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Btw, happy first anniversay iwalkalone!!! :)

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hi iwalkalone,

i don't want to ruffle any feathers. i just gave my 2 cents. anyone is free to disagree

in this light, let me disagree with your statement, hehe :)

hindi naman dahil sa may ipagyayabang ka, mataas na self-esteem mo. para kasi sa akin, kung ipagyayabang mo ang mga gamit or achievements mo, you are trying to convince people that you have value. and your value depends on what people think of you. i think it should come within. if you know your own value, then that should be good enough. people will see this and appreciate it even more.

sabi mo naman sa quiet ones, baka naman quiet sila dahil walang masasabi? edi ba tama lang ang ginawa nya? bakit naman sya magsasalita kung wala naman syang sasabihin??

just my 2 cents once again. don't take it personally :)

not always...sometimes people who are talkers (as how you bluntly put it) ay talagang mayabang lang at may ipagyayabang naman talaga

at yung sinasabi mong quiet ones....pwede rin namang quiet kase talaga namang walang masasabi.

 

stop generalizing

Hi THUG,

Sorry to hear about your disagreeable relationships. But at least you have some, haha.

Anyways, I don't think your model girl has high self esteem but rather the opposite. People show off their credentials because they want to be noticed, they want to be accepted, etcetera etcetera. That to me, is low self esteem. They have little confidence so they sort to calling people's attention. People who have high self esteem are the quiet ones. They are doers rather than talkers. They are the ones who know who they are and what they are capable of without showing off.

Hard to find the latter nowadays, unfortunately.

Just my 2 cents :)

as between having a partner with a high and low self esteem, i will most probably choose the latter..

 

.. another one is a former ramp model .. but this former ramp model seems to suffer from too much self-esteem that all i hear about her are her credentials from modeling from this, to that, from being a campus beauty (and that was years ago) to being a virgin. She even dictates how i will court her. That i need to talk to her dad. That i need to wear pink cycling shorts on our date. That I need to wear a shirt that tells i love her with her name on it. She makes lots of rules. When i contradict she will blurt out "E pano ang mga gusto mong babae yung mga cheap!"

Thanks guys for all your interesting replies.

It seems to me that I fell for her because I have been alone for so long. She made me extremely happy because I felt like I escaped the walls of desolation. But falling in love is far from true love. Time to move on. Sex or no sex with her.

I heard there's a new sweet girl in one of the clubs I go to. I'll give her a visit soon!!

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Hi Kim, thanks for your reply.

My problem is that she is already in a relationship. It will certainly be difficult to go about your suggestion given the situation.

It just crossed my mind, that maybe, if we have sex, it will make us closer together, haha.

kung paid sex gagawin mo baka masira tingin nya sayo try the different move

gawin mo subukan mong romantic style flowers... date coffee malay mo you can get lucky

pero dont try the paid sex approach masisira ang magandang position mo

thanks for the reply puyah. but can you kindly clarify what you mean by doubting myself? thanks

Just like anything else >>> If you start doubting your self, Bog-Li lang yan.

Boys and Gals, kindly feel free to share your opinions regarding my situation.

I kinda fell for a KTV Girl. We went out for a couple of times but she finally decided to be serious with someone else. It was quite a painful ordeal but we are still in communication via text and phone calls. I think she liked me even just a tiny bit, but the other person was more to her liking, obviously.

My dilemma is that we never had sex. She is the first girl I have fallen for and now, I am extremely curious as to what it would feel like to have sex with someone I am very much in like with Early on, I told her that I never solicited her services because I like her very much and it doesn't feel right to do so. If we were to do it, it's because we like each other (big mistake!! haha).

Now that she is already in a relationship, it is very unlikely that she will have sex with me for no pay. So my question is, if i solicit her services, will she think of me differently now? Will my sincerity to her before be compromised? Will i now be just like most guys, a pig? hehe

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One cannot separate happiness from sorrow. They are inseparable.

When you are joyous,

look deep into your heart

and you shall find

it is only that which has given you sorrow

that is giving you joy.

When you are sorrowful look

again in your heart,

and you shall see that in truth

you are weeping

for that which has been your delight.

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