rakinishu

..she was gonna be bringing a friend with her, instead of objecting i said "Cool, as long as she doesn't mind seeing us smoochin'..ü" She said "Crazy! haha! She won't". And we did later on, that's on a first date.

..Avoid the panget. Kasi kahit ano pa ugali n'yan mababago naman.. pero itsura hindi na.. lol!

.."i love you" din sa akin..

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To answer the question the quickest I ever sealed the deal is 10 minutes. It was at a bar in Nakpil (before Nakpil became the homosexual haven it is now) this girl rubbed her tits on my back at the bar, I turned around and asked her if she wanted to do the front now. A few laughs later, I was getting blown in the toilet. It helped that she was drunk and that she was a total slut too.

...i liked the "I turned around and asked her if she wanted to do the front now" line. additional details please.. thanks.

LOL @ me being a master

 

I'm definitely not master yet but here's some tips.

 

1) buy nice clothes. don't dress metrosexually, but have a sense of style. girls don't like men who just throws on anything they see. If you have no idea of what good looks like read men's mags, FHM, GQ, Maxim. Take a girl with you when you go clothes shopping. Get a decent haircut, trim your nosehair, make sure you have 2 eyebrows. Everything is in the details.

 

2) read mothaf*cka! read anything and everything. This gives you ammo when you're chatting a girl up. It's really lame when the only things that you can talk about is your level in Ragnarok or how often you play pangya.

 

3) Practice. Practice starting conversations with random strangers, security guards, cab drivers, the lady that sells you cigarettes, etc. This removes your fear of talking to people you've just met, and gets you comfortable talking to absolute strangers.

 

4) Be confident. I cannot stress this enough. Swing your arms when you walk. Puff your chest out, straighten those shoulders. Nothing turns a woman on than confidence.

 

5) DO NOT USE A LINE. No matter how original or funny you think your line is, it's still lame. a simple hi, or a compliment would do nicely. Using lines reek of desperation, women don't like desperate.

 

6) Do not try to be funny if you're not. Seriously.

 

7) Brush your teeth, and carry around tic tacs.

 

I have more but I'm too lazy to type it all out. Anyway that should be enough.

 

As for closing, I leave that up to you.

 

To answer the question the quickest I ever sealed the deal is 10 minutes. It was at a bar in Nakpil (before Nakpil became the homosexual haven it is now) this girl rubbed her tits on my back at the bar, I turned around and asked her if she wanted to do the front now. A few laughs later, I was getting blown in the toilet. It helped that she was drunk and that she was a total slut too.

..makes sense.

..*after some real good conversation and it's 'closing time'* ..."how do we continue this conversation?"

and this one I came up with recently, and she gave me her number without me asking for it..

"what? taga ***** ka? Du'n din ako before I moved to ****.. hmn.. I'm afraid *** is out of my telepathic coverage area.. can't reach you there.. lol!" -

..average seven hours.

"..there's some imbalance.. fix it."

...enjoy!

Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS

You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy, and she's such a Heartless Bitch for dumping him."

I get letters from self-professed Nice Guys, complaining that women must WANT to be treated like s@%t, because THEY, the "Nice Guy" have failed repeatedly in relationships. This is akin to the false logic that "Whales are mammals. Whales live in the sea. Therefore, all mammals live in the sea."

If you have one bad relationship after another, the only common denominator is YOU. Think about it.

What's wrong with Nice Guys? The biggest problem is that most Nice Guys are hideously insecure. They are so anxious to be liked and loved that they do things for other people to gain acceptance and attention, rather than for the simply pleasure of giving. You never know if a Nice Guy really likes you for who you are, or if he has glommed onto you out of desperation because you actually paid some kind of attention to him.

Nice Guys exude insecurity -- a big red target for the predators of the world. There are women out there who are "users" -- just looking for a sucker to take advantage of. Users home-in on "Nice Guys", stroke their egos, take them for a ride, add a notch to their belts, and move on. It's no wonder so many Nice Guys complain about women being horrible, when the so often the kind of woman that gets attracted to them is the lowest form of life...

Self-confident, caring, decent-hearted women find "Nice Guys" to be too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure.

Nice Guys go overboard. They bring roses to a "lets get together for coffee" date. They try to buy her affections with presents and fancy things. They think they know about romance, but their timing is all wrong, and they either come-on too strong, too hard and too fast, OR, they are so shy and unassertive, that they hang around pretending to be "friends", in the hope that somehow, someway, they will get the courage up to ask her out for a "date".

They are so desperate to please that they put aside their own needs, and place the object of their desire on a pedestal. Instead of appreciating her, they worship her. We are only human, and pedestals are narrow, confining places to be -- not to mention the fact that we tend to fall off of them.

They cling to her, and want to be "one" with her for fear that if she is out of sight, she may disappear or become attracted to someone else. A Nice Guy often has trouble with emotional intimacy, because he believes that if she learns about the REAL person inside, she will no longer love him.

Nice Guys are always asking HER to make the decisions. They think it's being equitable, but it puts an unfair burden of responsibility on her, and gives him the opportunity to blame her if the decision was an unwise one.

Nice Guys rarely speak up when something bothers them, and rarely state clearly what it is they want, need and expect. They fear that any kind of conflict might spell the end of the relationship. Instead of comprimising and negotiating, they repeatedly "give in". When she doesn't appreciate their sacrifice, they will complain that, "Everything I did, I did for her.", as if this somehow elevates them to the status of martyrs. A woman doesn't want a martyr. She wants an equal, caring, adult partner.

Nice Guys think that they will never meet anyone as special as she is. They use their adoration as a foundation for claiming that "no one will ever love her as much as I do." Instead of being a profound statement of their devotion, this is a subtle, but nasty insult. It is akin to saying to her: "You are a difficult person, and only *I* can ever truly love you, so be thankful I'm here."

The nice guy -needs- to believe that he is the best person for the object of his desires, because otherwise his insecurities will overrun him with jealousies and fear. The truth of the matter is that there are many people out there who can be a good match for her. We rarely stop loving people we truly care about. Even if we no longer continue the relationship, the feelings will continue... But love isn't mutually exclusive. We can (and do) love many people in our lives, and romantic love is really no different. Though he may love her immensely, there will likely be other people who have loved her just as much in her past, and will love her just as much in the future. The irony of it all is: "Who would want to go out with someone who was inherintly unlovable anyways?"

More than loving the woman in his life, a Nice Guy NEEDS her. "She is my Life, my only source of happiness..." YECH! What kind of a burden is that to place on her? That SHE has to be responsible for YOUR happiness? Get a grip!

Another mistake Nice Guys make is to go after "hard luck" cases. They deliberately pick women with neuroses, problems, and personality disorders, because Nice Guys are "helpers". A Nice Guy thinks that by "helping" this woman, it will make him a better, more lovable person. He thinks it will give him a sense of accomplishment, and that she will appreciate and love him more, for all his efforts and sacrifice. He is usually disappointed by the results.

This ultimately boils down to the fact that Nice Guys don't like themselves. Is it any wonder women don't like them? In order to truly love someone else, you must first love yourself. Too often Nice Guys mistake obsession for "love".

Get this Guys: INSECURITY ISN'T SEXY. IT'S A TURNOFF.

You don't have to be an ego-inflated, arrogant jerk. You just have to LIKE yourself. You have to know what you want out of life, and go after it. Only then will you be attractive to the kind of woman with whom a long-term relationship is possible.

I tell her fortune ...

..ako palm reading if the situation permits.. then i tell her bullshit truism that would apply kahit kanino..

..Dan Brown Books.. Deception Point and Digital Fortress.

dear me,

pasensya na kung minsan nadi-disappoint kita sa mga bulakbol ko. You're only human.

after reading my previous post on this thread, i can't help but smile. but still. . pak dem!.. haha!

love

rakinishu

hoy!

'Wag ka ngang aarte arte jan! well hindi ako gagaya sa mga nagpapacute sa'yo.

magsama-sama kayo!

..hay, wala talaga ako sa mood ngayong oras na 'to.

Bahay Yugyugan - Francism 'tas yuyugyugin namin yung kubo na pinag iinuman namin.. tsaka yung yugyugan na ng P.O.T.

..nababadtrip.

pudadeng malapit na birthday mo, hindi ko alam kung igi-grit pa kita or just leave you alone like the past 363 days.

saturated na ako. im moving on to greener pastures. magyabangan kayo jan hanggang gusto n'yo. kung kayo lang din makakasama ko ayos lang lumipat, mas magiging masaya ako dun (i thingk), i'll just have to take the risk...

okay lang. disappointed with few things. but nothing serious.

..nababadtrip dahil inaantok

..Magician's Nephew and the Xanth Series..

..I would like to believe that it's really a matter of how the guy makes the girl feel.

sus...tinatanung pa ba to...ofcourse lot and lots of money and one hell of a car..................this combination makes everybody( even someone who looks like oyo boy) LOOKS LIKE TOM CRUISE :evil:

:mtc:

..hehe, kapangit na bata nga naman eh gumuguwapo.

..yung mga kwento ng kwento ng problema nila. Mga drama queen.

..nalula ako sa dami ng thread.