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Tingin ko, ang mga lalakeng nagkakaroon ng ganitong problema ay yung mga taong madaling ma-inlove at naghahanap ng acceptance with the opposite sex. May mga babae din naman na ganito. Advantage lang kasi ng lalake, mas madali para sa kanila na maghanap ng pwede nila mabayaran.

 

Tandaan natin, hindi maganda sa isang tao ang madali ma-in-love. Emotional weakness yan. Walang masama sa pagmamahal, pero dapat ilalagay ito sa tamang lugar. Isa pa, ang pagbibigay kasi ng pagmamahal, may kasama yan na pagtitiwala. Kaya siguraduhin mo na tama yung taong pagkakatiwalaan mo. Huwag na huwag ka mahuhulog sa isang tao na di mo naman lubusang kilala. Ikaw din magsisi sa huli. Kasi madali ka nilang magagamit at sasaktan. Kung wallet mo nga di mo pinagkakatiwala ng basta basta sa kaibigan, puso mo pa kaya sa isang babaeng di mo naman gaano kilala.

 

Tsaka tulad ng lagi kong sinasabi, ang isang emotionally mature na tao, may emotional independence kelangan. Ibig sabihin hindi mo kelangan ng ibang tao para alalayan ka lagi. Pag malungkot ka, dapat kaya mo pasiyahin sarili mo. Pag may problema ka, dapat kaya mo payuhan ang sarili mo. Higit sa lahat kaya mo depensahan sarili mo sa mga taong pwede makasakit ng damdamin.

 

Pag broken hearted ka, huwag mo susubukan dapat magpagaling through rebound sex. Kasi yung emotion plus intimacy, hindi pa matino pagiisip mo, talagang mamromroblema ka sa huli

Well said Mr.Edmund Dantes

Halos lahat ng tao dumadaan sa stage na ganito.....Sabi nga ni Madame Senator Mirriam Defensor Santiago: "Love is like measles....You only get it once in your lifetime and you are immune forever"

I made 2 mistakes before and the best part of those mistakes was I learned how to control myself and see REALITY.

Katulad nga po ng sinabi ni Mr.Edmund Dantes......Falling in love easily is an emotional weakness...And I learned it the hard way since I was young and reckless during that time.

We should never give our heart to someone whom we've just met. When you meet someone don't get too excited....

Dapat yan may screening process ka Tapos profiling and eventually make a timeline kung gaano mo katagal pagaaksayahan ng oras yung babae

And one thing that we should all remember mga pare.....Parang BUSINESS lang yan Hindi ka dapat mag invest ng todo todo sa ISANG BUSINESS DEAL

Minsan na din nangyari sa akin to Not once but twice during the "Adventurous and Reckless" stage of my life

The 1st one was with a "SPA"(Yung pinupuntahan nating mga GM ) attendant which started as a "DREAM" and ended up as a "NIGHTMARE" since hindi ako aware na may masamang bisyo pala yung babae...Turned out she was a drug addict who started milking me just to support her bad habits.

The 2nd one was with a part time ESCORT/PSP who was a single mom.....She was somewhat educated and simply entered the ESCORT/PSP world since she needed money for her baby. Like the 1st one, everything started well....Parang "Fairy Tale" LOL Eventually in the end, it ended up in the same way as my 1st mistake with the SPA attendant...Again it was all about the money and eventually naging "Insurance Policy" niya lang ako dahil may 1st choice na pala siya listahan niya Pero at least hindi ako masyado naubusan ng pera dito sa babae na'to kasi sandali lang kami.

At the end of the day.....All I can say is hindi madali ito.....FYI, regardless kung may pera ka pa or may good looks ka.....Its NOT GOING TO BE EASY...Trust me

Most of the time, masakita sa ulo ito at in the end magiging problema lang in the long run.

I'm not saying that its BAD and IMPOSSIBLE for a client to fall in love with his MPAs/PSPs/GROs...At hindi ko din po sinasabi na lahat sila eh MASAMA...

All that I'm trying to say is...Like what most of the GMs who posted here, specially the one by lelouch2000 and Edmund Dantes, if you are LOOKING FOR LOVE...Then a Massage Parlour or a Nightclub is NOT A GOOD PLACE. Isama mo na din kung naghahanap ka ng GIRLFRIEND...Don't GAMBLE on a PSP, maraming mas "LOW RISK" na babae diyan who are worth your time.

Bottomline......Pagdating sa MPAs/PSPs/GROs......Sabi nga ni Rudy Fernandez in one of his movies....."Trabaho lang, Walang Personalan"

now about being in love with 4 women na PSP, puede you feel and think na love mo sila, pero try living with one for at least 2 months- 2years (on average puede na 6months live in) , na lahat ng problema nila, bad attitude and stuff mageemerge.. and magclaclash with yours.. you would realize a lot of things...

 

imagine if uuwiian mo eh 4 na girl na pakikisamahan mo.. buti kung sex at good tym lang ang pagsasamahan nyo.. eh ang DAMI2 pang puedeng malaman at mangyari.... :upside: my 2 cents lang po

EXACTLY what happened to me :upside:

Ang bait bait niya when we were still client/mpa..........She was sooooo kind.......She was very maasikaso and all

Eventually after having dated her and having sex with her a few times........I fell in Love with her.......parang na-develop eh Pero ewan ko sabi ng body guard ko parang ginayuma ako eh.........Well she was from Samar Leyte

Well talaga ngang nagayuma ako eh........Galing mag BJ eh! :thumbsupsmiley: heheheh

Pero seriously........

After renting a small apartment and living with her for about 5 months? Lumabas ang TUNAY NA KULAY

She was making all the sad stories that she told me.......mismong tiyahin na niya ang nagsabi sa akin kasi naawa na sa akin bcoz according to her that sayang daw ako kung sa pamankin niya raw ako mapupunta.....That shocked me.....She did not tell me the details........But she was teary eyed when she was talking to me.......

So the frustrated "Private Eye/Detective" that I am........I investigated her........

Found out that she did not pay all the money that was supposed to be payments for the celfones that she bought and eventually hindi niya rin pinapadala sa nanay niya yung perang binibigay ko para sa family niya sa Samar......

Why? COZ SHE WAS A FREAKIN DRUG ADDICT!!!!!!!

Kaya pala kahit sobrang ganda na ng binigay kong unit sa kanya eh uwi pa siya ng uwi sa kanila dun sa isang slum area sa may Blumentrit.........Dun siya tumitira........Kasama mga tropa niyang addict........

So bottomline...........

It is POSSIBLE to fall in love or be emotionally involved with these kind of women.........But BELIEVE ME.......

Halos lahat........Almost all but not everyone........has something DARK to HIDE........ Ingat nalang palagi

Anything with the name ALFRED HITCHCOCK in it............

Meron akong collectors edition DVD box niya........Everything is worth watching........

My personal favorite was BIRDS with Audrey Hepburn and REAR WINDOW with James Stewart and Grace Kelly

In Heaven being informed of my next life.........

Lets just say that I'm a "GOOD GUY WITH THE BAD BOY LOOKS"

Believe me.........

After 3-4 weeks........Nagugulat sila........Bakit daw ganun?

Ang ANGAS-ANGAS daw ng dating ko.........Pero mabait naman pala ako Well all I can say is........

The Good Guy attitude combined with the Bad Boy looks........IS A DEADLY COMBINATION

GOD OF WAR!!!!!!!!(Although hindi ko pa tapos )

Devil May Cry, FFX and FFXII, Chaos Legion, Rogue Galaxy

Any of you guys know where I can get a working copy of GOD OF WAR?

Yung mga nabibili ko kasi sa Metrowalk puro sira at pal version eh......

Pati Shadow of Rome and Mercenaries naghahanap ako eh

Kailan Tayo Magpapakasal?

Usually the common "Getting To Know You" Stuff........

1.)Where did you study during H.S. and College?(Assuming she is working/graduate)

2.)Ilan kayong magkakapatid?

3.)Family Business? Work/Means of income?

4.)Hobbies? Things you Like/Dislike?

5.)Common Friends?

After asking these questions(In any order)......madali nang pahabain yung conversation eh.......

Based on her answers dun ka magkakaidea on what kind of a person she is........

Usually kapag mga 3rd or 4th question palang medyo hindi na interesado sumagot or puro mga 1 comment answers......

I don't pursue to lengthen the conversation kasi alam ko medyo hindi siya interested sa akin That is one of the advantages of being a good conversationalist........

Pero sometimes.......Meron din naman mga girls na very friendly lang talaga kaya mahilig makipag kwentuhan

mark herras.

ah...eh....what makes him think that he is that good looking and such a heartthrob?....

geez.

I agree with you.........

This guy is an arrogant SOB.......

3 years ago pinakilala yan sa amin sa Starbucks sa Q.C.

Akala mo kung sino yang h*ndot na yan eh.........Very professional naman ang pag-greet namin sa kanya.......

Pero kung tratuhin niya kami........para kaming mga t** eh......

I am not a celebrity.........But I am a decent businessman who owns my own company.......Kahit my friends respectable businessmen and professionals naman.......

Hindi rin naman sa pagyayabang........pero sa looks department........lamang lang ng 1 1/2 paligo sa akin yan eh

Nakalabas lang siya ng TV at Movies akala mo na kung sino.......

That was 3 years ago........mas grabe siguro ngayon yan kup*l na yan

MYTH

I've had sex with women who don't have feelings for me.........

I guess women who are IN LOVE perform much better than the one's without feelings......

Thats why IMO "Having sex" is somewhat different from "Making love"

Its hard to penetrate a territory that has already been taken over.........

Siguradong may defenses na yun kapag may BF na yung girl........

Its better to look for uncharted territories na wala pang nag cocolonize

i have a couple of friends who fell in love with & married GROs.. they're quite normal couples, happy p with kids, kya lang yung isa, the girl still works at ayaw tumigil.. even went to japan pa. so i dont think tatagal sila.

A Perfect example of a girl who was addicted to MONEY.......

Pare dapat magising na yung kaibigan mo.........Kapag hindi tumigil yan babae sa kakabiyahe every night.......Nagpunta pa sa Japan para doon magpa****** eh dapat hiwalayan na niya yan pre.......

Actually IMO most Ugly Men are the ones who are "MADISKARTE"

Kasi nga alam nilang kulang sila sa LOOKS DEPARTMENT eh

I know of some gwapo/good looking guys who have the looks pero walang diskarte.........puro pa-cute lang tapos kapag lumapit na yung babae........WALA NA........Malalaman kasi nila na mababaw yung guy eh

Sure.......Baing handsome and attractive has its advantages.......But looks just makes it easy to attract women......

CHARACTER is what its all about.........Kahit panget ka pa kung meron ka nito.......Makakakuha ka pa rin ng GF

All I can say about this topic is.......

Give her a decent life with a decent job or income.........

If she still doesn't wanna stop her "JOB"..........Then she's not worth it

Hindi naman lahat ng mga MPAs/GROs totoong ang mga "Sad Stories" eh

I had a relationship with one b4.......I took her away from a famous mpa from Quezon City....It was the worst 6 months of my life

Ang daming perang nawala sa akin......Pati Pride ko naapektuhan din.....Puro drama kasi siya na para sa pinsan/kapatid/nanay niya raw yung pera eh

Syempre nagduda na rin ako kasi lagi nalang nawawala yung budget na binibigay ko sa kanya eh.......so I decided to hire a Private Investigator para malaman kung anong gnagawa niya sa pera.........

After a few 2 weeks turned out that everytime she was going home to her relatives at blumentrit she was always frequenting the house of a well known "drug pusher"........Turned out that that house was the place na lagi naming dinadaanan kasi daw may pinatahe siyang pants dun......

So to confirm the whole investigation.........I challenged her for a drug test........Ofcourse nagwala siya and denied that she was a drug addict.......So sabi ko "kung hindi ka addict bakit ayaw mo magpadrugtest"? Nagwala siya lalo.............So I decided to end the whole relationship bcoz I confirmed that she was just using me to quench her thirst for SHABU.........

But kahit ganun ang nangyari........Kung magkikita kami ulit........I would really THANK her.......Why?

COZ SHE WOKE ME UP FROM THE MATRIX AND SHOWED ME WHAT THE REAL WORLD WAS.........

Ang dami kong natutunan sa kanya.........

Just recently I heard that she went home to their province and eventually nag-asawa na......Pero pusher/user din yata yung napangasawa niya.........sabi nung pinsan niya malapit na raw siyang ma-praning.........Thats life

Meron bang mga Motel/Apartelle sa may Better Living area?

I don't know if this is STD but just wanted to ask something...........

Before......When I have an orgasm it feels KABOOM!

As in parang Cannon yung sumasabog! Same with the feeling........

Dati talagang parang "Ecstasy" yun nararamdaman ko..........Parang titirik yung mata ko.......

Just recently........Parang yung KABOOM naging bang nalang tapos parang wala ako masyadong nararamdaman kapag nilalabasan na ako!

Akala ko oversexed lang ako so I rested for 2 days without any sexual activity.........

Pero ganun pa rin eh.........

What the hell is this phenomenon? Can somebody help me?

Thanks peeps

Saan kaya maganda bumili ng Flower Horn?

I heard that this is the new "LUCKY FISH" replacing the Arrowana????????

How much does this fish cost?

Falling in Love with these type of girls/women is like playing the Russian Roulette

Well it taught me that when you fall in love.........

Never give your whole 100% LOVE........

Always leave some for yourself.......Maybe 70/30? Or better yet 60/40?

Coz nowadays Its dangerous to give your 100%

Kumbaga sa Boxing........Jab lang muna ng Jab bago mag straight at uppercut.......Baka kasi ikaw ang ma-knockout eh

Well for me ok lang..........

Basta kung mahal ka niya and you love her........Whats wrong with that?

Virginity is not really that important nowadays since our society is becoming more and more liberated.........

Kung Virgin.........BONUS! Kung hindi ok lang! Kung siya na talaga para sa'yo...........

Di Bale ng hindi ako ang nakauna sa kanya.......Basta ako na ang Huli

Dont know why I'm posting, I guess I need some support somehow or some reality bites.

 

Knew it wasnt gonna be easy. But still sticking it out. Half of the time I just wanna stop because its a diff't world for me and the comlications just do pile up. But the other half, I realize I really love this girl and I wanna make a go at it. And I do see her effort to make the relationship work out.

 

Just some random thoughts:

1. All my close friends know my story now. Some of them support it. Some not really (Bugging me that I can do better and hooking me up with other girls)

2. We "joke" about marriage. And we both realized that for this to work out- we have to be NOT in this country. (She really wants to try out life outside the country. And I guess to seperate the past and present from the future- its better this way.)

3. My family knows I'm "dating" a girl. But told them a stretched lie. Told them that she's still in school (which is true, I just took out the part about her working). Almost brought her to a big event with all my relatives but she backed out last minute. She'd rather meet my immediate family first. I really dont know if I'll tell my family everything. I honestly dont know.

4. A little ego trip. It feels good to have someone loving you for who you really are. No pretensions, just unconditional love. Her choosing me despite being offered crazy prepositions (DAM! Really crazy ones! Just makes me realize how f*cking horny some guys are...) is really priceless I guess. Now I know why they say na: "Ibang klaseng magmahal ang club girl."

 

Sorry, I'm babbling. Half of it is because I'm scared of loving someone so much. And the other half is because I'm just plain happy right now.

 

Ok bro..........I understand what you are feeling........

I've been to this situation before.........And BELIEVE ME.......Telling about her TRUE IDENTITY to your friends was a BIG MISTAKE...........Kapag pinakilala mo pa siya sa immediate family ngayon....... :thumbsdownsmiley: WORSE

Pare you and this girl are walking 2 different worlds.........

You can Always go inside her "world" and roam freely in it.......After that you can always go back to your " real world" and live your normal life afterwards......

BUT

She.......with her Present and Past life........will have a HARD time in going to your "world".......perhaps she might even be unable to walk in it.....That explains why she backed out the last minute in meeting your relatives........BAD SIGN

If she really loves you..........She won't back out......WHY? Coz she knows that you LOVE her and you are willing to "FIGHT FOR HER"(are you? hehehehe joke lang).............But that did not happen........Signs of uncertainty and fear in her side :thumbsdownsmiley:

Kasi kapag ikaw na mismo ang nagsusuggest na ipakilala siya sa mga relatives mo........despite of her current lifestyle.......that should be a good sign para sa kanya(heck! thats a good sign to any girl!)........she should see your gesture as a sign of TRUE LOVE........

BUT.........Why did she back out at the last minute? I dunno with you pare.......But IMO.......Thats not good

Listen bro.......

The moment you told your friends about this girl is the time that you activated the timer of a "TIME BOMB"

1st question........Are any of your friends close to your parents or any relatives?

If YES.......good for you

If NO........Tick! Tock! Tick! Tock! Tick! Tock! Tick! :thumbsdownsmiley:

Maybe you were asking why I said that?

Simple lang pare........Siguradong kakalat yung balita mo.......Maybe some of your trusted friends are already talking about you as I type this......I'm not sure pare........But kung mga magkakapatid at magkakamag-anak nagsisiraan.......kaibigan pa kaya? Sana naman wag........

In my case kasi........A few friends and some of my people sa company ko heard about it.......Tapos yun na.......Next thing I know it........Alam na ng Lola ko tapos sister ko.........Ang dami nang nadagdag sa kwento......Puro MSG na para masgrabe yung situation....... :thumbsdownsmiley:

2nd question...........Do You Really LOVE her?

If YES..........Good Luck

If NO...........Good

Pare......Baka naman infatuation lang yan? Or a little ounce of eroticism boosted with some droplets of romance?

Only YOU can answer this pare........Its your fight

3rd question............If you answered YES in the 2nd question

Then all I can say is.........BE PREPARED for a "WILD AND CRAZY RIDE"...........

Sometimes it ends with a smile.............MOST OF THE TIMES it ends with sadness, problems and tears

About "Loving You For Who You Are"..........

With all due respect my friend........I DOUBT IT

How long has she been working as a MPA/GRO?

Is she has been working for about 6 months or 1 year..........DANGER

Try to ask her this........"If I would be to marry you......Mahirap lang kami eh.......Paano ba yan kung 1/2 lng ng kita mo ang maibibigay ko?"

Most probably her answer would be this "OK lang yun sa akin eh! Kung ako lang naman walang problema yun kasi sanay ako sa hirap! Kaso Paano na si Papa at si Mama? Yung mga kapatid kung nag-aaral pa? Yung mga Pinsan ko?"

If she is not supporting anyone..........GOOD FOR YOU BRO!

I'm not posting this reply to discourage you from LOVING your GF........I'm just trying to help you weigh things out pare

Mag-isip ka muna ng mabuti bago ka kumilos pare.........

Falling in LOVe with GROs/MPAs/PSPs is like entering a "BATTLE FIELD"

Kung hindi ka sigurado na kaya mong lumaban........Wag ka ng sumugod kasi baka umabot ka pa sa gitna ng battle field

If you are uncertain but you still chose to enter and fight the war........Most probably you would be able to reach the middle of the battle field........

Kapag nasa gitna ka na ng battle field.......Most probably you will be filled with wounds and it would be "NO RETREAT, NO SURRENDER" .........But the problem is........NOT ALL WHO ARE BRAVE AND CONTINUE TO MOVE FORWARD WILL SUCCEED

I'm not telling you to back out of the current challenge and be a coward.........

What I'm telling you is there are still A LOT of "BATTLES" and "WARS" for you..........

Make sure to pick a "BATTLE" or "WAR" which you can SURVIVE and SUCCEED......

So that you can be able to LIVE to tell other people your story.........

GOOD LUCK BRO..........MAY THE FORCE BE WITH YOU.........GOD BLESS!

macho, huwag patulan ang babae...

Don't worry bro.......I'm just having some fun :upside:

yea...ulol!

ulol ka rin! :boo:

Bakit totoo naman sinasabi ng kanta di ba?

For all the bro's out there who are planning to "FALL IN LOVE" with an MPA/GRO/PSP

Here is a good song which will BEST describe MAJORITY of these women

Just read the lyrics.........Nice song mga bro........try to download it

Btw......Chad.......this ones for you bro.......

"EASY LOVER"

By Phil Collins

Easy Lover

Shell get a hold on you believe it

Like no other

Before you know it youll be on your knees

Shes an easy lover

Shell take your heart but you wont feel it

Shes like no other

And Im just trying to make you see

Shes the kind of girl you dream of

Dream of keeping hold of

Youd better forget it

Youll never get it

She will play around and leave you

Leave you and deceive you

Better forget it

Oh youll regret it

No youll never change her, so leave it, leave it

Get out quick cos seeing is believing

Its the only way

Youll ever know

Easy lover

Shell get a hold on you believe it

Like no other

Before you know it youll be on your knees

Shes an easy lover

Shell take your heart but you wont feel it

Shes like no other

And Im just trying to make you see

Youre the one that wants to hold her

Hold her and control her

Youd better forget it

Youll never get it

For shell say theres no other

Till she finds another

Better forget it

Oh youll regret it

And dont try to change her, just leave it, leave it

Youre not the only one, ooh seeing is believing

Its the only way

Youll ever know, oh

No dont try to change her, just leave it, leave it

Youre not the only one, ooh seeing is believing

Its the only way

Youll ever know, oh

Shes an easy lover (shes a easy lover)

Shell get a hold on you believe it (get a hold on you)

(shes) like no other

Before you know it youll be on your knees (youll be down on your knees)

Shes an easy lover

Shell take your heart but you wont feel it (you wont feel it)

Shes like no other

And Im just trying to make you see (trying to make you see)