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I just wanted to share this thing on me Way back 2014 i guess, Not so regular client pero he visits me everytime he got free time, Wala naman something it’s like a normal guest/therapist moment.

 

But suddenly he stopped visiting me, and no contact everything. So, napaisip ako bakit kaya? Ano kaya nangyari dun 😅 Pero after a month nagpunta ulit. I entered the room nakatalikod palang i knew that it was him.. Pero bakit ang bilis ng tibok ng puso ko nakakaloka 😅 Maliit lang sya like 5’4, athletic body type, super clean and mabango tangos ng ilong. Babyboy but same age kami. Ayun, the whole session nag-uusap lang kami, ewan ko parang naging sobrang comfortable ko sakanya.. Yung i dont want to last this conversation 😅  Exchanging # na kami 😂 

 

He’s very romantic person lagi sya nagpapadala ng flowers, food etc sa work. At sobra nya ko nahook dun! And imagine no return to ah, baka magulat kayo pag sinabi kung “Never kami nagsex! Torrid kiss hahaha. See?

Nahulog ako, Sobra! And he ghosted me. Sobra dami daw nya problema. Hindi ako sumuko, nangulit ako, nagtanong ako bakit? Haha kulit yarn? 🤣🤣 Hanggang sa nalaman ko nga lahat, family matters. Sobra syang down at d ko sya iniwan. Our relationship goes well. Masaya lang, hanggang sa dumadating sa point nag-iiba na.. 

 

Sobra sya magselos! Dumating din sa point na gumagawa sya dummy account para magpanggap na client ko etc, tapos kung ano ano tinatanong sakin na below the belt na. Palaging nasa apartment ko hindi ako makapasok, dumating din sa point na kumukuha sya ng ibang therapist para magstay sa work malaman mga ginagawa ko.. Dumating din sa point na magugulat ka nasa labas na kung saan ako nagpunta.. 😔 I don’t know if you call that obsession pero natatakot na ko.

 

There’s a time din pauwi ako galing work nakita ko sya nakatayo lang, nakatitig sakin sinusundan ako. Bumibitaw na ko, pero wala syang response after a day magmmsg parang wala lang.. He stopped lang nung nagpanggap ako na “buntis ako”

 

Dun lang sya natauhan, and he wishes all the best in me. Yun lang 😅 

 

Kaya for me “Its a BIG NO!!! 
 

Not anymore d natin alam, kelangan din natin alagaan puso natin lalo sarili natin ❤️

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28 minutes ago, Lorrainemira said:

I just wanted to share this thing on me Way back 2014 i guess, Not so regular client pero he visits me everytime he got free time, Wala naman something it’s like a normal guest/therapist moment.

 

But suddenly he stopped visiting me, and no contact everything. So, napaisip ako bakit kaya? Ano kaya nangyari dun 😅 Pero after a month nagpunta ulit. I entered the room nakatalikod palang i knew that it was him.. Pero bakit ang bilis ng tibok ng puso ko nakakaloka 😅 Maliit lang sya like 5’4, athletic body type, super clean and mabango tangos ng ilong. Babyboy but same age kami. Ayun, the whole session nag-uusap lang kami, ewan ko parang naging sobrang comfortable ko sakanya.. Yung i dont want to last this conversation 😅  Exchanging # na kami 😂 

 

He’s very romantic person lagi sya nagpapadala ng flowers, food etc sa work. At sobra nya ko nahook dun! And imagine no return to ah, baka magulat kayo pag sinabi kung “Never kami nagsex! Torrid kiss hahaha. See?

Nahulog ako, Sobra! And he ghosted me. Sobra dami daw nya problema. Hindi ako sumuko, nangulit ako, nagtanong ako bakit? Haha kulit yarn? 🤣🤣 Hanggang sa nalaman ko nga lahat, family matters. Sobra syang down at d ko sya iniwan. Our relationship goes well. Masaya lang, hanggang sa dumadating sa point nag-iiba na.. 

 

Sobra sya magselos! Dumating din sa point na gumagawa sya dummy account para magpanggap na client ko etc, tapos kung ano ano tinatanong sakin na below the belt na. Palaging nasa apartment ko hindi ako makapasok, dumating din sa point na kumukuha sya ng ibang therapist para magstay sa work malaman mga ginagawa ko.. Dumating din sa point na magugulat ka nasa labas na kung saan ako nagpunta.. 😔 I don’t know if you call that obsession pero natatakot na ko.

 

There’s a time din pauwi ako galing work nakita ko sya nakatayo lang, nakatitig sakin sinusundan ako. Bumibitaw na ko, pero wala syang response after a day magmmsg parang wala lang.. He stopped lang nung nagpanggap ako na “buntis ako”

 

Dun lang sya natauhan, and he wishes all the best in me. Yun lang 😅 

 

Kaya for me “Its a BIG NO!!! 
 

Not anymore d natin alam, kelangan din natin alagaan puso natin lalo sarili natin ❤️

Godbless you bebe ❤️

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shoutout sayo! pinagkatiwlaa ko ang puso ko sayo! peeo iniwan mko sa ere😣

haysst i fell inlove with this guest his super cute & chubby & clean & ang bango bango ang puti puti even his teeth pag nagsmile siya naiihi ako!! bonus nlng na marami syang pera! 

well definetely alam kng may fiance nasiya :( peeo ang sakit!!!😢

sa dami na nagtangka na client siya lang ung ineentertain ko idk why!! pero ang sarp sarp nya kausap unang meet nga nmin tintryan ko sya kase last call nsya pumunta!! then binburaot ako!! 🙄🙄🙄🙄 kaya nung 2nd visit nya dikosya matandaan hahahah!! 

basta 4months❤️🥺 pag dumating ung araw na magkikita tayo yayyaakapin ko siya!!❤️ kahit ksmaa nya wife nya🤣 wlaa lang gusto kolng ng gulo jk. sabe ny skin un!! pag ngkita kmi sa mall tapos ksmaa nya anak nya & wife mag hi daw siya! sabe ko boring laplapin pls hahahah hays!!

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2 hours ago, Miss maja hos said:

Baka maging slam book to.. May nag call sa viber ko diko kilala pero ung handle name nya mejo familiar so naging client kona daw sya before which is totoo nga after 1year kasi bigla sya nag call nga sa viber ko then aun usap na kami call n sya ng call, then Nung una client lang naman talaga ang set up namin ano ba malay ko isang araw na inlove na pala ako,ng diko inaasahan, at ganon din naman sya so the feelings is mutual,😊kasi araw araw na kming magkasama nun hindi naman sya nanligaw or wat sinabi na lang nya na ano tayo naba?? Oh baka gusto mo ligawan kapa hindi na uso yung ganon sabi nya..Haha so sympre mahal kona rin edi ano pa ba de oo tayo na 😁(marupok) we're so happy halos everyday day kami nagkikita., everyday kami kumakain sa ibat ibang resto,lunch dinner sabay kami kumain at halos every3 days dinadalan nya ko ng paborito kong tinapay na may monggo binibili pa nya sa banawe,.lahat ng oang sspoiled nagawa nya hindi nya ako ginugutom halos tumaba ako talaga tapos weekly malling, halos lahat ng gagawin nya kasama. Ako  ang daming memories sobra halos buong araw kami magkasama sa loob ng isang taon mahigit  EVEYDAY YUN tapos marami din kami ginawang katarantaduhan kung saan saan.. Nag eexplore kami ng mga bagay bagay yung saya grabe para kong first time mainlove,. Firts time ko din mabilan ng cake ng isang lalaki or kahit pamilya ko kasi di naman ako binibilan ng cake pag birthday ko bukod tangi sya lang nakagawa non ,malaking bagay sakin yun kasi sa tagal ng panahon sya lang bumili ng cake sakin except nung bata pako ..Bonus na din na my pera sya binibigyan nya ko ng pera pero diko tinatangap kasi nga mahal ko.. So ginagawa nya send to bank pag mahal mo kasi mahihiya ka pag binibigyan ka ng pera mas gusto kopang mangutang kesa manghinge sakanya o magsabi na need ko ng pera..pag mahal mo hindi mo peperahan wel wala naman akong plano n ganon at diko ginawa yun alam naman nya yun never ako huminge,o nagpahiwatig  kahit nasa mall ako di ako nagpapabili kahit sbhn nya ano gusto ko sa watson lang naman ako bumibili at ung binibili ko don limit ko lang  tipong mga 1K.. 2K  na pinaka mataas  madals mas mababa pa then sabi ko sknya buti dimoko iniiwan o hiwalayan dimo ba naisip na baka perahan lang kita or wat ,sabi  nya nga di naman sya tanga alam naman daw nya ang namemera sa hindi..sa tagal nya sa spa industry .so kaya sya nag stay ng matagal.. Sya naman nagsabi sana una pa lang dina ko nagstay kung alam kong ganon ka sabi nya. Basta masya kami ung lang masasabi ko masyang masaya higit pa sa nanalo sa lotto ,.Then nung tumatagal na kami taon na nawala na lahat  nag li-lo kami  kasi complicated pero di ako sanay ng ganon biglang nagbago ang lahat halos lahat ng gingawa nya sakin nawala ..Diko alam sabi nya busy sya ..pero hindi eh alam ko ayaw na nya ayaw lang nya ako rektahin nag sspa na din sya  kahit dinedeny nya alam ko ramdam ko.. Girls instinct din ,chismis din ..baka my iba ng nagustuhan or wat,ang sad lang na dumarating ang mga tao sa buhay natin para dumaan lang para maging lesson lang .. Sana naman lord kung di para samin wag ng makilala.. Pero hanggang sa pagtanda ko memorable sya sa lahat ng bagay.. Pag to nabasa nya hahahhaha..

Babasahin ko pa ba? Na kwento mo naman na to ulitin mo nalang pag nag bundok tayo hahahahaha. SEE YOU WHEN I SEE YOU HAHAHAHA

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32 minutes ago, Lexi of TV Spa said:

Babasahin ko pa ba? Na kwento mo naman na to ulitin mo nalang pag nag bundok tayo hahahahaha. SEE YOU WHEN I SEE YOU HAHAHAHA

Hahaha wag mona basahin iisa lang kwento nyan😂🤣🤣 ang diko nakwento sayo yung my mga plano kami sa future hahaha  pupunta pa kami ng hongkong,at iceland pag wla na covid n di na matutuloy ..kasi nga isa lang syang lesson na binigay ni lord😕

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1 hour ago, Miss maja hos said:

Hahaha wag mona basahin iisa lang kwento nyan😂🤣🤣 ang diko nakwento sayo yung my mga plano kami sa future hahaha  pupunta pa kami ng hongkong,at iceland pag wla na covid n di na matutuloy ..kasi nga isa lang syang lesson na binigay ni lord😕

Aww yakap mahigpit. Hayaan mo tayong mga kakaibiga ang pupunta dyan maibsan lang lungkot mo este naten lahat hahaha. Malay mo may isang tao na nag aantay sayo bigyan mo lang ulit ng pansin 😂😝😝😝🏼

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I know this thread is for the theras, but if I may, I just wanted to ask if any of you ladies know of any stories of theras you know that managed to find love in this line of work in the end. I know of two of the more well known success stories here, which are Mavic and Minx. Wondering if there are others that have made it work, and if there are still some out there that haven't locked that possibility out.

I ask this because theras are probably some of the most accepting, personable, and understanding people you'll meet. That might be in large part due to their occupation, but given the chance that a client can dig deeper, it's not hard to see why there are clients that might fall in love. I'm sorry if I might be asking a lot, but I guess I just want to know what you ladies think is needed to make these kinds of relationships work - because truthfully, these are more complicated than normal relationships.

We've had a lot of sad stories. Just wanted to see if there are happy ones or what you think might be needed to reach a happy ending.

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Actually hindi ko pa na try ma-fall sa client, kasi natatakot ako at ayoko din, dami kong iniisip like " mag work kaya " may mga gusto manligaw pero sinasabi ko ayoko ng commitment lalo na ganto industry ng work ko (hindi ko sinasabi na mababa ang tingin ko sa sarili ko as a thera or sa mga kapwa ko thera) natatakot ako kasi baka pag na fall ako don pa sa may asawa mahirap na kabit pa ang ending ko hahahahaha jk. May mga iilan na muntik na ako ma fall muntik na bumigay si inang reyna kaso lang na control ko hahahahaha.

 

 

As of now meron akong client na laging kausap as in everyday lagi kmi update sa isat isa from morning till mattulog na kmi hehe actually di pa kmi nag meet kasi far far away sya, pero sa mga convo namin every day it makes sense like " baka may chance lalo na pag nagkita kmi " hope to see u soon ********** 😘😘 mag iingat ka lagi hehe.💓

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On 2/27/2021 at 11:49 AM, jamesbong0010 said:

easy to say i will never be in love with this kind of person but when it hits you... it hits you.....

True, bro. There's this thera sa Dragon spa before. I'll never forget her. Di ko lng alam kung nasan na si Sabrina ngayon.

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6 hours ago, Christine of Eve and Adam said:

Actually hindi ko pa na try ma-fall sa client, kasi natatakot ako at ayoko din, dami kong iniisip like " mag work kaya " may mga gusto manligaw pero sinasabi ko ayoko ng commitment lalo na ganto industry ng work ko (hindi ko sinasabi na mababa ang tingin ko sa sarili ko as a thera or sa mga kapwa ko thera) natatakot ako kasi baka pag na fall ako don pa sa may asawa mahirap na kabit pa ang ending ko hahahahaha jk. May mga iilan na muntik na ako ma fall muntik na bumigay si inang reyna kaso lang na control ko hahahahaha.

 

 

As of now meron akong client na laging kausap as in everyday lagi kmi update sa isat isa from morning till mattulog na kmi hehe actually di pa kmi nag meet kasi far far away sya, pero sa mga convo namin every day it makes sense like " baka may chance lalo na pag nagkita kmi " hope to see u soon ********** 😘😘 mag iingat ka lagi hehe.💓

It’s okay being scared, it helps us think logically 😁

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On 10/4/2021 at 8:14 AM, Mollig said:

I know this thread is for the theras, but if I may, I just wanted to ask if any of you ladies know of any stories of theras you know that managed to find love in this line of work in the end. I know of two of the more well known success stories here, which are Mavic and Minx. Wondering if there are others that have made it work, and if there are still some out there that haven't locked that possibility out.

I ask this because theras are probably some of the most accepting, personable, and understanding people you'll meet. That might be in large part due to their occupation, but given the chance that a client can dig deeper, it's not hard to see why there are clients that might fall in love. I'm sorry if I might be asking a lot, but I guess I just want to know what you ladies think is needed to make these kinds of relationships work - because truthfully, these are more complicated than normal relationships.

We've had a lot of sad stories. Just wanted to see if there are happy ones or what you think might be needed to reach a happy ending.

I know of three theras who worked at the same place in 2009. 2 of them are in the US having married FilAms. One who was there first could not pass the exam to be an RN. The other is now an RN there. Both got their degrees here. The third will be graduating in MedTech this year here in the Philippines. They are all really attractive were in demand while theras.

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On 3/29/2021 at 9:18 PM, Maxene of Clam Spa said:

Ang hirap pala talaga mainlove sa client

 

 

 

Hindi ko magawang di sya isipin , ang masakit lang wala kaming level ,nung una ok lang sakin pero anv marupok nga naman nainlove agad kawawa talaga ang mga marurupok

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