FF

Her voice. 🙂

https://www.irishtimes.com/life-and-style/people/ten-little-insights-into-what-men-really-want-1.2827188

comrades mighty interesting reading. Of the ten mentioned in the link above ...

To be respected , to be heard and to be cherished / appreciated  rang truer for me than the others .

58 minutes ago, Bigshotbob32 said:

Parang ang konti ng selections e. Been thinking if mag try ako dito or nde e. 

comrade may main courses , soup ( 3 options ) , fried rice ( 2 options ) . free dessert included aside from the steamed / fried dimsum selections. Not bad dba ?

Imma fan and have brought friends over and dpa naman napahiya. 😋

imho shanghai saloon at podium. you wont regret it . may eat all you can for 899++

46 minutes ago, Evil_damon said:

a love with a lot of trust and mix with sex with a lot of lust. 😁

+ 1. Nothing beats hearing your partner scream I love you ! I love you while  in the midst of orgasm . 

comrades . my two favorite words when it comes to  the sharing of opinions . It depends. Minsan d lang kiss on the first date.

Met a girl on a dating site. Okay naman sarap kausap online .  Tapos lunch date dapat. She cancelled at the last minute.  Konting patience. Chat pa din. Shared life stories . Senti songs. Kasama sa sharing our previous experiences of hot steamy sex.

Two days later coffee at starbucks. And hindi na meetup dahil she asked  to be picked up. After picking her up wow da bomb. Petite pretty and gazongas to die for. And when our eyes met you could feel the sizzle.

"Hi" I said. " Hi" she smiled back .

Cut the long story short our date in Starbucks morphed into a six hour romp at a nearby motmot. 

Second story was with a French Canadian belle who ran a sizeable garments factory doing sub con work for a a brand of Canadian casual wear.

The company I worked for supplied detergents for washing fabrics and I set up a meet to make a pitch. Tall , pretty but what stood out was a beak for a nose and her deep hazel eyes ( i found out later na quarter native american pala siya ).

I made the pitch. And as pitches go you have to maintain eye contact with the client throughout. As I went on , you could feel a subtle  change in the air and in her eyes as her gaze started to change from professional interest to a somewhat softer look. We shook hands after and she promised to get back soon with a reply.

Two days later she called back to say we clinched the three year supply deal we offered.

I was profuse in thanks . And she was gracious in turn.

" We should have dinner to celebrate " I said. She quickly accepted.

I picked her up at her office . Her attire made me hopeful . Deep red mini dress that showed ample curves.

We had dinner and drinks and this time business was not on the menu. I laughed at her jokes and she laughed at mine . After a three hour long dinner  I asked the lady if she would like to be brought home.

It was a short drive from the resto to her place. When I stopped outside her gate , she looked at me and smiled  " Want to have coffee inside ? "

I smiled back and accepted.

Once inside we grabbed at each other  , we kissed and off went our clothes. Needless to say we did have coffee ...in the morning after.

Sometimes you get more than a kiss. 🙂

47 minutes ago, socratesaristotle said:

As sir @KID FIGHTERsaid, " love yourself more than you love anyone else".

No point in prolonging the agony. It's easy to compartmentalize the hurt and never think about it.

Something only hurts you if you let it. You need not fear/feel the pain. Your brain will adapt and that will be the start of a new you. Sadness is an emotion like anger, you just need to control it. 

Maybe I make it sound simple but if you try it will become easy.

Spoken with a bared chest. Salamat sa honesty comrade . Such candor. And if I may say a brave act of self admission too.

Shouldn't we all be moving on to better things ? "No point in prolonging the agony" . Your brain will adapt and that will be the start of a new you. Sadness is an emotion like anger, you just need to control it. Maybe I make it sound simple but if you try it will become easy.

Truly well said . Those words should be echoing in the mental chambers of your mind. Bouncing back and forth until by some faint chance it will stick and HOLD TRUE.

We all know it's hard to move on from things that we love but if it has shunned you and  doesn't love you back ...move on talaga.

Lets stop being delusional . Lets not hope of winning back all that was  lost. Lets not force ourselves on people who wont ever love us because of what happened in the past. But before we move on ... let's admit our mistakes and apologize to the ones we have hurt. At least that . AT LEAST THAT.

And comrade ... in so doing hopefully be at peace with yourself. The peace we ALL deserve .

14 minutes ago, mosy_24 said:

Yes sir di ka nag-iisa. Tao lang naman tayo eh na nagmamahal at tao lang din ang mga thera na deserve ng pagmamahal

Comrades ... ampf  ! Isang case ng beer bawa't isa dapat pag ganito ang usapan . With matching hagod ng likod sa mga kinauukulan . AHAHAHA.

13 minutes ago, mosy_24 said:

This is my own opinion lang...

We all know na yung mga thera na nasa ganitong industriya hindi rin naman nila ginusto mapunta sa ganitong trabaho e ito lang ang alam nilang paraan para makatulong sa pamilya o may mailagay sa hapagkainan sa araw araw pero wag sana natin gawin dahilan yun para hindi sila respetuhin bilamg isang babae. Tao lang sila na deserve ng pagmamahal at respeto.

+ 1 comrade. Empathy understanding and respect always for the lovely ladies.

1 hour ago, Eugene8888 said:

Pagsawaan mo hanggang sa mawala na feelings mo sa kanya

comrade hindi mo pagsasawaan dahil may TRUE feelings ka sa kanya at may TRUE feelings siya sa iyo. I hope you read the earlier exchages with  @Eric Draven and @mosy_24

Ung "pagsawaan "sa fave thera mo lang yan na hanap mo lang ay sex . Yan ang pinagsasawaan . OO marami sila dito. Tapos move on ka . Been there done that. And maybe for most GMs still doing it too. Wag mo sanang lahatin.

For a lucky few ... they found someone they  loved , cherished , respected and sacrificed for . And they were loved cherished and respected and sacrificed for in turn.

17 minutes ago, Eric Draven said:

Boss Amo, yung word na “pagsawaan” at nakakawala ng respeto lalo na kung yung tao ay pinakitaan ka ng kabaitan at respeto din pabalik.

True dis man . Kaya plus one ako  na nakinig ka. Pero ikaw ... tayo pa rin ang nakakaalam ng dapat nating gawin.

I must confess that even my bff was against the idea and  he kept on saying tapusin mo na yan.

But I did not . Kita ko kasi na puspos naman si jowa ng pag aaral at every little thing na pwede niyang gawin para mapaligaya ako ginagawa niya. Eto ung jumping out of a box in a bikini , rose petals on our bed for our anniversary , a surprise party with her and her friends in tow for my bday atbp.

Fact is my phone now is a Note 9 na ung pinambili niya galing sa allowance niya at pagbebenta ng mga bags sa FB marketplace. And that was when a Note 9 cost a ton.

Again you dont stay in love with each other for 11 years if there was nothing deep between you right ?

Just now, Eric Draven said:

I respect your opinion but I will not follow your advise.

+1 . 🙂🙂🙂

9 minutes ago, Eric Draven said:

Jesus Fucking Christ. Those lines will kill us.

9 minutes ago, mosy_24 said:

Awwww sarap naman nun sir!! 😍 Paktay talaga tusok na tusok 💘💘

comrades aaminin ko mahal ko pa rin. Pero married na siya kaya d ako nangugulo. She still calls me when she has problems tho. " Alam ko naman na sa lahat IKAW ang maasahan ko at mapagkakatiwalaan ko. "

And to make it clear , it not about financial help . She is a very successful business woman now with three thriving food branches under her own  brand .

24 minutes ago, mosy_24 said:

Same here sir!! Di ka nag-iisa!! 😍

15 minutes ago, mosy_24 said:

Oo sir atsaka kapag nakikita at nararamdaman mo na appreciated nya lahat ng effort mo hayyyssss 

8 minutes ago, Eric Draven said:

At saka kapag tinanggihan niya yung perang ibinibigay mo. Tapos Sasabihin, “ganyan ba tingin mo sa akin?”

 

Anyway she’s not an active thera in any MTC SPA anymore kaya I don’t know if this is still counted.

comrades we all rode the same boat pala. I remember her immortal line to me " Oo alam ko may pera ka. Pero hindi importante sa akin yan . Importante na mahal mo ako . At mahal na mahal kita."  PAKTAY NA ! 🥲

Our love story is posted somwhere here in the forum. 11 years yun chong. Kaya nasabbatical ako sa MTC.

19 minutes ago, mosy_24 said:

Same here sir!! Di ka nag-iisa!! 😍

9 minutes ago, mosy_24 said:

Oo sir atsaka kapag nakikita at nararamdaman mo na appreciated nya lahat ng effort mo hayyyssss 

3 minutes ago, Eric Draven said:

At saka kapag tinanggihan niya yung perang ibinibigay mo. Tapos Sasabihin, “ganyan ba tingin mo sa akin?”

 

Anyway she’s not an active thera in any MTC SPA anymore kaya I don’t know if this is still counted.

comrades we all rode the same boat pala. I remember her immortal line to me " Oo alam ko may pera ka. Pero hindi importante sa akin yan . Importante na mahal mo ako . At mahal na mahal kita."  PAKTAY NA ! 🥲

5 minutes ago, Eric Draven said:

Boss Amo, sana walang Ed Atwan version eme eme ang mangbash sayo. Hehehe.

hahahaha. comrade  nagsawa na ata. at d lang naman ako ata ang nakaranas ng ed atwan experience !

I really had a nice time. Lets stay in touch ...

Pag pumayag ka , babalik at balik ako sayo. Wala na akong kukuning iba !

1 hour ago, just_checking said:

D ko naman nilalahat, pero majority ng thera ay habol syempre ay pera. If wala ka makikitang effort or investment na ginagawa nya sa ginagawa mo. Have fun na lang, reserve mo yung effort and resource sa tamang partner.

Comrade lahat naman po siguro na pumapasok sa ganitong trabaho ang habol ay PERA. Bakit ba tayo pumapasok sa trabaho kundi para sa sweldo ? (And we're not talking about what they receive officially on the company books. )

At kahit ganito ang trabaho ay  tao pa rin naman po sila na may feelings na pwede nating pukawin sa panliligaw.

As i said in a previous post , no harm in trying . See if it melts the ice . But if it does not , cut it short.

However , may I also say that it is a dangerous and slippery path to look for love among the lovely ladies in this profession.

before entering a store known for selling japanese items , I was approached by two small girls selling sampaguitas. They had a tired look on their faces yet bravely put on their sweetest smiles. 

"Sir , bili na po kayo ng sampaguita . Pambili lang po ng tsinelas namin ". 

True enough , when i looked down they had nothing on their tiny feet. And then I cringed and pitied them as I imagined the pain and discomfort they must have felt  walking on burning pavement and asphalt on a hot summer day.

"Sige anak. D ako bibili ng sampaguita pero ibibili ko na lang kayo ng tsinelas. Gusto niyo ba yun ? "

"Opo" they both nodded shyly.

I left them on the shade of the shop foyer and asked the saleslady if they had girls slippers for sale. 

Luckily they had them on a nearby aisle .

I looked at the rack of choices , hoping to find slippers that that looked durable but still offered comfortable cushioning. I chose two pairs , went down and asked permission from the security guard if I could bring the items out so the girls could try it on .

The slippers were a perfect fit. They slipped it off and I went inside the cashier to pay for what I had chose.

Outside ,  I handed the slippers over and the girls  excitedly put it on their feet .  Now the slippers were officially theirs ; prolly one of the few things in life they could call their own.

Again the sweet smiles .

"Thank you po " and they walked away excitedly chatting mayhap about their new possessions.

And this made me think. These girls like so many of our less fortunate brethren go to sleep knowing that they have nothing. And they wake up knowing that they have nothing. And yet they BRAVELY muster on , day after day , week after week , month after month. To smile in the face of adversity ... that is COURAGE. 

On 4/27/2022 at 7:51 PM, handsomebob said:

kung popular yung thera mas lalong masakit kasi ang daming kumukuha sa kanya kaya the best is iwasan umulit sa thera, once or 2x at the most then lipat na uli....

as what I have said in the past, BUMILI KA NA LANG NG POR KILO NA BABOY, WAG NA MAG ALAGA!! haha

dagdag ko lang comrade .

kung bawal sa iyo ang baboy ( for health or religious reasons ) , pwede namang chicks ( chicken ) na lang. wag ka lang kumuha ng manok na tandang not unless gusto mo subukan ang sabong ( or COCKfighting ) 😁

On 4/28/2022 at 2:53 PM, spectre999 said:

Nakipag sex for the last time, then ghosted haha she was still immature.

bakeeet ? spectre ka ghost siya . dba bagay kayo ?

20 hours ago, Tipreth said:

It's not you, it's me

the more honest version : Its YOU not me. Sa totoo lang ayoko na sayo . Goodbye !

On 4/28/2022 at 2:53 PM, spectre999 said:

Nakipag sex for the last time, then ghosted haha she was still immature.

Ayokong makipag sex sa ghost. Biro mo standing doggy tayo  . Tas pagtingin ko d pala nakasayad ung paa mo sa floor ! Goodbye !

https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/countries-where-prostitution-is-legal

In the Philippines , prostitution is tolerated as evidenced by many MPs in NCR. As long as we remain a relatively poor country , prostitution will thrive as it remains an avenue for many women to support themselves and their families.

Pwede ka namang magtrabaho sa SM. Buong araw kang nakatatyo bawal umupo. Tas ung sweldo mo pagkaliit. Di nito kakayaning buhayin ang pangangailangan ng pamilya ko.