Asteria of Geisha

48 minutes ago, simonnag said:

Not sure if you read the post carefully because you sound as if you are reacting just to listen to your voice. (i.e. “nilalahat”? That means “generalized”. Kaya nga nilagyan ng ratio para hindi generalized). 
 

The last statement shows you’re conflicted. Im sorry to hear that. But nobody is forcing you to suck somebody’s dick (do you?) for some easy money. We can list down all of the reasons why you do what you do. You are entitled to that. But you can’t get away from the consequences of your job. That comes with the territory. You’re in the flesh trade. Just live with the bad and the good. Enjoy it even. You can rationalize all you want but it is what it is.
 

But if you’re conflicted (you are), then get out of it. Get a normal job. Study some more. Work your way up to a fabulous salary without giving somebody (or hundreds of people) a hand job. Or at least fuck somebody in return for a director level job. Those are options too.
 

But if you cant do those, then stick with what you know. Just don't feel conflicted that much. Just be part of the hypothetical 70%. Its okay. After all, it’s your hand, mouth and vagina. You can do whatever you want with them. Just don’t protest too much. Its ridiculous .  
 

I wont further elaborate. This topic is on a downhill path to a dimwitted exchange. 

Hindi mo rin po ba sir alam yung word na "Wag mong lahatin ng thera"

You're the one who sounded ridiculous....

And yes binabasa ko pong maige yung nakasulat....

Kaya sana oaki basa rin po ng maige at paki intindi nyo rin po yung mga naunang sinabe ko.... 

Pasensya na sir hindi kase ako katulad mo na my natapos

At oo tama ka rin na walang nag force smen gawin yung mga sinasabe mo... pero hindi madali para smen yun.... 

Oo my choice kameng umalis dto pero mas pinili namen mag stay..

..kase nga po eto yung way na mas mapapabilis pag iipon namen para sa familya namen....

At hindi rin po ba pwedeng ipagtanggol ko yung ibang kapwa ko thera sa mga taong mataas ang tingin sa sarili kumpara samen......

18 hours ago, simonnag said:

Untrue.

The sad or sob stories about Thera origins are stereotypical stories and in current circles, almost close to a myth. If I can make an unscientific estimate of the ratio of theras who did it due to poverty and those who are doing it for other reasons, it will be 70-30, in favor of the latter.

In the late 90’s, if you’re familiar with Amorsolo St, majority of the parked cars at night were not owned by clients but the GROs/Prostitutes (be intellectually honest. It doesn’t matter whether its a hand or a vagina) worked in the Jap bars.

Majority of prostitutes since the 90’s to the present are actually not from below the poverty line. They do it because of the money and the money is really good. They can earn an equivalent salary of a director or AVP level Employee without the withholding tax.  Bank managers wont hold water with their income. 

Why the phenomenon? Its the social consequence of the liberal sex movement of the 70’s. Sex was sold as a commodity. 
 

For the girls ( or boys), its just sex for them and easy money. Why study or work hard the  normal way when you can earn in an hour the weekly take of a lowly clerk? Why study so much for only a promise of a good life when you can satisfy even your luxurious needs in a day’s set of HJ/BJ/ATW work? Why work hard for that new sneaker when you can enjoy getting a blowjob from a gay benefactor and get two pairs of the new Jordans? 
 

So let me reiterate, NEVER think you are saving them. Your ego’s messianic tendencies are misplaced. 

For the girl(s) who are offended: Thou protest too much. Live with it. Every decision has consequences. You chose to be in this world so live with the thought that stories (and reputations) hold more weight (and have legs) than the truth. Its a dirty world, remember. Nothing noble about it. Admirable, maybe but its skin deep. 

Kaya nga po wag nyo lahatin ng mga thera... hindi lahat ng thera na nasa gantong industry ay para lang sa luho nila... karamihan prin is for the family tama ka mas madaling kumita sa way namen pero hindi lahat kame pang luho o kamprichuhan lang..yung iba smen mas piniling pumasok sa ganto dahil bukod sa easy money mas madali kameng makakaipon para sa future ng mga mahal namen at sa mga pangarap namen para sa family namen.... 

..at kung yung ibang gm at ibang tao madali lng trabaho namen.... 

..nagkakamali po kau... hindi po ganun kadalimg maging spakulera o prostitute hindi ganun ka simpleng makipag halikan sa kung sino sino lang.... pero tiniis namen dahil sa pera dahil easy money...kaya hindi lahat ng thera o prostitute ginagawa to para lng sa pan sarili nila.... kaya wag mo sanang lahatin...

1 hour ago, Christian.Grey said:

Tama ka dyan lalo na ang thera kasing ganda mo dapat nirerespeto. Meron din naman naging happy ending between thera and GM outside of spa industry. 

Tama din po kau sir.... my friend akong thera na my karelasyong gm 

Until now sila parin ng gm

Pero yung friend ko 2twice a week pumapasok prin ng spa...

Pero happy sila kahit pumapasok prin sya paminsan minsan....

1 hour ago, AngGwapo said:

I agree with @Summer of Belle Ame

We are all human beings. In fact, in other countries, it is very normal to have relationships regardless of what people do, their SEC levels in society, race, religion, beliefs, or anything for that matter. Huwag lang ibang species.

Your and others' opinion are yours though. God also gave us the ability to discern, think for ourselves, and act on what we hold dear @Howdy Doody.

Have a good afternoon!

Thanks boss

The best ka talaga 💖 💓 😍 

51 minutes ago, Magdaleno Lucban said:

I visit my thera to obtain the usual service from a spa. Carefully avoiding sex. In one of my visits, I had sex with her although I did not plan for it and I did not ask my thera. She suggested. In my subsequent visits, we sometimes have sex if my thera wanted, otherwise, it was the usual HJ.

Now I am friends with her and her whole family. I am godfather to her daughter. I attend birthdays and anniversaries celebrated by members of the family. During the pandemic She has stopped working in the spa. She tried to come back into the spa scene but her live-in partner forbade her from working in the spa. She gifted me with her naked self ready to give me sex. Real GFE sex on my birthday last year. The best birthday celeb I ever had.

I celebrated Christmas and New Year with her family. I am not expecting any sex episode with her as there has been no declaration of love between us. 

And so, yes, @Summer of Belle Ame, my mga thera din na totoong nagmamahal ng client nila. Although my thera's pagmamahal to this client is of a different kind from the real relationship.

My client po ako na same sa inyo.... nothing happened between me and him at 1st puro standard lang hanggang sa naging parang bestfriend kame kilala sya ng family ko...magaan lng loob namen sa isat isa lalo na pag my problema sya...ako lagi nya tinatawagan naging sandalan namen isat isa...kaya ngaun happy ako para sa kanya kase finally naka tagpo na sya ng taong totoong magpapasaya sa kanya

On 5/2/2022 at 11:00 PM, mosy_24 said:

This is my own opinion lang...

We all know na yung mga thera na nasa ganitong industriya hindi rin naman nila ginusto mapunta sa ganitong trabaho e ito lang ang alam nilang paraan para makatulong sa pamilya o may mailagay sa hapagkainan sa araw araw pero wag sana natin gawin dahilan yun para hindi sila respetuhin bilamg isang babae. Tao lang sila na deserve ng pagmamahal at respeto.

Nice one boss

Ganda po ng message nyo

11 hours ago, Howdy Doody said:

Who can anyone even think of falling in love with a theraphist, I shrudder just thinking about their body counts.

Kukuha ka lang na i po "pokpok" mo sa ulo mo sa taas at baba.

Wag nyo naman po sanang lahatin na i degrade yung mga thera... hindi porket ganto mga work namen na napili ibaba nyo na kame sobra..... my mga thera din na totoong nagmamahal ng client nila...at my mga client din naman na ng gagamet at nagpapa fall sa mga thera para lng makalibre at pag sawa na sila iiwan nalang din nila.... pero hindi ko nilalahat ng client karamihan kaya sana wag nyo ring lahatin mga thera....

On 3/10/2022 at 9:33 PM, KID FIGHTER said:

 

Thanks so much Ms. @Alice of G Dragon for your honesty and the courage to air out your sentiment. Two of my uncles, kasama na yung former Colonel sa Marines, nag-asawa ng MILF. Yung isa nandun sa Houston, TX yun wife nya is a divorcee meron na po 2 kids from 2 different men. Sila mismo merong 2 kids. Total of 4 kids sila ngayon. First wife ng tito ko yun. Parehong meron baby from previous relationships yung wife nila. Hindi thera, pero meron anak. Pareho lang yun para sakin. Mas bilib at hanga pa nga ako sayo Ms. @Alice of G Dragon kasi you're so strong and determined. Not many ladies are like you. And dami diyan nagpalaglag kagad ng baby. Swerte masyado yun baby mo coz pinaglaban mo siya. You treat her/him like your life. 

Dami kong kilalang female doctors sa St. Luke's at The Medical City (TMC) nag wish na merong anak. May pera sila. Mataas pinag aralan. Pero walang anak.

Wish that soon a guy with a pure and loving heart will eventually find you Ms. Alice. Believe me, marami sila. Di mo pa lang nakikilala. But soon, darating din yun sa tamang panahon. Just keep your faith alive.☺🙏👍👍👍

 

Thank you so much po sir sa napakagandang message nyo.... 😊 💖 ☺ 

On 3/10/2022 at 9:43 PM, FF said:

@Alice of G Dragon panoorin mo ung movie na pretty woman .

kung julia roberts ka baka may richard gere na darating ka sa buhay mo.

Hahahaha sige po sir panoorin ko po yun...salamat

15 minutes ago, FF said:

if you weren't worth his love do you think he is worthy of your life ? You have a kid to take care of. Just focus on him  and on yourself. Kapit po and hope always ...

Yan na nga po sir ginagawa ko now focus kay baby.....

Pero syempre hoping pring na someday baka mabuo kame uli... 

On 5/30/2014 at 2:16 AM, chaos122512 said:

 

 

We always tend to think that people who wanted to commit suicide because of love are paranoid, weak, dangerous psychopaths that can't continue to live after being left... I had a friend once, and he was cheated on by his gf for 6yrs... imagine, 6yrs all went down the drain, and he was really intent on suicide... I knew I couldn't stop him, and I knew he was not like the others that were just needing attention. I talked to him and i asked him why he wanted to do it, why he felt so hopeless as to end his life... He looked at me and said something in the tune of: "Pare, do you think I'm really that stupid and desperate??? common sense pre, why would I k*ll myself to be with someone alive?? I'm doing it not because I can't live without her,nor because I want her back, coz frankly, I don't want a cheater in my life. I want to do it because I want her to have a sense that she's important, and she can overcome being a cheater... "

 

As the weeks passed, We both learned that the girl replaced her with a single dad who was her high school friend. I asked him again if he was going to push through with his plans. He said not anymore because after finding out that the girl cheated on him for someone who already has a child, it had proven to him that he was the stupid one, trying to see the girl in a light more than what the girl was really worth... It proved to him that the girl was only after money and nothing else...

 

Humaba na 'to... wala lang, i just wanted to share this experience... My personal thought of the matter is that it really depends on the person and the situation. Our heroes knew they were headed for death yet they continued to press on and they got thier deaths, we don't call them suicidal psychopaths, but rather, we call them martyrs... I think if one will take his own life for his personal reasons based on negativity (fear, loneliness, despair) then i think that is cowardice... but if one is willing to take his own life out of joy and service, then we are really in no position to judge them. just my two cents

Relate much sa friend mo boss...

When i tried to kill my self... not because I want my ex back.... but i want him to realize all the pain and my suffering dahil sa pagmamahal ko sa kanya... kahit naging honest at sobrang loyal ako sa kanya.... na wala na kong ibang sinusunod kundi lahat ng gusto nya... lahat ng ayaw nya diko ginagawa.... nasa kabila ng pag aalaga at pagtitiis ko sa pagtrato nyang di makatao sken... napili ko prin syang mahalin.... gusto kong ma realize nya lahat ng ginawa nyang kamalian sken once i die.... 

But thanks god nrin kahit papano nabuhay pa naman ako... 

Yun nga lang buhay nga ako... pero parang nawala na puso ko.... dahil diko na kayang magmahal uli ng iba... unless babalik sya smen ng anak namen.... 

Well sad to say but im one of those suicidal person... but im not obsessed... 

Nagkaroon lang ako ng matinding depression dahil kay ex.. yung father ng baby ko..

Hirap lang explain bakit ko ginawa... pero siguro dahil narin sa sobrang dame na ng sakit at hirap ng pinagdaan ko kay ex.. and still diko matanggal bakit paulit ulit nya kong niloloko at bakit paulit ulit ko syang tinatanggap everytime na bumabalik sya sken... kahit pa ginagawa nya kong sand bag.... 

Siguro kase kaya patuloy ko syang tinatanggap kase pinanghahawakan ko yung pangko nyang family sken... na wala ako.... 

Kaya hirap na hirap akong i let go sya dahil sa anak namen... dahil gusto ko buo family namen... kaso wala prin pala talaga.... 

But buti nalang naka recover na ko sa pain and na tanggap kona na dina talaga sya magbabago...

And maging happy nalang uli kasama anak ko... 

But still hoping na bumalik prin sya... willing to wait naman kame ng anak nya kahit abutin pa ng 10years...

Diko na kwento buong details ng reason bkit ako nag suicide.... baka manalo ako ng awards hehehe pang mmk kase ang datingan

Makasamang tumanda yung taong nangako sau ng walang iwanan..tas sa mountain nakatira 😔😔😔

1 minute ago, Eric Draven said:

You are open to share your insights here para naman mabigyan mo ng justice ang mga single mom na katulad mo.

Thank you boss...

 Sana wag nyo nmang i judge lahat ng single mom... 😅 😢 

Mahal prin kita... kahit pinagpalit mko... 

On 3/1/2022 at 3:48 PM, handsomebob said:

I won't recommend ladies with children.....lalong lalo na din yung mga dalaga, they are looking for the richest man they could possibly get, so if you're not really really rich, it's best to stay away...

it's best to just get them once and find another one and another one and another one..

life is meant to be enjoyed not get stressed....

 

Grabe naman kau mga bosing sa mga single mother... di naman lahat ng thera na single mother rich guy ang hanap... my ibang mga single mother na thera na nag wwork para makaipon sa future ng anak nila..hindi para humanap ng mag aahon sa kanila sa kinasadlakan nilang mundo...

Pasenya napo at nakikisabat ako sa topic.. medyo nakakahurt lang kase yung parang discrimination ng mga gm sa mga single mother na thera.... 

Ganto na nga yung work namen na napiling pasukin para mas mapabilis yung pag iipon namen for the future of our baby...pero sana wag nyo naman lahatin.. hindi rin nman kase biro maging isang single mom tas gantong klase pa napili nameng pasukin.... 

Pinaghihirapan din naman po namen yung kinikita namen... di rin naman ganun kadaling makipag doo sa kung sino sino na walang feelings at 1st time mo na meet... pero ginagawa prin namen ng maayos yung trabaho namen dahil sa kikitain namen...

..dahil dto sa gantong trabaho mas mabilis kumita ng pera at mas mabilis maka ipon..... 

Sorry again sa pakikisabat 😭😭😭

Isa pa po minsan my mga gm din na pa fall at mahilig ma ngako sa mga thera....

Pasensya na po uli...