Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[happy rider]

NDI YATA PWEDE SAKEN ITO.

[oninpo]

just an update

after 2 months of dating she decided to quit her job and deciding if to go back to school or get a different job. sabi nya isa daw ako sa mga reasons kung bakit sya aalis sa work nya. I suggest na mag go back to school sya and pursue nya degree nya downside is sa province sya mga aaral at ayaw nyang magaral sa manila. Mdami kasi syang clients na nanliligaw sa kanya some stop after nilang malamang na may bf na sya and some wants to meet me... weird lang. marami na kasing nag ooffer sa kanya na i bahay na sya then suddenly umepal ako. I wanted the best for her thats why I suggested na mag aral sya pero mukhang magiging long distance relationship kami. ewan ko kung masusurvive namin to. wait and see parin ako .

[oninpo]

congratulations.

 

may scholar ka na.

 

i hope you guys weather through.

sya mag papaaral sa sarile nya kung sakaling ituloy nya...she makes way more money than me

[trac006]

Kadalasan spur of the moment lang naman lalo na kakagaling mo lang sa ligaya IMHO.

[haroots2]

sya mag papaaral sa sarile nya kung sakaling ituloy nya...she makes way more money than me

 

But if she stopped working, eventually her earnings will not be enough if she doesn't have any alternate source of income.

[trac006]

Tulak ng bibig, kabig ng dibdib!

Nothing wrong with loving a thera, pero be ready to accept the consequences.

Lifestyle, upbringing, opinions, siguradong magkaiba kayo ng malayo.

Get to know her a bit more before diving in!

[Mr.Dip]

Good point sir.

[trac006]

Kung ibabahay naman ang thera, either maitim ang balak ng benefactor or sadyang mabait lang na gustong makatulong.

it's still a good chance even if it's the easy way out for them.

[dibdba]

Kung ibabahay naman ang thera, either maitim ang balak ng benefactor or sadyang mabait lang na gustong makatulong.

it's still a good chance even if it's the easy way out for them.

 

There are a handful of exceptions as love comes from the most unexpected places. But money is still key in relationships like this, especially if it involves the retirement of the girl from the sex industry.

 

if a guy has a lot of money and is loved by the girl, she will retire.

 

if a guy has a lot of money, but is unloved by the girl, the girl may still retire. Tiis na lang iyong girl and try niya mahalin iyong guy.

If a guy has a little money but is loved truly by the girl, the girl may still retire. Tipid na lang kung kaya.

 

if a guy has no money, but is loved truly by the girl, it is unlikely that she will retire.

[mr.edwardcollins]

I don't see a problem but are you confusing infatuation with love perhaps?

[korinax]

may minsang nagsselos na ako kapag ndi sya nagrereply.

buti natigilan ko. haha

[toruk makto]

yun mga storya na gustong garahe yun babae ay cguro d totoo. cno ba nmn aayaw sa pag ginarahe ka? exceptions cguro aayaw hndi yun rule.

[bughaw1]

just make sure that you dont get played

[trac006]

 

There are a handful of exceptions as love comes from the most unexpected places. But money is still key in relationships like this, especially if it involves the retirement of the girl from the sex industry.

 

if a guy has a lot of money and is loved by the girl, she will retire.

 

if a guy has a lot of money, but is unloved by the girl, the girl may still retire. Tiis na lang iyong girl and try niya mahalin iyong guy.

If a guy has a little money but is loved truly by the girl, the girl may still retire. Tipid na lang kung kaya.

 

if a guy has no money, but is loved truly by the girl, it is unlikely that she will retire.

 

 

If a benefactor wants to truly help the girl, he won't get her a house or an apartment or live with her. The guy will just give her money if and when he has some cash to spare.

 

good points mga bro.

 

pero is it really love if you just want to provide for her? pwede kasing awa at gusto lang talaga makatulong, which makes it totally different.

my view here, mas ok pa na tumulong lang lang kesa i-bahay. give them gifts or whatever para di naman mukhang inaabutan lang sila ng pera.

something na hindi nila ganun kadaling mabibili like phones, tablets or other expensive stuff.

 

in return, i'm sure aalagaan ka din nilang mabuti pero without any sort of commitment na iniiwasan ng karamihan.

[trac006]

"Housing" a therapist connotes a quid pro quo and I guess you all know what that quid pro quo is.

But not everyone is looking for that kind of exchange. Going back to the OT, loving does not necessarily mean housing and getting the quid pro quo. Heck, housing even sounds very derogatory for them.

 

I'd still give a thumbs down to the housing them idea.