Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Mr.Bing]

I feel you. Pero bakit wala kang magawa? Hndi mo b sya pde puntahan?

yes, super complicated.... sigh

[sanchezZZZzz]

When money involved in what other person is calling love, that is not love, it's called trade.. When you love, you do things and you give things without thinking of getting back in return.. And what you do or what you give will determine its weight or sincerity if there is almost none left after doing/giving.. Example: a man who has a million peso will much likely give a poor girl support of 30,000/monthly. To that man, 30k is much not of biggie to think about however, in this poor girl its way over much, the girl might think that she is being loved by that kind/generous man..

 

We love not because we are not being cheated, we love because even if they cheat on us in whatever form that violates our rules, we still know that we will love them

[sanchezZZZzz]

VERY WELL SAID Mnsan di mo na alm n naibibigay mo n lahat sa taong mahal mo hahaha kasi ang mahalaga sayo is ung happiness nya para sakin kse hnd mo mtatawag na Love ang Love kng my involve na pera, pero kng maliliit n halaga lang nman at nagkukusa ka magbgay khit hnd ka hinihingian eh okay lang. pero ung hingi ka ng hingi tapos magagalit pg di nabigyan.... nakakahiya

 

Ayy naku, ung magagalit pag hindi nabigyan at yung hindi na mamansin kase ndi din nabigyan, sarap sakalin sa kakapalan ng mukA

[The Stifmiester]

Paano bang magmahal ng hindi nasasaktan? Charooot 😆

[Kingkongphils]

ay truelalooo ahahaha

Pero hndi nman lhat ng therapist ay ganyan meron pa din iilan na mababait talaga hehee

Haha.. Talagang meron pa din iilan ang term.. Ibig sabihin mas madami ang manloloko.. Hehe... Baka nmn hindi lng nahahanap ang katapat...

[shampooh]

wala pong ganun eh. Kailangan,.pag nag mahal ka.. HANDA KANG MASAKTAN

True tama ka sis; pero eto advise ng isang retired psp sa mga gm; wag kayo mag repeat walk sa same psp or in this case thera; malaki talaga chance na isa o pareho kayo ay mahulog sa isat isa; like sabi ni candice dapat handa kayo masaktan kung iibig kayo

[Kingkongphils]

Sa pagmamahal naman pwede kang masaktan, kahit na sino pa ang piliin mo... E ganun talaga... Nothing thats worth having comes easy... Tulad ko, simula pagkabata ko e kartada 5 na ang overall ko, meaning average lang ako... Pero I have always been "lucky" sa mga naging gf ko, so kung start pa lng e tingin ko shes out of my reach, o lololokohin lng ako or pag may pumorma na mas pogi sa kanya e ekis na ako, e d sana d ako nagkaroon ng makulay na love life... e d sana, d ako naka experience ng magla syota ng pang model... Kaya if it makes you happy, if it makes your heart go booma lom bom boomaloomboom baby... E d go get it.... Sayang, youll only have regrets dahil hindi mo sinunod ang gusto ng heart mo....

[lakatan]

True tama ka sis; pero eto advise ng isang retired psp sa mga gm; wag kayo mag repeat walk sa same psp or in this case thera; malaki talaga chance na isa o pareho kayo ay mahulog sa isat isa; like sabi ni candice dapat handa kayo masaktan kung iibig kayo

correct ka dyan..... avoid na lang ..... very gud advice............

[c@rl0]

Magseselos ka Lang sa mga FR. Hahaha Kaya wag mo na balakin. Wag makipag communicate outside spa. Dapat usap Lang kayo dito. Wlabg ibang communication. Dun ma minimize pagkafall. Pag may communication mas mataas chance. Goodluck. Kung di mo Kaya ilabas sa spa, wag mo na balakin pa.

[autotech]

mahirap ma fall ikaw lang din masasaktan haha kaya lets keep it professional

[SinestraIgnis]

Magseselos ka Lang sa mga FR. Hahaha Kaya wag mo na balakin. Wag makipag communicate outside spa. Dapat usap Lang kayo dito. Wlabg ibang communication. Dun ma minimize pagkafall. Pag may communication mas mataas chance. Goodluck. Kung di mo Kaya ilabas sa spa, wag mo na balakin pa.

 

mahirap ma fall ikaw lang din masasaktan haha kaya lets keep it professional

 

When I go to places like spa's, clubs and mp's, I see to it that I leave my "heart" first somewhere else.

 

Ang mindset ko kasi lagi, "Kelangan pag nandito sa mga ganitong lugar kelangan ko ma-relax at mag-enjoy" other than that, wala na.

 

Pag nandun na ako, I always practice decorum. Like, being courteous, polite, cordial and understanding or in other words, being civil. Enjoy lang kung anong meron at i-acknowledge mo yung service na ginawa sayo para atleast masaya ka at masaya din si provider, kumbaga, nakinabang kayong dalawa.

 

At some point, magkakapalagayan kayo ng loob and I'd stop there and nothing further. Once na "nakialam" ka kasi maguumpisa na mahulog loob mo.

 

But, this is just me.

[lakatan]

 

 

When I go to places like spa's, clubs and mp's, I see to it that I leave my "heart" first somewhere else.

 

Ang mindset ko kasi lagi, "Kelangan pag nandito sa mga ganitong lugar kelangan ko ma-relax at mag-enjoy" other than that, wala na.

 

Pag nandun na ako, I always practice decorum. Like, being courteous, polite, cordial and understanding or in other words, being civil. Enjoy lang kung anong meron at i-acknowledge mo yung service na ginawa sayo para atleast masaya ka at masaya din si provider, kumbaga, nakinabang kayong dalawa.

 

At some point, magkakapalagayan kayo ng loob and I'd stop there and nothing further. Once na "nakialam" ka kasi maguumpisa na mahulog loob mo.

 

But, this is just me.

Tama !!.... enjoy lang !!... good advice!!

[glyr]

UPDATE:

 

My wife and I started talking again and discussed about getting back together. Meanwhile, my love-thera messaged me and told me na pagod na siya sa work niya and that she wanted to leave the industry already but does not know how to start a new life. We had several exchanges. A day after that, she bid me goodbye and told me she has finally decided to leave the industry. She promised me that she will never look back. She told me how thankful she is for meeting me, that I am the reason why she is leaving her work because I made her realize her self-worth and that not all hope is lost.

 

My love-thera and I had a happy ending. But I guess a happy ending does not necessarily mean "they lived happily ever after". Yes, we do love each other and we're destined to meet each other. Not to be together but to serve a purpose to each other. I was going through rough times when I met her, somehow she helped me keep my sanity intact by making me smile all the time. I, in turn, helped her get out of that godforsaken place and help her get back up.

 

Masaya kami parehong nagpaalam sa isa't isa. Oo, malungkot.. Nagkaiyakan,. Alam kasi namen na mahal namen ang isa't isa.. Pero sa isang banda, masaya kami dahil naitama namen ang mga pagkakamali namen sa buhay... She gave me a kiss when we parted ways... That was the sweetest and most sincere kiss I've ever had... she gave me a kiss while holding my face and crying... Salamat sayo... May isang bagay na kahit kelan hindi ko nagawang sabihin sayo dahil bawal.. pero hindi ko na kailangang sabihin dahil alam naman naten and nararamdaman ng isa't isa.. pero sasabihin ko ngayon, MAHAL NA MAHAL KITA...

This is very nice. It made me smile.

 

Laging may pag-asa.

[The Stifmiester]

Hi miss Candice. Nabusukan mo na ba may nanligaw sayo na hindi na alam na sa Espa ka nagwowork. Paano hinahandle yung mga guys na ganun or mas preferred ng mga theras ngayon ang GMs pag pumasok ng relationship.

Edited May 27, 2018 by boogie67

[SinestraIgnis]

Yes my thera na ganyan, pero ny client din po na ganyan ung iba di koko mlaman kng gsto ng free service eh or pure friendship.

 

Actually, ikaw lang din makakasagot nyan eh. Nagdedepende na lang yun kung ano yung "stand" ni GM sa relationship na meron kayo.

 

 

exactly, pero merong times na si thera mismo ang gusto at nagaaya na maki-pagmeet outside spa

 

Yeah, may mga ganito talaga. Hindi na mawawala yun. Dito kasi sa society natin ang odd lang na yung babae yung unang gumagawa ng "advances" na ganun and it only meant that there's "something" else. But in my case, hindi ako masyadong "assuming" kahit na sobrang obvious na game si girl. I just play it cool and enjoy na lang kung anong meron.