Depends. I had a fubu who was curious about inviting another girl to be with us. We couldn't find any 3rd person (what is called a "unicorn" nowadays), so she was willing to get a professional. I wish i had agreed to the suggestion.
I admire your dedication to your family and the hardships that you endured, @Diamond of Ukiyo!
Reading your post made me smile, instead of making me sad today.
Didn't realize that the OP posted this back in 2008?
How are you doing @frankiboi, and what has happened to your relationship since you first posted?
Sorry in advance if you've already updated since then.
Hello! I've met you in person and I can say that you are truly attractive and intelligent. But I knew of your hesitation so I never asked.
Wish you all the best in the New Year!