Julio D

kakaasar na kung pede lang iwan

masipag lang mag reply pag may pera na involved

2 hours ago, Midlurker2005 said:

Yup. As far as my own personal experience (yes na fall ako one time. Ang tanga ko eh), walang therapist ang nagsasabi ng totooo. Kasama sa mojo nila yun gumawa ng kwento ng buhay nila o anuman ang gusto nila sa buhay na naka tuon kung paano ma enganyo ang guest. In fairness, meron din konting sincerity minsan kasi may emotional needs din sila. PERO alam nila na walang bukas ang mga relasyon nila kasi nga alam nila ang implikasyon ng trabaho nila. Kaya kukunin nila kung ano makukuha nila tapos move on. Hindi nila ibubulgar ang totoo nila istorya kasi mismo sila tinatago nila kung ano sila sa sarili nilang kamag-anak or malalapit na tao sa buhay. Kung may layer ang secrecy, ang estima ko ay 3 layers siya. In short, ang tanga tanga mo kung maniwala ka (pati na ako na napaniwala minsan). Ano mga bagay na nakatago?

1. NMILF. Walang aaminin masyado, lalot sa simula na  MILF sila. Kasi nga naman, baba yung customer na papatol. Usually may mga anak sila sa pagkadalaga. Minsan teenager pa lang. 
 

2. Nakatira. Pag nasa Makati ang spa, ang tirahan ay Rizal. Hindi totoo yun. Usually same city or the next city. Ayaw talaga nila lumayo kasi nga luge sa pamasahe. Kahit stay-in, they want to be near pa rin. Unless out from the province talaga. 
 

3. “Buti na lang nakakaintindi ka”. This is a hypocritical but deliberate comment from them. Tandaan mo, yung emotional investment ang target nila sayo dahil may pakinabang ka kahit nagbibigay ka lang ng 500 pesos na extra o ibinili mo siya ng cellphone o buong kabuhayan showcase. Ang masaya diyan para sa kanila, hindi lang ikaw nagbibigay marami yan. Tiba tiba sila kung ganun sila kagaling sa emotional investment. Alam nila yun. Alam na alam nila. 
 

4. “Wala akong asawa o hiwalay ako”. Eto isa sa mga pinakamalaking kasinungalingan. 99% meron silang asawa or partner, either married or live-in. Yung iba jowa na same sex. May alam ako jowa niya masahista naman ng mga bading. Remember may emotional needs din sila. Meron din silang need na steady. PERO hypergamist sila lahat. Gusto nilang may partner na mapera o mas mataas kesa sa sarili nilang asawa, live-in o jowa. At alam nila na that they can have the benefit of both worlds. Dahil nga sa nature ng trabaho nila, pwede silang short-term and temporary hypergamist without the consequences required of a permanent relationship. Tandaan mo, kung career oriented sila, hindi sila therapist. Sometime in their youth nabuntis sila, at gawa nun, malamang nag asawa rin sila. Or may ka-live in. 
 

4. “Nagiipon lang ako”. 8 out 10. Hindi totoo. Dahil nga wala sila masyadong skills sa labas ng kanilang trabaho, babalik at babalik sila o kaya mag side job, or wala talagang balak umalis. Malaki nga naman kita. Kung maganda ka, kahit NTP, makakakuha ka ng at least 10k a day. Daig mo manager ng bangko. 
 

5. “Napamahal na ako sayo”. Wag kang tanga. See 1-4. Nuff said. 

 

 

Meron nga di pa kami nagkikita nagkwekwento na short daw sya sa pabirthday ng anak nya.

14 minutes ago, Mang Ricky said:

Style ng thera na mapa ibig ka. Pero eto ay sa gusto at type lang nilang guy. Lalo na yon guy na my potential maging galante. Pag d ka naman type ni thera eh usual service lang. Pag talagang ayaw sau ni thera,  sabihan kpa na di cya ganun pag nag request ka ng ES.

nadale mo, ego killer din tlaga pag sayo natapat mga don'ts. 

Yung nagbabasa ka ng post nya sa FB tapos puro ganito lang laman

panlalaet sa mga kasama sa trabaho At green jokes

6 hours ago, Dade Murphy said:

I think that is part of their job, to make you fall in love with them so you go back again.

True, papaniwalain ka nila sayo na they are the girl of your dreams. Yung swak lahat at comfortable ka.

kaya mas ok yung mga transactional tlaga

Marunong magtimpla ng kape

damn she gets prettier everytine may pahawi ng buhok

On 6/7/2023 at 10:08 PM, SDMNXIX said:

...to be the only one who cares.

 

Tapos wala namang pakialam sa'yo..?

Fine.

True. not even the slightest worry. unfortunately we just ignore these signs or even giving them an excuse

On 7/25/2023 at 9:42 PM, SDMNXIX said:

..when they only look at your message but not reply

I know karapatan nila magreply or hinde.
I know maliit na bagay lang pero ginagawa kong big deal.

For her it could just be a simple thing, but for you and some people it could make or break their day. then overthinking starts, you feel like you've been taken for granted. how many seconds does it take to reply "I'm a little busy right know talk to you later"

I know transaction lng ultimately ang lahat sa industriyang ito.

This is the part that sucks. Why is it that even in this world of transaction & pretension you still can't get the attention you want?

I know yung mga binigay ko hindi nila hiningi and binigay ko ng kusa.

There is no unconditional kindness in this world. admit or not you expect something in return even just a small "thank you" or more attention when you send a message. 

I know I shouldn't let it get to me and just move on.

You lose yourself trying to hold on to someone who doesn't care about losing you.

I know. I KNOW.

Ako na mali 👍 I know ako yung mali. Sorry.

Most of the time, we care too much and eventaully we become liabilities

But let me tell you this brother, you're still in a better situation than I am.

problem here is that. will things go back the way they were or will there be hesitations or boundaries 

ignored messages

Yes! and ended up regretting it 

I guess a more accurate answer is. Not yet, until the coast is clear

you will abandon almost all your morals, standards as well beliefs for someone you love

finally marrying your dream girl

Her slow recovery

There are lots of ways to determine this. But lets keep it simple for now. 

you will choose her over someone who’s prettier, younger, smarter, richer etc. 

I only avoid women who did something wrong to me. Her lifestyle, work or vices are none of my business. I do have preference but that does not mean i will avoid you.

Yes! For two straight years I begged someone to greet me on my birthday.

for a woman to stay? Nope. I will always put her hapiness over mine. Begging someon to stay will just cause headaches and lead to more problems. 

They say that you'll keep forgiving someone you love until you hate them.

In the first place, why would I cheat on someone I don't want to lose.. with someone I don't want to keep.

Me. Cause I'm a dlck.

There are a lot of words that will hurt people, especially if they lead to lies and deception.

Someone who has good features but never or rarely exposes them, low maintenance, quiet, street smart does not smoke or drink, and the list goes on.

Almost 3 years ago