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Sex Or Love? What Makes Relationship Work?


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to have a healthy dose of both is good, but both people have to come to terms that both those words are sometimes interchangeable....

I don't mean to desensitize anyone to the romanticism attached to them but sometimes sex is love and love is sex.....people just need to know when what is what

 

I was once told the problem sometimes revolves around the ground rules for both of those terms.....what ground rules you ask??? that's the problem.....

 

it has to be set up between the two of you, not necessarily in stone but at least have an understanding

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  • 3 weeks later...

Fun is certainly a part of a great relationship. I love a guy who makes me laugh! But, the guy has to know when to be serious, too. Communication is high on my list. It doesn't always have to be deep thought and how do you feel about this or that; a simple conversation about how the day was is fine, too. Listening without trying to butt in is also important. If I talk to you about a problem at work or with a friend, I don't necessarily want you to fix it; I'm really just looking for a sympathetic ear. Being in balance individually and as a couple is a key for me. We have to balance fun and serious, impulsiveness and responsibility, work and play, individual and couple, etc.

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as for me, there are many things to be considered to make relationship work. cyempre yung maging Responsible, understanding, trust ihalo na rin ang love, to make it more intense. yung sex kasi napaguusapan yan. kahit naman wlang sex eh, gumagana ang relationship.

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hard to explain this eh....

 

for me intimate sex is, well, intimate or others call it making love. but sometimes you just want

to have sex and that's it. sex like you used to watch back in high school days. yung parang mga

porn scenes. hehehe...

 

but most of the time, passionate kissing / making out is almost as fullfilling as sex. hahaha...

 

a basta. masarap kapag meron pareho. pero masarap pa rin maski love lang or sex lang. hahaha...

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Some people see sex as a necessary part of a healthy relationship, especially in modern countries. But a lot of people in the world still wait for marriage to have sex. They have girlfriends and boyfriends, too.

Another reason why guys can't handle a relationship without sex is, guys NEED to have orgasms, it's different than women's necessities. Men have a biological basis behind it that women don't. Men need to keep a fresh, live supply of sperm and therefore get rid of the old for the new.

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Some people see sex as a necessary part of a healthy relationship, especially in modern countries. But a lot of people in the world still wait for marriage to have sex. They have girlfriends and boyfriends, too.

Another reason why guys can't handle a relationship without sex is, guys NEED to have orgasms, it's different than women's necessities. Men have a biological basis behind it that women don't. Men need to keep a fresh, live supply of sperm and therefore get rid of the old for the new.

I would hate to disagree here, but guys WANT to have orgasms, the sperm that is unused is discharged along with urine on a fairly regular basis.

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I would hate to disagree here, but guys WANT to have orgasms, the sperm that is unused is discharged along with urine on a fairly regular basis.

 

But fair MaidenRP not all Guys WANT orgasm... Many folks (guys and gals alike) who go beyond the physical recognize that ORGASMS are just a pleasurable side effect of a more beautiful engagement of mind, body and soul when all the stars align so to speak.

 

I dare not speak for anyone other than my own personal view when I say equal parts Sex and Love goes a long way in cultivating a fruitfull relationship.

 

PEACE! :)

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its like spagetti with meatballs.. love is the spagetti and sex is the meatballs. :thumbsupsmiley: its quite simple, you can have both, you can eat both, you can have spagetti alone, but having the meatballs makes the spagetti really delicious. otherwise reastaurants would have a separate "spagetti meatballs" only on their menu.

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