BallBreaker

Hello,

I have been annulled for quite some time now, and has since remarried. I don't have any communication with my ex-husband for about 4 years now as well. My problem is how to go about with my son's well-being. Ever since I got annulled 6 years ago, my son hasn't been getting any child support for my ex-husband which is fine by me. This is even if we already had an agreement after the annulment was granted. Since ex-husband works abroad, he also hasn't had any communication with him (though they're friends on FB). Everything about my son's expenses is now being shouldered by me and my new husband and we'd rather keep it that way instead of hounding him for child support. My new husband loves my son dearly and treats him like his own. My son also treats him like his true dad. Now, we're thinking it would be best if my new husband could legally adopt my son. One is because he wants to legalize his being a dad to him, also to ensure that our conjugal properties will be his in the future, and because we all want our surname to be the same. I had a serious talk with my son and he also would want to be adopted legally by the man he now claims to be his father. What can we do in order to legalize the adoption? Do we have to contact my ex-husband for his consent? Since he probably wouldn't consent to the adoption, can we file an abandonment case against him to waive his legal rights? What other options do we have to change my son's surname? Do you have any recommendations to a good family lawyer who would take such case (my husband wouldn't want their family lawyer to be involved in this case for personal reasons)? Also, how much would it cost us for the adoption? If ever, would you be able to take on a case such as this?

TIA!

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Master's, not Masteral.

Now thinking if I should finish what I started. I am now advancing my career with certifications and short courses. I feel that it is a way to pad up your paycheck, still, getting advanced knowledge through post grad studies will benefit you in the long run in terms of knowledge.

Crater,

I won't spend my remaining days there trying to prove you're wrong. Everybody knows you are. I simply don't care.

Oh well... Don't worry. Don't think too much. That's too stressful for your tiny brain to bear. Don't think you're ugly. Just think of yourself as a beautiful monkey.

Me

Thanks for the info guys! Another q: how far is it from Nusa Dua to the airport?

Also, may the force be with you!

The villas are kinda expensive. Hubby is willing to spend if super OK naman pero kuripot ako. Did you book the room there or you have made reservations like with Agoda? I'm torn between Nusa Dua and Seminyak. Medyo matao na daw kasi sa Kuta. Kung all inclusive, The Grand Bali tsaka Melia lang na ang meron? Or not wise mag all inclusive kasi we might miss out on the local food?

Restos we love at Baguio:

50's DinerOh My GulayTsokolate de BatirolCafe By THe Ruins (try the liver pâté!)Pizza Volante

Hello. Would like to ask for your inputs on this one.

This year's getaway for me and hubby will be in Bali, Indonesia. We'd be spending a week there middle of this year so I still have ample time to prepare.

Where would be the best place to spend that week? I'm thinking of 2 days in Ubud, then the beachside. Which is better? The Nusa Dua area, Seminyak, or Kuta? Yung malapit sa airport would be preferred since we have an early flight on our last day.

From what I've researched, our beaches are far better, so what would be the best thing to do aside from having sex there?

I'm also at a loss regarding nice hotels/villas to stay in. I don't wanna splurge on a Viceroy/Amandala stay naman.

Since I'm crossing out one from my bucket list, I want it to be relaxed and romantic. Not too luxurious, but not too limited either.

Any input would help, especially from those who have experienced the Land of the Gods.

Thanks in advance!

My Christmas gift from hubby: IPad 4 32GB 4g + wifi Retina Display.

I am sooooo spoiled!

HTC

And an old school Samsung clamshell without a camera for work and for those times I feel like being a non conformist.

I was looking for a 5110 or any of those ancient Nokia ones, but they're all phased out.

A few minutes ago. Post sex. Hihihi!

What's up with the can opener thing between Donna and Harvey???????

..,

If you don't want to do your job (and yeah, that is what you call a job, what your idea of one doesn't even qualify as a bare minimum), don't stop me from doing mine.

I'm not gonna sweat to have you terminated. Magsasawa ka sa mukha ko till you realize that it's either you leave, or deal with the reality that I, not you, am running the show.

Bring it on, undesirable fag... I need some entertainment.

@itsmeyourboss

You,

Five years...

... And you're still the first person I wanna see when I wake up and the last one I wanna see before I sleep.

Yup... This was never meant to be just for sex.

Me

Stayed in Henderson for a few days which is just a few mins away from The Strip. My family lives here and it surprised me that the residential district is very laid back as opposed to the 24 hour frenzy that is Vegas. Regretted touring the Hoover dam at high noon because it is sooo DAM hot! Air conditioning is a must in this state! Be careful of taking pics with the impersonators lining up the Strip. They're not for free!

TST for shopping. We found Chungking to be a bit seedy, but it definitely is very accessible.

Loved SG and how clean it is. We only ate at Hawker stations during our stay there. Will definitely go back!

I remember shrieking when I first saw the Hollywood signage.

we'll be going on a 5 day trip to SG next month. do you think going to KL just to see the Petronas is doable? Is it even worth it? TIA.

yup. no biggie. he gives me his phone at times too. am free to look around. I don't even have to fish out for his passwords... he casually told me his password when he asked me to check something from his files. dunno why but it makes us feel better that way.

it was nice. not that spectacular though. i was just expecting more perhaps. (or maybe because i didn't get to have a pic with the disney princesses)

co-investor,

so many choices... but let's just stick to the plan and lock in on our gamble. there will be no blame, no regrets. at least we're fortunate that the choices we are facing are of such, and in the end, all will be ours.

can't wait to spend the weekdays here, spend the weekends there, and have our rendezvous (or get extra earnings from) waaaay up there.

your business partner

ps

mind you... these are all conjugal! about the other expense? please indulge me on that... just can't tell you outright but I need that to keep my sanity intact. it's something money can't buy and I can't forever have. please?

pps

can't tell you this outright too, but I really appreciate how you are so comfortable handing your mobile over to me at any time without any apprehension. you know how much I trust you, but the gesture is just so nice and comforting. let's make it stay that way.

ppps

thinking of you makes me so horny. see me as soon as you can. I need to hear your monstrous growl of pleasure.

this is so exciting! we are now really growing up!

thanks for the walk in closet.

and remember... "listen to the wifey, even if you're the arki!"

- from your most expensive, pro bono client.

got a bit disappointed. maybe because I thought it was the typical adrenaline rush type park. heehee. but it really brought out the little kid in me.

I feel like I rule the world when I'm beside you.

thanks for making me the world's luckiest wife.

(new set of mags tsaka "yun" na lang ang kulang )