Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Edmund Dantes]

Sports is good and I also suggest to find a regular hobby (collections, games even video or computer games to hook your addiction to something else). I understand why you won't forget your regular MPA. Kumbaga your compatible to her not unlike to other mp girls kaya wala sila naging attachments sayo kahit same approach ang gawin mo. To each is own, may kanya kanya preferences ang mga guys and if you found all or most of the qualities to her, boom your 2 heads will not work and your heart will take over. Try siraan mo siya sa sarili mo, mag isip ka ng negative about her to turn you off to her.

Don't find yet a GF coz it will just complicate things and baka bumagsak ka lalo. You are still young to make this a learning experience and if you have a elder female friend that will understand and can talk to about this, I think that would also help.

 

 

Have a nice day also and good luck.

 

Very good points my man! Hindi ka talaga tutulungan ng bisyo bumangon pag bumagsak ka. Its only through treating yourself with better care and dedicating youself to self-improvement can you really recover. Mas mahirap talaga mag-self improve kung masyado kang depressed. Pero kelangan mo pilitin at gamitin ang force of will mo para umpisahan ito. In the end, it will be so much worth it.

[boybaog]

The women working as a PSP/GRO/MP or SPA attendants are there I would say for a single reason: Money. I am yet to meet someone working in this kind of industry because they enjoy it. We GMs on the other hand, avail of their services for different reasons, but it should never be about love and finding someone as your partner.

 

Remember, think with your head that has brain and not the one being groped by your thera. =)

 

 

hi all! I have had an experience with a psp and it's not about the money at all. she was missing out on intimacy and I was there unattached, and it came at the right time. it didn't work out but I have to say it was one of the more memorable relationships ive had, since ive learned to be more open minded on my perspective and as well as a woman's needs. the sex was of epic pornographic proportions but at the end of the day, it was really about the connection we had.

[Edmund Dantes]

hi all! I have had an experience with a psp and it's not about the money at all. she was missing out on intimacy and I was there unattached, and it came at the right time. it didn't work out but I have to say it was one of the more memorable relationships ive had, since ive learned to be more open minded on my perspective and as well as a woman's needs. the sex was of epic pornographic proportions but at the end of the day, it was really about the connection we had.

 

Huwag ka sana magagalit parekoy ha, for the sake of discussion lang naman ito. Nun bang naging kayo tumigil sya sa linya na yan? Kasi kung hindi pano mo nasisiguro na di rin sya ganyan sa ibang lalake? Tsaka eto personal kong pananaw. Ako kasi, if the girl is with me, akin lang dapat sya. Ayoko may hahawak ng iba sa katawan nya.

 

Pero I give you na lang the benefit of the doubt. If the relationship was meaningful and did something to turn you into a better person, then congratulations. Pero exemption rather than the rule ang mga ganito para sakin.

[haroots2]

Huwag ka sana magagalit parekoy ha, for the sake of discussion lang naman ito. Nun bang naging kayo tumigil sya sa linya na yan? Kasi kung hindi pano mo nasisiguro na di rin sya ganyan sa ibang lalake? Tsaka eto personal kong pananaw. Ako kasi, if the girl is with me, akin lang dapat sya. Ayoko may hahawak ng iba sa katawan nya.

 

Pero I give you na lang the benefit of the doubt. If the relationship was meaningful and did something to turn you into a better person, then congratulations. Pero exemption rather than the rule ang mga ganito para sakin.

 

Yes, its more of an exemption rather than the rule but there are meaningful relationships come out but rarely. They also deserves a happy personal love life and family life. As long as they are not eaten up by their job its still salvageable. Those who are still new in the business is the best bet to pull them out and have a new life with the guy.

[Edmund Dantes]

Yes, its more of an exemption rather than the rule but there are meaningful relationships come out but rarely. They also deserves a happy personal love life and family life. As long as they are not eaten up by their job its still salvageable. Those who are still new in the business is the best bet to pull them out and have a new life with the guy.

 

Ok nandun na ako, lahat ng tao pwede magbago kung gugustuhin. Kaya kung seryoso talaga yung babae na mabuhay ng malinis, talikuran nya muna ang linya nya di ba? Yun ang first step siguro na kelangan para maging deserving sa tiwala ng isang matinong lalake. Ang hirap kasi sa maraming lalake dito, nahuhulog na kaagad, pero ni hindi naman nakakausap o nakikita yung babae sa labas ng trabaho nya. So papano ka makakasiguro na itong babaeng ito hindi ganyan sa ibang lalake?

 

Isa pa, naniniwala ako na dapat responsibilidad ng babae na ialis sarili nya sa ganung klase ng kalakaran at di dapat iniaasa na lang sa kung kaninong lalake. Kasi parang prostitution pa din yun kung tutuusin. Gusto mo bilhin nung lalake pagmamahal at pagkatao mo ng pangakong malinis na buhay? I don't think it should work that way.

[haroots2]

Ok nandun na ako, lahat ng tao pwede magbago kung gugustuhin. Kaya kung seryoso talaga yung babae na mabuhay ng malinis, talikuran nya muna ang linya nya di ba? Yun ang first step siguro na kelangan para maging deserving sa tiwala ng isang matinong lalake. Ang hirap kasi sa maraming lalake dito, nahuhulog na kaagad, pero ni hindi naman nakakausap o nakikita yung babae sa labas ng trabaho nya. So papano ka makakasiguro na itong babaeng ito hindi ganyan sa ibang lalake?

 

Isa pa, naniniwala ako na dapat responsibilidad ng babae na ialis sarili nya sa ganung klase ng kalakaran at di dapat iniaasa na lang sa kung kaninong lalake. Kasi parang prostitution pa din yun kung tutuusin. Gusto mo bilhin nung lalake pagmamahal at pagkatao mo ng pangakong malinis na buhay? I don't think it should work that way.

 

I agree with you. The main problem here its usually the girl is the bread winner of her family and are you willing/can afford to help her in this aspect. Most of these girls are just high school graduate or even under grad. And usually she has a child already. Very complicated life to enter in and thats really depend how deeply in love you are. If one can avoid this, try to avoid it as early as possible because believe me its so much complicated.

[Edmund Dantes]

I agree with you. The main problem here its usually the girl is the bread winner of her family and are you willing/can afford to help her in this aspect. Most of these girls are just high school graduate or even under grad. And usually she has a child already. Very complicated life to enter in and thats really depend how deeply in love you are. If one can avoid this, try to avoid it as early as possible because believe me its so much complicated.

 

Its a question of "why is it worth it?", Itong mga ganitong klaseng setup kasi, ang daming risk na masaktan ng sobra. What's worth taking all that? At the end pag nalaman mo sa huli na pera lang habol sayo nung babae, eh di magmumukha kang gago talaga. Pwera pa yun, maimagine mo ba na ang babaeng nilagay mo sa pinakamataas na pedestal hinahawakan ng ibang lalake? Di ka ba maiinsecure nun?

 

Love is not enough to make a fruitful relationship eh. You also need trust, honesty, friendship, loyalty etc. Kung puro love ka lang lagi, mapapahamak ka nyan.

 

Most of all, why short-change yourself di ba? Kung pwede ka naman kumuha ng maayos na babae who wont put you through all that risk? Kelangan kasi di lang puro puso ginagamit kundi utak din

[boybaog]

Huwag ka sana magagalit parekoy ha, for the sake of discussion lang naman ito. Nun bang naging kayo tumigil sya sa linya na yan? Kasi kung hindi pano mo nasisiguro na di rin sya ganyan sa ibang lalake? Tsaka eto personal kong pananaw. Ako kasi, if the girl is with me, akin lang dapat sya. Ayoko may hahawak ng iba sa katawan nya.

 

Pero I give you na lang the benefit of the doubt. If the relationship was meaningful and did something to turn you into a better person, then congratulations. Pero exemption rather than the rule ang mga ganito para sakin.

 

 

no problem sir nagshshare lang din naman po ako... as far I know, tumigil sya. kasi malapit lang bahay nya saken, and all that time na kami, lagi naman kame magkasama. as far as her income that time, she went into waitressing. naging mahirap but for once she saw a glimmer of hope din naman na kaya din nya umalis sa ganung profession. wala din naman ako mabibigay dati, since I wala din ako pera noon, as in wala talaga. it might be fluke yes, but it is true. as far as your question about other men having sex with her, I was also in love and naïve so I never thought of that

[Edmund Dantes]

no problem sir nagshshare lang din naman po ako... as far I know, tumigil sya. kasi malapit lang bahay nya saken, and all that time na kami, lagi naman kame magkasama. as far as her income that time, she went into waitressing. naging mahirap but for once she saw a glimmer of hope din naman na kaya din nya umalis sa ganung profession. wala din naman ako mabibigay dati, since I wala din ako pera noon, as in wala talaga. it might be fluke yes, but it is true. as far as your question about other men having sex with her, I was also in love and naïve so I never thought of that

 

Salamat parekoy sa pagshare mo at hindi pagiging pikon. Masasabi ko lang, congratulations sa iyo at naimpluwensyahan mo na umalis sa linyang yan yung babae. Hopefully she will stay away from it for good. At least may positive influence na nabigay ka sa buhay nya. Pero swertehan na lang talaga ang mga naging tulad mo siguro where the risk paid off naman somehow although sabi mo nga di rin kayo nagkatuluyan. Nonetheless, ang hirap sumugal sa ganitong klaseng babae eh. Lalo kung nameet mo nung time na nasa ganyang kalakaran pa. Tsaka tama ka, mahirap talaga hatak ng damdamin eh. Pag damdamin na ang nangibabaw, yan na ang madidikta ng pangangatwiran mo.

[HomoLove]

Salamat parekoy sa pagshare mo at hindi pagiging pikon. Masasabi ko lang, congratulations sa iyo at naimpluwensyahan mo na umalis sa linyang yan yung babae. Hopefully she will stay away from it for good. At least may positive influence na nabigay ka sa buhay nya. Pero swertehan na lang talaga ang mga naging tulad mo siguro where the risk paid off naman somehow although sabi mo nga di rin kayo nagkatuluyan. Nonetheless, ang hirap sumugal sa ganitong klaseng babae eh. Lalo kung nameet mo nung time na nasa ganyang kalakaran pa. Tsaka tama ka, mahirap talaga hatak ng damdamin eh. Pag damdamin na ang nangibabaw, yan na ang madidikta ng pangangatwiran mo.

 

wow, ang lalim.papa jack ikaw ba yan?

All things in life are temporary. If going well, enjoy it, they will not last forever. If going wrong, don't worry, they can't last long either!

[Aey.Sean]

I agree with you. The main problem here its usually the girl is the bread winner of her family and are you willing/can afford to help her in this aspect. Most of these girls are just high school graduate or even under grad. And usually she has a child already. Very complicated life to enter in and thats really depend how deeply in love you are. If one can avoid this, try to avoid it as early as possible because believe me its so much complicated.

 

Very true, I have a colleague that had this problem and lost all his assets (car, house, gadgets) to help the girl out. Again as the song goes, "Run away as fast as you can!"

[Edmund Dantes]

wow, ang lalim.papa jack ikaw ba yan?

All things in life are temporary. If going well, enjoy it, they will not last forever. If going wrong, don't worry, they can't last long either!

 

Sino si papa jack parekoy? hehehe

 

True life is about taking risk, but we also must be wise and choose the risks that are worth taking. Because we might end up losing more than what we are prepared to. Kaya nga lagi ko sinasabi, kung papasok ka sa gantio, itanong mo muna kung bakit magiging sulit ito magtagumpay ka man o magwagi? Believe me parekoy, pag andyan na yung sobrang sakit baka itanong mo kasi "Bakit ko ba ito ginawa".

 

Pwede maging traydor ang damdamin, kaya magiingat lagi sa paggamit nyan.

[Edmund Dantes]

Very true, I have a colleague that had this problem and lost all his assets (car, house, gadgets) to help the girl out. Again as the song goes, "Run away as fast as you can!"

 

Tama! Like I said, you might end up losing more than what you are prepared to. More than money, you can also lose your pride bilang lalake, you should never risk that para sa kanit kaninong babae.

[boybaog]

Very true, I have a colleague that had this problem and lost all his assets (car, house, gadgets) to help the girl out. Again as the song goes, "Run away as fast as you can!"

 

 

Remove the money factor and the chances of being actually in love with a psp increases (I think) . That time, I didn't have any money when I had that relationship (it was all based on good looks, skill, length and girth. not necessarily in the right order LOL) Men, having the social stigma of being the provider and being magnanimous (and not to mention pride as well), will give and give until it hurts. Syempre, the girl will take, as it is freely given naman eh. Eh kung wala naman maibigay, at mahal ka talaga ng girl, she will find ways to earn a living. In hindsight, we can all learn from this. it can also serve a test to all relationships you have. say you don't have money to buy her the moon. if she flees then either she's not into you or, she's not really into you

[Mr.Tondo]

ako rin nalulungkot darating ang araw d na rin ako makakapnta sa regular mpa ko, kung may gf or asawa na ako...natatakot ako makarma hehe pero ang sarap isipin na nagmamahalan kayo ng mpa nasa inyo n lng hanggang saan cguro nyo un papaabutin...malungkot kung kailangan nyo nang d magkita or maghiwalay or nalaman mong ginagamit ka lng...khit nakatulong ka s knya at napasaya ka nya, sana iniisip mo totoo sya syo...huhuhuhu