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Kung makakaiwas kyo gawin hanggat maaga pa. Pra sa ikakabuti nyong dalawa yon. Iba makipag-relasyon sa mga katulad nila pro kung seryoso ka talaga, ialis nyo sila sa ganyan trabaho at ihanap ng ibng pagkakakitaan...

 

Kahit i-alis mo sila sa spa at ihanap ng ibang pagkakitaan, malaki pa rin yung risk na utu-in ka nila. I tried this pero pumalpak din. Na-ubus lang yung linabas ko na 250,000 na capital sa negosyo. On top of that, kahit wala na sa spa si thera-gf, buhay dalaga pa ring siya kahit na milf na siya, kasi gumigimik pa rin until 4am ng umaga kasama ng mga tropa niya. Ino-off pa yung cp niya. Nahuli ko rin na may kasama siyang mga boylets kahit yung press-release niya sa aki at babae sila lahat. Ako naman dahil sa sobrang stress sa relasyon, gumagante na lang ako sa kanya........bahala na lang kung sino sa amin and unang mag-surrender......tinulungan ko na kasi, inuto pa rin ako.....kaya pahabaan na lang ng pasensiya........

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Basta ingat lagi kau kung sakali man ma fall kau sa isang thera, know her first and make sure na open kau to each other, at syempre make sure na walang ibang masasaktan at kung skali man na tlgan you love each other, patigilin mo na sa ganong work because you will only hurt yourself and strive hard for her. And for those people who has almost the sqme situation, ipaglaban nio padn, make them yours again, di nmn siguro lahat katulad ng ex partner ko na selfish at hindi inisip ang pamilya at nag hangad ng mas mayaman or whatsoever, basta ang alam nio sa sarili nyo, binigay nio lahat ng makakaya nio. Then leave her pag ganun.

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Kahit i-alis mo sila sa spa at ihanap ng ibang pagkakitaan, malaki pa rin yung risk na utu-in ka nila. I tried this pero pumalpak din. Na-ubus lang yung linabas ko na 250,000 na capital sa negosyo. On top of that, kahit wala na sa spa si thera-gf, buhay dalaga pa ring siya kahit na milf na siya, kasi gumigimik pa rin until 4am ng umaga kasama ng mga tropa niya. Ino-off pa yung cp niya. Nahuli ko rin na may kasama siyang mga boylets kahit yung press-release niya sa aki at babae sila lahat. Ako naman dahil sa sobrang stress sa relasyon, gumagante na lang ako sa kanya........bahala na lang kung sino sa amin and unang mag-surrender......tinulungan ko na kasi, inuto pa rin ako.....kaya pahabaan na lang ng pasensiya........

 

yun lang :) dapat mga ganto pagkakataon na sinayang pa. At least paps ginawa mo duty mo para maka tulong. Saludo ako sayo...
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I had a 5 year relationship wih my live in partner, may anak kmi 4 years old, npaka sweet nya todo maglambing and its like prang feeling mo hindi ka nya iiwanan. College plng she was my classmate, she fell inlove with me while i waa courting her bestfriend, skanya ako nahulog and na develop and until nabuntis ko sya nung college, nagpursigi kaming tapusin dahil last year na namin un kahit na buntis sya andun ako pra alalayan sya pag pumapasok. Until nka graduate kmi at nagkaroon ng work, 2013, namatay ung lola nya, nahinto kmi sa trabaho and then nag desisyon sya na mag work ulit dahil may inoffer dw yung kapatid nya na work, malaki dw ang sahod at sbi nya ako nlng magbantay ng bata, kahit na sa loob ko ayaw ko un, pumayag ako, sbi nya bar tour dw sila nagbebenta ng mga alak sa mga resto sa libis, napansin ko gabi na sya umuuwi, at mdming pera, nagulat ako she can earn more than what we combined before kya kampante ako sknya and i just trusted her, almost a year dn akong nasa bahay, then one time nagpa massage ako sknya may napansin ako, dti hindi sya marunong and then suddenly prang tenured agad, i asked her sn nta natutunan un, sbi nya sa mama nya, and then i also found a uniform for theras, tinanong ko sya about dun, sa kapatid nya dw un, i still trusted her. Then,her grandfather also died a year after her grandmother passed, we took over their house and i decided to get a nanny for our kid, nag work na dn ako nun on a bpo industry pra madami kmi ipon, bihira na kmi mag kita because pag dumadating sya minsan wla na ako, pero pg nag kikita kmi, salpulan at umuulan ng sweetness, nag apply sya sa isang networking company in ortigas and nka pasa sya, mdmi syang guys na kasama dun and told her not to entertain them, because of jelousy, nagtagal dn sya dun pero nag sideline pdn dw sya sa isang work nya kya minsan di umuuwe, worried na ako at nilipat pa sya sa alabang wich is super layo, i told her to let go of that company because lugi sya sa pamasahe and exhausted sya, so nka hanap sya ng work in sm Valenzuela wich is malapit lng smin. During that time, she was sales rep from signal cable, mahilig syang pumasok ng nka pekpek short at lagi ko syang inaaway dahil she needs to adjust because she is already a mother, minsan napapansin ko madalas nya na ako awayin for simple things lng then minsan napapansin ko mdmi syang chocolates sbi nya bigay ng katrabaho nya na girl, nahuli ko sya minsan with her new tablet na may ka chat at nakangiti pa, lalaki un nakita ko pero i didnt got the chance na makita ung name since tinago nya agad, that time, our relationship is being challenged, nag umpisa nkong mag hinala, im observing her everytime and minsan napapansin ko everytime pupunta sya ng banyo dala dala nya yung tablet nya. Nagpaalam sya skin na napili dw sila mag trip to boracay dun sa isang work nya sa bar tour, 5k per day dw 3 days, binawalan ko sya, pero she insisted, mag bebenta lng dw sila ng alak dun, syempre di nman ako maniniwla dahil bakit pa nila kelangan mag import ng tao kung mag aalok lng sila ng alak, pinabayaan ko sya at pinagkatiwalaan ung mga sinabi nya dahil that time mejo nagipit dn kmi, pag uwi nya that is where i found out. Kada maliligo sya, lagi na syang may famit pg lumalabas ng banyo, i suddenly got curious about her tablet that i got her password unlocked, tinignan ko mga message and i found out that someone greeted her in tweeter for a 3rd monthsary, nag histerical ako and confronted her, syempre di sya umaamin, pero bumigay dn, sbi nya taha ibang bansa dw, through chat lng nmn dw, sbi ko skanya end things now before its too late, nakipag txtmate ako sa kabit nya and pretended to be her , i found out many seecrets about them, he is not really outside the country and madalas silang magkita, i also found out na may nangyayari dn pla sknla, i was shocked and felt betrayed, gusto ko patayin ung lalaki pero hindi nya pla alam na magkasama pa kmi ng asawa ko, tinawagan ko ung guy at binantaan ko, pumayag nmn syang tigilan ang relasyon nila, i conducted my own research kung pano sila nagka kilala. I found out na matagal na palang nanliljgaw sa knya un and client nya pla, nadulas sya at nasabi nya ung pinagtratrabahuhan nya is in solace. Nalaman ko lahat ng lihim nya na matagal nyang itinago skn thanks to mtc, pinatawad ko sya and sbi ko wg kna mag work, kya ko nman, she insisted, day after day, puro away ang nangyayari, because it is not favoring through my plans, o found out na niloloko nya pa dn ako , nabisto sya and nag demand pa na lalayo lng dw ung lalaki pg nabuntis ko sya, nag init ung ulo ko na parang sya pa ang may kundisyon to make things okay, im thingking of my family kya i did go with her flow, everyday gumagawa kmi ng baby for a but nothing happened. The shocking truth is she's taking pills pla, maybe for her bf or customers. I feel like the most betrayed person in the world. So we ended up leaving each other, and guess what? They even framed me for rape with my wife to dispose me, and now im thingking that the person i loved before is a devil.

 

Ditch her! You deserve much better.

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Dapat kusa nilang gustuhin na umalis dito. Kasi kung hindi i dont believe na di nila gusto ginagawa nila kasi kung ayaw talaga nila aalis sila sa line of work.

 

This is the long and the short of it. Necessity is the impetus for the oldest profession. That's why you must tread carefully as the tender trap may yet bare the blades of cold lizard eyed opportunism.

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Fell for a thera... it seemed real at the time.. but come to think of it, i was never more important than her work, her clientele. She never refused the money, big or small amount. she barely cared if i was feeling bad that she was in the cubicle with someone else, but i had to understand it because it was 'trabaho lang' ...

 

did she love me back? that's what she said..

 

did she show me love? sometimes?

 

Did she change anything for me? NO

 

i was just plain stupid and fell for it.

 

she loved the fact that there was someone that loved her even with her line of work, but it ends there. no reciprocation, no sacrifices, no changes.

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Update lang from my night. from my posts in december. I guess, friends naman kami. Dumalaw ako sa spa niya. Busy lang siya kaya hindi masyado nagrereply sa text or fb. Kita ko naman nung dumalaw ako sa spa madami ginagawa, May kumag lang na creepy guy ayaw umalis nakapag pa service na sa ibang thera at lahat ayaw pang lumayas sa lobby wala naman ginagawa kung di tumingin sa cellphone niya at silipin lahat ng dumadaan na thera. Hindi ko tuloy makausap ng maayos, sasabat pag maguusap kami. May sayad ata yon ayaw pang umalis kahit wala naman kumakausap sa kanya. Talagang sumandal lang sa table ng recep at don nag facebook. Weirdo. Laking cockblock. Leche.

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Fell for a thera... it seemed real at the time.. but come to think of it, i was never more important than her work, her clientele. She never refused the money, big or small amount. she barely cared if i was feeling bad that she was in the cubicle with someone else, but i had to understand it because it was 'trabaho lang' ...

 

did she love me back? that's what she said..

 

did she show me love? sometimes?

 

Did she change anything for me? NO

 

i was just plain stupid and fell for it.

 

she loved the fact that there was someone that loved her even with her line of work, but it ends there. no reciprocation, no sacrifices, no changes.

 

 

basa sa salaysay mo, di ka nya minahal kailan man

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Kung maiinlove man yung client sa thera..sana sabihin din kaagad ng thera na walang pag asa si client kasi kawawa naman..yes kawalan samin yun baka iwasan kami or di na kami kunin..atleast naging totoo si thera,nasa client na din kung iintindihin nya si thera..di na din namin kasalanan siguro kung nainlove kayo sa thera kasi malambing..

 

 

Friendship goal nalang kayo..heheheh..masaya pa at di kayo magbbreak..

 

 

 

Mas masakit kung naabuso kayo ni thera tas bandang huli nganga pala..

 

 

Goodnight..gusto ko lang share to!haha.

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