Boiiiii

Had a thera girlfriend a few weeks ago. Yup literally few weeks ago, I feel bad sa other guys here where na fall sila sa thera and they end up getting ignored or inuubos lang yung pera nila. In my case Im the as*hole in this story. When we started dating I really felt that she is serious with me. never ako naglabas ng pera when we go out on dates and gas lang halos gastos ko nahihiya na nga ako especially when we eat out siya pa nag aabot ng pera sa ilalim ng table para di nakakahiya para sa akin😅. I felt her love for me pero di ko kaya pantayan kasi Im a paranoid and seloso ako and thera pa siya back then.

Fast forward. mas lalo lumalala pagka seloso ko, napaparanoid ako if matagal siya mag reply or di siya pumayag mag date kami. kaya pala ganun, nag-iipon na siya and shes on her last few months na as a thera and instead of being supportive mas naging toxic pa ako sakanya. then she finally told me she's leaving the spa world and gusto na din niya makipag break.

After hearing her reason na realize ko that I failed to make her feel loved, na ang habol ko lang sakanya si sex and sa toxicity ko sakanya.

Kaya if there are guys  na feel niyo may chance kayo ng isang thera to go the distance never:

+Make her feel like a thera if you guys go out for a date try to avoid doing sexual stuff and even sex as much as possible.

+Be patient about her leaving the spa world, I got impatient which made me toxic to her, nainip kasi ako, little did I know na pa-quit na pala siya.(Tulad ng sinabi ni Sheena an ex thera, if mahal ka talaga ng isang thera expect mo na nag-iisip na yan mag quit)

May balak ka ba talaga mag stop sa spa?