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who or what you value more ultimately wins. either the legal tie that binds or the love that ties you. societal approval and children are powerful as well. I knew a guy- rich, successful, and married but he met his soulmate off the reservation- she was bright, engaging and witty. and he planned to leave his wife; made preparations; steeled his will for the coming storm, but life intervened.

 

his wife, who was pregnant, miscarried and the tide of guilt carried him to the lonely shore where he had to choose duty over happiness. but he still carried on with the affair- an open secret in a world of judging eyes and careless whispers. several years later the embers died and they drifted apart. he took up running. ran and ran, ran it out of his system.

 

and then he met another girl.

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3 months na pala since wala kme nung doc na nakilala ko sa spa industry .. well i really love him kht alam ko sa sarli kong mali ang mahalin sia :( wala e thats life .

 

Kahit ganun pala marming dahiln bkt kameng mga babae pumapatol sa mai asawa ..

KABIT . MALANDI . MISSTRESS . IMPOKRITA HNDI NMN namen gustu matawag kameng Ganyan .

Snu banmn mai gustu dba ..

Dahil sa pag mamahal Nagawa kong Lumabag . Sobra sobra ko siang mahal

Pero siguro natakot ako .. natakot akong at the end of the day mamimili sia

At the end of the day Hni ako . ang Pipiliin nia . At the end of the day Na realize ko nalang na SHET !!

DALAGA pala ako . Alma ko marami pang aportunidad para skn

Marami pakong lalaking makikilala hndi lang sya :)

 

Pero nannwala ako Bihira lng manalo ang kabit sa tunaay na aswa dahil kahit kailan man ang kabit ay kabit at mananatiling

Mai hawak ng korona ang totoong Asawa :)

 

 

To doc alex . i really miss u so Much .. Im always here for u , I pray for u .. and i love u so much

 

PINAG TAGPO PERO HNDI TINADHANA :)

 

 

#MS.K IS NOW SIGN OFF

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Your soul needs your wife

( naging isa na kayo sa harapan ng dyos . Nangako na habang buhay kayo mag mamahalan, aalagaan ang isat isa )

Your body needs your mistress

( mistress is only a temptation and trial that you need to past so that your relationship to your wife become stronger and stronger than ever )

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The process of living your wife is also hard. Many things should be considered. Happiness against duty is also hard. Only time will tell if your happiness can wait that much time. While the duty is your responsibility and leaving your responsibility is an armagedon. Need to balance it and once expectation meet hope it ends well.

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I told my wife that i am NOT going to go through another relationship. Aint no perfect out there and if you aint happy leave. But dont bail to go to someone else.

 

I understand the need for love and all that however i am never doing this again. And i have been married 22 years and a lot of them years were not easy years.

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Life is cruel in the sense that sometimes:

 

1. You meet your soulmate after you have married; or

2. You might have loved your wife before, but you have changed and now have different priorities when it comes to a partner.

 

Pinaka mahirap yung nameet mo soulmate mo pero pareho nang mahirap sitwasyon nyo. Yan yung mga nakakapanghinayang na masasabi mo "Sana nagkakilala tayo nung mas bata pa tayo".

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If your marriage is emotionally over, leave your wife. Annulment in the Philippines takes time, pero you should already physically separate na once you make a decision to end it. That way, when you meet someone new and fall in love, hindi mararamdaman ng babae na kabit lang siya. Best if you end your marriage not because of a third party. Para maka-move on din si wife. She's also entitled to her happiness. The legal process takes time, but that doesn't mean that you have to sacrifice real love while waiting for its conclusion. Kaululan lang talaga ang batas dito sa Pinay pagdating sa pagtatapos ng marriage.

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There’s a thin line between love and lust. Oftentimes we thought it’s love when it’s only lust.

 

Guys are born hunters. Kaya minsan maski nakatali na naghahunt pa rin pero babalik pa rin sa wife yan. So to the mistresses, mahirap ba makabihag ng lalakeng single? Kailangan yun nakatali pa ang papatulan nyo? I am not judging. Curious talaga ako malaman bakit kayo nagpapauto sa married guys?

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There’s a thin line between love and lust. Oftentimes we thought it’s love when it’s only lust.

Guys are born hunters. Kaya minsan maski nakatali na naghahunt pa rin pero babalik pa rin sa wife yan. So to the mistresses, mahirap ba makabihag ng lalakeng single? Kailangan yun nakatali pa ang papatulan nyo? I am not judging. Curious talaga ako malaman bakit kayo nagpapauto sa married guys?

was it because women have no other male figures whom she respected? like a real father na hinihigpitan sila, tinuturo ang tamang asal at maling asal at huwag gawin ang mali.. yes sabihin n nten may tatay naman na kasama lumaki, pero ung tatay niya ba ay strong at hindi weak in terms of pag mali ay mali, o di kaya huwag uuwe ng gabe, huwag magsusuot ng maiksi, huwag mag boboyfriend, ung bang tinuturuan ang anak na maging good wife pagdating sa future at tinuturuan kung anong klaseng lalake ang dapat niya pinipili na maging husband and the least boyfriebnd

 

or

 

was it because women hate women? pag nakikita nilang married ang lalake, wala naman sila pakelam sa lalakeng un. sabihan man ng kabit ng i love you, ikaw lang minahal ko, sayo ko lang ginawa tong mga bagay na toh, kahit mali minamahal pa din kita, kahit may asawa ka eh mahal kita, those are first of all lies,. secondly, ginagamit lang ng mga kabit ang married man para masira ang buhay ng married women.. ayaw kase nila na tanggapan na silang kabit miserable ang buhay, kaya damay damay na toh..

 

or

 

is it both reasons? kaya kayong mga lalake, huwag kayo basta basta nagpapakasal lalo masarap at maputi kili kili o maputi ang singit ng babae.. dahil ang sarap madaling makakita niyan, pero ang matinong babae, desente, may values, may character, deep inside alam naten mga lalake na pang matagalan yan.. at darating tlg ang point n kahit gano pa kasexy at kaganda ang kasama naten sa buhay, hindi na tlg tayo titigisan. its just a natural thing to happen, alam yan ng mga naka LTR and may asawa na ng more than 5yrs/8yrs/10yrs... pero ang babaeng hindi magpapagalaw sa iba, hindi makikipag chat sa ibang lalake ng hindi mo alam, hindi nakikipagkita sa exbf o co worker once a month to screw each others brain, ayy mahirap mahanap.. as a man, ang gusto naten smooth sailing ang buhay naten na hindi tayo bibigyan ng sakit ng ulo at hindi ung roller coaster na up, down, left, right.. you got me? i know youre smart,

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pero honest opinion.. what do guys get in the marriage? wherein, all the legal system favors women.. manuod kayo at makinig ng tulfo, laging pabor sa mga babae lahat ng batad.. kahit na may evidence ka as guy to discredit ang binibintang ng babae. pag sinamahan niya yan ng iyak, kahit my ebidensya ka, siya at siya pa rin ang papanigan.. kaya why marry and let the government enters your relationship?

 

**kung mahal ka ng babae, kahit walang kasal mamahalin ka niyan.. there is a saying, "Women loves the idea of marriage, but not the marriage" they wanted long gown, my photographer, my videographer, kaiinggitan ng mga kaibigan niyang babae, honeymoon sa amanpulo, may sayaw sayaw pa si groom .. wala silang pakelam sa lalake, kundi sa idea ng event, you feel me?

 

Those of you will say im a woman hater, thats not true.. i just accept women nature.. meron ako LTR > 9yrs na kaya i know where i speak of.. and yess meron ako other number 1.. hindi nila kilala ang isat isa at hindi nila nakilala..

 

si #1 hindi kame gumagastos, nagtitipid kame for our future, namimili kame mga gamit sa baclaran/divi, pero iniispoiled ko siya once a while sa buffet, sa spa, lagi kame magkasama, hindi ako kilala ng parents niya kase mahigpit ang tatay niya at nakita ko nmn un

 

si other #1, 1/2 to 3/4 kame magkasama compare to #1.. laging my jco, chocolates, kilala ako ng parents pti family, my travel, my damit, my cp, my buffet, lagi spa lalo pag nagtatampo.. in other words treated well in terms of finances compare kay #1.. well tapos gusto niya magpakasal kame, so i propose because the sex is great and gusto ko ng exclusivity na totoo sakanya! baket? of course the sex was great, napapanuod ko sa porn na dinidilaan ang juice ko na tumalsik sa dibdib ko, bj in the car while driving, sex in public, sexdrive is so high, minumumog ang juice ko sabay lulunukin, dinidilaan paa ko, hanggng sa engage na kame.. may pa post post pa sa fb na engage na siya, to cut the story short, nahuli ko in actual na katatapos niya lang sa ka opismate niya.. not once but multiple times. the guy has no means, below mediocre looks,

 

i can see both their phone whenever i want, they give me back massage at least twice a week, see their fb both anytime and anywhere, they dont bring me headache.. they have proven their worth, but ung other #1 was all fake. because hindi nagtagal, she almost put bullet in my head by marrying her and iwan ko si #1.. kung sakali na pinakasalan ko si other #1, nagka anak kame at nahuli ko siya, edi nasira na ang buhay ko ngayon!!

 

kaya mapapayo ko sa inyong mga lalake. get red-pilled! study in youtube.. laging tinuturo sa atin mag workout, mag gitara, mag luto, etc etc, but let me tell you something important, "Start being Red-Pill" and study in youtube.. Will Smith get busted by his wife, dr. dre, they were all being divorce rape by a woman.. Si will smith na un, at si dr. dre pero pinaglololoko pa din sila ng pinakasalan nila.. kaya start finding points in women , ive got my checklist and improving my game in women

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pero honest opinion.. what do guys get in the marriage? wherein, all the legal system favors women.. manuod kayo at makinig ng tulfo, laging pabor sa mga babae lahat ng batad.. kahit na may evidence ka as guy to discredit ang binibintang ng babae. pag sinamahan niya yan ng iyak, kahit my ebidensya ka, siya at siya pa rin ang papanigan.. kaya why marry and let the government enters your relationship?

 

**kung mahal ka ng babae, kahit walang kasal mamahalin ka niyan.. there is a saying, "Women loves the idea of marriage, but not the marriage" they wanted long gown, my photographer, my videographer, kaiinggitan ng mga kaibigan niyang babae, honeymoon sa amanpulo, may sayaw sayaw pa si groom .. wala silang pakelam sa lalake, kundi sa idea ng event, you feel me?

 

Those of you will say im a woman hater, thats not true.. i just accept women nature.. meron ako LTR > 9yrs na kaya i know where i speak of.. and yess meron ako other number 1.. hindi nila kilala ang isat isa at hindi nila nakilala..

 

si #1 hindi kame gumagastos, nagtitipid kame for our future, namimili kame mga gamit sa baclaran/divi, pero iniispoiled ko siya once a while sa buffet, sa spa, lagi kame magkasama, hindi ako kilala ng parents niya kase mahigpit ang tatay niya at nakita ko nmn un

 

si other #1, 1/2 to 3/4 kame magkasama compare to #1.. laging my jco, chocolates, kilala ako ng parents pti family, my travel, my damit, my cp, my buffet, lagi spa lalo pag nagtatampo.. in other words treated well in terms of finances compare kay #1.. well tapos gusto niya magpakasal kame, so i propose because the sex is great and gusto ko ng exclusivity na totoo sakanya! baket? of course the sex was great, napapanuod ko sa porn na dinidilaan ang juice ko na tumalsik sa dibdib ko, bj in the car while driving, sex in public, sexdrive is so high, minumumog ang juice ko sabay lulunukin, dinidilaan paa ko, hanggng sa engage na kame.. may pa post post pa sa fb na engage na siya, to cut the story short, nahuli ko in actual na katatapos niya lang sa ka opismate niya.. not once but multiple times. the guy has no means, below mediocre looks,

 

i can see both their phone whenever i want, they give me back massage at least twice a week, see their fb both anytime and anywhere, they dont bring me headache.. they have proven their worth, but ung other #1 was all fake. because hindi nagtagal, she almost put bullet in my head by marrying her and iwan ko si #1.. kung sakali na pinakasalan ko si other #1, nagka anak kame at nahuli ko siya, edi nasira na ang buhay ko ngayon!!

 

kaya mapapayo ko sa inyong mga lalake. get red-pilled! study in youtube.. laging tinuturo sa atin mag workout, mag gitara, mag luto, etc etc, but let me tell you something important, "Start being Red-Pill" and study in youtube.. Will Smith get busted by his wife, dr. dre, they were all being divorce rape by a woman.. Si will smith na un, at si dr. dre pero pinaglololoko pa din sila ng pinakasalan nila.. kaya start finding points in women , ive got my checklist and improving my game in women

You have a point. You are a Red Pill guy or Purple Pill guy yourself. Haba naman masyado ng topic mo. hahahaha

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Well

 

Lahat naman dito nasabi na. Eto na lang dadagdag ko.

 

Simple lang naman kasi problema eh. Kung di ka na masaya at tingin mo hindi ka na nagiging mabuting tao sa kinakasama mo, eh di hiwalayan mo ng maayos. Make clear terms. Leave the person with a bit of dignity. Then do what you want. Para sakin, affairs are for cowards. Ayaw mo na pala, eh di panindigan mo at hiwalayan mo.

 

Second, I do not believe that we should always pursue things that makes us happy. Happiness is not a gauge kung tama o mali ginagawa mo. At minsan kelangan isakripisyo natin mga bagay na nagpapasaya satin para sa huli yun tama ang mangingibabaw. Yan kasi ang hirap, basta masaya tayo, blurred na yun line ng right and wrong. Pilit natin lolokohin sarili natin na tuwid ang isang bagay na kitang kita namang baluktot.

 

Ang happiness, parang pera din yan eh. You can be blissfully happy and feel you got everything you want doing something dishonest. Or you can be a little happy and at the same time feel something is missing. Pero huwag ka, ang lahat ng utang ay may kabayaran. Life is not fair but it is just. The devil has a way of collecting. Umutang ka ng kaligayahan sa maling paraan, malaking interes sisingilin nyan sayo. Isipin mo, si Napoles siguro nung di pa sya nabubuko naguumapaw din kaligayahan nya. Pero ngayon na nakakulong sya at buong pamilya nya minumura ng tao, malamang nagiisip sya ngayon kung worth it ba ginawa nya.

 

Sana makinig yun mga dapat habang di pa huli lahat.

I chose affair. the wifey can be my companion when I get old

at least the affair would spice up my life

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