Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[King Inaño]

On 8/22/2022 at 8:29 PM, Guest Anonymous said:

bottom line is, you shouldn't look for love in this industry. Napakaraming mas maganda, mas sexy at mas malibog diyan who are actually willing to be in a stable and long-term relationship. Lakad lakad ka lang sa Makati at BGC, dami mo makikitang babaeng mas maganda pa sa thera na kinikita mo. Bakit ayaw mo ligawan or mageffort man lang? 

If you are, then it's time to recognize that your social life SERIOUSLY needs some repair and nourishment. Stop being lazy and wag matakot sa rejection.

I truly agree with this. Ska karamihan sa mga thera ay may mga bf din na mismong nagpapaligaya sa kanila

[hi_hello]

On 8/25/2022 at 3:44 PM, Guest Anonymous said:

Taena nagseselos ako

Kasi ung gm nanliligaw saken

Eh now ko lang nabasa dami nya pla fr sa iba

omggg tlga 

 

prang mejo na turn off ako

ang service ko tlga hndi sex ever since

 

Eh fr nya puro naka sex nya huhuhu

huhuhu ako tong thera  na suppose to be marami na nakasex pero

wala 

 

sya pa itong bihasa huhuhu 

i guess it goes both ways. gms should not look for love in this industry and theras should not look for love from gms. i cant imagine how toxic a couple of gm and thera is. even if they both love each other,  si thera praning kay GM baka nagpupunta padin sa SPA/MP pag nalate umuwe. si GM naman ganun din baka may sineservice si thera habang nagwowork ka. im not saying na imposible magkaroon ng good relationship from gm/theras pero para ka siguro magpapasok ng sinulid sa butas ng karayom ng nakapikit sa tatahakin nyo na pagsubok at hirap sa relationship na ganun.  

[Lewis Wilson]

12 hours ago, hi_hello said:

i guess it goes both ways. gms should not look for love in this industry and theras should not look for love from gms. i cant imagine how toxic a couple of gm and thera is. even if they both love each other,  si thera praning kay GM baka nagpupunta padin sa SPA/MP pag nalate umuwe. si GM naman ganun din baka may sineservice si thera habang nagwowork ka. im not saying na imposible magkaroon ng good relationship from gm/theras pero para ka siguro magpapasok ng sinulid sa butas ng karayom ng nakapikit sa tatahakin nyo na pagsubok at hirap sa relationship na ganun.  

Tama naman ito. Let's just keep it simple. 

[Ernest Ty]

On 8/25/2022 at 1:49 AM, Chiananicole said:

KaYung mga lalaki pgdating sa pag-ibig piliin yung babae sakto lng ang ganda at sexy  mypangarap sa buhay myplano sa buhay myfuture sa buhay , piliin yung babae magaling humawak ng pera at my diskarte sa buhay.

Wagpiliin yung babae magaling lang sa kama sexy at maganda walang pangarap walang diskarte walang plano sa buhay hindi marunong humawak pera , dahil ang ending yan pagwala kana pera hahanap iba yan para sa pangangailangan nya sa buhay. 

Paano yung baliw na baliw sa lalaking tamad at pinakikinabangan lang sya. Tapos yung mga kagaya naman namin ang magpapakatanga sa kanya?🤣 kakaloko dba

[MasarapDumila]

On 8/24/2022 at 1:00 AM, Centurion328 said:

Kabig kasi lahat si thera puhunan lang ganda at sarap. Una, one way ang gastos, ikaw lahat. Pag may anak at pamilya na umaasa sa kanya, kargo mo yun. Mahirap umangat nun pag hindi ka pa mayaman. Why not get a girl na tulungan kayo sa buhay? Or at least, marunong sa buhay (me career or business of her own).

Pangalawa, kailangan mo tanggapin nakaraan nya. Though this will not become an issue pag mature ka at malawak ang pang unawa, you cannot help but think kung mahal ka ba talaga or meal ticket ka lang?

Pangatlo is risky. I am not belittling them but people who came from this industry have loose morals. Hindi ako banal in saying this and not all theras are like this. For most of them, having sex with other people is no big deal. So kahit kayo na at lalo na pag kasal na, mataas ang tendency for her to do this kasi nga no big deal na sa kanila. I know sa dami ng therang nakantot ko na may bf, live-in or even asawa. Even non-theras, dami ko rin nakantot na may bf, at live in (pag non-thera, off limits sa akin pag kasal na at lalo na may mga anak). Some, ako pa naka divirginize kesa sa bf nila. 

Pang-apat, dependent and defeatist mindset. Again, hindi lahat. Nasanay kasi sa easy money. So may partner ka na bukod sa walang pinapasok na pera, bilmoko at walang fiscal discipline. Kung hindii ka pa made, mahirap umangat.

Pang-lima, baka ikaw or tayo din ang may problema. Baka libog lang yan at pag nagsawa ka na, baka off the window na ang relationship. I asked this hard question before ng muntik ko ng pasukin to. Wala akong tiwala sa sarili ko kasi nuknukan ako ng babaero na baka libog lang yung naramdaman ko. Hindi ako unique, most likely, marami tayo kaya  kayo andito at nababasa to. Remember, pag nawala na libog, pagmamahal at compatibility na ang magdadala at hindi forever maganda at sexy si thera. So when in doubt, don't. I did not. 

Ok din yan.

[Fusa]

On 8/27/2022 at 10:03 PM, Chiananicole said:

Hahahaha mymga FRs hindi totoo nakasulat sa FRs,yung iba kasi clients ng good FRs sa Therapist dahil naka live sex lang. kahit hindi good service good FRs dahil sa extra servicese sex live. 

 

Maraming good FRs gawa-gawa lang . maraming marami yan. Dahil sa live sex extra servece good FRs na natatanggap ng therapist.

 

Kaya maganda kung mgpa service ka wgkana mg FRs dahil hindi lahat ng good FRs totoo at ginagawa ng Therapist sa clients nila.

 

Para sa mga clients Subukan munalang mgpa service kung good servicese balikan pero kung bad servicese wgmuna balikan. Advice only para sa clients.

Good points... lots of FRs look exag din eh, tapos 11 out of 10 in almost all aspects! I haven't visited a spa since the pandemic, and even before the pandemic, I mostly went to the spa for the legit hard massages and maybe some mutual stimulation and body to body action, not really for sex. I went for those kinds of FRs, coz they looked legit, the rest looked faked and exaggerated.

 

[Fusa]

On 8/28/2022 at 10:00 PM, hi_hello said:

i guess it goes both ways. gms should not look for love in this industry and theras should not look for love from gms. i cant imagine how toxic a couple of gm and thera is. even if they both love each other,  si thera praning kay GM baka nagpupunta padin sa SPA/MP pag nalate umuwe. si GM naman ganun din baka may sineservice si thera habang nagwowork ka. im not saying na imposible magkaroon ng good relationship from gm/theras pero para ka siguro magpapasok ng sinulid sa butas ng karayom ng nakapikit sa tatahakin nyo na pagsubok at hirap sa relationship na ganun.  

Interesting discussion you people are having here... good points on this, it's a business where looking for love looks out of place. I suppose it happens still but I can imagine the problems, unless both are both liberated. Even up to now, I can't wrap my head around some of the FRs here where married couple share multiple partners etc. So I suppose it can happen given the kind of people who come together for these transactions, they kinda gravitate towards each other... interesting stuff

[Howdy Doody]

" .... looking for love in all the wrong places....".

[Edmund Dantes]

1 hour ago, Howdy Doody said:

" .... looking for love in all the wrong places....".

Yes! 

And usually it does not always end good

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

On 8/11/2022 at 1:29 PM, Howdy Doody said:

Unfortunately, this profession is sometimes referred to as "white slavery". It is really a form of continuous bondage. Men and women in this business is perpetually spun into its vicious cycle. Only those who are determined and strong willed will eventually overcome its tentacled clutches. 

Really, pitiful. Kawawa rin talaga.

Certainly many will get caught in the clutches of the tentacles, but the tentacles are also the tentacles of capitalism; of poverty; of a negative mindset; of desperation; and all manner of other factors. When you make yourself a commodity; it takes a lot to really shift to another more legitimate and "harder" occupation. The odds are not in their favor unless they have a real plan, but oftentimes even non-sex workers don't have a good idea of what they can do to achieve self actualization.   

[rftrftrft]

If you are both mature and into “open” relationship, why not?

[MasarapDumila]

Kumantot ka na lang. Wag ma fall.

[Pen15]

Kung seloso ka then falling for a thera is not for you. Kung ano ano kasi papasok sa isipan mo kapag nasa duty si thera.

Emotional Torture. 

[Amancio O]

Do I really want to have a serious relationship with someone who can give pleasure to several men?

[Amancio O]

Her  job is to satisfy every men who r willing, able & ready to pay for their services, s3xual services.

[Anonymous]

5 hours ago, MasarapDumila said:

Kumantot ka na lang. Wag ma fall.

Marneeeeeeeeellllllll. Buaaaaaaaannnnggggg.

[Botajun]

Sometimes it is better to be careful some might have already partners or bfs in life and yet they are still in their own routine. 

Edited September 2, 2022 by Botajun

[Judge Pao]

To fall or not its all up to you, you may have your reasons, all we can do is give advice and respect your decision. My advice is not to, 

[citibank]

So what if u fall for a thera? Does that mean  uve lowered ur standards or level? So ur entitled to a better relationship because someone was born with a different circumstance in life? Antaas naman ng tingin mu sa sarili mu pre, pareho pareho lang tayu..if u feel ur entitled, then remember this, Jesus chose the lows of the lows, the sinners, to spread the good news..which is God loves you no matter who or what you are..for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Yung magagandang ginagawa mu ay para lng basahan sa tingin ng Dyos, so sinu ka para mang discriminate? 

[Anonymous]

8 hours ago, Joseph Rizal said:

Isip isip din ng konti. Baka naman baba na ng tingin  mo sa sarili. Baka galit na galit ka na sa sarili mo. Hahahaha 😂 😆 😂 

Tumahimik ka nalang puro ka hirit.

[Anonymous]

8 hours ago, citibank said:

So what if u fall for a thera? Does that mean  uve lowered ur standards or level? So ur entitled to a better relationship because someone was born with a different circumstance in life? Antaas naman ng tingin mu sa sarili mu pre, pareho pareho lang tayu..if u feel ur entitled, then remember this, Jesus chose the lows of the lows, the sinners, to spread the good news..which is God loves you no matter who or what you are..for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Yung magagandang ginagawa mu ay para lng basahan sa tingin ng Dyos, so sinu ka para mang discriminate? 

Anong hinihirit mo diyan bakit theras man ka ba? Di naman dinidiscriminate eh. Wow galing mo. Ang galing mo mag type.

[Amancio O]

Falling in love with a lovely thera… there would be more disadvantages than advantages, more negative than positive… in reality more heart aches & anxieties… if u r ok with that, then go ahead

[Howdy Doody]

You delve in this hobby for momentary pleasure but can be unwittingly sucked in to its vortex, by those very well accomplished providers. You then find yourself in a very surreal world of pain and pleasure. Depending on how much time and treasure you spend, the pattern just continuous to go in cycles. Such is the paradox of this entertainment.

[BruceBarako]

Masarap ma in love sa thera. Sarap nila kasama. Malambing. Pag marunong ka magturo sa kanila, yung thera ay magiging future rich businesswoman. 

[hi_hello]

16 hours ago, citibank said:

So what if u fall for a thera? Does that mean  uve lowered ur standards or level? So ur entitled to a better relationship because someone was born with a different circumstance in life? Antaas naman ng tingin mu sa sarili mu pre, pareho pareho lang tayu..if u feel ur entitled, then remember this, Jesus chose the lows of the lows, the sinners, to spread the good news..which is God loves you no matter who or what you are..for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Yung magagandang ginagawa mu ay para lng basahan sa tingin ng Dyos, so sinu ka para mang discriminate? 

ang issue brad is kung ma fall ka is ano ba mahal ni thera sayo ikaw at pagkatao mo as a whole or ung pera mo hindi ung bababa standards or level.. isa sa favorite na topic ko sa mtc eto at sobrang daming kwento sa almost 600 pages na yan ng heartbreaks ng mga gm sa mga thera. madami naloko o kaya inutangan meron pinagpalit sa iba na mas madami pera meron sinabay sabay silang mga gm and so on. kahit barkada ko na nafall inubos savings niya tapos di na pinansin nung wala na mahoothoot sakanya. may regular ako dati na nabarkada ko na may 4 daw sya na gm na boyfriend. im not saying na walang successful relationships from gms and theras because meron din naman. pero most gms here are saying as much as possible, di ka dapat dito sa industry na eto naghahanap ng love. pero kung na fall ka prepare mo ung puso mo sa mga pagsubok na tatahakin mo.   

Edited September 3, 2022 by hi_hello