Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[loser]

can i ask some advise or option about this kasi...

 

i meet this girl na nagwowork sa massage parlor sa Quezon ave ng time na yon tapos we hang out few months all a sudden tinanong niya ako kung gusto daw siya igarahe nalang siya...so sagot ko di ko kaya pero kung gusto mo i'll help you na magbago pero sa inyo ka magstay don tutulungan kita start a small business para sa future niya at ng mga anak niya( husband nag-abroad daw di nauwi 4 yrs na yata), ito ang one of worst part ng problem nalaman ko may cervix cancer siya maaaring nakuha o palala dahil sa line ng work niya dati, she been confined sa ospital due to much discharge of blood galing sa ovary niya siguro almost 2 months siya don, di ako makapunta pero i send some financial help, start ng problem dumating sa point nalaman ng wife ko about kanya, sa family niya even sa relatives niya kung ano work niya at tungkol sa amin na at may communication pa kami dahil don. ang worst part lahat ng financial at moral support galing sa family at relatives niya nawala na lahat... so meaning wala siya ibang aasahan iba maliban sa akin and some help from co-mpa's niya, she begging me ilabas daw ng ospital, ginawan ko ng paraan para ilabas don at ihanap ng boarding house to stay herein at province i dont realized na ang medication niya ay continues pa up to now which is medyo mabigat din... to cut story short di ko alm kung inlove ba ang tawag don or nagpakatanga lang... sa ganon na set-up kasi married din ako...even my friends and my wife ask me WHY? ang question na hanggang ngayon di alam kung bakit patuloy parin ako it's LOVE ba talaga or AWA kasi alam ko wala ibang malalapitan or will help...

Bro, saludo ako sayo. Unless you've done it live w/ you're MPA girlfriend, have yourself check for Hepa B. It's a common causeof cervical cancer and according to a MPA I know who's also a registered nurse this is the definitive endgame disease for sex workers notwithstanding HIV.

[Rearden]

Bro, saludo ako sayo. Unless you've done it live w/ you're MPA girlfriend, have yourself check for Hepa B. It's a common causeof cervical cancer and according to a MPA I know who's also a registered nurse this is the definitive endgame disease for sex workers notwithstanding HIV.

 

FYI bro, Hepa B affects the liver and can cause liver cancer. HPV (human papillomavirus) infection is an STD that causes cervical cancer. Unlike HIV where you can get by doing it live, you can get HPV even if you used a condom, and though men are safe from contracting cervical cancer, you pass it on to every female you have sex with, with or without condoms!

 

The incubation of HPV varies from weeks to months to years, but seeing that loveko's MPA girlfriend has already been diagnosed with cervical cancer, the probability of loveko being a carrier of the virus is quite high!

 

HPV is highly contagious in that, you don't even need to have penetrative sex to get the virus, that is why, condoms don't offer protection at all.

[silver_ff]

can i ask some advise or option about this kasi...

 

i meet this girl na nagwowork sa massage parlor sa Quezon ave ng time na yon tapos we hang out few months all a sudden tinanong niya ako kung gusto daw siya igarahe nalang siya...so sagot ko di ko kaya pero kung gusto mo i'll help you na magbago pero sa inyo ka magstay don tutulungan kita start a small business para sa future niya at ng mga anak niya( husband nag-abroad daw di nauwi 4 yrs na yata), ito ang one of worst part ng problem nalaman ko may cervix cancer siya maaaring nakuha o palala dahil sa line ng work niya dati, she been confined sa ospital due to much discharge of blood galing sa ovary niya siguro almost 2 months siya don, di ako makapunta pero i send some financial help, start ng problem dumating sa point nalaman ng wife ko about kanya, sa family niya even sa relatives niya kung ano work niya at tungkol sa amin na at may communication pa kami dahil don. ang worst part lahat ng financial at moral support galing sa family at relatives niya nawala na lahat... so meaning wala siya ibang aasahan iba maliban sa akin and some help from co-mpa's niya, she begging me ilabas daw ng ospital, ginawan ko ng paraan para ilabas don at ihanap ng boarding house to stay herein at province i dont realized na ang medication niya ay continues pa up to now which is medyo mabigat din... to cut story short di ko alm kung inlove ba ang tawag don or nagpakatanga lang... sa ganon na set-up kasi married din ako...even my friends and my wife ask me WHY? ang question na hanggang ngayon di alam kung bakit patuloy parin ako it's LOVE ba talaga or AWA kasi alam ko wala ibang malalapitan or will help...

 

 

i think what you felt was more on awa than love..maybe at first u fell in love with her..but as u get too casual with each other u have invested an emotional attachment to ur mpa..just like the others say a decent man like you wont a leave a girl in distress..it's more of nakukunsensya ka na iwan na lang sya basta..well if kaya naman ng bulsa na tulungan sya then go..but you also mentioned na nalaman na ng asawa m about sa kanya isa din yun sa pag isipan m..kasi baka sa sobrang bait m naman di mo na narerealize na family mo na nagsusuffer..

 

i salute u though for being heroic in a way..bihira yun ganyan guy na nagbibigay ng financial help sa mpa or gro ng walang kapalit..usually kasi other men are helping mpa's because of their services..

 

think about it..do what others adviced you about having your wife vaccinated..better be safe..

[silver_ff]

here's my story..around 2 years ago..i met a guy here in mtc and eventually he became my regular..we have many things in common..he was broken hearted when i met him..he came from a failed relationship with a psp..and i came from a failed relationship with my client..we go out on walks every week sometimes 2 times a week and i got to know him better..he always talks about his ex..he always asks me advices on what to do with his girl..so i merely thought that "palipas oras" nya lang ako..he was very supportive financially emotionally..a perfect picture of a boyfriend-to-be..but we became friends..i was controlling myself not to fall for him for what i always hear from him seems like he has not moved on yet..i was just there for him till he confesses that he loves me..i drove him away by not texting/calling him i even said uncessary words/unkind words to him just to drive him away..i told him i dont feel the same way as he did..i did that because i knew he is just fond of me and that he does not really love me..he told me he loved me yet everytime his ex text him she becomes our topic again..i got so jealous that i decided not to see him anymore..i even helped him pursue his ex for i know it'll make him happy..

 

plus i must say it's really hard to invest emotionally to the clients..minsa akala naten mahal na naten yun pala we are just happy with the support that they are giving us..with the attention that they are showing us..tapos in the end kapag nkakita sya ng ibang interest magseselos ka..masasaktan ka..so i must say in this line of work u should know ur boundaries..be prepared for the consequences if nainlove ka sa client/mpa..but it's not impossible di lahat ng psp pera lang habol sa client nila at di lahat ng client sex lang habol sa psp nila..sometimes more than the money mas masarap yun feeling na may nakilala ka, na may nakinig sayo, nagcare sayo kahit sa saglit at bayad na panahon lang..

[UncleFrancy]

can i ask some advise or option about this kasi...

 

i meet this girl na nagwowork sa massage parlor sa Quezon ave ng time na yon tapos we hang out few months all a sudden tinanong niya ako kung gusto daw siya igarahe nalang siya...so sagot ko di ko kaya pero kung gusto mo i'll help you na magbago pero sa inyo ka magstay don tutulungan kita start a small business para sa future niya at ng mga anak niya( husband nag-abroad daw di nauwi 4 yrs na yata), ito ang one of worst part ng problem nalaman ko may cervix cancer siya maaaring nakuha o palala dahil sa line ng work niya dati, she been confined sa ospital due to much discharge of blood galing sa ovary niya siguro almost 2 months siya don, di ako makapunta pero i send some financial help, start ng problem dumating sa point nalaman ng wife ko about kanya, sa family niya even sa relatives niya kung ano work niya at tungkol sa amin na at may communication pa kami dahil don. ang worst part lahat ng financial at moral support galing sa family at relatives niya nawala na lahat... so meaning wala siya ibang aasahan iba maliban sa akin and some help from co-mpa's niya, she begging me ilabas daw ng ospital, ginawan ko ng paraan para ilabas don at ihanap ng boarding house to stay herein at province i dont realized na ang medication niya ay continues pa up to now which is medyo mabigat din... to cut story short di ko alm kung inlove ba ang tawag don or nagpakatanga lang... sa ganon na set-up kasi married din ako...even my friends and my wife ask me WHY? ang question na hanggang ngayon di alam kung bakit patuloy parin ako it's LOVE ba talaga or AWA kasi alam ko wala ibang malalapitan or will help...

 

 

in a way love mo rin yun girl na may sakit....in the christian theology..we have eros (passionate physical love) phileo (brotherly love) and agape ( christ love ...I'd die for you love)....there's nothing wrong about going the extra mile and obviously you care a lot for this girl....but you have to prioritize your feelings....love mo rin dapat wife mo....so make sure healthy ka and wife mo.....and try to be sensitive to the feelings of your wife......reality is the girl might die from the cancer...it's a painful slow death....after that wife mo pa rin ang makakasama mo.....

[kisserfoxygirl]

here's my story..around 2 years ago..i met a guy here in mtc and eventually he became my regular..we have many things in common..he was broken hearted when i met him..he came from a failed relationship with a psp..and i came from a failed relationship with my client..we go out on walks every week sometimes 2 times a week and i got to know him better..he always talks about his ex..he always asks me advices on what to do with his girl..so i merely thought that "palipas oras" nya lang ako..he was very supportive financially emotionally..a perfect picture of a boyfriend-to-be..but we became friends..i was controlling myself not to fall for him for what i always hear from him seems like he has not moved on yet..i was just there for him till he confesses that he loves me..i drove him away by not texting/calling him i even said uncessary words/unkind words to him just to drive him away..i told him i dont feel the same way as he did..i did that because i knew he is just fond of me and that he does not really love me..he told me he loved me yet everytime his ex text him she becomes our topic again..i got so jealous that i decided not to see him anymore..i even helped him pursue his ex for i know it'll make him happy..

 

plus i must say it's really hard to invest emotionally to the clients..minsa akala naten mahal na naten yun pala we are just happy with the support that they are giving us..with the attention that they are showing us..tapos in the end kapag nkakita sya ng ibang interest magseselos ka..masasaktan ka..so i must say in this line of work u should know ur boundaries..be prepared for the consequences if nainlove ka sa client/mpa..but it's not impossible di lahat ng psp pera lang habol sa client nila at di lahat ng client sex lang habol sa psp nila..sometimes more than the money mas masarap yun feeling na may nakilala ka, na may nakinig sayo, nagcare sayo kahit sa saglit at bayad na panahon lang..

 

hmm... oh well mejo same story tayo and this my story!!!... but for my past relationship with my x-client or x-boyfriend (watever)... no money issue... i love him b'coz evertym we hang-out i feel comfortable with him.. first tym we met 2nd. 3rd etc in short his my regular client!!... i cant imagine na mamimiss ko siya until na naging kami na hndi ko alam kung panu naging kami.. hanggang naguguluhan na ako sa sarili ko na love ba to or i need financial??... so may doubts na ako self ko kaya one tym nag cheat ako.. then i realized na mali!! i love him so much that tym.. kaya i tell him the truth na nagcheat ako so hard for me to tell the whole story i was cry and say "sorry talaga" ... hanggang naging ok kami na never ako humingi financially im so happy khit na money issue.. IM SO happy b'coz nagkakasama kami madalas kahit na everytym na nakikita kami involved ang s*x ok lng love ko eh kahit na minsan pumasok na utak ko na "parausan ba niya lang ako"?? kahit na minsan na hndi ako kumukuha ng client ok lng sakin basta kasama siya masaya na ako.. hanggang umabot ng 7mos.. nakipgbreak siya na i was shock kasi ok nmn kami walang ping-awayan biglang nagbago ang lahat... maxado ako nadala ng feelings ko na akala ko siya na.. i dont konw what the reason bakit siya nakipgbreak.. then nagpakatanga pa ako break na kami pero pumapayag pa din ako na magS*x pa kami kasi i was hoping na baka pwede pa magkaayos kami.. i was wrong i feel like a dress.. una favorite kang suotin pero kapg napagsawaan iisang tabi ka na lng..!!! ilang mos. bago ako naka -move on... !! its hard for me to get over in 6mos... khit na nagkabf ako ulit hndi nagwork kasi may tyms na nacocompare ko si x at si present...!!! kaya i decide na makipgbreak na lng... now i realized kung maiinlove man ako ulit sa client hndi na siguro ganun ka 100% mahirap makawala sa dating relasyon lalo na kung nagseryoso ka at minahal mo talaga..

 

but now im happy ryt now... and im happy for my x and to her gf... at least nafeel ko ulit mainlove, na parang hyskul... hahahaha pero mahirap nga lang pagnasaktan.. that's life.. sabi nga nila habang nakakaranas ng pain sa love marami kang magiging lesson... " UULITIN KO LANG SINABI NI SILVER_FF HNDI LAHAT NG PSP PERA LANG HABOL AT HNDI LAHAT NG CLIENT SEX LANG HABOL.. !!! MASARAP KASI UNG FEELING NA ISANG TAO NA NAGING CLIENT MO AALAGAAN KA KAHT NA SA SANDALING PANAHON!!!!....

 

 

***THAT'S MY STUPID LOVE STORY***

[ricardo23]

complex talaga , kasi as you will never know talaga , kasi you paid for her attention and her companionship so its kinda hard to really know......

[ganagana]

I am married in my early 40's and this is my story about how i fell for an MPA. I met her 4 years ago at an MP in Q. Ave. it was like at first sight, not yet love, the moment she entered the room i was enamored, she was the most beautiful MPA that i have ever seen. She was very tall and chinita and the conversation with her was not like with other MPA's, she was very educated. Then came the service..she was soo good..and from then on i was already crushing on her. Not yet in love, but i couldn't get her off my mind. From my first visit, i started visiting her twice a week..this was a lot considering that before her, i might have gone to an MP a total of 20 times my entire life...i kept coming twice a week for two months..and i knew that i had already fallen for her..i told her i loved her and after 2 weeks..she told me she loved me too. She told me she was separated and a single Mom. Her dream was to work as a Medical Transcriptionist, i financed her studies and gave her an allowance. Since we met at an MP i did not expect everything she had told me about her to be true...true enough things unraveled..that she was still married and living with her husband. At first i thought everything was a lie, and that all she wanted from me was money. Maybe in her case she's thinking that all i want from her is sex. But since i felt i really loved her, i overcame all the lies..we are still together after four years..however...her income as a Medical Transcriptionist is not enough, i still give her some support. By the way her husband also has a girlfriend and my girl and he still live with each other for the sake of convenience. We see each other once a week and i give her 6k a month.

 

Now my question is this..you think she would still see me if not for the support i give her?..if that's the case then this is just like a PSP scenario..like paying her 1.5k per session....although i would readily give that to her to help her, at the back of my mind. i still wonder if that's what she's only after. Of course 6k a month is a small amount, when she worked as an MPA, she took in 50 to 70k a month, but of course working as an MPA is quite dangerous and puts her health at risk. And when we make love it's so real..feels so real..she makes me very happy sexually and emotionally...we do things that only lovers in every sense of the word will do...however it's strictly a once a week affair, since she lives in her husband's house(although the husband also has a girlfriend she doesn't want to be caught because he might kick her out of the house).For me..i ask myself..is this just about sex?..our once a week session does wonders for me..it recharges me physically and emotionally. How long can we keep this up? And for her is this only about money or you think she has real feelings for me? Just wondering....

[TanglewoodBoy]

I am married in my early 40's and this is my story about how i fell for an MPA. I met her 4 years ago at an MP in Q. Ave. it was like at first sight, not yet love, the moment she entered the room i was enamored, she was the most beautiful MPA that i have ever seen. She was very tall and chinita and the conversation with her was not like with other MPA's, she was very educated. Then came the service..she was soo good..and from then on i was already crushing on her. Not yet in love, but i couldn't get her off my mind. From my first visit, i started visiting her twice a week..this was a lot considering that before her, i might have gone to an MP a total of 20 times my entire life...i kept coming twice a week for two months..and i knew that i had already fallen for her..i told her i loved her and after 2 weeks..she told me she loved me too. She told me she was separated and a single Mom. Her dream was to work as a Medical Transcriptionist, i financed her studies and gave her an allowance. Since we met at an MP i did not expect everything she had told me about her to be true...true enough things unraveled..that she was still married and living with her husband. At first i thought everything was a lie, and that all she wanted from me was money. Maybe in her case she's thinking that all i want from her is sex. But since i felt i really loved her, i overcame all the lies..we are still together after four years..however...her income as a Medical Transcriptionist is not enough, i still give her some support. By the way her husband also has a girlfriend and my girl and he still live with each other for the sake of convenience. We see each other once a week and i give her 6k a month.

 

Now my question is this..you think she would still see me if not for the support i give her?..if that's the case then this is just like a PSP scenario..like paying her 1.5k per session....although i would readily give that to her to help her, at the back of my mind. i still wonder if that's what she's only after. Of course 6k a month is a small amount, when she worked as an MPA, she took in 50 to 70k a month, but of course working as an MPA is quite dangerous and puts her health at risk. And when we make love it's so real..feels so real..she makes me very happy sexually and emotionally...we do things that only lovers in every sense of the word will do...however it's strictly a once a week affair, since she lives in her husband's house(although the husband also has a girlfriend she doesn't want to be caught because he might kick her out of the house).For me..i ask myself..is this just about sex?..our once a week session does wonders for me..it recharges me physically and emotionally. How long can we keep this up? And for her is this only about money or you think she has real feelings for me? Just wondering....

 

you know bro, honestly speaking, i think she really loves you pero not whole heartedly, in a 100% quantity, i think it's on;y around 60-70% though to get to 100% you might need some major adjustments... kaya the question i ask you is.. do you really love her for you to leave your wife and be with her and vice versa?? di niyo ba kayang magsama sa iisang house?? you said you have been together for 4 years, that's a long time bro, that's the years me and my ex wife have been married and for me that is considered a lifetime,

 

it's really complex bro, ask yourself analytically, wag puso pairalin mo kundi utak, ask yourself if she truly loves you and if you do, then stick with your situation (you being with each other's partner) or make major adjustments like what i stated above...

 

i do hope i made some sense in your situation bro and best of luck!!

 

 

if she can leave her husband for you then, all your "fidelity" questions will be solved but

[jgc813]

I am married in my early 40's and this is my story about how i fell for an MPA. I met her 4 years ago at an MP in Q. Ave. it was like at first sight, not yet love, the moment she entered the room i was enamored, she was the most beautiful MPA that i have ever seen. She was very tall and chinita and the conversation with her was not like with other MPA's, she was very educated. Then came the service..she was soo good..and from then on i was already crushing on her. Not yet in love, but i couldn't get her off my mind. From my first visit, i started visiting her twice a week..this was a lot considering that before her, i might have gone to an MP a total of 20 times my entire life...i kept coming twice a week for two months..and i knew that i had already fallen for her..i told her i loved her and after 2 weeks..she told me she loved me too. She told me she was separated and a single Mom. Her dream was to work as a Medical Transcriptionist, i financed her studies and gave her an allowance. Since we met at an MP i did not expect everything she had told me about her to be true...true enough things unraveled..that she was still married and living with her husband. At first i thought everything was a lie, and that all she wanted from me was money. Maybe in her case she's thinking that all i want from her is sex. But since i felt i really loved her, i overcame all the lies..we are still together after four years..however...her income as a Medical Transcriptionist is not enough, i still give her some support. By the way her husband also has a girlfriend and my girl and he still live with each other for the sake of convenience. We see each other once a week and i give her 6k a month.

 

Now my question is this..you think she would still see me if not for the support i give her?..if that's the case then this is just like a PSP scenario..like paying her 1.5k per session....although i would readily give that to her to help her, at the back of my mind. i still wonder if that's what she's only after. Of course 6k a month is a small amount, when she worked as an MPA, she took in 50 to 70k a month, but of course working as an MPA is quite dangerous and puts her health at risk. And when we make love it's so real..feels so real..she makes me very happy sexually and emotionally...we do things that only lovers in every sense of the word will do...however it's strictly a once a week affair, since she lives in her husband's house(although the husband also has a girlfriend she doesn't want to be caught because he might kick her out of the house).For me..i ask myself..is this just about sex?..our once a week session does wonders for me..it recharges me physically and emotionally. How long can we keep this up? And for her is this only about money or you think she has real feelings for me? Just wondering....

 

I agree with TanglewoodBoy. Despite the four years of togetherness, all you can do is speculate. While it may be true you have genuine feelings for each other, you will also agree it is not total, and it can never be full in every sense. You will always be "part-time lovers."

 

How will long this will keep up? Only time will tell. The scenarios are as different as one can imagine: you get caught, she gets caught, she decides to leave and dump you, you doing the same, she gets sick, you likewise... etc., etc.

 

Living a double life can be enjoyable and challenging; but let's face it. There is always the burden, and the guilt embedded somewhere.

 

There's only one way to straighten things out. Make a decision. Either leave your wife for her (but the question is, is she ready to leave her husband for you?); or leave her and stick it out with your wife and family.

 

Until you are ready for such a step, you will never be at peace, and you will never be tranquil. Your happiness will never be complete, and you will always have so many unanswered question.

[scam]

I am married in my early 40's and this is my story about how i fell for an MPA. I met her 4 years ago at an MP in Q. Ave. it was like at first sight, not yet love, the moment she entered the room i was enamored, she was the most beautiful MPA that i have ever seen. She was very tall and chinita and the conversation with her was not like with other MPA's, she was very educated. Then came the service..she was soo good..and from then on i was already crushing on her. Not yet in love, but i couldn't get her off my mind. From my first visit, i started visiting her twice a week..this was a lot considering that before her, i might have gone to an MP a total of 20 times my entire life...i kept coming twice a week for two months..and i knew that i had already fallen for her..i told her i loved her and after 2 weeks..she told me she loved me too. She told me she was separated and a single Mom. Her dream was to work as a Medical Transcriptionist, i financed her studies and gave her an allowance. Since we met at an MP i did not expect everything she had told me about her to be true...true enough things unraveled..that she was still married and living with her husband. At first i thought everything was a lie, and that all she wanted from me was money. Maybe in her case she's thinking that all i want from her is sex. But since i felt i really loved her, i overcame all the lies..we are still together after four years..however...her income as a Medical Transcriptionist is not enough, i still give her some support. By the way her husband also has a girlfriend and my girl and he still live with each other for the sake of convenience. We see each other once a week and i give her 6k a month.

 

Now my question is this..you think she would still see me if not for the support i give her?..if that's the case then this is just like a PSP scenario..like paying her 1.5k per session....although i would readily give that to her to help her, at the back of my mind. i still wonder if that's what she's only after. Of course 6k a month is a small amount, when she worked as an MPA, she took in 50 to 70k a month, but of course working as an MPA is quite dangerous and puts her health at risk. And when we make love it's so real..feels so real..she makes me very happy sexually and emotionally...we do things that only lovers in every sense of the word will do...however it's strictly a once a week affair, since she lives in her husband's house(although the husband also has a girlfriend she doesn't want to be caught because he might kick her out of the house).For me..i ask myself..is this just about sex?..our once a week session does wonders for me..it recharges me physically and emotionally. How long can we keep this up? And for her is this only about money or you think she has real feelings for me? Just wondering....

 

I say your still one lucky bastard bro. come to think of it, 6K is really nothing vs the cost of going to mp at 2x week.

i'd say your in a safe situation, let it flow as is & keep it discreet as you can. after all you get to have what you want

even at once a week. this also helps to keep your married life going. just imagine if she leave's her husband and then you

have to support her the whole package, house etc..then things get's more complicated.

no your not raking a psp, but only maintaining a kabit. you can test her out by runnign a drama story that your having financial

problem Z& you can't provide a month or two of an allowance. she how would she react & if her feelings would change. only then

you can measure if the whole 4 yrs was all about money.

[Guest eljuego]

In my opinion, what others think is "falling in love' with a PSP/MPA/GRO is just infatuation. Some people may think that they're in love with these girls coz when you're with them, they'll treat you like a king and fulfill your innermost fantasies,hence, it's easy to like them. That's their job. It's easy to get infatuated with these girls but falling in love? I don't think so.

[jgc813]

In my opinion, what others think is "falling in love' with a PSP/MPA/GRO is just infatuation. Some people may think that they're in love with these girls coz when you're with them, they'll treat you like a king and fulfill your innermost fantasies,hence, it's easy to like them. That's their job. It's easy to get infatuated with these girls but falling in love? I don't think so.

 

I can agree that there's a difference between infatuation and love. However, while there is a difference, I also think that the line that divides them is thin. Hence, the reason why there is great difficulty from distinguishing whether one is on the side of infatuation or on the side of love.

 

And between the sexes, there is even a further difference as both genders perceive infatuation and love from two different perspectives.

 

One factor may help in aiding in the distinction -- TIME. The longer one stay's in the relationship, the better one sees which side of the line s/he stands on -- whether it's infatuation or love.

[Guest eljuego]

 

And between the sexes, there is even a further difference as both genders perceive infatuation and love from two different perspectives.

Can you elaborate further the difference in perception of love and infatuation between the genders?

[monazario]

random lottery of meaningless tragedies and rear escapes...

in a different perspective, that is the meaning of love as well as infatuation..

it all boils down to nothing in the end.