love Do You Let Your Partner Read Your Text Messages?

[Junkie.MD]

No

[amazongogo]

nope. things happen inevitably. kung magloloko magloloko let it be. this kind of situations are better confronted not prevented. IMO

[Sharp Snipes😎]

No

[Ms. Leah HOS]

Syemore hindi. Kaya nga may privacy eh.

[FinestQueen]

Yes

[Ms. V]

Yes...

[moan13]

No

[Princess100]

Maybe. dpends on situation qng wala nmn aq tinatago y not. Pero d pa din good idea since its ur privacy. Pero qng tlgang mahal mo pwde nmn

[s@ntin0v3rd3]

Its a very touchy topic. Just wanna share my friend's experience.

 

They agreed to be completely transparent with each other's messages, who they were talking to, etc. It was all good until the gf saw one very innocent message from a classmate of ours. She accused my friend of being flirtatious just because my friend helped our classmate with some notes. To alleviate the gfs paranoia my friend gave her all his passwords, saying that he had nothing to hide anyway. Turns out that didn't matter - she made EVERY message, no matter how innocent, into a fight. Even dms for group work weren't spared. She once said "Bakit kayo groupmates ni xxxx? Linalandi mo noh???" It got really bad and went on for almost 2 years until i found my friend crying in our shared apartment. It just broke him man.

 

Maybe the gf had some problems she had to deal with as well? Maybe this was a very specific case and not at all what happens in general to couples who do the same. I dont judge couples who are like that but I guess people also have to remember that the foundation of relationships is trust and if you can't build that without needing to confirm it all the time then maybe you're not really ready for it? Peace.

[R i r i]

No, kasi wala naman akong partner hahaha!

[notthepolvoron]

Ok lang, wala naman ako tinatago wala pala ko partner now. Hahahah

Edited October 21, 2020 by notthepolvoron

[mr.zero]

Yes of course why not

[Bratty Princess]

No, I don't.

[j0hn_blackthorn3]

We don’t check out each other’s phones & messages.

[Lexi of TVS]

Yes 

[Maverick II]

yup wala namang mga passwods ang cp ko.

[kano_d_great]

She doesn’t read, I respect her privacy as well so I don’t. 

[Isla of Freedom]

No , kasi di ko din naman gagawin sa kanya . PRIVACY 

[METALFREAK]

Nope

Reading your partner's phone messages, chats, emails, having passwords on social media accounts, just shows your insecurity and lack of trust and every one still needs their own PRIVACY even if they are married or committed.

[redbomber]

No, not because you're hiding something but because of respect and trust

[Christine of EA]

YES, Since ngayon wala naman ako partner WALANG NAG BABASA hahahahaha

 

Pero ako hind ako nag babasa ng messages kasi ayoko din ng ikakasakit ko HAHAHAHAHA CHAROT Ayoko because I respect his PRIVACY.🤗

[Pen15]

if you have nothing to hide why not.

[kb824]

Yes

[Stallon6]

Yes. We need to be open to each other. No secrets...

Edited September 29, 2021 by Stallon6

[hazer]

No...gagawa lang kami ng sarili naming multo...