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Kris Aquino

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Rashomon - 1950s Japanese Movie by Legendary Director Akira Kurosawa. Just saw this last night. Its a timeless classic that still holds well until today. A story told in 4 VERY different points of view and the audience is left to decide which is real.

Try EDSA Polyclinic Bro. It's along EDSA before Ramon Magsaysay High School if you're going south. Be prepared to haggle with the total price of treatment if ever you are diagnosed with an STD. Me kamahalan talaga ang mga antibiotics for such conditions.

Thank you. I'll check this out.

Hehehe, to confess or not to confess.

 

1.Yes, herpes, venereal warts, trichomonas, and syphilis kung walang break sa skin and gonorrhea, chlamydia and mycoplasma are possible but not likely, kung may break sa skin, dagdagan mo pa ng hepatitis at HIV, using kapote will lessen but will not elliminate the risk. May mga iba pang sakit but not so common.

2. Hard to say with the information available, pero mukhang yeast infection, which can be but not usually sexually transmitted.

3.Vaginal bacteriosis is not stictly an STD, usually benign except kung buntis.

4.There is always a chance that you got something from those extra activities over the years, best thing to do is see a doctor to get evaluated and given the right tests and shell out some cash.

 

Some would argue honesty is the best policy, depends how well and supportive you think you know your spouse, it can be a relationship ending move. Good luck

Thanks for the reply. Actually, I was asking for a sign yesterday if I should confess or not. So far, the signs point to no. Maybe in some future date.

You've confirmed what I've been planning to do. Do you suggest any clinics where I can have myself tested? The list you mentioned is quite scary particularly hepatitis and HIV. I thought spakols were safer. Di rin pala..

I just have a question. Hope the doctors and experts here can help.

Long before, I went to Massage parlors for my release. Last time was like 8 years ago and I always had a condom. Anyway, I got married around a few years ago. The urge to go back was great but I decided to minimize or perhaps eliminate the risks of penetration sex. So I just went to spakols. I've been doing this for around 3 years at approximately once or twice a month. Lately though, I went to a wild spakol. Wild in the sense that the girl would rub her vulva on my penis. This happened 3x. And there was one time where the girl gave me BJ which happened once.

Lately I had sex with my wife. We did it in the shower where she soaped my penis and I did it to her there. We finished in bed and I think she wasn't lubricating because I can feel a bit of abrasion when pumping. After a few days, she started having a discharge which is white but when wiped with a tissue, it turns yellow-slightly green. Also there was some white flaky things in her vagina which initially she found hard to remove but she was able to remove it the next day. Anyway, the discharge has remained and seems to be increasing in volume. She says it also itches. It also has a foul smell although not fishy. No burning sensation. Her Ob-gyne recommended that she put something to remove the foul smell which greatly helped.

Me on the other hand, I've not exhibit any of these symptoms except maybe slight and occasional difficulty in urinating. That could be because I am taking antibiotics for a few weeks now due to a respiratory illness.

Anyway, here are my set of questions:

1. Is it possible to contract STD when a girl rubs her vulva on my penis? What particular STDs and are they consistent with the symptoms of my wife?

2. I know that there is a possibility of contracting STD through a BJ but again, is any of the symptoms my wife displays consistent with a particular STD?

3. I've read about vaginal bacteriosis which seems to be the most consistent with her symptoms. Can this be transmitted as well?

4. What are the chances that I caught an STD given the activities mentioned? What particular tests should I take to confirm my suspicions? Where should I have myself tested?

I hope you guys can help. I'm experiencing a great amount of guilt over this. I've never intended to harm my wife in any way because of my needs.

I'm also contemplating about confessing about what I've been doing. I mean better if she knows now so that we can take additional precautions and also to avoid an embarrassing situation if she finds out through tests. Also, I've read that to overcome this addiction, spousal support is needed.

Thanks in advance!