Midlurker2005

1 hour ago, lank said:

Getting into a relationship will be your greatest impediment. Do not build your own walls, build roads instead. Come to think of this? MTC serves a purpose and that is to bestow us the “release” so that we get energized and in return become more productive in our chosen craft. Have multiple women as much as you can and treat them well with love and fun. As simple as that. Of course I know you’re a bit depressed as of now because you allowed it to get into your head. I suggest going to the gym and eat healthy stuffs… forget about the love BS. Love yourself instead 

Thanks, man. I am perfectly okay.
 

My story happened a long time ago. A time when FRs are a treat and real GMs wrote them. 
 

Thanks, anyway. Tuloy ang ligaya.  

Here’s an old personal tale that can be a warning:

Just a few weeks after my top-thera GF and I broke up, I attended a by-invite only dinner conference in a fine dining restaurant in Makati. Since the conference was intimate, my male industry colleagues, the ones who I knew beforehand, were a little relaxed and the free flowing fine wine loosened the locks of the story vaults. The topic of massages, escorts (or PR), theras, and ES came up. As expected everyone inebriated had a story to tell. Imagine my shock when the name of my ex-gf came up. I knew that she was popular but I didn’t expect for her to be THAT popular.
 

Worse, two of the gents knew her much deeper than the others and before we had a relationship. They knew her background, surname, address, and even her personal digits. It didn’t stop there. I heard details where they would eat dinner prior to the trysts, or the resorts they went, or even the bars they would frequent with other therapists. Of course, I pretended to have been amazed. I even took the offer of getting her number (confirmed). 
 

I was brokenhearted, of course! Not because of the information I got. It’s the details that contradicted the stuff she swore to be true about her (i.e. she said she didn’t do ATW. I was so naive). This was a girl I dreamt of building a new life together. 
 

But that wasn’t even the worst. Apparently, while we were together, she went hanging out with them (gents) and with fellow therapists a couple of times, with wild after parties in condo units. 
 

Anyway, again, and again. Fair warning. It’s the biggest delusion of all. And the hurt doesn’t stop at the point of break up. It goes further and beyond. 
 

Happy Hunting!  

This thread is such an entertainment. Where can you find a place where you rationalize orgasm as an exercise of altruism? Or virtue signal after a paid s3xua1 activity? Or mask egoism as social responsibility?
 

The reason why their profession is considered the oldest: It fills the void brought about by illusion (or delusion) that starts from the head above and ends at the tip of the head below. 
 

Just keep on hunting. If you’re serious, marry her. Otherwise, bawasan ang katol.  

On 11/18/2023 at 8:32 PM, lethalweapon03 said:

I have to admit that i am currently in a serious relationship with a therapist.

i love her, she loves me too. Its not ideal. Its too complicated. Too complicated in many aspects. (Go figure)
 

I am learning a lot in our relationship. I learned that she is in this industry for a good reason. She was judged a lot of times.. 

I always wonder why they only see stars when they look at her, because I see a whole beautiful universe whenever I look in her eyes.

I just want you guys to know that when you bump or interact with a therapist, be sensitive too.. dont judge them with what they do alone.. they are people. They struggle, persevere, sacrifice a lot for their families and they are true persons too. They still know what is the true meaning of love..

Its sad because we cant be together for long. But I know our love will never fade. Im leaving the country for good.. 

Her love is like the wind, I may not see it. But i always feel it..

 

If you are reading this, im always gonna love you. No matter what

Ayos sa exit strategy. Leaving the country for good.   

5 hours ago, Julzz said:

Tara shot shot na! Pag usapan ang dapat hindi pag usapan.

Hahahahha…i wish kapatid. Thats the thing about this digital underworld. I’ve been on and off this alternative universe for more than two decades already. Three decades if we count the MiRC years. One of the key lessons that turned into unwritten rules, aside from not falling in love, is to avoid eyeballs. Some of those who didn’t follow this rule are now captured in almost eternal posterity. If you are in the mood to dig, you can still find the faces of the original GMs and the original therapists. They are identified with their names even.  Yes, some of them are semi-public or even public personalities now. 

Happy Hunting! 

On 9/16/2023 at 12:45 PM, courtesanhunter said:

matindi pala ang naging girlfriend mo sir. bawal magalit. NTP pero mahilig sa revenge s*x.

Happy Hunting na nga lang talaga.

Haha..oh yeah. And that’s not the whole story. It gets worse. Mahirap na lang i-kwento lahat sa sobrang dami. But its all hindsight now. Bulag ka sa pag-ibig eh. Sincerely, you both want it to work. Eto yung mga gusto mong ihinga sa inuman pero hindi nga kasi normal, hindi mo rin pwede i-kwento sa tropa mo. Lol

Halimbawa ng detalye: Kasi nga alam mo NTP kaya simula pa lang alam mo na pinapasok mo diba? Tebats lang sa guest. Sige ayos lang, tuloy lang at may balak ka naman ialis siya sa industriya kasi nga mahal mo eh. Kaya mong lunukin panandalian. Yun pala, may nilulunok din siya. Hahaha 😝 Nung bago pa lang kami, tuloy pa rin pala ang paglunok niya ng punla ng kanyang mga regular! (Think: Nakipaglaplapan ako sa kanya pagkatapos ng shift niya! I know…ewwww). Hindi mo naman masisi, pera yun eh. Besides, as I mentioned in my post to this, they do have a switch embedded in their brains that when flipped, they become who they are when you found them. She wanted to keep her regulars happy too (best in customer engagement and retention award?).  Oo nga naman. “ Lalaki ka lang. Hindi ikaw ang una. Love kita, pero malamang hindi ikaw ang huli.” 
 

Kaya iwas ng kaunti. Except for Pretty Woman, there’s not a lot of love stories involving these characters, GM and thera, that do end up as happy stories in pop culture. There’s a reason to that. Your love story (fine. Lets call it that) is that space when your world and hers overlap. But its a small space compared to your respective individual worlds.

Dont get me wrong. Its been years but I still think fondly of her. Lampas dekada na pero may kurot pa rin ng kaunti. Daig pa perslab kasi nga naman, matindi yung kondisyon ng pagmamahalan niyo. Yun lang pag naalala mo yung mga detalye, natatawa ka na lang sa kabaliwan mo. Kaya nga fair warning sa mga kapatid na parokyano. Iwas iwas. 

Oh speaking of Pretty Woman, the original screenplay was supposed to end tragically. It wasn’t a fairy tale. 
 

Happy Hunting!   

3 hours ago, darwin2k4 said:

Saang NTP Spa ito bro? Ano ang name ng Thera at kelan daw kayo mag-aaway ulit? Asking for a friend 😂😂😂

Hahahha…matagal na ito bro. Too late. 

The NTP still exists but she left some years back. Nakahanap ng puti na ex-US Navy pero may bumulong sakin na hindi rin raw totoo rin yun. May matandang GM na nagbigay ng pangkabuhayan showcase kaya tumigil daw. Hindi ko na tinangkang i-verify. 
 

Puno’t dulo, magulo buhay nila. Kung magulo din buhay mo, pag pumatol ka, hindi siya doble kung di exponential. Kung galing ka sa “normal” na buhay o mainstream set of values and norms, magugulat ka kung gaano kaiba yung kanila. Don’t get me wrong we’re all fundamentally the same as we are all humans. Pero dun natatapos yun. Halimbawa na lang: ang normal na tao, hindi napaghiniwalay ang value system kahit hindi ka perpketo. Meaning, kahit wala ka sa katinuan, nasa isang value set ka lang. Normal ka eh. Sila hindi. Kaya nilang magkaroon ng split personality na parang switch lang. Yung split na yun may kanya kanyan set of values yun. To simplify: normal na GF mo siya kung kayo ang magkasama o magkausap. Matimtiman. Romantic. Normal.
 

Pero once na nasa mundo na sila ng trabaho nila, nagbabago na sila ng anyo. Syota na sila ng bayan. At tandaan mo, mas nauna sila sa trabaho nila kesa sayo. Mas malapit sa katotohanang value set nila kung ano sila sa work. Nobody lasts long in their work in this industry by accident. It formed them on who or what they are. Kaya yung nakikita ng mga romantiko nating kasama dito na naiinlove, produkto yun ng pagiging bihasa nila sa pagiging syota ng bayan. Hindi kayo pareho. Superficial lang yun. Kasama pang FAMAS na acting. Remember: Its a scientific fact that couples are couples because they have at least 85% of their interests are the shared or the same. Pero dito, magkaiba kayo ng mundo. So what you see as compatibility is an illusion brought about by professional work. Alam mo ba alternative word nila sa client or guest? Gawa (Work). 

Kaya, iwas iwas na lang. Live the temporary minutes as your grand illusion. But remember: its still is an illusion. Its mind-boggling $3X, I know. But keep it that way. 
 

Happy Hunting!  

On 9/14/2023 at 10:13 AM, SDMNXIX said:

✌️ 😅

 

Hahahaha

Sums up my personal experience.

Worse, I found out that every time we argued, she lets herself get f(){€3d by her regulars. As in around the world. NTP eto ah (No truth in advertising  )

Even worse. Nung tuluyang kaming naghiwalay, nag out of town kagad siya kasama ang isang regular niya. Daig pa palit kotse. Para lang nagpalit ng panty. 

Never again. Kaya fair warning. Tao lang kaya marupok. Pero matanggap mo kay kung anong parte siya marupok?

Happy Hunting! 

Repost ko lang. Reminder. 
 

Yup. As far as my own personal experience (yes na fall ako one time. Ang tanga ko eh), walang therapist ang nagsasabi ng totooo. Kasama sa mojo nila yun gumawa ng kwento ng buhay nila o anuman ang gusto nila sa buhay na naka tuon kung paano ma enganyo ang guest. In fairness, meron din konting sincerity minsan kasi may emotional needs din sila. PERO alam nila na walang bukas ang mga relasyon nila kasi nga alam nila ang implikasyon ng trabaho nila. Kaya kukunin nila kung ano makukuha nila tapos move on. Hindi nila ibubulgar ang totoo nila istorya kasi mismo sila tinatago nila kung ano sila sa sarili nilang kamag-anak or malalapit na tao sa buhay. Kung may layer ang secrecy, ang estima ko ay 3 layers siya. In short, ang tanga tanga mo kung maniwala ka (pati na ako na napaniwala minsan). Ano mga bagay na nakatago?

1. NMILF. Walang aaminin masyado, lalot sa simula na  MILF sila. Kasi nga naman, baba yung customer na papatol. Usually may mga anak sila sa pagkadalaga. Minsan teenager pa lang. 
 

2. Nakatira. Pag nasa Makati ang spa, ang tirahan ay Rizal. Hindi totoo yun. Usually same city or the next city. Ayaw talaga nila lumayo kasi nga luge sa pamasahe. Kahit stay-in, they want to be near pa rin. Unless out from the province talaga. 
 

3. “Buti na lang nakakaintindi ka”. This is a hypocritical but deliberate comment from them. Tandaan mo, yung emotional investment ang target nila sayo dahil may pakinabang ka kahit nagbibigay ka lang ng 500 pesos na extra o ibinili mo siya ng cellphone o buong kabuhayan showcase. Ang masaya diyan para sa kanila, hindi lang ikaw nagbibigay marami yan. Tiba tiba sila kung ganun sila kagaling sa emotional investment. Alam nila yun. Alam na alam nila. 
 

4. “Wala akong asawa o hiwalay ako”. Eto isa sa mga pinakamalaking kasinungalingan. 99% meron silang asawa or partner, either married or live-in. Yung iba jowa na same sex. May alam ako jowa niya masahista naman ng mga bading. Remember may emotional needs din sila. Meron din silang need na steady. PERO hypergamist sila lahat. Gusto nilang may partner na mapera o mas mataas kesa sa sarili nilang asawa, live-in o jowa. At alam nila na that they can have the benefit of both worlds. Dahil nga sa nature ng trabaho nila, pwede silang short-term and temporary hypergamist without the consequences required of a permanent relationship. Tandaan mo, kung career oriented sila, hindi sila therapist. Sometime in their youth nabuntis sila, at gawa nun, malamang nag asawa rin sila. Or may ka-live in. 
 

5.  “Nagiipon lang ako”. 8 out 10. Hindi totoo. Dahil nga wala sila masyadong skills sa labas ng kanilang trabaho, babalik at babalik sila o kaya mag side job, or wala talagang balak umalis. Malaki nga naman kita. Kung maganda ka, kahit NTP, makakakuha ka ng at least 10k a day. Daig mo manager ng bangko. 
 

6. “Napamahal na ako sayo”. Wag kang tanga. See 1-5.  Nuff said. 

10 hours ago, markjoycehailey said:

Sa lahat ng GMs dito na meron "jowa" kuno, I challenge you... Post the identity of your "jowa" here and invite the other GMs to share their detailed FR either publicly or through DMs para malaman ninyo kung gusto pa din ninyo ituloy ang jowa-jowa na iyan.

GUARANTEED this move will save you a lot of cash and a lot of heartache.  It will preserve your sanity, your family, maybe your job or your business. Maybe even your life.

Kung ayaw ninyo, then pray hard that my therapist earlier today was not your jowa...😜😜😜

 

Tama. Imagine mo na lang lahat ng kalapastanganan ang ginawa sa GF o Asawa mo, kayanin mo kaya?

Pwede mong sabihin na temporary lang habang gumagawa ng paraan. Pero, sa tingin mo ba matitigil yun? Tandaan mo, pag nagmamahal daw si Thera, hindi raw siya hihingi ng pera. Eh san niya kukunin yung sweldo niya?

Sa dami na nag ooffer ng pera para gawin ang gusto nila, tingin niyo ba itigil nya talaga at may limistasyon? Kaya nga nagka konsepto ng YMMV eh. Sa dulo, pera pera pa rin. Maiintindihan mo kung barya lang ang kapalit. Pero ang offer ng GM ay mula sa 3k hanggang 20k ang pinaguusapan, hindi bibigay? Tandaan natin, 99% sa kanila, may sinusuportahang mga (take note plural) anak, kapatid o, to a lesser extent, magulang. Money really talks.
 

Many years ago, yung sa aking katangahan, naitanong ko sa GF na thera kung may mag offer ba sa kanya ng 40k, bibigay mo? You know what she said when obviously her shield was down? “Ano ba ako?”. Boom! Nahimasmasan ako sa punto na yun. 

So, by all means, fall in love and call yourself the hopeless romantic and/or the forever lothario. But note the realities. For every corner you turn with your strolls with her, there’s a GM that says “Good job dude! Hope you get what I got a couple of times until I moved on. Its yummy. ”

Happy Hunting!  

On 8/26/2023 at 9:57 AM, Covidfree said:

May Kilala akong thera pinahinto ni GM sa mp knowing na maibibigay Lahat ng needs Pero etong si GM wala pala pera ang hayop kinantot lng ng kinantot si thera at pag nag rereklamo daw sya munurahin at ipapamukha ang pagiging pokpok nya,kawawa si thera that time top thera pa nman eto,

Fiod thing nakawala na sya sa hayop na yun maganda na buhay ni thera ngayon sa tulong ng dating apps nakapag asawa sya ng Kano at dun na sila nakatira.

Yan ang golden ticket. Maraming gumagawa niyan. Ang target ay retirado o pa retire na puti. May kakilala nga ako na pinilit gawin puti yung anak kahit obvious na salisihan si mokong. Napaamin lang nung lumabas na yung bata. 

Yung sinasabing nag re-recruit ng therapists papunta europe (kalimitan sa may eastern block), ganun ang nangyari sa kanya. Nakapag asawa ng taga Czech Republic. Siya ngayon nag bitbit ng mga pwede umalis. Kung hindi matalas intel niyo, ang clue ay yung  source ng therapists ay galing sa dalawang sikat na NTP spa kuno sa makati.  
 

Kung pamilyar ka sa Europa, alam mong notorious ang eastern europe pag dating sa human trafficking. (Kaya nga ginawang plot ito ng pelikulang Taken). Good luck sa kanila. Pero Sanay na naman sila. Kalyado na ang kamay at anu-ano pa.  

On 8/5/2023 at 10:10 AM, plug said:

Parang kawawa naman si thera nasa kanya na ata ang lahat ng sisi. Pero alalahanin natin na tayo ang lumapit sa kanila. Bisyo ang pinasok natin. Maaaring nagpapanggap pa nga tayo para mabigyan ng good service, papansin o makuha ang loob ni thera. Ever since nga may mga customers na todo porma clean looking even new haircut kala mo may dinner date yun pala didiskarte lang kay thera sa masikip na cubicle. E trabaho naman ni thera "pasayahin" tayo.

May mga customers naman buraot at namumuwersa pa.

Minsan pwedeng sabihin na parehas lang tayo ni thera na naglolokohan.

Pero sa bandang huli ang sisi kay thera pa rin.

Paniwala din naman natin mga lalaki na magaling tayo sa diskarte. Pero isipin din natin na marunong din o may sariling diskarte si thera.

Kung nagagawa mo ang iyong gusto kay thera ng walang katapat na pera isipin mo rin na maaaring ginagamit ka lang parausan ni thera. Libre din si thera di ka binabayaran.

Mas mahirap nga raw manligaw ng babae sa flesh industry gaya ng mga gro, thera, attendant o matatawag na prostitutes compared sa masasabing decent ladies.

Dapat lang walang sisihan.

Or better marahil sisihin ang sarili kung bakit napunta ka ng spa.

Nag backread ako ng dalawang pages, at walang sumisi sa thera. In fact, its the other way around. Puro warning sa GM ang sinasabi ng post. If people want to continue what they’re doing, which is the falling in love with a therapist (that’s the topic), in spite of the caveats, by all means, go for it. 

Kamusta na pala diskarte (your favorite word) mo kay @Venice29? Maraming nagaantay ng FR. 😁

Career.
 

You can buy love or what’s like it. Kung hindi, eh di sana hindi dumami ang therapist na “nagpapahiram” ng pag-ibig. 

On 8/2/2023 at 8:28 PM, Mang Ricky said:

Style ng thera na mapa ibig ka. Pero eto ay sa gusto at type lang nilang guy. Lalo na yon guy na my potential maging galante. Pag d ka naman type ni thera eh usual service lang. Pag talagang ayaw sau ni thera,  sabihan kpa na di cya ganun pag nag request ka ng ES.

Yup. As far as my own personal experience (yes na fall ako one time. Ang tanga ko eh), walang therapist ang nagsasabi ng totooo. Kasama sa mojo nila yun gumawa ng kwento ng buhay nila o anuman ang gusto nila sa buhay na naka tuon kung paano ma enganyo ang guest. In fairness, meron din konting sincerity minsan kasi may emotional needs din sila. PERO alam nila na walang bukas ang mga relasyon nila kasi nga alam nila ang implikasyon ng trabaho nila. Kaya kukunin nila kung ano makukuha nila tapos move on. Hindi nila ibubulgar ang totoo nila istorya kasi mismo sila tinatago nila kung ano sila sa sarili nilang kamag-anak or malalapit na tao sa buhay. Kung may layer ang secrecy, ang estima ko ay 3 layers siya. In short, ang tanga tanga mo kung maniwala ka (pati na ako na napaniwala minsan). Ano mga bagay na nakatago?

1. NMILF. Walang aaminin masyado, lalot sa simula na  MILF sila. Kasi nga naman, baba yung customer na papatol. Usually may mga anak sila sa pagkadalaga. Minsan teenager pa lang. 
 

2. Nakatira. Pag nasa Makati ang spa, ang tirahan ay Rizal. Hindi totoo yun. Usually same city or the next city. Ayaw talaga nila lumayo kasi nga luge sa pamasahe. Kahit stay-in, they want to be near pa rin. Unless out from the province talaga. 
 

3. “Buti na lang nakakaintindi ka”. This is a hypocritical but deliberate comment from them. Tandaan mo, yung emotional investment ang target nila sayo dahil may pakinabang ka kahit nagbibigay ka lang ng 500 pesos na extra o ibinili mo siya ng cellphone o buong kabuhayan showcase. Ang masaya diyan para sa kanila, hindi lang ikaw nagbibigay marami yan. Tiba tiba sila kung ganun sila kagaling sa emotional investment. Alam nila yun. Alam na alam nila. 
 

4. “Wala akong asawa o hiwalay ako”. Eto isa sa mga pinakamalaking kasinungalingan. 99% meron silang asawa or partner, either married or live-in. Yung iba jowa na same sex. May alam ako jowa niya masahista naman ng mga bading. Remember may emotional needs din sila. Meron din silang need na steady. PERO hypergamist sila lahat. Gusto nilang may partner na mapera o mas mataas kesa sa sarili nilang asawa, live-in o jowa. At alam nila na that they can have the benefit of both worlds. Dahil nga sa nature ng trabaho nila, pwede silang short-term and temporary hypergamist without the consequences required of a permanent relationship. Tandaan mo, kung career oriented sila, hindi sila therapist. Sometime in their youth nabuntis sila, at gawa nun, malamang nag asawa rin sila. Or may ka-live in. 
 

5.  “Nagiipon lang ako”. 8 out 10. Hindi totoo. Dahil nga wala sila masyadong skills sa labas ng kanilang trabaho, babalik at babalik sila o kaya mag side job, or wala talagang balak umalis. Malaki nga naman kita. Kung maganda ka, kahit NTP, makakakuha ka ng at least 10k a day. Daig mo manager ng bangko. 
 

6. “Napamahal na ako sayo”. Wag kang tanga. See 1-5.  Nuff said. 

On 7/20/2023 at 2:43 AM, lank said:

You simply got f*cked up! Anyway this reminds me of the phenomenon of donating large sums of goods and money into depressed nations like Haiti and its equivalents. See, if you give them bold resources the tendency for them to devaluate  any of their existing resources will only worsen as it will sure happen, any skills of potential value will be put to halt, then any physical assets they have will turn worthless. All because you gave them fuel to burn for PURE consumption. Paradoxically your intention to help them is actually, in effect, dragging them down because such dependence would leave them dried and useless once you stop providing. This is why pure donation in countries like Haiti is prohibited, now donations are utilized as funds to allow the locals to jumpstart their livelihood towards self sustaining state. 
 

And how are you? Are you still ok bro? Hope all is well.

It’s fairly common in this (under)world. The whole setting is ripe for messianic complexes. Cant blame them though. When you have resources to spare, and you give it to someone who doesn’t have it, you end up overvaluing the spare resources you imparted. That’s okay. May nakinabang. But stop short of calling it noble as the spare you gave had the recipients dignity in return. May hiningi ka pa rin na kapalit. Katawan niya. 
 

@lankCoincidentally, your example of Haiti brings forth the issues of the consequences, the bad ones in particular, of messianic complexes. The aiding of Haiti was plagued by a big scandal that the perpetrators didnt find anything wrong and even called it normal: They were giving preferential aid to demographics who were taken advantage as s*x providers. Mismong chief nakinabang. When asked why, he said he didn’t see it as unethical as they were giving it to him for free. In short, it was cultural. 
 

Messianic complexes. They don’t result to charity. Its not a visa towards heaven.  

Happy hunting. 

On 7/11/2023 at 12:36 AM, lank said:

Totoo yan in fact yung DNA ng sperm remains in their body forever. Kung ano man effect nun? Well we can speculate nga that it might explain the “pair bond” factor which hirap nila ma achieve. Personally I will never advise one to take a therapist as a life long partner. Yes, it might be rude, but even if you ask the theras they would most likely have multiple partners - probably because of pair bonding difficulty.

But if you can pwede mo silang gawin mistress. Depends kung ano kaya mo… spoil them and have fun and do all you crazy fantasy with them. Gusto nila yun trust me 100% basta Just make sure na they are not into illegal drugs and gambling. You can always cut the ties anytime

 

This is fact. The pair bond phenomenon is quite profound for the may-december situations. Si GM na tanders, nakakalimutan na may expiration ang lahat ng katawan kahit mag gamot ka pa. Pag dumating ang panahon na hindi na gumagana si junior, si thera laging may side lover(s) to satisfy themselves because they have been nurtured to be sexually active and indiscriminating. Pati yung psychology nila damay. Alam ito sa clinical psychology circles who studied the subjects related to the flesh trade. Deviant na yung trip nila pero hindi lang halata kasi kasama sa acting yun. Contemporary freudian ito. Pag hindi napunan ni thera yung sexual need niya via personal compensation, nag trigger siya ng psychosis na pwedeng maging deadly sa kanya or sa tanders na kinakasama siya. Hindi lang sa therapists applicable ito. Tingin niyo ba walang sex life si Zsa Zsa nung mahina na si pidol? 
 

Kaya honestly, wag seryosohin. Isa siyang malaking ilusyon. To avoid, make it a deliberate choice to have mulitple therapists as your regular. Keep it simple. Keep hunting. 

9 hours ago, jsgan said:

Silent reader here…

It’s really hard after falling for a thera. Especially if you know she had been in the industry for quite some time.

I want help her and take her out. Despite that I want to help her & her family if a person doesn’t want to be save you can’t help it. Or probably marami na nangako na GM sakanya and d naman tinupad?

Met this Thera last year May 2022. For some reason we did not communicate until November / December of 2022. Then hiatus again until May 2023. (Anniversary lang)?

I personally offered to help her needs w/o anything in return I mean nandun na yung S** but other than that wala coz I also have a family. And I also came from nothing. Somebody just helped me out to have a better life and would like to also extend and do it for her. Tinamaan ata ako… Sometime you meet people at the wrong time. 

Who am I to judge if I fell for her? Ako nga notorious na babaero or Thera Hunter. Pero I feel bad that I had found out she has a boyfriend and yet sinabe nya sakin wala. I think time to let go of this craziness… unfair din sa bf nya… atleast there was a time in my life na nagbakasakali na makatulong. Siguro will retire on doing this nadin despite am still young. Haaay, will meet her one of these days to say my final goodbye. 😢 (she doesn’t know yet ai found out that she has a bf).

Glad I have my resources, also thanks to my thera friends who gave me their names for me to have checked. Dami kasi poser/dummy accounts nowadays.

 

Yours Truly,

James in the Industry J* in Reality 😂

Saklap.

Nangyari na rin sa akin ito. Ang masakit pa nun, alam ng bf na may “ako” at alam na pera-pera lang talaga.

Walang paghuhusga pero bawat GM, lalo na pag regular, may relasyon si thera. Hindi mo masusukat kung gaano ka lalim yung relasyon na yun pero dun lang sa maliit na mundo na yun. Tinatago ni Thera yan siyempre kasi may pakinabang yun at para sa kanila, tinuturing nilang kaibigan kuno (friends with benefits). Hindi nila ibibigay ang detalye ng mga relasyon na yang sabaysabay. Syempre, discretion ang puhunan para tuloy tuloy ang biyaya. Lahat ng beteranong GM dito, alam lahat yan. Tayong mga GM, may mga relasyon sa thera(s) na tayo lang ang may alam. Pero baliw ka kung isipin mong ikaw lang. (Side story: isang eskandalo ang nangyari sa Kemosabe dati kasi may thera dun dati na ang mojo ay makipagrelasyon sa guest na kunwari sila lang ang nakakaalam. Yun pala marami sila. Kaya lampas milyon yung nakuha ni thera sa loob mg anim na buwan. Nakapagpatayo ng bahay eh Hahaha wala na yung thera)

Mautak din naman ang mga thera. Nakaka tanggap sila ng kung anu-anu sa mga GM, mula sa pagkain (kung bago pa), gadgets (cellphone, TV, etc)  hanggang sa pang kabuhayan showcase (kung mayamang matandang, madaling mamatay). Eto pa: alam ng mga kapwa thera nila yan kasi sila mismo me sharing ng impormasyon kung sino ang galante o sino ang buraot. 

Inpayrness, alam din naman ng matandang GM yun. May kakilala ako na thera na binahay lang ng matandang GM dahil byudo na siya at gusto niya lang ng may katabi siya sa gabi. Wala ng pakinabang si junjun kasi almost 80 na. Kung ikaw si thera, payag na. Tatabi ka lang naman sa gabi. Yung pangangalilangan mo naman, mabibigay niya at pwede mo pa rin ituloy ang ibang aktibidades mo para sa extra kita at kaligayahan mo. 

Kaya, at walang panghuhusga, yan ang relayidad ng mga relasyon na ganito.

Meron din na thera na siya mismo, ayaw niya na rin ng seryosong relasyon (pero akting pa rin kasi sayang ang kita) na may economic status ng isang GM kasi nga habang tumatagal sila sa industriya na ito, lumilit din ang espasyo na walang nakakakilala sa kanila. Para sa kanila, yung pwede na lang na pwedeng i-seryoso eh yung mga lalaking ni minsan ay walang kapasidad na maging gm at parokyano ng spa para hindi alam ng lalaki ang nakaraang mundo ng thera at walang pwedeng pagkakataon na malaman. O, hindi na lang sila aasa na magkaroon esposo. 
 

Kaya, happy happy na lang. Wag ng seryoso. Ganun din yung pakinabang. Wala pang komplikasyon. 

On 6/20/2023 at 11:54 AM, Diamond of Touch said:

Very well said🖤

Totoo nman Malaking hamon sa Isang therapist or sa kahit na sinong nagtatrabaho sa flesh industry Ang umalis sa gantong kalakaran 

Goal na lang talaga is makaipon pag aralan Ang mga bagay bagay sa hirap Ng buhay ngayon kahit di mo linya pag aralan mo na Kung may pera na ipon mag negosyo kung gusto mag aral mag aral,utak na lang talaga gagamitin mo. 

But kung may pag ka happy go lucky ka gastos dito gastos doon at iisipin mo na kikitain mo din namin ito kinabukasan jusko manlumo ka.. 

Sa panahon ngayon kasi to be honest prangka na kung prangka kung di utak gagamitin mo at nandto ka sa gantong industriya talo ka.  

Pero syempree kanya kanyang dahilan pa din nman sa likod Ng mga kwento na kung bakit nanatili pa din/bumalik o umalis  sa gantong industriya ,kanya kanyang kwento na maiintindihan na lang Ng kung sino kung sila Yung nasa sitwasyon.

Wag ganun. . Na well said mo ako.  Baka magka crush ako sayo niyan. Mag PM na ba ako?  
 

@darwin2k4 The mother. 

On 6/13/2023 at 3:05 PM, Diamond of Touch said:

I feel bad,

 

Mahirap for him 

 

But di ko kayang iwan Yung industry na toh sa ngayon

Hnd sa marahil eh naging comfort zone ko na hnd eh, hanggat kaya ko magwork sa industry magwowork at magwowork ako ipon dito ipon doon. Dati I tried na umalis Sabi ko pa sa sarili ko di na ko babalik hahah TAs after ilang yrs bumalik ulit ako nah haha  AYoko na Makita Yung sarili ko na babalik ulit TAs kakainin ko ulit Yung sinabi ko,😆 basta mahirap na magsalita Ng tapos  Wala lang gusto ko pag umalis ako, Yung tipong may mas maayos na reason Yung alam ko sa sarili ko na iiwan ko na yung industry.

Nagawa ko na Yun before eh AYoko na isugal ulit HAHAHAH 

Mahirap talaga ang sitwasyon mo (niyo). @Diamond of Touch Sa mga taong matagal na sa industriya, at sa mga matagal na rin na parokyano, alam na alam ang istorya mo at ng marami. Hindi ka masisisi kung hindi ka aalis at kung nakaalis, babalik at babalik din. Ganun naman ang istorya. Masyadong malaking halaga ang kinikita para talikuran na mas gugustuhin na lang maging manhid o lunukin kung ano mang natitirang pang alinlangan.
 

Yung mga pagkakataon na naging matagumpay ang relasyon, yun ang mga bibihirang sitwasyon na nakakaalis ang thera sa industriya na ito. Meron din naman mangilanngilan na nakakaalis kasi pinilit tiisin na magsimula ulit sa wala, mag-aral (kung hindi nakapagtapos), maghanap ng trabahong minimum wage at tiyagain. Pero mahirap siya kasi hindi mo kakampi ang oras. Pag sumapit na ang dapit hapon ng karera bilang therapist, yung edad na rin ay hindi na masyadong nakakakuha ng trabaho na aabot kahit sa kalahati ng kinikita mo bilang thera. Kaya yung marami, bumabalik at nagpapanggap na bata pa kahit halos 40 na. Yung iba nag abroad na domestic helper. Wala na eh. Lumubog na sa kumunoy ng sitwasyon. Sobrang hirap nang bumangon.
 

Yun din ang dahilan, na kahit isa akong parokyano na lampas na ng dalawang dekada, lagi kong sinabi sa thera, lalo na pagbata pa, na walang bukas itong trabaho na ito. Akala mo lang meron kasi bata ka pa at nakikita mo pa yung pumapasok na pera. Pero wala. Kaya habang maaga, gamitin mo yung perang nakukuha mo dito para ituwid pa ang bukas. Hindi basta negosyo kasi wala ka naman alam sa negosyo talaga, ubos lang pera mo. Ibig kong sabihin, gamitin mo para ma secure ang bubong, at gamitin mo yung pera para pagaralan pa ang iba pang trabaho. Dami niyan sa TESDA (barista, welder(in demand sa babae sa abroad), etc.). Dami niyan. Basta para sa sarili mo kasi yun lang ang paraang maayos na bukas.
 

Kaming parokyano, kahit baldado na, babalik at babalik sa bisyo na ito. Maghanap lagi ng bata. Sa mga intsik, importante sa kanila ang batang therapist. Pero kayong mga thera, may time-limit. Yan ang totoong buhay. 

Side Story: Nakita ko ulit ang isa kong dating regular na thera sa isang burol ng common friend. Mid-40’s na siya pero isa siya sa kinahuhumalingan noon ng bago pa lang ang millennium. Makikita mo yung foto niya dati sa chozadate (yung secret), overdose at MTC. 

Yun na nga. Tanda na. Alam mong pustiso na yung ngipin dahil gumagalaw na yung panga pagkatapos magsalita. (Hindi si Baby ito   @darwin2k4 ). Anyway, kita mo yung lungkot at pagsisisi sa mata. Nagtitinda na lang siya ng ulam para sa mga construction workers. Sakit pa nito, inanakan ng tatlo pero tatlo din ama (kilala ko yung isa. Dati niyang guest).  At ang pinakamasakit pa, pinakilala sakin yung panganay na anak na alam mong nasa industriya na rin, kasi sabay banggit ng ina “Tabi ka diyan kay ser. Ma pera yan.” Hanep diba? Isang malaking babala sa bukas, mga kaibigang therapists, ukol sa totoong itsura ng bukas pag nagkataon. 

On 6/10/2023 at 3:35 PM, GreatGirl said:

Been there, done that… and it spells P-R-O-B-L-E-M.

Agree. Lahat ng bagay may balanse. Extreme yung relasyon ng there at guest niya na labas sa trabaho o industriya ng therapist.
 

Sabihin na natin na totoong pagmamahalan ang naramdaman nila. Pero may kapalit yan na hindi basta pera lang. Yung guest ilalagay niya yung reputasyon niya sa pamiliya niya, kamag-anak, propesyun, relihiyon, kaibigan at kung anu-ano pa, sa isang malaking taya na lahat pwede mawala o baka hindi niya mismo makayanan dalhin. 
 

Sa thera naman, paano niya makakayang ipakilala ang sarili niya sa mundo ng guest niya? Paano kung sa reunion, yung tatlo sa kamaganak ng kasintahan, naging regular niya?

Kung ikaw ang thera, maniniwala ka bang dalhin ka niya sa dambana? Wag masyado magpapaniwala. Barya lang ang binibigay nila. Hindi nila kayang ilagay sa alanganin ang sarili nila hanap buhay. Pero tanggapin mo pa rin. Kung malaking negosyante yan, katasan mo ng malaki kasi iiwan ka rin niyan. 
 

Sa madaling salita: PROBLEMA. 
 

Kaya maglaro na lang. Pareho pa kayong maligaya kahit panandalian lang. 

On 6/5/2023 at 12:16 AM, AngGwapo said:

Wow. Thank you for your observation, insights into this topic, and expertise in human behavior likening women to dogs.

Personally, I've been with someone around 10x previously and she made it clear that our relationship was limited to the four corners of the room. Was she acting during the times we were together? She may very well have been.

BUT the boundary was very clear that I was the most important person during our time together. She would even send me pics when she's on vacation and bring pasalubong...

Bravo and hats off to you!

 

Ay pogi sana pero…

1. I didn’t liken women with dogs. Don’t they teach reading comprehension abroad? Or was it just one of those community colleges with the exception of City College (Univ) of New York? 

2. It’s called euphemism mixed with figure of speech. Specifically, its a euphemism that is common locally. You probably went to some rich kid’s school and a two bit community college abroad because you seem to be so unfamiliar with it. 

3. An observation is primary data gathered used in science to establish fact. We’re in MTC. No primary data here except unvalidated claims of being “pogi”. What was presented is locally accepted euphemism that to describe it further is rather vacuous. Unless, of course, the person reading is from a sorry community college, bereft of standards that separate abstract and science. (Heaven forbid you mentored somebody). 
 

4. Nobody questions the perception confined within the 4x4 (?). Nevertheless, the suspension of reality doesn’t exclude the elements around it. In short, anyone is allowed to call it whatever they want. But it doesn’t establishes generality, neither is it fact. Its called logic. Don’t they teach that in community college? Or high school? Sa elementary sa pinas, tinuturo ito. 

5. Sarcasm is better with sophistication. King’s language familiarity is not sophistication. Unless…..

Again, pogi sana pero….wow…

Wala pa akong alam na thera na beterana na hindi magaling umakting. In fact, ganun talaga ang balak: mapabilib ka na ikaw ang pinaka importanteng lakaki sa mundo. Wala akong sinabing wag kang ma-inlab. Buhay mo yan. 

Pero isipin mo na lang: nilalawayan ng ilang aso kada araw ang syota mo. Malamang nalasahan mo na ang mga laway ng iba, hindi mo lang alam na laway nila yun.  

What if the situation was more favorable? 
 

Shitty question, “What if?” is. It leads you to an imaginative state but ends it with torturous thoughts. Then you repeat the cycle the following day.