Puyah

tsk tsk tsk.

Man I got burned on these twice already and still didn't learn my lessons.

Yung isa pinatira ko na sa condo ko jan sa pinas then ginagawa lang palang honeymoon spot nung isa nyang BF.

The other one was even worst, got her own place sa may ortigas and also her own business after she "allegedly proved" to me na "she was meant to be with me" and we even started the process of visa application so I can take her back here with me. Pfffhht din and kinalabasan.

Bottom line naloko ako and guess what, most likely it will happen again, hehehehee.

Bakit kamo? Kasi pinoy pa rin ako, m'tigas ang ulo, pero I'm learning a bit more on every trials.

I'm sure na hindi lahat ng babae na in this line of work is "masama" but you all have to agree na quite a number of them are.

Sila yung nagpa-prove sa meaning na "A put@ is a put@ is a put@ is a put@ is a put@ is a put@ is a put@....)

Nonetheless, ingat pa rin kayo and good luck din dun sa mga matitigas ang ulo na tulad ko.

pardon my english, but some of us guys do use our dicks to fall in love. what i mean is, sex is a powerful thing and when we find a lady great in bed we tend to "fall in love" with her. ingats ingats nalang, be discerning, thresh out your feelings. intoxication o real love ba ang feelings mo.

 

some men invest the time to get to a lady's heart...some for the noble cause (love) but some make it sport. para better sex when the lady gives her all. be mindful, this may help stem (or start) any future relationships. warning lang to bro, my two cents.

Acura TL!

Precisely! My case was a bit of a twist from some point. One of my GF who actually became my fiancee (no kidding) actually left the business and moved to better things in life with my help. She learned how to deal with real people rin like in a real business and professional environment. Thought her to look straight into the person's eyes when discussing business and with full conviction para malaman ng kausap mo na serious ka sa sinasabi mo and not just selling an idea for your business.

Sa kaso nung marunong and successful na iniwan na lang ako, just like what binibining IWA said, natauhan din after a while at na-realize na matanda na ako for her. HAHAHAAA.

Moreover I became bitter at first pero just like the immature grown up that I am, I moved on and is now treking on a new new adventure.

I have to admit, it all started as plain as bottled water na leeeeebog lang lahat.

I could have met them sa loob ng MP, KTV or sa isang normal business function where all are legits, but it's still leeeebog.

One thing I learned from my first wife was there's no such thing as love at first sight pag naka-inom ka. Pag medyo tipsy ka at nagalit yugn si manoy while kaharap yung girl, TRUST ME..... leeeeebog yan. Irregardless kung saan mo nakita or nakilala sya. Hahahaaaa

Infatuations and admiration will only come later pag meron ng respect and trust between the two parties, otherwise it's still the "L" word.

We are only here to spread the good word from our sub-conscious being. And today the word is LEGS, so let's all go out and spread the word! Hahahaaa

Sincerly,

da lolo

Its really easy to fall in love with an MPA. Pero bago love, i agree with one poster here na libog lang talaga yan. Imagine fulfilling your fantasies and hidden desires which can be considered taboo by your ordinary girl. Before you know it, youre just like any ordinary couple forgetting the fact that away from you, your girl is being porked by somebody else...

Dito pa rin ang pinakamasarap na tapsihan that I know. Iba pa rin.

Ang babait pa ng mga crew nila

Mabuhay kayo jan!

Baby Analyn's Grill sa may Pateros.

Ibang klase yung yng mga 'silog nila.

The Best!

Bagong linis kahit uulan bukas. hehehee

Acura TL w/ Navi

3.2L 270 HP

Exactly my point!

Pls let's not confuse infatuation with true love. Infatuation is only a social form of "Leeebog".

Wag na tayong maglokohan pa di ba.

Wala namang guests na papasok sa MP, KTV or tatawag sa dial-in pizza hut and iniisip na "hmmm sino kaya sa mga ito ang dapat kong iuwi sa bahay para makilala ni inay at ni lola"

But then again, trabaho is trabaho. Nobody gives a rats @ss kung empleyado ka ng legit na company/employer or the ones one these forums.

If you want to a player and willing to be played with, better know the rules.

Otherwise it will cost you quite a few Benjamins' or Ninoys', depende kung ano ilalabas mo sa tampipi mo.

No offense meant to the ones na baka matamaan, this is only a humble opinion ng lolo nyo. Heheheee

MPA, PSP, GRO...it's only a job just like any other...true love will transcend everything...

Bottom line >>> Most of it is leeeebog lang and you know all that.

Iba sa inyo in-denial pa. Puro Ek-Ek.

If you want someone enough to post it here, geez just do it.

I fell for a couple of MPA's and GRO's not too long ago and even then naloko pa rin ako.

Even helped them out, yung isa nagkaron pa ng own legit business nya after all was said and done.

Just like IWA... told me before, tanda na kasi ako, lolo na kaya naloko. Hahahaaa

Kaya tuwang tuwa yung ex-wife ko when I was at my lowest, Oh welll.

Nonetheless, even if one's intention is pure hearted and sincere and then the other side is not, it will still lead to sakit lang ng ulo.

Pag hindi sumasakit ulo nyo, bilib ako sa tyaga at pasensya nyo or talaga lang sobra daming free time meron kayo.

Sana hindi kayo yung nasa losing end.

So you might as well enjoy the ride and keep on bangin' the living hell off it and hopefully you'll get lucky and find the right person for you someday either from this industry or not.

To ms IWA, I'm still looking forward to meet you someday on my next trip to Manila. Maybe over coffee and croissants or whatever your fancy may it be. No pun intended. PEACE... From your lolo the tanda.

Baby Analyn's Grill sa may Pateros.

Ibang klase yung yng mga 'silog nila.

The Best!

Learn from mistakes dude. Move on.

^So alin ang i be-blame namin??? Chemical imbalances???? genes? anoooh??? hay nakoh...sagutin mo na lang ako pag naging MPA kana..or ano wala kaming dapat i blame???!!! o sigeh! i be-blame nalang namin sa fact na...kase CUTE kame!!! tse!!.

Thanks.

But believe it or not mas gusto ko yung ride ng Acura TL ko. Para kasing go-kart yung M5, it really is a "point and shoot" car. lakas pa sa gas, oh well, the price one pays for performance.

I once hit 140MPH sa Hwy-5 dito on the bmer pero kktakot parang lilipad na kasi the drag was more relevant na when you hit over 130MPH.

Top speed ko sa Acura was 130, tama na yun, di ako sugarol. heheheee.

ganda ng sasakyan mo, specially the one on the right. :cool:

2006 Acura TL and 2003 BMW M5

To ms IWALKALONE:

My apologies for the fonts po. I did something and didn't realize it increased the font exponentially.

Yes, nag Japan sya, sabi nya talagang entertainer lang daw ng customers as in Painom-inom, kwento and often goes out for bowling.

We all know that's BS but I didn't tell her that.

Hindi naman nya ako kailangang lokohin kasi I provided for her for at least another 6mos after we parted ways. No bad feelings there, nagkawalaan na lang love siguro.

I still stand tru to what I told her before, kahit ano mangyari sa buhay nya or direction na marating nya, all she had to do was contact me. I maintained an extra personal secret email and cell phone# dito na only those people who I trust with my soul on this side of my life knows.

Some people may perceive this kayabangan. Ako mayabang? Absolutely. Kaya ko ba? Yes. Manloloko or sinungaling? Only sa ex-wife ko and proud of it. Arogante? Not to the people who are less fortunate than I am.

Siguro meron ako talagang soft spot sa puso ko when it comes to the lesser fortunate ones. Even when I was in college some 20+ years aho sa Manila, ang naging barkada is yung mga classmates kong lumipat sa Manila from their provincs to study and seek a better life. I respect that of people who wants to do something to better themselves. I know all the guys who are anak ng milyonaryo, politiko and god knows who. We just know of each other but I can't hang with those people like I would with the ones who accepts me as "one of them" and not because may kotse or may pera ka.

Thanks for taking the time to give our opinion.

PEACE....

I just found out that one of my ex went back to something similar to what she was doing before where I helped her get away from.

Bakit ganun dito sa business na 'to?

She was already set with a new life, I gave her quite plenty to start a new life and she was already doing good when she left me.

I made her promise me something and she gave me her word na pag magigipit pa sya uli "kahit kelan pa", she knows how to reach me dito and I'll be more than happy to help out again. And again habang buhay ako and kaya ko. Geezuz man.

Question para sa mga GRO/MPA/Escort past and present, para ba talagang drugs yan business nyong yan?

I'm not kidding it's been years that she's rid of that trade, and now nabalitaan ko and she confirmed na it's true.

Everytime I'm in PI and happens to interact with these ladies, more than 95% of them are willing to leave the job and start a new life, then lo and behold, balik bayan din pala. christ.

What she won't admit though was kung balik MPA sya or nag-escort or GRO na sya or kung saan man.

Mabuti na daw na di ko alam para di ko daw sya makita pa na. Personally I thinks it's BS.

Alam nya na di sya magdadalawang salita, I proved that to her many times before but still...

You know the saddest part of this, she's doing this to help out sa familia nila.

Di alam ng familia nya and never nila malalaman na she was in the trade even before, tinago namin lahat yun nung magkakilala kami.

Akala nila talagang malakas magpa-sweldo yung chinese na may ari ng boutique na she was supposedly working for.

Di ko alam kung tanga or ignorante lang familia nya, come on man, do the math:

a) Didn't graduate college

No real working skills that can be useful in the real world other than the obvious.

c) Broken english and not attempting to learn better ones

d) And she looks HOT

And then she comes home very early in the morning with at least 2k pesos in hand?!?!?!

I almost forgot to mention one of her gifts, she's extremely fluent on another foreign language that it comes out so natural to her.

After she left that place, I was able to maintain her "allowance" for 2.5 years until she decided na she was too good for me?!?!?!

I had to respect that, it was her decision.

This has not been a good past 2 weeks for me.

Two of the people I care for the most gave me very very bad feelings and I sincerely feel sorry for them.

My most recent ex left me for god know who or what and then this one na akala ko maayos na, bumalik din pala.

This leaves a bad taste in my mouth but it doesn't mean na titigil ako. Just have to go back to Manlia and re-calibrate myself.

Spa sa City Lights on Timog or The Spa sa Libis, Kain sa Ma Mon Luk (old school ako man) then balik sa coner ng Morato/Timog for some Isaw.

Then it's back to the torn stretch of Quezon Av or sa Tia Maria harap ng Ateneo for god knows what.That's life! at least for me

I all else fails, dun na lang ako sa bar ng hotel ko lagi sa katabi ng Megamall.

You guys would know which hotel it is kung kilala nyo si Brenda C. She used to be on the morning breakfast service sa business lounge of the said hotel the she moved to the atrium reception area as a host.

Ganda sya, maputi, no more than 125 lbs, at least 5'6", mabait and among other envious attributes to the others. She's waiting for her petition papers to come here na daw by this December, She said she'd like to meet up with me once here. And I said absolutely, why not. But not my type though.

For some stupid, sick and twisted reason kasi, I keep falling for the ones with the more tragic lifestyle than the ones who are more fortunate than they would be.

Pero who knows di ba...

I wish all the working ladies the best of luck in life, same goes to all of us

PEACE....

This is what im saying. bakit ang mga girls ganito. talagang nakakatakot isipin. do you think it will change the situation if you guys had a kid? well for me we have one in the process that why medyo gulong gulo ako. Sabi nga ng iba, not all has a fairy tale ending. kung di man fairytale sana action story man lang para bida parin tayo sa pagtapos ng kwento.

Man. Not all these ladies are the same. In her defense kasalanan ko rin kasi naging pabaya ako. Maybe naging masyado akong confident and relax thinking that she sincerley loves me.

I know na minahal nya ako, I'll be lying to myself if I were to think na hindi. Pero like all good things, it had to end. Unfortunately it's affecting me in a deeper way.

Sa ngayon, I have no intention of going back sa PI to try and court her again, yes the thought crossed my mind several times pero I had to be mature about it.

Sana ugaling pinoy pa din ako na "kung ayaw mo wag" pero I still think of her being with me.

Geezuz man. What we had was beautiful. I'd give anything to bring it back.

Well sa ngayon I can't do much and I have no intention either of getting back with my ex-wife, nakalabas na nga ako dun, ipu-pukpok ko pa ba uli ulo ko.

Sa tanda kong ito tama na yun.

These ladies who works the trade have their dreams too.

One way or the other they will achieve it, or most of them will die trying. Not all ends up to be a happy story.

Meron iba dyan nakakakita ng work someplace else na decent. Pero merong mga tao pa din na tries to pull them down. I don;t want to be one of them anymore.

On my youger days, Old School ako dude, I was really bad sa babae on these trade. talagang babuyan ang laban.

But like anything else, I learned to stop and grow up.

Meron one time na may nakuha akong MPA sa Maalikaya noon, about 20 years ago, dinal ko sa may Danara during it's high times.

We screwed like crazy animals sa may pool side, then when we were done, I called some barkadas ang pinilahan nila kasi lasing na rin yung chick.

One of my stupid barkada's even pissed on the chicks face when they were all done. we thought it was funny then.

Trust me, kung alam ko lang kung nasaan yung girl na yun, hihingi ng forgiveness.

I know my ex is different (I can't believe I'm calling her my ex). Special sya from the day I met her, it's more than bog-li. It's more like infatuated ako dahil if I didn't know na ganun work nya, iisipin ko isa syang office worker or somebody who runs a boutique or something of that nature.

She really is very classy, that's what separates her from the others.

Pero like I said earlier, merong mga loko pa din na just won't let go ang isang tao na nagbago na.

Once dun sa retail store na nag work sya for about 6 months, somebody must have recognized her.

The idiot came up to her pretending to buy something and said na "kilala kita, ikaw si #__ dito na pala racket mo ha. Iba na din name mo ha, hindi ka na pala si _____"

She told me all about it and I told her to wuit the same day and she did.

Di nya kailangan mog-work kasi meron kaming acct sa PCI na I regularly put money in through remittance here. Pero naiinip sya and I know it.

She's a very personable lady, and again, classy.

This is one of those things you can file under "Lessons learned"

PEACE...

What I'm going through right now is just as painful as any sad story I've seen here.

I was with a former lady of the trade, I said former kasi she actually stopped working for the MP no more than 3 months after we became an item.

We actually lasted almost 3 years.

I was fortunate at the time na the kind of work I dow requirs me travel a lot to asia from here, I was practically in PI at least twice per quarter. And to think na ayoko ng bumalik sa PI since wala na rin kaming masyadong family staying there.

At the time it happened I was in a process of a messy divorce that became even messier after I met her.

I'm willing to lose just about everything para lang sa kanya.

She didn't like the idea of me fully supporting her kaya we invested on one of tose food carts that she was able to actually make decent money from.

Once the food cart business was picking up a bit, she asked if ok lang daw na mag-work sya commercially, ie, retail stores food chains and so forth.

That went well kasi I can see her for 2 weeks almost every 5-6 weeks, it was great.

Trust me, at my age, that was a blast.

Things are going great actually for us up until a month ago.

She started a new business with a certain friend, well to make a very long story short, "nagka-developan" sila in the process of setting up the new business.

So since the old guy is far and she can't wait any further na madala ko sya dito, I was given on one of our regular morning calls to PI.

Friends na lang daw kami. That's when I know I'm SCR$WED. Sabi nya na she's so sorry and with all the crying pa.

I sincerely believe her kasi that's the only think I can do at that point.

of course I'm pissed but I can't be bitter din kasi even though it's too friggin hard to admit for me pero ano gagawin ko, takbo sa pinas at ipaglaban ang akin?!?! We all know that's BS.

So I told her things are cool and we're cool. OK lang. Ano pa masasabi ko.

One thing sinabi ko sa kanya is ingatan lang nya sarili nya, kahit ano mangyari wag syang magiisip na bumailk sa dating trade.

Sabi ko pa, and I'm sincere with this, pag di nag-work out sila ni bagong "BF-to-be-fiancee" nya, just be patient and I'm very sure na makakita sya eventually ng truly right man for her.

I even went as far as sabi ko na if all else fails at nagisip syang bumalik sa dating trabaho, tawagan nya ako at ako n lang tutulong sa kanya hanggang mai-ayos nya life nya again, and all this is without any conditions to her ok. I told her na wala akong hinihingi or request na kapalit. Maybe I'm cool maybe I'm not, who knows, nobody can tell what will happen.

It just hurts to think about what we had, I treated her like a real person.

With me, first time nyang nakapasok sa mga luxury hotels sa manila and not having to look down going in na baka pagisipan sya na soliciting ang purpose nya for going in.

You people have no idea how happy and proud I was every time I see her walking in sa S sa edsa and sa P makati and showing her room card dun sa business tower annex, that's where I always stay for my business trips. I always make it a point na we get room 1344, meron syang private balcony facing st francis church or kung anumang simbahan yun.

But just like anything good in life, it has to end.

So what does an old man like my self will do next??? try to move on and check again later.

PEACE...

The game just started, GW=0/UT=2

GW will HAVE to win at least once in Utah.

I hate to sound like the non-believer, but be realistic man.

How do you win against Big Guys That Can Shoot, not to mention they're on a roll.

Next season would be a whole lot better as long as Nelly stays.

PEACE

Just like my ex-wife!

7:57 PM PDT

2005 Acura TL and 2004 MB E320 Euro edition and full specs but converted to CA specs to pass emission legally.

Any advice para huwag mangyari ito? Napapdalas na din kasi ako, tapos i-isa lang ang hinahanap kong MP eh, pag wala siya, ayaw ko na... Anong masasabi ninyo dito, am I falling?

Bog-Li, Bog-Li at Bog-Li lang yan.

You need trust me, but I sure know what I'm talking about.

He he eh e

Cheers!

thanks for the reply puyah. but can you kindly clarify what you mean by doubting myself? thanks

In situations like such under normal conditions, you just have to let go of all worries and do it.

Pero just like you said, she's already in a commited (somewhat) relationship.

Kung talagang skins' lang ang gusto mo, pay up and the hell with it kung ano isipin nya as long as you're rid of your boner.

Pero kung palagay mo ay medyo may pa-utot feeling ka, just let go and hunt someplace else. Sometimes the hassle is not worth it.

Bog-Li lang talaga yan, there's no way you can tell me or anyone else here that you decided one night and walked inside this place thinking "hmm dito ko makikita yung babaeng ihaharap ko sa altar and share my hard earned money with". You know that's BS.

Stuffs like this happens.

I know kasi I'm in same situation too, but there's a difference sa atin. I went for it and still going. Very happy and content wag lang malalaman ng esmi ko otherwise, by law, huhubaran ako nun. hahahaha

Goodluck sa yo and PEACE!

Boys and Gals, kindly feel free to share your opinions regarding my situation.

 

I kinda fell for a KTV Girl. We went out for a couple of times but she finally decided to be serious with someone else. It was quite a painful ordeal but we are still in communication via text and phone calls. I think she liked me even just a tiny bit, but the other person was more to her liking, obviously.

 

My dilemma is that we never had sex. She is the first girl I have fallen for and now, I am extremely curious as to what it would feel like to have sex with someone I am very much in like with Early on, I told her that I never solicited her services because I like her very much and it doesn't feel right to do so. If we were to do it, it's because we like each other (big mistake!! haha).

 

Now that she is already in a relationship, it is very unlikely that she will have sex with me for no pay. So my question is, if i solicit her services, will she think of me differently now? Will my sincerity to her before be compromised? Will i now be just like most guys, a pig? hehe

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Just like anything else >>> If you start doubting your self, Bog-Li lang yan.