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#21 Rixx

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Posted 16 April 2006 - 05:38 PM

Not necessarily, depends on self confidence and self esteem

#22 marlalicious

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Posted 16 April 2006 - 07:50 PM

^ I agree to that ;)

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Posted 17 April 2006 - 06:30 PM

mahirap maging mataba.

ako, i grew up average height and weight, when i started to add lbs and people started to tell me "ang laki-laki mo na" or "oi, ang laki mo ngayon" or hey, what happened to you, lumobo ka", i would smile disregard it kc i was in denial...

but after looking into the mirror eh totoo nga. baby hippo na ako..

what more sa mga bata pa lang ganon na.. normally it'll be a life full of embedded insecurities.. minsan they build the self confidence kc malaki din yung members ng immediate family especially kung pati relatives din. but to those exposed sa masa, eh they are disctinct icons like tall lanky people.. kitang-kita ang extrang taba...

in all honesty, nakaka insecure when you see sculptured bodies of other men competing for ladies... how do i hide this gut.. hinde ako hihinga all nite.. nye..

but one thing i learned, "fat chicks" are as good the sexy, eye candy girls... and they accept fat guys too.. of course in all honesty mas exciting pag sexy or slim yung may type sayo.. sobra heaven feeling when i was smitten by a young sexy teenage lady.. i thought i won the lottery.. friends pa rin kame after the break-up.. yung ex ko na chubby chick was also a gem, had to leave for the states though.. so, to each his own, respetohan na lang...

gusto ko bang pumayat? syempre... but if im to be this big for the rest of my life, its ok... basta i remain healthy (magpapapayat cguro sa right weight and size) and i know i would still find my girl... whichever side of the weight fence man sya...

lets liberate ourselves, fat is big.. but not necessarily bad... love the bulge... :-)

baldo B)

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Posted 18 April 2006 - 10:13 PM

because the people around them are sometimes insensitive to their feelings...

classic example... pag may matabang sumakay sa jeep at siya na ang huling pasahero sigurado magbubulungan yung mga pasahero kesyo masikip na at hindi man lang naisip ng dispatcher o driver... at pag narealize nung mataba na hindi na siya kasya sa jeep at bumaba na siya, i'm sure sangkaterbang side comments ang aabutin nya sa mga pasahero...

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Posted 22 April 2006 - 09:41 AM

because the people around them are sometimes insensitive to their feelings...

classic example... pag may matabang sumakay sa jeep at siya na ang huling pasahero sigurado magbubulungan yung mga pasahero kesyo masikip na at hindi man lang naisip ng dispatcher o driver... at pag narealize nung mataba na hindi na siya kasya sa jeep at bumaba na siya, i'm sure sangkaterbang side comments ang aabutin nya sa mga pasahero...

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This is so true. Masyado kasing harsh ang ating culture sa mga matatabang tao. We find them cute pero we express such affection in negative terms such as baboy, boyba, biik, napag-lilipasan, etc. As a people, we need to stop this nonsense and become more sensitive to people's feelings.

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Posted 22 April 2006 - 06:17 PM

hhhmmm.... is this a generalized impression. cguro everyone has their own sensitivity level... everybody is unique in his/her own way.... pero ako, sensitive...

but late, if somebody tells me na tumataba ako, i just answer : "Thank You"...

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Posted 10 May 2006 - 01:22 AM

Not necessarily, depends on self confidence and self esteem

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#28 Fat_Bastahd

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Posted 10 May 2006 - 03:46 AM

i'm fat.. but i'm not sensitive..

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Posted 12 May 2006 - 03:10 PM

TO THOSE WHO ARE,

IN MY OPINION, BECAUSE GENERALLY MOST PEOPLE ARE CONCERNED WITH THERI APPEARANCE OR HOW THEY LOOK.

PEACE

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Posted 23 May 2006 - 08:57 PM

karamihan sa mtataba binubuhos frustration at depression sa pagkain kya konting biro mo lng galit na
pero malaki ang kinalaman nun cguro sa society na meron tyo dhil pag mataba ka tingin sau tamad w/c is 70% true. ung iba nman un lng bisyo e sino b nman ang tatanggi sa masarap na pagkain di ba. altho pag mataba k mukha kng punum puno ng sustansya sa katawan mas delikado pa ang kalusugan mo dhil mas malaki ang porsiyento na cholesterol at nde protein ang nka stock sa katawan mo. kya wag magalit sa pagkain mamigay k nman nde lng nman ikaw ang pwedeng makawala sa kusina e :lol:

#31 BlackWizard

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Posted 24 May 2006 - 10:02 AM

I'm 80 kilos and I aint sensitive...

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Posted 24 May 2006 - 11:10 AM

I didn't even know I was fat until I started to lose weight & return to the normal BDI. Then I saw pics & videos of myself before & was amazed. Wazzat really me? :blink:

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Posted 24 May 2006 - 11:46 AM

sensitive people appear as such because there is a trigger: a remark, a comment, etc.

with fat people, remarks are not always put in a nice way. in fact they are ofter coarse or rude, or dare i say -- insensitive. in this case, a person may appear sensitive because they have rightly been hurt or offended. di naman lahat nadadaan sa 'hey, joke lang yun ha'

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Posted 27 May 2006 - 05:23 PM

sensitive people appear as such because there is a trigger: a remark, a comment, etc.

with fat people, remarks are not always put in a nice way. in fact they are ofter coarse or rude, or dare i say -- insensitive. in this case, a person may appear sensitive because they have rightly been hurt or offended. di naman lahat nadadaan sa 'hey, joke lang yun ha'

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been fat. been thin.i try real hard to work out regularly. ok talaga maging payat. pero mali na i-generalize na fat people are lazy, kase in my experience more likely lalo na kung mga professionals sila their jobs just doen't involve too much physical movement. kaya me tendency lumaki.

(of course, there are also stay at home bums who scratch their bellies all day. but then again marami ren namang mga payat na tambay na adik.)

tapos you have to consider genes, either that or nung bata, nabiktima ng "fat is cute" syndrome, kino-condemn yung parents pag "pumapayat" yung anak kahit na right weight lang.

i think fat people should make a conscious effort to lose weight not so di na sila makarinig ng put-downs but for their own well-being and health.

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Posted 03 June 2006 - 07:01 AM

cuz some of them have low self esteem...


i have friends who does not think that way and some of them get the gurlz...

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Posted 07 June 2006 - 01:31 PM

Because they pitty themselves

cuz some of them have low self esteem...

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Posted 07 June 2006 - 02:02 PM

siguro kapag panget ren sila...

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Posted 07 June 2006 - 07:39 PM

kahi sa cartoons like south park lagi rin tinitira ang matataba lyk cartman, sumtyms hirap din maging mataba pero ako gus2 kong tumaba hehehe

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Posted 07 June 2006 - 10:13 PM

i guess it's the society that really makes them more sensitive... the looks that people give, the stares, the pointing and sometimes laughing. some people who have never experienced living "big" laugh at these people who are weight challenged, without knowing the reason for the person to become the way they are... i admit i have been to both extremes and due to the nature of my condition i am having a hard time losing the extra pounds, it hurts when people point fingers at me without knowing that i am already suffering and that i have a deeper problem besides my weight... i guess thats why some "big" people get offended easily...

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Posted 08 June 2006 - 10:37 PM

They just dont knw hw to live life IMO cuz they kept on listening to society and becomes more retarded in the process as they think that every1 is thinking that they are fat and stuff and they in turn become more conscious of everything there is in terms of fat and space.

Wake up guys. Time to enjoy life ;)
Society doesnt care, they also dont knw you, u dont knw them, live the life. Follow your dreams.




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