Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[handsomebob]

with the surplus of women over men....find someone na lang and wag na sa industry na ito if weak ka or kokonti pera...

in some or most cases, pera pera labanan

pero there are always exception to the rule and bibihira yung thera na di mukhang pera and will love you for the person you are! but you have to get through a lot of tests before you can break down their walls...

 

[pussywagon]

nung mag sara ang Artizen Spa sa Makati, biglang di na ma contact ang favorite thera ko. 

Madalas ko syang kunin, GFE and will do anything for me. Madalas din kami mag text noon. then biglang nawala ang spa, and di ko na sya macontact. Nakakalungkot.

[handsomebob]

6 minutes ago, pussywagon said:

nung mag sara ang Artizen Spa sa Makati, biglang di na ma contact ang favorite thera ko. 

Madalas ko syang kunin, GFE and will do anything for me. Madalas din kami mag text noon. then biglang nawala ang spa, and di ko na sya macontact. Nakakalungkot.

na raid sila bro, nabalitaan mo ba yun? and the thread were detained for a period of time kaya ka siguro di ka niya na contact, it was on the news! 

[Ernest Ty]

On 6/10/2022 at 7:34 AM, handsomebob said:

I say depende pa din sa ugali ng therapist bro, even if you treat her very well kung masama naman talaga ugali ng thera, gagamitin ka lang but not all and there are really some na if you treat them well, they will treat you even better but kokonti lang sila dito sadly...

 

Mr. Bob, its me again, based on my experience, masasabi kong, don't even think or entertain the idea of falling for them. Magpakalayo layo ka na lang at mas mainam pang magmahal ng baliw kaysa sa isang thera. 🤣 yung akin eh nakilala ko na baguhan escort, ngayon isa syang sikat na thera.

[handsomebob]

36 minutes ago, Ernest Ty said:

Mr. Bob, its me again, based on my experience, masasabi kong, don't even think or entertain the idea of falling for them. Magpakalayo layo ka na lang at mas mainam pang magmahal ng baliw kaysa sa isang thera. 🤣 yung akin eh nakilala ko na baguhan escort, ngayon isa syang sikat na thera.

i don't blame you sir kung ito opinion mo and i do agree but i think there are some theras na sobrang mabait and di mukhang pera...i know some and they are good friends na din 

but most of them are really cold creatures! LOL

[Ernest Ty]

1 hour ago, handsomebob said:

i don't blame you sir kung ito opinion mo and i do agree but i think there are some theras na sobrang mabait and di mukhang pera...i know some and they are good friends na din 

but most of them are really cold creatures! LOL

Hangang ngayon nga pinipiga parin ako nung ex ko eh😂🤣

[Charles Saints]

Pano magpa reserve sa mira spa? Tia

[handsomebob]

42 minutes ago, Ernest Ty said:

Hangang ngayon nga pinipiga parin ako nung ex ko eh😂🤣

ouch that's bad sir 🤣🤣🤣

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

14 hours ago, Howdy Doody said:

Your experience sir is the patented script of the beginning and ending of these kinds of relationship.

Yessir, lesson learned. It's really an experience. I don't recommend it, but I have some really great memories ha ha ha it was just fun while it lasted, and I think that's the takeaway have fun, and then get the heck out of Dodge. 

[Ice Lover]

True. My advice too is to run away if feelings are starting to get involve. Not worth it even if your intentions are pure for the thera, better stay as good friends. Find someone outside the industry if you want romantic relationship.

Dont stick to one thera at a time thats a disaster waiting to happen, maybe a roster of 2-4 regular thera. Remember why you're here, to relax, not to give yourself additional headaches.

[Ernest Ty]

11 hours ago, handsomebob said:

ouch that's bad sir 🤣🤣🤣

Nagbunga kasi ng batang babae, kaya yun din ang dahilan kaya pinagbibigyan 

[DIRTY HARRY]

agree... it's more fun to have plenty of thera friends... you could invite them out for dinner, on leisure trips etc....  you can always visit the spa  where they  work for your pleasure. it's logical... 

[Anonymous]

Be good friends with a thera. Get to know her well. Dun mo naman malalaman kung talagang pera lang ang habol o hinde. Once they retire, and you feel the same after knowing yung actual intentions and anu yung pagkakakilala mo, then go for it.

[Howdy Doody]

21 hours ago, Ernest Ty said:

Nagbunga kasi ng batang babae, kaya yun din ang dahilan kaya pinagbibigyan 

Yun naman pala, eh. Pero sigurado ka bang iyo yun?

[LookingOswald]

Interesting thread, nice to hear some stories here. I made friends with the one that I've been looking for many years, it's been an interesting experience so far. It's nice to be the one texted first, and not always about service. 

Should you date them? As a general rule, obviously not. But our therapists are that - they make for good confidants and friends. Good tropa material that you can share intimacy with. Just keep a healthy distance in terms of frequency and openness between to not get into trouble. 

[Iceman7]

22 hours ago, DIRTY HARRY said:

agree... it's more fun to have plenty of thera friends... you could invite them out for dinner, on leisure trips etc....  you can always visit the spa  where they  work for your pleasure. it's logical... 

This is the way

[Onesymus]

Expand your connections.. Para iba iba ang luto

 

[Sugah Roll]

Happened to me. I dated a thera once tapos may naka kilala sa kanya sa mall. 

[Howdy Doody]

46 minutes ago, Sugah Roll said:

Happened to me. I dated a thera once tapos may naka kilala sa kanya sa mall. 

That is bound to happen. 

[Abdula]

Once we are falling to each other, we go out elsewhere, but i decided not to pursue into it coz I’m married, ouch sorry i didn’t mean to hurt her… peace!

[Kingkongphils]

Kung mahal mo nmn talaga e d Go lng ng Go. mararamdaman mo nmn kung mahal ka din. Basta kaya mo tanggapin. Kwento nga ng thera ko, ung isang handler na ngyn. Ung G tinyaga ung thera. Well d mo masabi kung mahal nga nya ung thera o okey na sa kanya ung LK paminsan minsa. Pero nung nag pandemic nauso ung outcall, e handler na ngyn ung 2. mantakin mo napaka swerte nmn ni mokong. ngyn may free taste and first taste na si mokong.

 

[Centurion328]

Interesting discussion here. Maganda to pag usapan over bottles of beer, hahahaha!

Muntik ng mangyari sa akin to but I controlled myself. It was not as easy as saying this as I struggled getting over her. Ang hirap pero ginamit ko utak ko. There are times na pinagjajakolan ko yung mga lugar sa bahay kung saan kami may session dati. Binata ako so I can do whatever I want sa bahay. I remember naka pekpek short sya preparing our dinner tapos ibaba ko yun and pasok right there and then. Or sa sala nag tumigas, pauupuin ko sya on my tool, hahaha!

To cut the story short, nagkamabutihan kami ni thera and sa bahay ko na nag-iistay pag day off nya. At some point, she is already hinting to level up our "relationship" by introducing me to her family after nya pagbakasyon ng probinsya.

I understood the signal. I did not agree to meet her family kasi alam ko na ano implication nun. Nanlamig na sya pagkatapos nun.

My reason? I dismissed it na baka libog lang ang attachment ko sa kanya. I also thought of long-term. I am aware that after a while, mawawala na ang libog and duon na lalabas kung compatible ba talaga kami or mahal ba talaga namin ang isat isa? Hindi ako sigurado. Masyado ring kumplikado na mga kaibigan ko kinakantot sya dati tapos magiging misis or partner ko. Also, the nagging question, pano pag nawalan ako ng pera? Will she still stay with me? 

It turns out na pwede pala sya wife material. Naghahanap na pala talaga ng paglalagyan nya ng tahimik. After us, bumalik ulit sya sa scene and less than a year, nakahanap ng seryoso (How did I know? Kasi ayaw nya na ng contact sa akin kasi meron na daw syang sineseryoso). Then nawala at nagsama na sila. Now, meron na silang dalawang anak and I think they are still together. Mukhang dedicated kasi sya na pumutol sa communication namin kasi may pamilya na daw sya.

Could have been me. Pero mahirap talaga pag galing sa ganitong industriya ang girl. I suppose for both parties kasi thera tingin din sa atin is maraming babae. I played safe. Naka get over na ako, pero nanghihinayang ako. 

 

P.S. hindi ko na pinagjajakolan yung mga lugar tornakan namin sa bahay. 

 

 

 

[cutiechavez]

18 hours ago, Centurion328 said:

Interesting discussion here. Maganda to pag usapan over bottles of beer, hahahaha!

Muntik ng mangyari sa akin to but I controlled myself. It was not as easy as saying this as I struggled getting over her. Ang hirap pero ginamit ko utak ko. There are times na pinagjajakolan ko yung mga lugar sa bahay kung saan kami may session dati. Binata ako so I can do whatever I want sa bahay. I remember naka pekpek short sya preparing our dinner tapos ibaba ko yun and pasok right there and then. Or sa sala nag tumigas, pauupuin ko sya on my tool, hahaha!

To cut the story short, nagkamabutihan kami ni thera and sa bahay ko na nag-iistay pag day off nya. At some point, she is already hinting to level up our "relationship" by introducing me to her family after nya pagbakasyon ng probinsya.

I understood the signal. I did not agree to meet her family kasi alam ko na ano implication nun. Nanlamig na sya pagkatapos nun.

My reason? I dismissed it na baka libog lang ang attachment ko sa kanya. I also thought of long-term. I am aware that after a while, mawawala na ang libog and duon na lalabas kung compatible ba talaga kami or mahal ba talaga namin ang isat isa? Hindi ako sigurado. Masyado ring kumplikado na mga kaibigan ko kinakantot sya dati tapos magiging misis or partner ko. Also, the nagging question, pano pag nawalan ako ng pera? Will she still stay with me? 

It turns out na pwede pala sya wife material. Naghahanap na pala talaga ng paglalagyan nya ng tahimik. After us, bumalik ulit sya sa scene and less than a year, nakahanap ng seryoso (How did I know? Kasi ayaw nya na ng contact sa akin kasi meron na daw syang sineseryoso). Then nawala at nagsama na sila. Now, meron na silang dalawang anak and I think they are still together. Mukhang dedicated kasi sya na pumutol sa communication namin kasi may pamilya na daw sya.

Could have been me. Pero mahirap talaga pag galing sa ganitong industriya ang girl. I suppose for both parties kasi thera tingin din sa atin is maraming babae. I played safe. Naka get over na ako, pero nanghihinayang ako. 

 

P.S. hindi ko na pinagjajakolan yung mga lugar tornakan namin sa bahay. 

nice story, salute.

 

 

 

[Globalsin]

Difficult to maintain and complicated 

[jasonvoorhees13]

If you can get over the thought na marami na syang kasex bukod sau i guess wla naman kaso, if you would marry someone and have her as a housewife mag bibigay ka dn naman ng financial support regardless of the industry they came from... I had nice theras in the past na kahit hnd super satisfied sa sex bawi naman sa small talks about their life even after a few days na kunuha mo cla,.. Just be nice and not overly into sex and you'll get to know them in real life outside of their chosen industry.... 👌Peace