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kuha ka na lang ng ibang attendant. para divided yung attention.

When you already fell for her, even if you took another thera it just won't work. You will not be satisfied with her kahit GFE sya or PSE which ever you prefer. Siya pa rin ang hahanap hanapin mo. Others can try but didn't work for me before.

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I go to Spas for purely carnal and physical desires, not to fall in love or to give romance a chance.

Once the 'deed' is done, i come out satisfied without guilt or carry on baggage. It is simply a business transaction. :rolleyes:

Everyone goes to Spas with that intention. You don't plan to fall for a thera, It just happens. I think the best way to avoid this is don't get a regular thera. Just jump on different thera everytime. Sayang nga lang sa mga opportunites that having a regular thera gives.

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mahirap, especially pag committed ka na...

 

i think if going to other spa won't help, avoid espa muna for a time or just stop completely.

 

 

but if you're not committed to somebody else, what's wrong with loving a therapist? especially if the therapists feels the same...

 

if both of you pursue the love, then agree on doable terms not commit to terms that you guys cannot commit... be honest if you can't do the parameters... work together on how you can make it work....

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I guess I can never say it enough in these threads

 

Hindi issue dito ang pagigint "Tao" na marunong din nito, at marunong din nyan. Ang issue dito ay yung emotional maturity ng tao at kakayahan na magdala ng isang healthy relationship.

 

Lahat ng "tao" pwede mainlove. Pero yung totoong ginagamit ang talino at emotional maturity lang ang me kakayahan magnurture ng isang klase ng pagmamahal na nakakabuti sa inyo at hindi nakakasama. Kasi love can either bring out the best and the worst in you. Mas isipin dapat lagi yung ikakabuti over ikakasaya. Kasi di lahat ng bagay na nakakapagpasaya sayo ay nakakabuti nga.

 

Yung mga salitang "acceptance" at "trust", nilalagay din yan sa tamang lugar. Because trust and acceptance is something you need to build and earn most of the time. Kung nandito pa sa trabaho itong babaeng ito, then hindi sya handa magnurture ng isang healthy romantic relationship. Dahil bilang babae, obligasyon nya maging exclusive para sa lalake. Maakbayan nga lang girlfriend mo nagagalit ka na, ito pa kaya?

 

Kaya sana yung mga linyang "Tao lang naman kasi...." o kaya yung walang kamatayang "understand from the heart" iwan na lang yan sa mga lumang pelikula ni Aga Muhlach. Mabuhay tayo sa totoong mundo.

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Ang problema dyan habang masaya ka hindi mo makikita o mararamdaman na mali.

 

Itutuloy mo lang yan pag masaya at nasasarapan kapa, pero pag may problema na dun mo pa lang ma relaize kung saan ka mali at hindi pala dapat.

 

Mahirap sabihin sa mga hindi pa naka experience na hwag mo gawin dahil meron din naman nagka mabutihan at ang problema lahat gustong masubukan kung gaano kasarap habang nandun sa puntong nagmamahalan.

 

Pero pag medyo hindi na nagkakakasundo at may duda na, problema na.

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Yung mga salitang "acceptance" at "trust", nilalagay din yan sa tamang lugar. Because trust and acceptance is something you need to build and earn most of the time. Kung nandito pa sa trabaho itong babaeng ito, then hindi sya handa magnurture ng isang healthy romantic relationship. Dahil bilang babae, obligasyon nya maging exclusive para sa lalake. Maakbayan nga lang girlfriend mo nagagalit ka na, ito pa kaya?

 

 

 

ayan na si sir edmund. hehehe... anyway agree ako sa part na eto sir edmund. dagdag ko lang kung maging kayo man nung thera dapat priority mong maialis sya o maconvince mo na umalis, magresign at wag ng bumalik sa ganyang trabaho.

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