Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[hi_hello]

4 or 5 years ago may regular ako na thera na for 6 months sya lang kinukuha ko. D ko alam kung love ba yun or dahil sobrang jive kami ng ugali na sya lang kinukuha ko. D sya sweet at d din kami naguusap outside ng spa. Pero pag magkasama kami super enjoy kami magkwentuhan na minsan nageextend ako sa spa para lang magkwentuhan kami. Nung magreretire na sya sinabihan nya ako and asked if gusto ko daw mag keep in touch. Her reason is ikakasal na sya so i said with a heavy heart na wag na baka magcause pa ako ng misunderstanding sa relationship nila. Nasad din ako but not brokenhearted. Dunno pero for sure i really miss her. 

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

2 hours ago, Santiagowalker said:

Mahirap ma fall, kailangan may control ka din kasi sobrang gastos haha dahil gusto mo na siya araw arawin kunin

Ramdam kita Idol. Ganyan din ako dati. Hehe

[Nano road]

Enjoy at relaxation lang. Pero kung hindi mapigilan prepare sa consequences, moreso: financially, emotionally at mentally. Alam ng maraming gms kung bakit anjan ang theras sa world of spas. To support their own family, basic needs or perhaps caprice. Kung alam nmn na magkakasakitan at magsumbatan sa huli, mas mainam na huwag n lng mainlab... at babalik ulit sa spa si thera at maaaring magkwento... hehehe.. saklap.. kawawang ang thera diba... pero gm pa rin ang mag decision. Pero if he made decision, be sure na walang masasaktan sa both side... 😊

Edited July 6, 2022 by Nano road

[miamiheat]

Di sulit ang hassle pag na fall ka. 

[Howdy Doody]

Theras know how to compartmentalize their relationships with all their guest and even with their private lives, such as husband's, boyfriend's or special someone that you may feel you're very special to her. She doesn't discuss what she does in private with any of her relationship.  You're totally ignorant of what is going on between her and the others. All you know are the moments and experience you have with her. That's the time you may even fool yourself that you're someone very special to her. And in reality, you're just like the rest of them. 

[Cestut]

Hello fellow GMs. Gusto ko lang share yung pinagdadaanan ko ngayon. After 7 years ng walang visit dito (MTC) tinry ko mag book ulit. (Haha welcome back to me). So etong thera na ito is sobrang hindi ko alam kung bakit pero after our session, sobrang nag click kami, like bestfriends. Kwentuhan about her life and cheating ex. We shared many smiles and laughs, quality time talaga and sobrang natuwa ako kasi this is the first time na maka kuha ako ng ganun na thera. Then it suddenly hit me na why am I feeling this kind of excitement na gusto ko na siya makasama ulit? Bakit bigla kong naisip na I want her to be a part of my life all of a sudden. Kahit na first time lang namin mag meet? Is this love? Am I in love? Lagi ko siya naiisip sa pag gising ko, bago matulog and everytime I'm driving pinapakinggan ko yung playlist na ginawa ko for her sa Spotify. (Ha ha ha) I keep on imagining myself being with her. So ayun, I always try to communicate with her outside the spa. Pero sobrang bihira na makakuha ng response maybe because she is busy? Or maybe with another GM.

 

Tbh, naisip ko yung risks and consequences and PAIN na pwede ko mafeel pag na-inlove sa isang thera. But for me, love is accepting someone for who they are and hindi mo titingnan ang estado ng buhay niya or kung ano man ang pinag daanan niya, diba? Naisip ko yung everyday may mga clients siya but I believe na kaya kong tanggapin yung pain na yon kasi mahal ko talaga yung tao. I've been with a girl who worked in a GM's Club around QC. And it worked out well until yun nga, nalulon sa bisyo. Money was not a problem. Lagi ko iniisip na mag ttrabaho ako ng mabuti para mawala yung pangalan niya sa listahan. Pero as of now, graduating palang kasi ako kaya takot ako na baka shempre, kaya siya nag thera because she needs money talaga.

 

Until now, I still try to communicate with her. I'm always trying to ask her out for a wholesome date because I'd kick my self If I wouldn't try. Ayaw ko maging "I'm one of those GMs" sa kanya. 

 

 

So fellow GMs, ask ko lang sa inyo, what should I do? Should I still pursue this girl? Is this love? Or I'm just longing for that affection that she gave me. Hope to get a response from you guys cause I'm having sleepless nights thinking about this girl.

[Ice Lover]

8 minutes ago, Cestut said:

Hello fellow GMs. Gusto ko lang share yung pinagdadaanan ko ngayon. After 7 years ng walang visit dito (MTC) tinry ko mag book ulit. (Haha welcome back to me). So etong thera na ito is sobrang hindi ko alam kung bakit pero after our session, sobrang nag click kami, like bestfriends. Kwentuhan about her life and cheating ex. We shared many smiles and laughs, quality time talaga and sobrang natuwa ako kasi this is the first time na maka kuha ako ng ganun na thera. Then it suddenly hit me na why am I feeling this kind of excitement na gusto ko na siya makasama ulit? Bakit bigla kong naisip na I want her to be a part of my life all of a sudden. Kahit na first time lang namin mag meet? Is this love? Am I in love? Lagi ko siya naiisip sa pag gising ko, bago matulog and everytime I'm driving pinapakinggan ko yung playlist na ginawa ko for her sa Spotify. (Ha ha ha) I keep on imagining myself being with her. So ayun, I always try to communicate with her outside the spa. Pero sobrang bihira na makakuha ng response maybe because she is busy? Or maybe with another GM.

 

Tbh, naisip ko yung risks and consequences and PAIN na pwede ko mafeel pag na-inlove sa isang thera. But for me, love is accepting someone for who they are and hindi mo titingnan ang estado ng buhay niya or kung ano man ang pinag daanan niya, diba? Naisip ko yung everyday may mga clients siya but I believe na kaya kong tanggapin yung pain na yon kasi mahal ko talaga yung tao. I've been with a girl who worked in a GM's Club around QC. And it worked out well until yun nga, nalulon sa bisyo. Money was not a problem. Lagi ko iniisip na mag ttrabaho ako ng mabuti para mawala yung pangalan niya sa listahan. Pero as of now, graduating palang kasi ako kaya takot ako na baka shempre, kaya siya nag thera because she needs money talaga.

 

Until now, I still try to communicate with her. I'm always trying to ask her out for a wholesome date because I'd kick my self If I wouldn't try. Ayaw ko maging "I'm one of those GMs" sa kanya. 

 

 

So fellow GMs, ask ko lang sa inyo, what should I do? Should I still pursue this girl? Is this love? Or I'm just longing for that affection that she gave me. Hope to get a response from you guys cause I'm having sleepless nights thinking about this girl.

One time mo palang nakuha? Baka nauhaw ka lang sa companionship/intimacy give it time bago ka magpadalos dalos, you're looking way ahead in the future brad.

If feel mo may something special kunin mo lang ng kunin yung services nya, pag di ka nagsawa or di nagbago feelings mo tsaka mo i pursue sabe mo nga alam mo naman yung consequences. Goodluck

Edited July 7, 2022 by Ice Lover

[Ice Lover]

One thing pa pala try to read some FR's para dun sa thera na u like. If parehas ng experience mo yung mga nag FR's sa kanya most likely ganun lang talaga sya ka-GFE sa mga guest nya. Sorry to burst your bubble brad im just saving you from tons of headaches/heartaches. LOL.

HTH

[handsomebob]

@Cestut

kung graduating ka pa lang bro, save yourself the heartache and learn to separate the LOVE from the transaction na ginagawa niyo (i am sure you paid for her services, di ba??) ikaw lang kawawa sa huli, I do believe there are some theras talaga na hindi mukhang pera but 98% of them are and that is just the reality. my advise is work on yourself, get fit, get your money, work on yourself whatever it may be...then, I am sure you will attract the girl you desire in the end...

I learned this too late na kasi...

pwede mo pa naman siya kunin pero wag ka magka emotion, talo ka sa huli bro....

 

[takasu]

learned a hard lesson sa ganito , yung hindi naman mutual yung nararamdam niyo. 

 

sobrang thankful ko finally naka move na ko sa kanya 😞

[Cestut]

36 minutes ago, Ice Lover said:

One time mo palang nakuha? Baka nauhaw ka lang sa companionship/intimacy give it time bago ka magpadalos dalos, you're looking way ahead in the future brad.

If feel mo may something special kunin mo lang ng kunin yung services nya, pag di ka nagsawa or di nagbago feelings mo tsaka mo i pursue sabe mo nga alam mo naman yung consequences. Goodluck

Thank you sir. Tama nga siguro na nauhaw lang siguro ako. Maybe spend more time/sessions and we'll see how it goes

[Cestut]

4 minutes ago, handsomebob said:

@Cestut

kung graduating ka pa lang bro, save yourself the heartache and learn to separate the LOVE from the transaction na ginagawa niyo (i am sure you paid for her services, di ba??) ikaw lang kawawa sa huli, I do believe there are some theras talaga na hindi mukhang pera but 98% of them are and that is just the reality. my advise is work on yourself, get fit, get your money, work on yourself whatever it may be...then, I am sure you will attract the girl you desire in the end...

I learned this too late na kasi...

pwede mo pa naman siya kunin pero wag ka magka emotion, talo ka sa huli bro....

 

Thank you for this sir. Will do work on myself and be better. As a professional palamunin siguro this is not the right time. Haha! 

[Cestut]

Back reading really helped a lot. Siguro nga falling in love with a thera is a big challenge. Mentally, emotionally and financially. Hope to read more experiences mga GMs

[handsomebob]

4 minutes ago, Cestut said:

Thank you for this sir. Will do work on myself and be better. As a professional palamunin siguro this is not the right time. Haha! 

there will always be someone better than you, yan palagi mindset ko when dealing with a thera, pwede mo naman enjoy company nila and you can gauge naman kung talagang gusto ka niya......there are signs (like hindi siya nagdedemand ng pera sayo or hindi na nag presyo, she gives you her time wholeheartedly pag inaaya mo siya lumabas, she will be the one to text you first good am and good night)

when you find a job and you can take the pain (asses mo sarili mo) then maybe you can dive into this head first!

I'm in my 40s na bro so I knew the ropes and madaming thera na ako naka fling, naging GF, naging tropa etc...hahaha

[Ice Lover]

7 minutes ago, Cestut said:

Back reading really helped a lot. Siguro nga falling in love with a thera is a big challenge. Mentally, emotionally and financially. Hope to read more experiences mga GMs

Oo malaking tulong tong thread if feeling mo nahuhulog ka na sa thera backread ka dito para masampal ka ng katotohanan. Hahahaha. Oo nga nasabe mo pala graduating ka palang. My advice is dont pursue love muna, dont chase women, chase moolah.

Biggest challenge when falling for a thera is kung pano papatunayan na genuine yung feelings nya sayo kung madami kayo na same exp sa kanya, kaya kelangan mailabas mo talaga sya sa industry na to and if financially di kaya wag na ipilit baka parehas lang masira buhay nyo, just enjoy the moments na lang.

 

[tonyboy2]

25 minutes ago, Cestut said:

Back reading really helped a lot. Siguro nga falling in love with a thera is a big challenge. Mentally, emotionally and financially. Hope to read more experiences mga GMs

My experience in life is TO BE THE RIGHT GUY, before falling in love. This would lessen the challenges and probably over come them easily. I believe, The RIGHT GUY is mentally, emotionally, and financially prepared to fall in love with a thera.

Graduate first, bro. Try to earn your keep, meet more people and learn from your experiences. 

[Lewis Wilson]

Don't look for love sa mga spas and mps. You are in a wrong place.

[Santiagowalker]

21 hours ago, K0RN - RETIR3D said:

Ramdam kita Idol. Ganyan din ako dati. Hehe

Hahaha I learned na idol past few months ganun gawain ko haha iba Kasi pag naexp mo yung 20/10 service haha at yung chemistry pag kasama mo siya, kaya wag na wag mafall make them fall nalang Sayo hehe

 

 

 

 

 

[Cestut]

6 hours ago, handsomebob said:

there will always be someone better than you, yan palagi mindset ko when dealing with a thera, pwede mo naman enjoy company nila and you can gauge naman kung talagang gusto ka niya......there are signs (like hindi siya nagdedemand ng pera sayo or hindi na nag presyo, she gives you her time wholeheartedly pag inaaya mo siya lumabas, she will be the one to text you first good am and good night)

when you find a job and you can take the pain (asses mo sarili mo) then maybe you can dive into this head first!

I'm in my 40s na bro so I knew the ropes and madaming thera na ako naka fling, naging GF, naging tropa etc...hahaha

Tama ka bro, we're all replaceable ika nga. I'll keep that in mind bro. Thank you for this 

[Cestut]

6 hours ago, Ice Lover said:

Oo malaking tulong tong thread if feeling mo nahuhulog ka na sa thera backread ka dito para masampal ka ng katotohanan. Hahahaha. Oo nga nasabe mo pala graduating ka palang. My advice is dont pursue love muna, dont chase women, chase moolah.

Biggest challenge when falling for a thera is kung pano papatunayan na genuine yung feelings nya sayo kung madami kayo na same exp sa kanya, kaya kelangan mailabas mo talaga sya sa industry na to and if financially di kaya wag na ipilit baka parehas lang masira buhay nyo, just enjoy the moments na lang.

 

Sobrang sakit pala masampal ng katotohanan bro. Hahaha! Pero I agree, chase moolah then women will chase you afterwards. Hahahaha! Pero mas okay din talaga yung genuine ang feelings hindi lang yung pera pera.

[handsomebob]

Just now, Cestut said:

Tama ka bro, we're all replaceable ika nga. I'll keep that in mind bro. Thank you for this 

no problem...just imparting some knowledge kasi nagsisimula ka pa lang sa ganitong bisyo..

but one thing I can advise you is try mo sumubok ng ibang thera para malaman mo kung talagang love mo siya or you just want good companionship....

also, kung kilala ko yan mabigyan kita ng heads up..hahaha

[Cestut]

21 minutes ago, handsomebob said:

no problem...just imparting some knowledge kasi nagsisimula ka pa lang sa ganitong bisyo..

but one thing I can advise you is try mo sumubok ng ibang thera para malaman mo kung talagang love mo siya or you just want good companionship....

also, kung kilala ko yan mabigyan kita ng heads up..hahaha

Yan din naiisip ko bro, kaka simula ko palang sa ganitong bisyo kaya medyo marupok pa. Hahaha! It's just weird na yes may mga nakaka fling ako outside the MP world but hindi ganito yung nafeel ko. 

Eto din yung isang problem ko, parang hindi ko kaya kumuha ng ibang thera. Hahaha! Pero siguro pag sink in na sa akin sir pwede na sumubok sa iba.

PM sent sir hahaha

[Ferj]

3 hours ago, Cestut said:

Yan din naiisip ko bro, kaka simula ko palang sa ganitong bisyo kaya medyo marupok pa. Hahaha! It's just weird na yes may mga nakaka fling ako outside the MP world but hindi ganito yung nafeel ko. 

Eto din yung isang problem ko, parang hindi ko kaya kumuha ng ibang thera. Hahaha! Pero siguro pag sink in na sa akin sir pwede na sumubok sa iba.

PM sent sir hahaha

Same bro

[Ernest Ty]

13 hours ago, Cestut said:

Hello fellow GMs. Gusto ko lang share yung pinagdadaanan ko ngayon. After 7 years ng walang visit dito (MTC) tinry ko mag book ulit. (Haha welcome back to me). So etong thera na ito is sobrang hindi ko alam kung bakit pero after our session, sobrang nag click kami, like bestfriends. Kwentuhan about her life and cheating ex. We shared many smiles and laughs, quality time talaga and sobrang natuwa ako kasi this is the first time na maka kuha ako ng ganun na thera. Then it suddenly hit me na why am I feeling this kind of excitement na gusto ko na siya makasama ulit? Bakit bigla kong naisip na I want her to be a part of my life all of a sudden. Kahit na first time lang namin mag meet? Is this love? Am I in love? Lagi ko siya naiisip sa pag gising ko, bago matulog and everytime I'm driving pinapakinggan ko yung playlist na ginawa ko for her sa Spotify. (Ha ha ha) I keep on imagining myself being with her. So ayun, I always try to communicate with her outside the spa. Pero sobrang bihira na makakuha ng response maybe because she is busy? Or maybe with another GM.

 

Tbh, naisip ko yung risks and consequences and PAIN na pwede ko mafeel pag na-inlove sa isang thera. But for me, love is accepting someone for who they are and hindi mo titingnan ang estado ng buhay niya or kung ano man ang pinag daanan niya, diba? Naisip ko yung everyday may mga clients siya but I believe na kaya kong tanggapin yung pain na yon kasi mahal ko talaga yung tao. I've been with a girl who worked in a GM's Club around QC. And it worked out well until yun nga, nalulon sa bisyo. Money was not a problem. Lagi ko iniisip na mag ttrabaho ako ng mabuti para mawala yung pangalan niya sa listahan. Pero as of now, graduating palang kasi ako kaya takot ako na baka shempre, kaya siya nag thera because she needs money talaga.

 

Until now, I still try to communicate with her. I'm always trying to ask her out for a wholesome date because I'd kick my self If I wouldn't try. Ayaw ko maging "I'm one of those GMs" sa kanya. 

 

 

So fellow GMs, ask ko lang sa inyo, what should I do? Should I still pursue this girl? Is this love? Or I'm just longing for that affection that she gave me. Hope to get a response from you guys cause I'm having sleepless nights thinking about this girl.

What is her response? Mabilis bang magreply? How well do you know her?  Mutual ba ang feelings? Pero sa totoo lang, iwasan mo nalang at libangin ang sarili mo sa ibang bagay o ibang babae. Ginawa ko na yan. At nasayang lang ang 20 taon ng buhay ko. (Matigas utak ko eh). 98% ng ganyan relasyon ay hindi nag work out or panandalian lang. Are you willing to take that 2% chance. Your still young, at maraming marami ka pang makikilala at makikita. Live your life.

[Chiananicole]

Walang babae hindi mapag mahal.mga lalaki kasi ng sasabi lang lagi sa babae I love you mahal Kita. hangang salita lang hindi naman marunung manindigan sa mga salita binitawan.!dahil nga sa gusto lang mg I love you para maka free sex panandalian kaligayahan.!!))((aminin totoo yan)