Hari ng Unggoy Posted February 17, 2016 Share Posted February 17, 2016 (edited) Dati when our traditional society favored the patriarchal system, majority of women were housewives and only gets to have exclusive sex just with their husbands. Chances of women fooling around were very slim. While men who worked for a living get to go out and have higher chances of being unfaithful. This stigma or bad rep of men branded by the women society as the "unfaithful" gender is still being experienced by all men today, irregardless of us being faithful or not. In our modern day society, women now have equal rights so things have changed. More fiercer and dominant women are coming out every day. Women are now the "bida" in most movies and commercials shows. While men seem contented in just taking the back seat. More and more women now are fooling around. Numbers are growing. The new stigma nowadays is the woman as the "bitch" who favors "boy toys" and get's what they want. Just like men before, women will also suffer the same bad rep in the distant future for many many years to come. We all reap what we have sowed, one way or another. Kaya pag dating sa relationships, napaka importante yung respect and communication. Edited February 17, 2016 by kitoy1074 Quote Link to comment
Jacques Posted February 18, 2016 Share Posted February 18, 2016 Law of supply and demand. Last time I heard mas marami ang women sa men. In a perfect world wherein 1:1 ang boy to girl ration, anong mangyayari sa remaining popultion ng babae? Thus, this... Quote Link to comment
wolflove_bigdawg Posted February 18, 2016 Share Posted February 18, 2016 because 'A woman needs a reason to have sex. A man needs only a room.' Quote Link to comment
Colts Posted February 21, 2016 Author Share Posted February 21, 2016 Sometimes it is the presence of opportunity weighing down heavily on attempt to fight temptation. Or do men fight temptation? I think there are those that really do but a greater number actually succumb so easily to temptations. Quote Link to comment
lecskent18 Posted February 22, 2016 Share Posted February 22, 2016 being unfaithful is a choice, definitely that's correct! however, in general.. one always has a reason for being unfaithful regardless of how deep or shallow the reason will be, it's still a reason that the offender can justify if the other party neglects the other. Both parties should have a mutual relationship and be sensitive to your partner's feelings.. so in the end, if the finger gets pointed at you.. you have your conscience clear and can say out loud that you did everything to save the relationship. Everyone needs to feel that they're still wanted or desired by their partner. gives them the feeling of security. pag nawala yun at minalas na may nagparamdam sayo na iba.. ewan ko lang kung hanggang saan ang tibay mo?! just saying☺ Quote Link to comment
dibdba Posted February 23, 2016 Share Posted February 23, 2016 A guy (or a girl) has to have just three things for this to happen: opportunity, capacity, and willingness. He has to have the opportunity. This may come from work, or social places, or even an online forum. He has to have the capacity, physically, emotionally and financially to consummate an affair. Finally, even if all the women in the world throw themselves at his feet, and even if he has enough money to support this lifestyle he has to be willing to do this. There are a lot of reasons to be unfaithful and there are a lot reasons to keep the faith. In the end, the guy has to make the decision. Some guys have been hurt and in order to cope chose to have an affair. Some are just lonely and vulnerable. But some are just plain gigolos who actively hunt when they have already committed to someone. Complicated, this unfaithfulness thing is. Quote Link to comment
Fortuner_Kal_el Posted February 23, 2016 Share Posted February 23, 2016 Being unfaithful is a choice. It's your choice and no one else, no matter what the reason is. Quote Link to comment
Searching web Posted February 23, 2016 Share Posted February 23, 2016 most of the men is a game player, they just want to have fun fun.. 1 Quote Link to comment
Chae Heui Posted February 23, 2016 Share Posted February 23, 2016 ganun talaga... Men are built to hunt, and women are built to gather Quote Link to comment
tinidor Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 Being unfaithful is a choice. It's your choice and no one else, no matter what the reason is. agree Quote Link to comment
Colts Posted March 2, 2016 Author Share Posted March 2, 2016 Agree that it all boils down to the choices we made.But, sometimes when relationship is no longer working people deliberately find ways to be happy. Quote Link to comment
Barenaked-NoMre Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 The WHYs ... some of you have covered the concerns. More of because of the OPPORTUNITY readily available to US all ... men & women. There's TECHNOLOGY ... APPs like Viber, Tinder, Wechat, etc then the sites that gives a platform to PRESENT/MARKET yourself for what you WANT/NEED. Yes, it's ALSO about SUPPLY & DEMAND ... Quote Link to comment
hottie22 Posted March 7, 2016 Share Posted March 7, 2016 climate changedala ng malanding panahon!! 1 Quote Link to comment
Baby Driver Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 tao lang *we have reasons Quote Link to comment
Robert Mortimer Posted March 28, 2016 Share Posted March 28, 2016 Look at it this way. Kapag maraming babae, ang tawag sa lalaki babaero at kinaiinggitan. Kapag ang babae naman maraming lalaki, tawag sa kanya Ho, pinaguusapan nang hindi maganda. Make sense? Quote Link to comment
dinibdib Posted March 30, 2016 Share Posted March 30, 2016 men are looking for sex, while women are looking for love Quote Link to comment
Mr.Happy Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 temptation is always strong Quote Link to comment
JoshuaJacob Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 Equally both men and women have hidden secrets. But this kind of animosity between the two can be remedied by being truthful & faithful to each other. This kind of traits will have a longer and lasting relationship. Quote Link to comment
jprez Posted April 1, 2016 Share Posted April 1, 2016 new statics shows women cheat just as much as men Quote Link to comment
guytalker Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 Pareho lang ng dami yan... Mas vocal lang tayong mga lalaki kasi proud pa tayo sa ganito... unlike women na talagang hiyang hiya na malaman na nagchecheat... Quote Link to comment
ozman88 Posted April 14, 2016 Share Posted April 14, 2016 (edited) I know her indiscretions (she had an affair behind my back) and she knows mine (well, I happened to just screw around), so it makes for an awkward discussion these days Edited April 14, 2016 by ozman88 Quote Link to comment
camus Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 There's a biological reason. Women can get pregnant. So women can't just fcuk around. They have to choose a partner carefully. On the other hand sperm is cheap and easy to make. So men can afford to throw their sperm around. Quote Link to comment
kind patron Posted April 29, 2016 Share Posted April 29, 2016 malakas ang tukso Quote Link to comment
ElkOlOcOy Posted April 29, 2016 Share Posted April 29, 2016 Men are more physical Women are more emotional Quote Link to comment
Miss Zelda Posted April 29, 2016 Share Posted April 29, 2016 Men and women cheat. Even while they're married to other people, they cheat. We have all the means to cheat. Its nothing new. The problem with cheating with most people is that they are too obvious to the extent that they would loathe their partners completely in front of their children. For example: you had great sex with fubu then you come home, you are very irritated with your wife or husband that you made it so obvious that you can't stand it. Di na lang pwede na to keep it to yourself? yung mga kinaiinisan mo sa asawa mo for the sake na lang sa mga anak ninyo? para tuloy tuloy pa rin ang mundo ninyo? walang nasasaktan, walang expectations na nasisira. Maging manhid ka na lang. Quote Link to comment
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