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Akala ko dati, madali lang ang buhay. Akala ko patag lang ang daan patungo sa tagumpay. Na hindi ako maliligaw — na alam ko kung saang kalye ako liliko. Na hindi ako matutumba habang nilalakbay ko ang pasilyo nitong mundo. Na hindi ako masusugatan habang tinatahak ko ang daan patungo sa pagkapanalo at paglago.

Pero nagkamali ako. Hindi pala madali ang buhay. Hindi pala laging diretso ang paglalakbay.
Hindi pala tuloy-tuloy at matiwasay ang daan patungo sa tagumpay. 
 
May mga araw na maliligaw ka. May pagkakataong hindi mo alam kung saan ka liliko o kung saang kalye ka na ba.. Hindi sigurado kung lalakad lang ba o tatakbo kasi baka madapa ka sa daang baku-bako. 

May mga gabing mababalot ka ng pag-aalala. Tatatanongin mo ang sarili kung makakarating pa ba o hanggang dito na lang. Makakaramdam ka ng pagkabalisa at pagdududa.  Malulunod ka sa sarili mong luha. Darating ang mga sitwasyong pipigil sa'yo para magpatuloy pa.

Gayunpaman, 

nauuwanan ko kung bakit kailangan nating maligaw sa mga kanto o kung bakit kailangan nating madapa sa daang baku-bako. Kung bakit kailangan nating matumba at masugatan habang binabagtas natin ang daan ng buhay. Kung bakit kailangan nating matakot o kung bakit kailangan nating makaramdam ng sakit at lungkot. 

Dahil sa gano'ng paraan natin makakabisado ang bawat pasilyo — kung saan tayo liliko o kailan ta'yo hihinto hindi para sumuko kun'di para magpahinga. Sa ganoong paraan natin masasaulado ang ikot ng mundo. Sa gano'ng paraan pala tayo mas natututo at nagkakaroon ng mas maraming rason para  magpatuloy. Sa gano'ng paraan tayo mas nagiging matapang at determinado.

Ang pagkaligaw at pagkadapa pala ang magbibigay sa atin ng lakas ng loob para mas lalong magpatuloy sa buhay hanggang sa makamit natin ang inaasam na tagumpay.

— Meliton Leonida Lavilles

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If your around 20's, I think...

When we hurt someone or when someone hurts us, it is not anger, sadness or disappointment that is revealed after an argument - it is actually a 'question'. A question which starts to validate your presence, worth or value in that moment. A question of why and how things happened or 'where that person is coming from'. 

We can somehow disregard the feelings of sadness, disappointment and anger after an argument, but we cannot, atleast, control our mind to accept those varied questions. That is why some of us cry not because they are sensitive or vulnerable. Let's just say that tears fall when the mind cannot sustain and the heart is occupied.

Likewise, maybe these happened  because we are emotionally unprepared and situationally disoriented or when our inner child and childish emotions took over wisdom and understanding which affected that instance and maybe the relationship.

How to avoid this situation? It is up to you, the people around you and between that person. Say sorry, maybe not now but soon. 

Just learn to acknowledge your mistake and learn from it. Remember, your relationship should matter over any form of sh*t.

.Sirc
#WTSWProse

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Nagaway kami ng partner ko kasi ang busy ko raw, napproject ko ung pagod ko sa mga ginagawa namin together. Di naman ako workaholic, super taas lang talaga ng demand ng trabaho dahil sa pandemic. Working ako 12 to 16+ hrs a day. Nakakapagod. Sa part ko lang, imbes sana na marerelax ako with her, nakakastress pa lalo. 

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On 9/20/2021 at 7:54 PM, csb_miley said:

If your around 20's, I think...

When we hurt someone or when someone hurts us, it is not anger, sadness or disappointment that is revealed after an argument - it is actually a 'question'. A question which starts to validate your presence, worth or value in that moment. A question of why and how things happened or 'where that person is coming from'. 

We can somehow disregard the feelings of sadness, disappointment and anger after an argument, but we cannot, atleast, control our mind to accept those varied questions. That is why some of us cry not because they are sensitive or vulnerable. Let's just say that tears fall when the mind cannot sustain and the heart is occupied.

Likewise, maybe these happened  because we are emotionally unprepared and situationally disoriented or when our inner child and childish emotions took over wisdom and understanding which affected that instance and maybe the relationship.

How to avoid this situation? It is up to you, the people around you and between that person. Say sorry, maybe not now but soon. 

Just learn to acknowledge your mistake and learn from it. Remember, your relationship should matter over any form of sh*t.

.Sirc
#WTSWProse

Yass mam...

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On 1/24/2022 at 12:50 AM, emorocker said:

namimiss ko na yung lumang MTC, circa 2006-2010 :( Much more entertaining and stimulating...

true. mas active ung per room ng female members. not too many spa theras but there are g4hs and there are just regular members. 

tsaka personal encounters thread. share photos lang of those whom uve had escapades with. 

 

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