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A few pages back I did quite a long post on why you really shouldn't and just be friends with them. Where it was was still one's choice to pursue or not.

Right now I'm in a situation where I didn't follow my own advise. I'm in a relationship with a therapist. I tried so hard not to fall for her. We were really friends at first. As in talagang magkaibigan. But then things started to develop between us. Then one thing led to another and we're together na.

Sometimes, I would ask myself "What am I doing?". I'd take metal notes on why I should just break it off, but one thing would stand out. I love her.

 

She asked me once if I really loved her why am I still allowing her to be a therapist. I gave a simple answer, because it's her choice not mine...and it's somthing I should respect. She mentioned that she was contemplating on leaving the profession, but I'd always tell her that it's a choice I'm not gonna make for her. I'd be lying if I said that I didn't want her to leave that way of life. But again she has to make that decision herself.

I don't really know where this is going to go. Or how long we can keep this up. But we're happy. Though just like any relationship it's not always peachy. She's younger so may topak pa.

I dunno what else to say here, but I'll just see what happens....

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A few pages back I did quite a long post on why you really shouldn't and just be friends with them. Where it was was still one's choice to pursue or not.

 

Right now I'm in a situation where I didn't follow my own advise. I'm in a relationship with a therapist. I tried so hard not to fall for her. We were really friends at first. As in talagang magkaibigan. But then things started to develop between us. Then one thing led to another and we're together na.

 

Sometimes, I would ask myself "What am I doing?". I'd take metal notes on why I should just break it off, but one thing would stand out. I love her.

 

She asked me once if I really loved her why am I still allowing her to be a therapist. I gave a simple answer, because it's her choice not mine...and it's somthing I should respect. She mentioned that she was contemplating on leaving the profession, but I'd always tell her that it's a choice I'm not gonna make for her. I'd be lying if I said that I didn't want her to leave that way of life. But again she has to make that decision herself.

 

I don't really know where this is going to go. Or how long we can keep this up. But we're happy. Though just like any relationship it's not always peachy. She's younger so may topak pa.

 

I dunno what else to say here, but I'll just see what happens....

 

this is all the answer any decent man would ever need to walk away.

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I just don't get it...what motivates any man want to get into a relationship with a girl na araw-araw tumatrabaho ng iba't ibang lalake? :excl: desperation? boredom? curiosity? whatever it may be, things like this is supposed to be common sense already ....

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I just don't get it...what motivates any man want to get into a relationship with a girl na araw-araw tumatrabaho ng iba't ibang lalake? :excl: desperation? boredom? curiosity? whatever it may be, things like this is supposed to be common sense already ....

 

Try mo mag-spa para ma-gets mo.

 

Ang tao nalulungkot. At pag nakita niya iyong bagay o lugar na nakakapawi ng lungkot niya, babalik-balikan niya ito. Pagkaraan ng panahon, ang pagpawi ng lungkot ay nagbubunga ng pag-ibig, kahit panandalian lamang.

 

Ang tao ay marupok. At pag hinaplos ng pagmamahal ang puso niya, natutukso siya at napapaibig. Di na niya iniisip kung ano ang hanapbuhay ng dilag. Ang importante sa kanya, napapasaya siya.

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Try mo mag-spa para ma-gets mo.

 

Ang tao nalulungkot. At pag nakita niya iyong bagay o lugar na nakakapawi ng lungkot niya, babalik-balikan niya ito. Pagkaraan ng panahon, ang pagpawi ng lungkot ay nagbubunga ng pag-ibig, kahit panandalian lamang.

 

Ang tao ay marupok. At pag hinaplos ng pagmamahal ang puso niya, natutukso siya at napapaibig. Di na niya iniisip kung ano ang hanapbuhay ng dilag. Ang importante sa kanya, napapasaya siya.

 

^and while you're smitten head over heels with her, she's laughing her way to the bank na with yer cash.... :lol: thanks but no thanks though, wala ako intensyon makipag relasyon o kahit makipag holding hands man lang sa babaeng "humahaplos" sa kasingit-singitan ng katawan ng iba't ibang lalake sa araw-araw :P i dont want me catching some other dude's crabs hahahaha.... :lol: :lol: :lol:

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^and while you're smitten head over heels with her, she's laughing her way to the bank na with yer cash.... :lol: thanks but no thanks though, wala ako intensyon makipag relasyon o kahit makipag holding hands man lang sa babaeng "humahaplos" sa kasingit-singitan ng katawan ng iba't ibang lalake sa araw-araw :P i dont want me catching some other dude's crabs hahahaha.... :lol: :lol: :lol:

 

well, good for you then. :) my guess is most of these guys got into this by accident. i seriously doubt anybody among them just woke up and said, "today i want to fall for a therapist." it just happens.

 

but doesn't really matter. as you said, you don't intend to walk in their shoes. i assume they're too dirty for you.

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bah! there is no such thing as "accidental" it is downright curiosity that got the better of them that's for sure. Things like this don't just happen too, it happened bec they have let their libog get the better of them - and for us guys, that's one natural urge that's too compelling to even resist...sadly, they just didn't put much thought into it at first and look where their "choice" has gotten them.

 

a good HJ/BJ can really turn a man into something he's not..... im soooo glad i ain't one of them :lol:

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bah! there is no such thing as "accidental" it is downright curiosity that got the better of them that's for sure. Things like this don't just happen too, it happened bec they have let their libog get the better of them - and for us guys, that's one natural urge that's too compelling to even resist...sadly, they just didn't put much thought into it at first and look where their "choice" has gotten them.

 

a good HJ/BJ can really turn a man into something he's not..... im soooo glad i ain't one of them :lol:

 

dude, we get it. youre better than anyone else in here. you think with your really really big head. kudos to you

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