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  1. Been frequenting sogo for the past year now as an alternative....you get my drift. I've noticed that the quality of service has really gone down and that the complimentary water and toiletries are now offered for sale !!!

  2. Happy New Year GM's !!!

     

    I intend to purchase a house and lot this 2016 at around jan-feb. My issue here is that come April, I will be starting my annulment process. My question is this...

    Can I put the title under the name of my 14 year old daughter so as not to include the property in the proceedings? If it is not possible, what other options would you suggest? I intend to give this to her as her inheritance when my time is up but I do not want my soon-to-be ex wife to benefit from this property in whatever way possible.

     

    TIA

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    thanks for the great share bro... but i love her... sa ngayon di ko pa kaya huminto.. sa April ko na lang malalaman if watsup.... di ko na rin siya muna i-mmsg... naalibadbaran na siya sa kakulitan ko.. need niya mag focus sa work... parehas kami ng field ng napag-aralan at alam ko someway somehow someday, mamumuhay kami ng tahimik at nag mamahalan.. wishful thinking lang.. pasensya na mga bros if matigas ulo ko... pero na appreciate ko naman po lahat ng paalala at mga experience na shinishare niyo po sa akin.. sa ngayong gulong gulo lang.. sabi ko nga dati.. love ko lang siya... period.. bawal pa siya mainlove.

     

     

    Best of luck to you sir !!! Good decision to give each other space. Like what the other GM's have mentioned, love is a two way affair. If ok syo ang one way affair, just be prepared for a lot of heartache and spending. Be open minded about the whole thing. Dont let your heart rule above your head. IMHO lang po

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    Hello all... i am losing faith... seems that she's ignoring me.. should i still continue? gusto ko sana muna siya makausap bago ako mag desisyon.. gusto ko rin ng closure.. pero sana alam niya na mahal ko na siya..

     

     

    Suggestion lang sir...

     

    Pay her a visit. Pay her her dues and try to talk to her. Always remember to be a gentleman when you talk and not like you have a commitment to each other. Kung kulang pa yng time, ask her out. If she cant go, ask her why? Be persistent but not pesky. From there you will know what decision to make. Reality bites hard. If you want a relationship based on physical needs, pera kailangan mo. If you want a relationship based on emotional and physical needs, love and pera ang kailangan mo. These are harsh words but will help you later on.

     

    HTH

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    Di naman 1% madami pa rin naman. Yun nga lang yung iba maingat at di mo basta-bast makukuha dahil nga sa trabaho nila. Pero kung ma-inlove naman kayo sa isa't-isa kahit ano pa man pananaw niya

    basta ba at tapat ka at malinis intensyon mo. Remember babae pa rin sila na kelangan ang pagmamahal at di lang puro sex.

     

    **IMHO lang po**

    Sir kung madami pa sila sa 1%, we should be reading a lot of success stories here with "love conquers all" thing. Well, baka nga lang hindi pa nag shashare yng mga ibang kapwa GM natin :D
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    should i give up or should i just keep chasing pavements

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    Allow me to share..

     

    I met her in the MP after having a failed marriage and failed relationship in that order. She was what we GMs expected; kind, accommodating, friendly and sweet. Did the usual small chitchat, availed of her services and went my way. She struck me with one thing: she was too open about herself WITHOUT any of the sob stories BS. This piqued my interest and started me seeing her for almost 3 weeks straight in the MP. She left the scene a few days later but we kept in touch. We went out, dated, partied, went out of town, and introduced each other to our respective relatives. I spent time and effort to know her better and treated her any woman would want to be treated; properly and with respect. I got to know that her stories were true and completely without BS.

    Was she worth everything i did? Yes. Will I still continue with her? Yes. Did she tell me that the same line she told you that she cant fall in love? No.

     

    I'm still pursuing her and not rushing things. Ika nga sa #aldub, nag aantay lang ng tamang panahon. Lalaki tayo at marunong makiramdam sa gusto ng mga babae; whether it be spoken directly or reading between the lines. She doesn't want to be "the other woman". This was said indirectly. I told her that my dissolution process would start next year. She said she was willing to wait.

     

    Going back to my previous post, if she enjoys commuting with you and eating simple foods THAT may be a hint that shes not into you for the money.

     

    Women are investments. The nice one give you profits. The bitches make you pay the bills.

     

    HTH

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  7. Trust her.

     

    If tuloy pa rin ang landian nila, catch them in the act, take a photo, and extort as much money as u can.

    Agree (with the trust her part :D).

     

    Im 44 y.o. with a 24 y.o. girlfriend who does modelling on the side. Andaming nanliligaw sa kanya even if she says committed na siya. I just let her be. The setup works for us. No quarrels or petty fights about "whos that guy, whats he doing around you" thing. Maybe age has a way of making you a wiser person.

  8. The most abused sad story line sa industry is "kaya ko pinasok ito para mkatulong sa pamilya ko". Advise of fellow GM's is spot-on. Take them out on a date and talk to them; know them better. And see whether the aforementioned line is BS or gospel truth. Then assess if her and your feelings are mutual or "dala lang ng libog at awa". From there you will get a clearer picture of your situation and will be able to make a well informed decision if she really is worth all the time and effort spent.

     

    From experience, the chances of you finding someone from that industry who is REALLY interested in you and not the thickness of your wallet is smaller than 1% of the size of a proton or neutron. Jackpot ka na kung makakita ka ng mamahalin ka kahit commute lang kayo everyday and eat simple foods for your meals.

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  9. My take on the matter:

     

    We're all human beings capable of loving each other. Its just that sometimes discerning the "What" and the "If" of the situation defines whether or not the feeling or the relationship would prosper. We already have an idea of how their lives are lived. They have an idea of how we live ours. Like what our fellow GMs have previously mentioned, taking the acquaintance to the next level would require a lot of trust and openness from both sides. And the only way to figure out whether those two are present is to take a risk. And be prepared to accept the results of that risk; be it good or worse...

  10. Hi to all !!!

     

    I'd like to post my case here so i may be enlightened as to what legal moves to take in order to secure my annulment.

     

    My wife and I have been married for 14 years. She was 22 at the time we married, I was 30. She suffered a breakdown because of depression when she was 18 but this didnt stop us from pursuing our marriage. 5 years ago she suffered again the same depression albeit only worse this time. I took her to a psychiatrist and had her put on meds. But for one reason or another she stopped taking them. She had been exhibiting signs of depression since then but i could never get her back to see a psychiatrist because she believed that nothing was wrong with her. She had on/off jobs for the last 5 years and was only able to get a permanent job last may. My wife and I have been living apart since April because i could not stand the fact that she blamed me for my mothers death. We have a 14 yo daughter who is living with me.

     

    My question is this. Given the abovestated facts, what now are my options in securing a nullfication and annulment of our marriage? Thank you very much and stay safe to all !!!

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