Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Der_Konig]

True. It's a reality of the situation. I guess one main issue here is when the Thera plays the collect and select game with multiple GMs when it comes to relationships, in other words, nagpaasa ng madami. I think most would agree that some GMs can take the reality that theras have to do ES to multiple guys in a day. Yung mga nasasaktan sa pagbabasa ng FR, yun yung mga hirap tanggapin ang situation (no offense to anyone here). For others though, given it's your job, they just don't think about it too much and look forward ro the next time they see you or talk to you. But there will still be that nagging fear that a better looking, more successful, smarter, or all-of-the-above GM will walk into your cubicle and sweep you off your feet. Then again that also applies to the Theras: There are a lot of spas and a wide selection of theras they can always visit if they so wish. It truly is a complicated scenario. See you soon May!

 

PS. As much as I agree with some of the GMs here. I think it might be better to lay off the name dropping. It might drive off some potential guests from the Thera in question. And we all agree that this is their livelihood. Goodnight peeps.

I agree with majority of what you said Sir, specially with the name dropping. If you did have feelings for someone I think it'd be best too keep them anonymous, out of respect to them since it might affect their clientele. Remember this is their livelihood. Also just a reminder, it's their job to give satisfaction preferably with gfe. So don't blame them if you fall for them. It's your choice to control your emotions for them. This just my opinion, so if anyone gets offended I apologize.

[pepejoe]

Marami syang pusong sinugatan. Madali siguro siyang magsabi ng love you so akala ni gm ay sila na.

[YourMavic]

I agree with majority of what you said Sir, specially with the name dropping. If you did have feelings for someone I think it'd be best too keep them anonymous, out of respect to them since it might affect their clientele. Remember this is their livelihood. Also just a reminder, it's their job to give satisfaction preferably with gfe. So don't blame them if you fall for them. It's your choice to control your emotions for them. This just my opinion, so if anyone gets offended I apologize.

[Jake Celestine]

Sya sya. Puntahan ko na rin nga si Mavic.

 

Hi, Mavic.

[Der_Konig]

Marami syang pusong sinugatan. Madali siguro siyang magsabi ng love you so akala ni gm ay sila na.

I'm sure this came from your own expirience and I don't really know what happened, so I won't contradict you on that. But it's really more of a she said, he said situation. Also let me just quote "All is fair in love and war".

[Shaitan]

Puntahan ko na nga si Mavic. Gimmmmmeee that spark. I will let you feel my thunder!!!

 

GMs please understand the GFE for an hour. Don't assume stuff after that hour or once you leave that cubicle. Always leave your heart in the reception area. Lol!

[Baby China]

Interesting thread. Even more interesting with the inputs of my 2 former co-theras. Hahaha

 

To May/Mavic,

 

My unsolicited advise. be very careful on who you give your heart to. Always ask the question why do these GMs like me. Remember, the spa business is very competitive, there are a lot of other theras there who could be prettier, sexier than us and how can you have the assurance that the GMs promising you his heart won't go running to the next fresh face out there? Most of the time, a lot of these clients are very good at the start, but once they get their benefits, that's when things really change. I did not experience that myself, but I have seen it happen to a lot of my closest friends in the spa. Liligawan kuno but being left out in the cold once nagsawa na c guy. After all, there are always a fresh supply of theras coming into the business so meron at meron bagong star thera na darating.

 

May, I happen to be a bit updated sa luvlife mo....all i can say is...one of the names being linked to you, all i can say is wow, swerte mo sa knya. He is single,totoong single nde gaya ng ibang manliligaw mo (yes, i know some) na meron mga asawa o jowa. Sana cya na c Mr. Right mo, he is also successful enough in life that he can take you out d2 sa work na to anytime you want to quit. Its your decision of course, but I am just saying why go for a Nokia when you can have an Iphone 7.Lol

 

Mga GMs, umayos kau. Some of you are familiar to me and I know some names here who have partners. If you can't respect your own relationship, how can we expect you will respect your would be relationship with a thera?

Edited February 7, 2017 by gandamegumi

[Drew13Nash]

Interesting thread. Even more interesting with the inputs of my 2 former co-theras. Hahaha

 

To May/Mavic,

 

My unsolicited advise. be very careful on who you give your heart to. Always ask the question why do these GMs like me. Remember, the spa business is very competitive, there are a lot of other theras there who could be prettier, sexier than us and how can you have the assurance that the GMs promising you his heart won't go running to the next fresh face out there? Most of the time, a lot of these clients are very good at the start, but once they get their benefits, that's when things really change. I did not experience that myself, but I have seen it happen to a lot of my closest friends in the spa. Liligawan kuno but being left out in the cold once nagsawa na c guy. After all, there are always a fresh supply of theras coming into the business so meron at meron bagong star thera na darating.

 

May, I happen to be a bit updated sa luvlife mo....all i can say is...one of the names being linked to you, all i can say is wow, swerte mo sa knya. He is single,totoong single nde gaya ng ibang manliligaw mo (yes, i know some) na meron mga asawa o jowa. Sana cya na c Mr. Right mo, he is also successful enough in life that he can take you out d2 sa work na to anytime you want to quit. Its your decision of course, but I am just saying why go for a Nokia when you can have an Iphone 7.Lol

 

Mga GMs, umayos kau. Some of you are familiar to me and I know some names here who have partners. If you can't respect your own relationship, how can we expect you will respect your would be relationship with a thera?

 

This is a good advice.. pero there are times na trust issue pa rin.. what if si GM eh single naman tlga, having a good life that thera have a security of leaving the industry. Pero there are instances na si there tlaga yung may ayaw or she is the one having trust issue kay GM like she's having thought that GM might get another thera.. even though he's not.. so the point is GM is willing to go all through this but si thera ang nagiisip ng mga bagay na hindi naman dapat..

[pepejoe]

i still admire the girl kaya try mo siya Jake.

[YourMavic]

Interesting thread. Even more interesting with the inputs of my 2 former co-theras. Hahaha

 

To May/Mavic,

 

My unsolicited advise. be very careful on who you give your heart to. Always ask the question why do these GMs like me. Remember, the spa business is very competitive, there are a lot of other theras there who could be prettier, sexier than us and how can you have the assurance that the GMs promising you his heart won't go running to the next fresh face out there? Most of the time, a lot of these clients are very good at the start, but once they get their benefits, that's when things really change. I did not experience that myself, but I have seen it happen to a lot of my closest friends in the spa. Liligawan kuno but being left out in the cold once nagsawa na c guy. After all, there are always a fresh supply of theras coming into the business so meron at meron bagong star thera na darating.

 

May, I happen to be a bit updated sa luvlife mo....all i can say is...one of the names being linked to you, all i can say is wow, swerte mo sa knya. He is single,totoong single nde gaya ng ibang manliligaw mo (yes, i know some) na meron mga asawa o jowa. Sana cya na c Mr. Right mo, he is also successful enough in life that he can take you out d2 sa work na to anytime you want to quit. Its your decision of course, but I am just saying why go for a Nokia when you can have an Iphone 7.Lol

 

Mga GMs, umayos kau. Some of you are familiar to me and I know some names here who have partners. If you can't respect your own relationship, how can we expect you will respect your would be relationship with a thera?

I'll take that in mind. Thanks for the advice. Edited February 7, 2017 by YourMavic

[Baby China]

This is a good advice.. pero there are times na trust issue pa rin.. what if si GM eh single naman tlga, having a good life that thera have a security of leaving the industry. Pero there are instances na si there tlaga yung may ayaw or she is the one having trust issue kay GM like she's having thought that GM might get another thera.. even though he's not.. so the point is GM is willing to go all through this but si thera ang nagiisip ng mga bagay na hindi naman dapat..

 

That goes both ways. Of course there will be trust issues. Alam nyo ang pinasok nyo dba. You are trying to find love sa spa. Alam nyo sweet kami sa madaming clients in 1 day. At least kau GMs may option, you can choose cno gus2 nyo maging thera. Eh kami?Can we choose cno mkkasama namin for a session?

 

My point is, nakita ko na to several times. A GM courts a thera, pretends he is single and her would be savior, but in the end, all he really wanted was free sex. Of course there are always exemptions (like ung isang manliligaw ni May) but these men are a bit rare.

[Solaryan]

Interesting thread. Even more interesting with the inputs of my 2 former co-theras. Hahaha

 

To May/Mavic,

 

My unsolicited advise. be very careful on who you give your heart to. Always ask the question why do these GMs like me. Remember, the spa business is very competitive, there are a lot of other theras there who could be prettier, sexier than us and how can you have the assurance that the GMs promising you his heart won't go running to the next fresh face out there? Most of the time, a lot of these clients are very good at the start, but once they get their benefits, that's when things really change. I did not experience that myself, but I have seen it happen to a lot of my closest friends in the spa. Liligawan kuno but being left out in the cold once nagsawa na c guy. After all, there are always a fresh supply of theras coming into the business so meron at meron bagong star thera na darating.

 

May, I happen to be a bit updated sa luvlife mo....all i can say is...one of the names being linked to you, all i can say is wow, swerte mo sa knya. He is single,totoong single nde gaya ng ibang manliligaw mo (yes, i know some) na meron mga asawa o jowa. Sana cya na c Mr. Right mo, he is also successful enough in life that he can take you out d2 sa work na to anytime you want to quit. Its your decision of course, but I am just saying why go for a Nokia when you can have an Iphone 7.Lol

 

Mga GMs, umayos kau. Some of you are familiar to me and I know some names here who have partners. If you can't respect your own relationship, how can we expect you will respect your would be relationship with a thera?

 

lol nagbabasa kanina si Mr. Right/ Iphone 7. hehe

 

I strongly agree with this post. Aminin man ng lahat o hindi, may mga GMs na nanligaw nga or "nagfall" sa thera kahit na in a relationship sila.. So thanks gandamegumi for being concerned about your fellow therapists.

 

I for one will admit this openly, ako ganda at alindog ang hanap ko. kaya ako napa visit sa spa, kasi "H" ako at that time at gusto ko mapamper for a few hours. At ang unang tintignan ko sa MTC spa thread eh yun magaganda at may "alindog" na nakakapukaw ng inaantok kong diwa. Now, having said that, di ko din maiwasan na may thera na, di naman ganun ka exaggerated ang gfe sakin at wala naman mashadong malayong narating ang mileage namin, pero sinud sunod ko pagkuha sa kanya. hahaha I thought dahil nagandan lang ako. So I tried other beauties. Pero wala pa rin. So sya ulit kinuha ko as a thera. Pamasko at pambagong taon ko na sa sarili ko..

 

Bottomline, tama ka gandamegumi dapat mag iingat nga mga thera sa aming mga GMs. Kasi marami samin baka ganda o katawan nga lang habol. Pero, alam mo, minsan, kahit ganun unang intensyon o motibo namin, nababago rin yun. Minsan, nagbibiro o naglalaro ang tadhan at may mga may asawa o pamilyadong tao na sinisira at winawasak ang meron sila makasama lang yun thera na mahal nila. Di ko po niroromanticize ang ganun. All I am saying is take everything you read, you hear and you see here with a grain of salt.

 

The same thing goes for my fellow GMs. Kung si thera ay sweet at "handsy" saten (pun intended) wag din naman tayo agad agad ma inluv (lol, naalala ko post ni sitti about jan, kaya ako ingat sa pagsabi ko rin na love ko yun thera na crush ko, it's another story altogether), marami na nagpost sa thread na to how to determine if a thera really likes you and most of it, I think are reliable.

 

So let's all enjoy the sessions in the cubicle, both GM and thera. Pero if at some point may naiba, then judgment call nyo yan. Just make sure na sana kaya nyo panindigan mga ginagawa nyo. wala na naman ata sa inyo ang bata di ba?

Edited February 7, 2017 by Solaryan

[Drew13Nash]

That goes both ways. Of course there will be trust issues. Alam nyo ang pinasok nyo dba. You are trying to find love sa spa. Alam nyo sweet kami sa madaming clients in 1 day. At least kau GMs may option, you can choose cno gus2 nyo maging thera. Eh kami?Can we choose cno mkkasama namin for a session?

 

My point is, nakita ko na to several times. A GM courts a thera, pretends he is single and her would be savior, but in the end, all he really wanted was free sex. Of course there are always exemptions (like ung isang manliligaw ni May) but these men are a bit rare.

 

 

Yeah that goes for both parties. Kaya nga mas understandable yung situation niyo kasi you dont have the sabihin na natin freedom the GM you want to be with unlike sa amin we have the freedom on whom we want to get, but as far as i see i committed to her, na as much as possible mas maganda outside the spa kasi i really want to know her very well, the real her. Sometimes di maiiwasan na thera thinks ahead regarding yun lang tlga habol ni GM but not all are like that. Im not saying na karamihan.. rare nga lang.. the question to you thera.. how would you know if this guy is genuine or not??

[CardingTigas]

kung talagang Mahal ka ni thera, papayag sya na putukan mo sya sa bibig ng walang bayad, pag may bayad eh ibig sabihin nun, trabaho lang wag ka ma inlab

she gives a good head for a fee, that's all, wag mo na ululin ang sarili mo...trabaho lang sa kanila yan, maniwala talo...

Edited February 7, 2017 by CardingTigas

[RED2018]

Most studies say that the online gen is the culprit why many younger men visit 'personal service providing establishments'; thus, being more vulnerable to 'falling for their service partner' (either genuine, perceived true, or fake)...

 

The demographic is changing towards younger professionals because younger men’s preferences are changing, "A ‘professional service’ with a therapist creates a mutual understanding of what the client wants and gets. All do’s and don'ts are pre-discussed and fantasies are more easily explored." With some partners there’s a connection, an emotional "nourishment" as they call it, but that most of the time it’s "purely transactional", feeding a sexual need, getting that professional service. But of course, that thing called 'spark' may creep in without you being aware of.

 

That dependency has led to even more encounters, something studies doubt would’ve happened in the pre-internet age. "We spend half our lives online now," before explaining that lingering online is addicting – thus serving as a gateway to getting services. Studies also believe the 24/7 lifestyle of so many young professionals plays a part in how they get their sexual kicks. "The faster pace of life, the increase in pressure at work and longer hours mean that many young professionals look for quick instant gratification when they feel stressed," studies relate. "The fast speed of the internet has made this all the more possible."

 

In the end, nalalayo na sila sa totoong mundo na walang ads at spontanuity...dahil may 'conditioning' na na nababahagi na ng lintik na Internet...

 

Just want to add 'though..."In every norms, there're exceptions" HINDI LAHAT...

Edited February 7, 2017 by artedpro