ba ganun din un? isip ka muna bago ka post hirap kase ng indi muna isip bago post..pagkakaalam ko kase kahit noon pa, mababaw lang talaga ang mainlove.. kase simple lang un pero complicated..ultimo mga scientist nga hindi mapaliwanag un tapos ikaw alam mo? wow!!!

PAHABOL PA !!! KNOCK OUT PUNCH!!! SOMEONE SAID NOT ALL GIRLS ON THIS PROFESSION HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM <MEANS UR PROUD OF YOURELF AND WHAT YA DO!!! RYT?<<<<<THEN WHY DID YOU LEAVE THE PROFESSION? YE I KNOW ITS LOVE BUT WHY? WHATS WRONG WITH YER FORMER PROFESSION ? ASK YERSELF THAT....

I OBJECT!!! UNANG UNA, SOME GIRLS DONT HAVE THE SKILLS TO WORK IN A CALL CENTER. MARAMI NGA DYAN COLLEGE GRADUATE AT MAY DEGREE HINDI PA NAKAKAPASA...DONT EXPECT THESE GIRLS TO DO WHAT A CERTAIN PERSON DID , IBA IBA ANG TAO , NAKAKAINIS LANG KASE MAY MGA POSTERS NA KALA MO ALAM NILA LAHAT, AT LEAST AKO I GIVE 2 SIDES OF THE COIN, IBA IBA ANG TAO , DONT BASE IT ON CALLS OR TEXTS, YOU WILL NEVER KNOW IF YOU TRY, LAHAT NG TAO MAY PRIDE KAHIT MABABA TINGIN SA SARILI , MAS LALO NA...AND NOT ALL ...MARRIAGE AFTER 6 YEARS YOU WILL WANT TO GET OUT OF IT..NOT ALL!!! DEPENDE SA KAGAGUHAN NALANG NG TAO UN KUN HINDI NILA SINASA ALANG ALANG ANG ANAK NILA!!!HINDI TALAGA SILA MARUNONG MAGMAHAL , KADUGO NILA AABANDUNAHIN PA NILA!!!HAHAHAHA!! she have to do some efforts too you know.. mali rin yan SHE HAS TO EXERT SOME EFFORT TOO... WAG NYO GAWIN BASEHAN ANG EXPERIENCE NG ISANG TAO NA PARANG YUN NA TALAGA ANG ONE WHOLE TRUTH OF THE MATTER, MASARAP PALANG MAGING SINGLE FOREVER!!! WOW!! KASE PAG NAGASAWA TAU MAWAWALA RIN UNG LOVE!!! WAG NA TAYONG MAGSIPAG-ASAWA PARA BUMABA POPULATION EXPLOSION hehehehe

Thanks mga bro marblebay,punisherxxx, tagalupa at sis IMurANGEL.

 

nakikiramdam pa ren ako until now kase ende ko pa siya ganun kakilala, pero I really love her =)

OK TOL MY FIRST TIP, LIKE WHAT MARBLE BAY SAID...TAKE EXTRA PRECAUTION..SECOND DONT EXPECT HER TO FIGHT FOR YOU EARLY IN YOUR RELATION SHIP KASE KUNG IKAW NAGTATAKE PRECAUTION LALO NA SYA MCOZ SHE IS A GIRL AT TAKOT YAN MALOKO, HALOS LAHAT NG BABAE SA GANYANG WORK PUMASOK DAHIL THEY NEED MONEY NOT BF AT NAG IINGAT HALOS LAHAT NG MGA YAN, MAY ILAN ILAN NA MGA TANGA KAGAYA NG IBA DYAN NA ALAM NA NGANG MAY ASWA NAG IILUSYON PA NA MINAHAL NGA SILA HEHEHEHE, TAPOS BANDANG HULI MAGIGING BITTER SASABIHIN SEX LANG HABOL NATIN TAPOS MAG IIBA NA NAMAN SA IBANG POST, THIRD KAHIT SABIHIN PA NATING SHE SHOWS YOU EVERY POSITIVE THING NA PABOR SAYO , PROMISE TOL , MAGDUDUDA KAPA RIN, IN SHORT PINAKAMATINDING KALABAN MO HINDI SIYA , SARILI MO... FOURTH ..WELL U ALREADY DONE IT YOU ALREADY SAID YOU HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER, ON MY PART I WAS ALREADY CONTENTED WITH A FUBU RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE I DONT TRUST HER, WHICH I REGRETED IN THE END(NOT BITTER), ACTUALLY I DONT TRUST HER UNTIL NOW BUT I STILL WISH I TRIED TO PUSH OUR RELATION SHIP TO THE NEXT LEVEL, BUT BE SURE TO TAKE EXTRA PRECAUTION, BINATA KA PA DIBA, LAHAT NG GIRLS AYAW NILA NA BALANG ARAW SUSUMBATAN SILA NG MGA ASAWA NILA NA KESYO POKPOK KA LANG NUNG ARAW, KAYA NGA MAY MGA PSP'MP'GRO GIRLS NA PUMAPATOL SA MGA MUKHANG IMPAKTO O MAY ASAWA OR MATATANDA PARA MALAKAS ANG LOOB NILA NA MANUMBAT DIN , SO ITS EITHER PINEPERAHAN KALANG OR MAHAL KA NILA PERO AYAW NILA MAGPAKATANGA AT MAGPALOKO(KAGAYA NG IBA)

Bakit ba contradictory ang mga posts mo ngayon basahin mo ito ha? alam mo naiintindihan kita... naguguluhan ka at gusto mo sabihin sa sarili mo na minahal kanga ng GAGONG boypren mo na may asawa... sabi mo noon you girls cannot or cANT fall in love with your clients, tapos post mo sa taas you girls are capable of falling like what you did....naguguluhan na ako sa yo e, tapos sinabi mo pa na "niloko/iniwan nio nga asawa/gf nio

kami pa MPA???" tapos sinabi mo pa na "i thought by willingly leaving my past behind(way back).. is a gift for a man who once stood by me..

who told the whole world that he is f#&king in love with me,,

when he held my hand so tight in front of many people.." ANo gusto mo itawag ko sa kanya, MARTYR?

 

hindi totoo yan,,

we cant fall in love with our clients..

niloko/iniwan nio nga asawa/gf nio

kami pa MPA???

si superman hindi totoo,,

so.. yang love-love na yan

sex lang yan..sows! kayo talaga,,

 

stop convincing yourself that you are bound to change this girls' life

you are not a super hero-

people change,,, flavor of the month lang yan

parang samen,, favorite guest kayo..

 

 

I was just trying to tell others how most girls on this proffession see themselves as POKPOK or mababa, dont tell me all of the girls here are proud of themselves? I WAS JUST TRYING TO EXPLAIN THAT BOTH PARTIES SUFFER, both the client or the mpa/gro, they both dont trust each other

A MAN CAN BANG A THOUSAND GIRLS AND STILL BE MORE PROUD OF HIMSELF, A WOMAN WHO BANGS A THOUSAND GUYS , CANT BE PROUD OF HERSELF...GO FIGURE.. THATS LIFE , THATS WHAT SOCIETY BROUGHT US UP TO THINK.. AND THATS WHY MOST GUYS WHO FELL IN LOVE WITH MPAs/PSPs/GROs HAVE TROUBLE ADAPTING OR ACCEPTING THAT FACT.

MAY NAGREREACT SA POST ME, UNANG UNA IM JUST EXPLAINING AND THE FACT THAT YOU REACTED, MEANS YOU ARE FRUSTATED AND BITTER, LIKE ME.. EVERYBODY HAS FRIENDS MADAM , EVEN THE ANTI SOCIAL ONES, DIBA SABI NILA TELL ME WHO YOUR FRIENDS ARE AND ILL TELL YOU WHAT YOU ARE, MGA FRIENDS NYO RIN MGA MANAGERS, MGA BUGAW , MGA HANDLER NYO, OIC NYO, UU.. FRIENDS NYO SILA, BUT I CANT SAY REAL FRIENDS KASE KAYO BINEBENTA NILA SO ..KUMIKITA SILA SA INYO... I WAS JUST STATING THE OBVIOUS AND THE SOCIALLY ACCEPTED FACT THAT ITS WHAT THEY CALL YOU..NEVER MEANT TO OFFEND ANYONE, AND ISA PA HINDI 18 YR OLD NA PROBINSYANA UNG NAGING GIRL KO..HEHEHE...AND I NEVER SAID THATS WHAT ALL MEN THINK OF YOU GIRLS, THATS WHAT YOU THINK OF YOURSELVES NOT I...AND SA NABABASA KO SA MGA POSTS MO, BITTER KA AND YOU DONT THINK THAT ANY GUESTS CAN FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU FOR REAL!! SA TINGIN KO , MAY NAGSUSULSOL SAYO NA "FRIEND" MO NA SINASABI SAYO NA GAGO YANG MGA GUESTS NA YAN, MGA MANLOLOKO YAN, SO INSTEAD NA NAKAKATULONG SAYO YUNG "FRIEND" MO . LALO KALANG NAGIGING BITTER, KASE GANUN DIN ANG NANGYARI SA AKIN.. MAHIRAP KASE MAKINIG SA SABI SABI KAHIT SABIHIN MO PANG "FRIEND" MO, KASE IKAW LANG MAKAKAPAG DECIDE KUNG ANO TAMA SAYO...FRIENDS ARE GOOD BUT THEY CANT USUALLY HELP SPECIALLY IN MATTERS OF THE HEART, THEY SOMETIMES MAKE IT WORSE...In vino veritas, Age quod agis...Credat Judaeus Apella, non ego.....In pace requiescat.

post din ako, hehehe tagal ko na di nag popost e, ganito lang yan based on my experience.. Unang una let us define ung mga putahan na lugar kagaya ng mga club, mp or mga pick up places--- this place is not your local carinderia , its not school(although a club calls it a university), it is not church, Its actually ILLEGAL, Prostitution is ILlegal here in our god forsaken country, and alam mo naman ang mga tao pag bawal un ang ginagawa kase masarap ang bawal, ITS A PLACE where men or t birds fullfill there fantasies which is what the place provides, kaya nga maraming nagsusulputang ganitong mga establishments kase mataas ang demand ng mga manyak, kase part na ng pagiging lalaki ang maging manyak, its an instinct na we already had ever since we were born, kung sa bible pa, simula nung kinagat ni adan ang mansanas e nakaramdam na sya ng libog.

so mga patrons nitong mga lugar na ito(specifically ktvs) ay mga lalaki, may mga gustong pumopoy, may mga gustong mangmanyak, may mga gustng manood lang ng mga babaeng hubad, so advice ko sa mga taong pumupunta dito, kung madali ka mainlove, umiwas ka..this place is for people who are just plain horny, dapat approach mo dito or sa mga girls dito ay mga playthings or mga sex object or laruan , parausan , alam ko masama pakkinggan pero alam din naman mismo ng mga babae doon na un ang minamarket nila, so tanggap nila na ganoon sila sa loob ng club kase unang una alam naman nila na hindi pagmamadre ung pinasukan nila, oras na u see ur gro or others as a person , thats the time u will fall in love, just limit ur conversations to kulitan or topics like sex, dont ever try to get personal or know her well, doon magsisimula ang kalbaryo nyo.

sa girls naman in this profession, tanggap na nila kung ano work nila,hinihupuan sila, pinopopoy sila ,nakakahiya pero malaki kita e, alam nila na sarili nila ang binebenta nila, wala sila magagawa e, ganun talaga buhay kesa nga naman magpalaspag sila sa mga walang kwentang lalaki sa labas na lolokohin lang sila, e di dun nalang sila sa kumikita sila, their job is to entertain menyaks at maging laruan ng mga lalaking naghahanap ng panandaliang aliw...

sa topic naman ng falling inlove with each other, Its possible, absolutely!! kase as i said tao ang minamarket sa lugar na to, hindi bagay.. so these girls still has feelings pero ang pinag kaiba lang nila sa mga legit girls ay medyo baluktot na ang pananaw nila sa love kase maliit na ang tingin nila sa sarili nila, so para sa kanila , hindi sila dapat seryosohin, tanga lang ma iinlove sa kanila, kagaya ng sinabi ng isang mp dito, ANO UN?< UNA SEX BAGO LIGAW!!!? so as a girl its an abnormal situation, diba ang babae dapat nililigawan muna bago popoy,bottomline they dont trust people going to this places or their guests, ang sa akin lang guests ang mas kawawa dito pag nainlove sila, kase tong mga babaeng to , tanggap na nila na ganun ang work nila at sanay na sila ng binababoy sila, kaya kahit mawala ka parang ok lang, sasama kanalang nila sa listahan ng mga nanloko sa kanila or lalaking dumaan sa buhay nila, they have low self esteem, and sometimes thats enough reason para maging manhid ang isang tao, alam na nga nila kung saan sila lulugar sa life ng guy or guest nila, wala sila habol, hindi nila pede pikutin , ung ang work nila e...as a client...dont expect to find honesty in these kinds of places, dahil sa totoo lang kahit sabihin pa nating nagiging honest na ung girl mo, you cant distinguish it and its hard to tell coz alam mo kung ano sya at ang work nya, TRUST will always be an issue, hindi ung condom ha?

sa mp na nagsabi na "he deserves my love but i dont deserve his love coz he is married" parang baliktad!!! GAGO ung boypren mo kase may asawang tao na, nagsyosyota pa ng mp, sabihin mo sa akin na dinya nakita sa asawa nya mga nakita nya sau? e malaking gago pala sya e!! baket nya pinakasalan un!!! ang masasabi ko lang na he didnt deserve your love, gago sya e, sisirain nya pamilya nya dahil love ka nya? yan ung mga lalaking nagsisisi kung bakit sila nagpakasal kase narealize nila na masarap pala buhay binata na marami kang mapopopoy...or DOM sila na gusto makatikim ng bata na halos kasing edad na ng mga apo nila.

LIFE SUCKS !!! we got nothing to do but deal with it coz we have no choice,I FELL IN LOVE WITH A WHORE , A PROSTI , NICE ONE!, LESSON LEARNED. this is just my opinion on the subject matter, there are happy endings, but only a few, coz its either one or both parties have issues within themselves thats why this things dont work out.SUNTOK SA BUWAN ITONG GANITONG RELATIONSHIP....LAHAT NA MARARAMDAMAN MO SELOS, SELF PITY, LIBOG. SAYA, SARAP,GALIT,PRANING..ETC.

SA BANDANG HULI ANG TALO, UNG CLIENT..KASE THESE GIRLS NUNG UNA PALANG HINANDA NA NILA SARILI NILA NA BALANG ARAW MASASAKTAN DIN CLA, BALANG ARAW IIWAN DIN CLA KASE SANAY NA SILA AT MABABA NA SELF ESTEEM NILA KAYA DONT EXPECT THESE GIRLS NA IPAGLABAN KA ,HINDI DAHIL SA HINDI KA NILA MAHAL ,KUNDI DAHIL SARILI NGA NYA HINDI NYA MAPAGLABAN O MAPAGMALAKI,.... POKPOK LANG SYA, PARAUSAN LANG, MABAIT LANG UNG MGA CLIENTS SA KANYA KASE GUSTO SYANG KANGKANGIN.....ALAM NYA KASE KUNG SAAN SYA LULUGAR.. THATS HOW THEY THINK WHILE GUEST DONT, INIISIP NATIN WE CAN CHANGE HER BUT WE CANT COZ IN THE FIRST PLACE YOU CANT FORCE SOMEONE TO CHANGE IF SHE DOESNT WANT TO...DONT EXPECT TO MUCH GUYS AND IM TELLING THESE TO THE GUYS WHO REALLY FELL IN LOVE AND FELL HARD IN THE END.... KAYA WAG KANG MAAWA OR MANGHINAYANG SA KANILA DAHIL SILA MISMO SA SARILI NILA NAAAWA AT NANGHIHINAYANG SILA SA SARILI NILA.NOONG UNA PALANG

 

hindi totoo yan,,

we cant fall in love with our clients..

niloko/iniwan nio nga asawa/gf nio

kami pa MPA???

si superman hindi totoo,,

so.. yang love-love na yan

sex lang yan..sows! kayo talaga,,

 

stop convincing yourself that you are bound to change this girls' life

you are not a super hero-

people change,,, flavor of the month lang yan

parang samen,, favorite guest kayo..

 

 

WHAT IF A GUEST WAS THE ONE NA NILOKO NG GF NYA AND TO THINK NA HE KNOWS HOW IT FEELS TO GET HURT, I FELL IN LOVE WITH MY GRO BECAUSE I THOUGHT SHE WAS MORE THAN MY LEGIT GF BEFORE, THEY SAY THERE ARE TWO SIDES TO A COIN... GO FIGURE

hold on to the night--- richard marx

waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah... now you're making me cry and realize, how bad i am... :cry:

 

you really remind me of HIM...

 

ilang beses niya ako nahuli na nagsisinungaling, pero he still hold on to me and i ignore him... kahit na di siya masaya, di siya bumitaw... pero i gave up! because of a very pathetic reason... i just hope na di ko siya nasaktan ng sobra sobra... he don't deserve to be hurt by a whore like me... :cry:

 

sana nagbabasa pa siya sa mtc... if you can read this "babe/hon"... am sorry... you're right! i don't deserve someone like you... sana di kita nasaktan ng sobra... waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah...

 

 

on my own opinion... that's not love! its called LUST, bro... (sorry, prankahan lang) *peace* :flowers:

 

my current partner taught me something... SEX and MONEY is not a good foundation in a relationship!

 

mahirap naman kasi kung liligawan mo lang or sasabihin mong mahal mo siya kasi maganda at magaling siya sa kama...or para naman sa mga gals, mahirap din naman na mamahalin natin sila because willing silang alagaan tayo at buhayin or for short "sustentuhan" db?... :thumbsupsmiley:

 

 

share ko lang... sa first and second relationship ko with my guest, it started with a perfect chemistry (yung tipong, pagkatapos namin magsex eh, both party knew that there's something special)... pero sa current bf ko, we started as friends... kaya yun siya na yung naging huling guest ko...

 

 

 

mali grammar... "in my own opinion" pala... *peace*

 

 

 

thanks, spongebobby... :flowers:

 

sana nga.. maging happy ending ang story namin ng current bf ko... kung hindi, baka kailangan ko na humingi ng professional help... or baka masumpa ko na ang lahatng mtc boys... hehe... :thumbsupsmiley:

tama ka pathethic nga ung reason na iniwan mo cya kase ayaw mo na cya masaktan, kase nasaktan mo na cya e at nag hold on cya... di mo man lang na appreciate un? it means no matter how much you hurt him he still loves you, ang tanong ko lang sayo, did you love him too? hindi dapat maging basehan ang chemistry, kalokohan un, paano kung napakagaling talaga mang gago ng isang guy at alam nya kung paano mambola, mang uto para mahulog ang loob ng isang girl para lang maisip nya na may chemistry sila? hindi lahat ng maganda tingnan ay maganda talaga at hindi lahat ng pangit na sitwasyon ay pangit talaga, read between the lines, mas pabor ako sa taong nag hold on sayo kahit malungkot sya, because it shows na willing sya mag stay kahit ano ang mangyari kahit ano pa ang nasabi nya sayo... mahirap ma inlove sa mga nasa ganitong work na babae, it takes a lot from a guy, gets him confused and make him do stupid things but thats just because he is only human, no ones perfect, pagkakamali ng mga babae, psp or not, walang perpektong lalaki, just choose which is more human.. emotionally .. matakot ka sa taong perpekto sa tingin mo, kase mas mataas ang chance na nanggagago lang un, kase lahat ng gusto mo makita , papakita niya just for the heck na un ang gusto mo but not because of love....

Musta bro? Hmm..Goodluck bro sa naging decision mo, lam ko naman na well decide un and para din sa nyo dalawa un..Sana makita mo din un tlga happiness na hinahanap mo sa club man o nde..Tambay ka pa rin sa thread madami nangangailangan ng advice d2..Goodluck sau bro..Wish u all the best and luck balitaan mo na lang kami..All my prayers bro..Ingat

Tnx bro, tnx for all the kind words...alam ko naman na halos pareho tau ng situation, pero cguro mas matatag ka sa akin, wish you all the luck sana magtuloy tuloy na ang relationship nyo ng gf mo, wala namang imposible sa mundo,its all up to you now, ikaw ang magdadala sa relationship nyo..best wishes

Wala na ako ma post ah! hehehe isang linggo na rin kase ako hindi nagpaparamdam sa gro ko, hope she is doing fine,wish her all the luck, busy rin kase ako.. magtatayo ako ng small internet shop dito sa amin, I am happy for all the guys on this thread na nag ka happy ending pero linawin lang natin na hindi pa tapos ang laban nyo, kumbaga sa pelikula may sequel pa yan, as for me .... I gave up na, cant handle the heat anymore, maybe someday we will meet at the right place and at the right time but definitely not a place like a night club, hopefully .... someday.

I agree with one poster who said that these girls are looking for someone to love them for who they are, pero isipin nyo rin na hindi sila pumasok sa club para makahanap ng mamahalin , pumasok sila doon para kumita, so in the first place alam nila kung ano ang pinasok nila,maging laruan ng mga matatandang naghahanap ng bata ng walang sabit at kaso,im referring sa mga pulis, kagawad, business men na pamilyado etc..

I really miss her, but I cant dance anymore to her song, Im too tired and frustrated, I was never a club player ,bihiira lang ako pumunta sa mga club dati ... I wished I was one though ,maybe I couldve been more "professional" to her that way, as in I couldve prevented myself from getting emotionally attached, God knows I love her so much, cya lang ang dahilan kung bakit ako nagpupunta lagi sa club nya, never done that before to anyone

I guess malapit na dumating ang time na hindi na ako makakarelate sa thread na ito, pero napamahal na sakin ang thread na ito so ill just keep peeking here from time to time, I wish you guys all the best in yer endevours.... good luck