Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Wunnderboy]

Magandang leksyon dito. Wag na itutuloy. Marami pa pwede pagpilian bakit sa thera pa.

[Richelle]

Ok naman as long the feeling is mutual I guess. Nasa usapan na rin. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Pag one sided lang sa part ng GM mag move na lang.😅 Always remember na work ng thera yan.  D sila anjan para ma in love at magpa fall sa mga clients. Wag feelingero na ma fall or in love din sila sa clients nila as they are just doing their best sa work nila. When in doubt, share your feelings directly and ask your thera kung pede sila ligawan at kung may chance ka at kung may feelings sila sa yo and not just as a client. Para walang doubts on the part of the client. Malalaman mo rin ang sagot kung may chance maging kayo and spare yourself the hassle and heartache. Just sharing. 😊 

[handsomebob]

On 5/6/2022 at 12:06 AM, Wunnderboy said:

Magandang leksyon dito. Wag na itutuloy. Marami pa pwede pagpilian bakit sa thera pa.

This is probably the clearest reason why!! hehe

there are bank tellers, even pretty sales ladies pwedeng ligawan -- the chance of success is greater than falling in love with a therapist or an attendant!!

[SAGITTARIAN]

9 hours ago, Richelle said:

Ok naman as long the feeling is mutual I guess. Nasa usapan na rin. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Pag one sided lang sa part ng GM mag move na lang.😅 Always remember na work ng thera yan.  D sila anjan para ma in love at magpa fall sa mga clients. Wag feelingero na ma fall or in love din sila sa clients nila as they are just doing their best sa work nila. When in doubt, share your feelings directly and ask your thera kung pede sila ligawan at kung may chance ka at kung may feelings sila sa yo and not just as a client. Para walang doubts on the part of the client. Malalaman mo rin ang sagot kung may chance maging kayo and spare yourself the hassle and heartache. Just sharing. 😊 

tama hehehe kaya ako iwas sa falling talga,better pa na friends kmi 

[plug]

On 5/2/2022 at 9:04 PM, just_checking said:

D ko naman nilalahat, pero majority ng thera ay habol syempre ay pera. If wala ka makikitang effort or investment na ginagawa nya sa ginagawa mo. Have fun na lang, reserve mo yung effort and resource sa tamang partner.

Bigay ka lang ng bigay ng pera hanggat kaya mo at gusto mo siya sa tabi mo. Wala naman sasabihin si thera kundi mahal ka niya. Nasa iyo dapat kung saan ang patutunguhan.

[Evil_damon]

si ko pn try ma fall. sexual attraction lng. madalas naging tropa ko pa ung tgera. hahaha

[samlcd]

You fall in love to the person not the profession. If you love the person then you need to look beyond the profession and make an effort to know her and treat her as a normal person.

 

Hindi ung dahil nagagawa mo sa kanya or ginagawa nya sayo ung hindi mo nagagawa or ginagawa ng GF/Wife/Partner mo sayo ay masasabi mo ng love yun. Also, it will take a lot of patience and understanding since nasa ganitong industry sila.

Pero sympre always look out for red flags. 😅

[Wenche]

Pwede lang siguro yan pag more than 1 year mo na kilala ang thera.

[Panibugho]

Having that first time, naranasan ko na din ang ibig sabihin nito. You get that sense of affection during, but then you come back to the reality that it was just a paid job to them, and then you're left in the feeling.

Hirap, especially when you're broken and vulnerable like me.  

[scsicnarf]

if you fall for a thera... what would you expect in return and how would you know na it genuinely for you?

[handsomebob]

42 minutes ago, scsicnarf said:

if you fall for a thera... what would you expect in return and how would you know na it genuinely for you?

kung single kayo parehas, start a family is probably the best thing.....it only complicates if the Guy is in a relationship or worse, married, if both parties agree, support si GM kay THERA and THERA serves her BF na GM....but this is not as easy as I typed it...

I think it's best to really get to know the person and make sacrifices if necessary!

 

[Wenche]

Meron ako inobserbahan sa spa. Mga 4 months na. Ewan ko ano patutunguhan.

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

On 5/11/2022 at 4:38 PM, scsicnarf said:

if you fall for a thera... what would you expect in return and how would you know na it genuinely for you?

Well men will expect the same things they expect from a non-Thera and if they don’t support her fully financially then generally they are in for a rude awakening 

You can never know the real and true internal state of another person except from their external and observable actions, so if you see it and believe it big ups 

Edited May 12, 2022 by BRAIN FOR HIRE

[FF]

On 5/11/2022 at 4:38 PM, scsicnarf said:

if you fall for a thera... what would you expect in return and how would you know na it genuinely for you?

Comrade first siguro ... is the feeling mutual ?

If it is then it leads to all sorts of things. Like if she quits for love for you will you help her financially ? Kaya mo ba?

Second what chance is there for her to lead a normal productive life ? Can she get a job ?

Third ... where will this all lead to ?  Are you really compatible ? Do you see it as a temporary thing or will it have a chance of going further leading to permanent companionship ... marriage /family / kids ?

 

[Tipreth]

On 5/8/2022 at 5:27 AM, handsomebob said:

This is probably the clearest reason why!! hehe

there are bank tellers, even pretty sales ladies pwedeng ligawan -- the chance of success is greater than falling in love with a therapist or an attendant!!

marami maganda bank teller bdo and bpi pati mga sales lady lalo na dun sa mga branded store , window shopping ka lang patanong tanong pero iba pala pakay mo haha...at pag ganyan parang madali lang kunin loob, karamihan down to earth simpleng starbucks lang pwede na hehe

wag din masyado marupok, napagdaanan ko na rin yan dati though fling lang naman lumalabas labas kami pero wala naman talaga commitment and alam ko marami nagpaparamdam sa kanya dati ng ibang guest ikaw ba naman kasi top

kaya ngayon pag may nag text ng kamusta, kamustahin mo na lang din pero isip isip mabuti kung ikaw lang kinakamusta o marami kayo lol

[Tipreth]

23 minutes ago, BRAIN FOR HIRE said:

You can never know the real and true internal state of another person except from their external and observable actions, so if you see it and believe it big ups 

which is usually never shown in the walls of a confined room, malalaman mo lang naman talaga ugali until you encounter such unusual scenario

[Second Mavic]

Naalala nyo pa ba ko? 

"You'll never know unti you try,"

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

13 hours ago, BRIGHTER said:

I don't know if it's falling in love. I just want to have regular sex sessions with her. Besides, theras usually allow you to have sex with other girls too. So it makes you a winner on both ends.

Don’t fall for it. 

[TradingGenius]

On 5/2/2022 at 11:36 PM, Brigette of Pussycat said:

naglabas na po siya ng saloobin😅 😊

Galing mo kasing makipagusap, haha. Biglang napaiyak.

Edited May 15, 2022 by TradingGenius

[TradingGenius]

On 5/2/2022 at 9:39 PM, Eric Draven said:

I just can’t stop to fall for her.

Then stop seeing her.  There are a  lot of fish in the ocean.  You are just asking for a lot of pain. Been there done that. Not worth it.

Kaya ngayon may bucket list ako,  I just go throught the bucket list and enjoy.  At the end of day, they will give you the service that you  pay for.

 

Edited May 15, 2022 by TradingGenius

[Mad Damian]

On 5/12/2022 at 9:13 PM, Tipreth said:

marami maganda bank teller bdo and bpi pati mga sales lady lalo na dun sa mga branded store , window shopping ka lang patanong tanong pero iba pala pakay mo haha...at pag ganyan parang madali lang kunin loob, karamihan down to earth simpleng starbucks lang pwede na hehe

wag din masyado marupok, napagdaanan ko na rin yan dati though fling lang naman lumalabas labas kami pero wala naman talaga commitment and alam ko marami nagpaparamdam sa kanya dati ng ibang guest ikaw ba naman kasi top

kaya ngayon pag may nag text ng kamusta, kamustahin mo na lang din pero isip isip mabuti kung ikaw lang kinakamusta o marami kayo lol

Idol talaga!

👏👏👏

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

On 5/2/2022 at 9:39 PM, Eric Draven said:

I just can’t stop to fall for her.

 

On 5/2/2022 at 10:11 PM, Eric Draven said:

At saka kapag tinanggihan niya yung perang ibinibigay mo. Tapos Sasabihin, “ganyan ba tingin mo sa akin?”

 

Anyway she’s not an active thera in any MTC SPA anymore kaya I don’t know if this is still counted.

Patay tayo dyan! Mukhang Mahal mo na nga sya Sir. 👍🏻

[handsomebob]

9 hours ago, Second Mavic said:

Naalala nyo pa ba ko? 

"You'll never know unti you try,"

yes mam, napapag usapan ka pa dito....

pa PM na lang if saan ka pwede makasama, hehehe

 

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

3 hours ago, handsomebob said:

yes mam, napapag usapan ka pa dito....

pa PM na lang if saan ka pwede makasama, hehehe

Yown! Nice one my Friend. Hehe

[Howdy Doody]

You are a SIMP. Just imagine the body count she has gone through. You are a better guy than that. Use them as a means to satisfy your short term cravings, but not for long term relationships. Too much baggage. Not worth it. It will never last.