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In PH, probably Honda is better than Toyota due to performance and power. But overall Toyota is generally better due to known reliability, quality, and after sales support.

Also, I am of the opinion in terms of performance and quality, Subaru will beat Honda

Audi E Tron, BMW iX, or Tesla Model S to name a few...alll electric car as this is a trend in motoring

Ultimately - Either Lamborghini Aventador or Ferrari 488

I think you can also try El Union Cafe in San Juan, La union (in Urbiztondo. They serve good coffee and I heard their barrista is a competition winner

Can someone recommend a third wave coffee shops? I only know UCC, Single Origin, and Yardstick

On 4/23/2023 at 11:54 PM, darkmaster said:

 

Yung may-ari ng Anito naging born again tapos iniba na nya ang branding. Ginawa na nyang pangalan ay "Couples" mga legit na mag-asawa ang pwedeng mag check-in at kailangan magpakita ng marriage certificate. Yan ang huling balita ko sa Anito Lodge.

Yung Victoria Court pinaghatian ng magkapatid na Angie King at Aticus King. Yuing kay Angie mga south na victoria courts (except las pinas branch) at yung kay Aticus ay yung north victoria courts. After magbago isip ni Angie na hindi ipasara yung mga branches nya, nirebrand nya at naging Hotel Ava.

Interesting, thanks. It seems that is a fierce competitor of VC nowadays

Na meron na siyang partner before...but it should not be an issue as long I love and care my gf

I usually go to OPMs - E heads, Moonstar, Moira...

A lot of opinions have been shared on the random question and those were all enriching, thank you all. At least there is one key lesson I learned from all these exchanges - If it makes you happy go for it with a paradigm shift as it requires a lot of love, understanding, patience, sacrifices, and pain endurance plus the financial burden with this kind of relationship. Otherwise, avoid it at ALL 

On the lighter side, in my less than 5 months as a GM/MTC member,  I was able to try 2 MGTs from 2 different spas. All I can say is "wow!",  they have lived up to their title - sexy, pretty, and attractive. However, the spa room is a bit dark or dim lighted at best, so it is really hard to see and ascertain what I had described above as an MGT. Be that as it may, I enjoyed every bit of what I saw, felt, touched, heard, tasted, smelled, and experienced😊 I would like to repeat it more often but it flattens the wallet, the services of an MGT is pricey. Masarap ulit ulitin ngunit nakakabutas ng bulsa! Hahaha

On 4/22/2023 at 12:24 AM, Kyline of Mira Comm said:

Hindi kaya ! hahahahahha.. .ang Sad ! 

Is this correct, you have not had sex for a month? Curious lang naman

What happened to Anito? VC and Anito were the famous in early 2000

Try Kabsat Resto in San Juan La Union. It is a good place to dine and have some drinks

Awesome hotel is a great place to stay, alternately, Kahuna is good option too. However, these hotels/resorts are pricey though

Instinct would tell you. If you notice something has changed from the way your partner usually treats you e.g. he/she used to come home on time then suddenly he/she has a lot of excuse of not going home on time, or now he/she is now short fused from the the usual patient individual then those are clear red flags

Possible but not healthy

Face then evetually body - boobs, butt, legs

On 4/17/2023 at 12:41 PM, handsomebob said:

Yes bro, when entering in a relationship with a single mom, package deal palagi yan and maybe not early on but pagtagal tagal, you will definitely support that woman's child or children if multiple kids...

so, it's best not to get involve with a single mom, therapist or otherwise!

Agree. I think it is prudent not to enter into relationship with a Thera, moreso a Thera mom.

On 4/17/2023 at 12:41 PM, Julio D said:

This one is scary, especially if the GM is good looking, you can feel this whenever you are chatting. body language, her reaction to your stories, shut her down immediately if you only see her as a friend. 

I actually lied to a thera last 2017 to prevent this, showed her a picture of someone i met in 2012 and plans to pursue her even if she has a daughter. she faked a smile and was quiet while waiting for her ride back. 

 

Lucky for that GM that his thera would to be attracted to him purely on good looks. However, based on the opinion/comments given, the likelihood of having a thera like/love you is proportional to the thickness of your wallet. Although there could be few exceptions.

The spa is a wrong place to find true love, I sincerely hope those who found it would be sustained and long lasting.

IMHO only

Virginity is important but it is not a barometer if the relationship last. It boils down to chemistry, love, and compatibility

23 hours ago, Magdaleno Lucban said:

You have to play it by ear as the saying goes. This is not your usual girl-boy liked each other and fell in love. Bear in mind that you do not have a normal relationship here. It is a relationship that started in the cubicle of your spa. This kind of relationship does not go out of the cubicle. It remains in the cubicle because the most that GMs could offer a thera is to make her a querida only. Most GMs are also married or in a relationship. For one thing, a thera knows she'll get nothing from a married GM other than his money. She usually pretends she is in "love" with GM just to make him return to the spa for her more often. 

Meantime, if you really like or love her so much, and you have no issues, keep on getting her as your thera. Don't get any other thera from that spa. Wait for her if she is ready to bring the relationship outside of the cubicle. For example, she will be the one to invite you to meet on her day off. And this invitation is not necessarily for sex in some motel. It will be a family type of outing with you. Of course, you can try to invite her out but if your thera invites you to go out is a give away she likes you. Another giveaway is your thera introduces you to family members. Perhaps even invite you to family occasions like birthdays and anniversaries. 

No condom during sex, sometimes not accepting tip/free sex, meeting out for sex only, are not indicators your thera is in love with a GM.

Thank you for the reply. It is insightful and spot on.

I am new with MTC and browsing though the pages has been enriching experience for me.  There are myriad of topics to choose from and the comments from the experienced MTC members have been enlightening. 

It is just unfortunate though that MTC admin has placed a limit to how many I can post on a daily basis. Furhermore, I still cannot access the Spa Forum - this is the main reason why I am here though. Good thing a colleague of mine gave me advise on which spas should I go to - e.g. Daje, Kyoto, Tokyo, Golden etc. I have already the contact details of those spas and hence I was able to book a session with one of the spas mentioned. 

As a follow-up question, I hope someone is patient enough to answer my querries. I heard that Theras working in this industry are predominantly with kid/s aka MILF. They post/present themselves as Non MILF but in reality aroud 60 to 70% of those posting as non MILF are MILFs (no offense meant to Theras but rather just  presenting data). I was able to read one of the research article (from a reputable NGO) on this industry, that around 80% of those who went into this industry is with the intent of providing for their offspring/s and/or to getting out of poverty. So my question goes this way...Does that mean that the GM is obliged to provide for the Thera's son or daughter as soon as the Thera and GM enter into relationship? Or is it on a case to case basis? 

Btw, thanks too to those who commented on this topic, all of them are equally insighful.

Randon question. How do you know if a Thera is already in love with her regular GM? It is quite difficult to discern since what they do is for them to appear as if they like/love the GM because they are paid for it

On 1/4/2023 at 12:03 AM, Exec said:

 

Months ago,  I did put some effort in finding articles about relationships with sex workers.  Those articles are rare specially if written in the perspective of a man married to or living with a woman sex worker.  If you look deep enough,  you'll find a few.

 

In the modernized parts of the West and NA where prostitution is already decriminalized,  many such relationships have succeeded.  It is difficult in the Philippines as the prejudice here is still quite strong.  It is not unusual that many will look down a sex worker more so her profession.  Inevitably,  the society will mature and it is good to be on the side of modernity.

Agree, there is a stigma attached if a person works in prostitution industry. The other reason though is that it is considered as human trafficking in our law so this furthers the argument to decriminalize it. Another complication is that we are predominantly Christian hence it will be an uphill climb to achieve such goal

To me, prostitution is just a profession like Engineers, Doctor, Exec, etc. In fact decrimilizing it would help curb the spread of STIs as appropriate control and support will be in place. IMHO

I truly wish that any GM to Thera relationship will be successful if it was meant to be and a sincere relationship

On 12/19/2022 at 12:52 AM, Exec said:

I am writing this not to seek advice but to share to those who might still be trying to find answers.

 

She’s a veteran, disciplined, single and endowed with top tier beauty both outside and inside -  good heart, above average height, slim, very fair complexion, pretty face, etc.  My thera GF lives less than ten-minute drive from me.  Her work discipline accumulated her a few properties which she is leasing and producing just enough passive income to support her parents and brothers.

 

I am in my early 50’s,  an executive of concurrent corporations.  Hindi ako guwapo pero hindi naman pangit -  just ordinary.  I’m in good shape because my work requires me to be physically active. My married life is blessed and happy.  I was loyal to my wife for many years and am not prolific in the flesh trade.

 

When I first availed my thera GF last Apr,  the previous one was decades ago when I worked overseas.  After much thought,  I decided to let loose of my feelings and our relationship progressed in recent months.  We see each other almost daily occasionally more than once.  The decision required considerable effort to find the answers to difficult questions.   The actual task of carrying out with the relationship came with heart aches as I rewired my mindset.

 

There are very few articles about relationships with sex workers.  This thread is a treasure and I wish I’ve found it earlier. So here is my share.

 

If a GM decides to pursue this kind of relationship,  then the GM must embrace the mindset that what the thera does is just work.  It is simply society’s prejudice that labels it dirty.  Minsan marangal ang tingin natin sa mga politiko pero alam natin na karamihan sa kanila ay kawatan.  When a GM needs to release,  the thera is there to offer the service for a fee within the bounds of her rules.  Even GFE can be purchased so don’t fool yourself that it is not fakery.

To avoid grief,  both the GM and thera must carefully delineate between work and personal.  In the West/NA,  personal starts when the hooker goes for a date without a fee.

 

Most of them started at the poorest of conditions.  The home of my GF was subject to squatter demolition in the long past.  When a thera gets to a relatively comfortable level,  she can be earning much more than an average manager in a corporation.  Theras know they are earning more than some of their clients.  Do not be surprised if you find a thera not wanting to be saved.  At this point,  she would have already acquired the trait of being independent.

 

Many theras do not know much about any other work likely because of limited education and lack of training.  My GF really tried and was swindled a few times -  eSabong, pautang, etc.  She has purchased another vacant lot and aims to build apartments there.  Now going to her dawn,  she has set herself to retire in just a few years with that little project as an end goal.  She’s independent and won’t accept money from me.  She knows it is within her means to earn it with her ‘work’.

 

Many of her friends did not succeed in the profession – got hooked with the wrong guy, drugs, hosto, casino, etc.  She’s relatively well off compared to her peers mainly due to her discipline and being a hard worker.  Be that as it may,  I concluded that even the better thera does not come to that high point without being severely scarred -  as in battle scars.

 

She has developed addiction to solitude.  She has loved several times and failed.  When we talk about relationships,  she would always brag – ‘been there,  done that’.  I am the amateur in those discussions.  She has a good heart and loved faithfully in the past.  Her last break up was in 2018,  she found out that her GM BF lied of being a married.  It took severe depression and two years with most nights in tears for her to move on.    I can still see telltale signs of that past.  She still has occasional bouts of depression.  There are also signs that she is now a man hater and perhaps I am the luckiest to have penetrated her barrier of distrust.

 

Why do I do this.  I loved my wife faithfully for two decades.  I thought that love was constant,  but the reality is the feelings fade in time.  When I crossed path with my thera GF,  I ‘really felt in love’ again and,  boy,  I was missing so huge.  This is like how it truly felt in my 20’s.  Love songs which I ignored for years has now acquired new meaning for me.  The sun shines differently now and in full colors.  It is grace.  It is priceless.  The least I can do is pay it back by truly loving her.

 

She is resigned to the notion she will grow old single and alone.  I always disagree with her.  She claims she has really prayed to God for me to arrive ‘kaya lang may sabit ang dumating’ -  i.e.,  married.  She is in no illusion that she’ll still find a mature and kind hearted bachelor,  thus her ‘will grow old single and alone’ disposition.  I promised to her that that will not happen because I intend to be there for her for life.  That is, unless she finds a better man than I am -  it will hurt bad but I will let go.  For now,  we try to enjoy each other. She is toying with the notion of bearing a child a few years from now.

Good read! Let us wait for the next chapter in the hope that will also be successful

I am new in MTC and I am reading this thread...I am NOT yet allowed to view the list of Spa though.

It appears that a lot of GMs fall for a Thera...but bottomline, it is not advisable and should be avoided at all.  That is my inferenece, I hope I am right