bootylicious214 Posted December 5, 2005 Share Posted December 5, 2005 what if ur girl is a virgin, and it takes forever for her to be ready pra may mangyari sa inyong dalawa...would you pressure her? magiging patient k b sa kanya... for how long kayo guys makakatagal na walang sex sa inyong dalawa?and will you be faithful to her? Quote Link to comment
Rovy_R Posted December 5, 2005 Share Posted December 5, 2005 I'm just wondering if you are that young.... If you are at your teens, pwedeng maghintay actualy... Men can wait forever and there will be moments na talgang mangungulit kami... we just have to love you that much otherwise we might look for alternatives.... Bear in mind my Lady, having sex is different from making Love...... you might not wait that long.... Quote Link to comment
heavygatin_but_cutie Posted December 5, 2005 Share Posted December 5, 2005 what if ur girl is a virgin, and it takes forever for her to be ready pra may mangyari sa inyong dalawa...would you pressure her? magiging patient k b sa kanya... for how long kayo guys makakatagal na walang sex sa inyong dalawa?and will you be faithful to her?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> here is my 2 cents on this. if the girl is still a virgin..let her be. let her preserve it until the time she is willing to give it up. don't pressure her...anyway, it is not the only measure of your love for her..right? even if sex is involve in a relationship it is not a guarantee that the relationship is for forever. give her time. if she would want to give it up..let her give it up freely not because she was forced to give it up. if she wants to preserve it..as the boyfriend..respect that and preserve her as well. why wouldn't you be faithful if she can't give it up? else..if you won't be..then don't let her know or don't leave evidence.... things she don't know wont hurt her.... Quote Link to comment
cutemetrix Posted December 6, 2005 Share Posted December 6, 2005 PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE.I can wait for the right time and still ill be faithful :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: Quote Link to comment
doctor_ni_tequila Posted December 6, 2005 Share Posted December 6, 2005 if she is still a virgin....time will tell if its time.....if its vader time...... Quote Link to comment
King`Of`Klubbs Posted December 6, 2005 Share Posted December 6, 2005 i can wait... Quote Link to comment
Wacky Dreamer Posted December 6, 2005 Share Posted December 6, 2005 No pressure, just romance hehehe sila ang hindi makakapaghintay.Pero siyempre nakakagigil kung pinagpapantasyahan ng lalaki ang kanyang gf. Kasalanan na ng lalaki yun lalo na kapag nang-pressure.And girls should understand male hormones. Kung hindi siya makapagpigil, help him. Either you promise him and you surely will, or just let him go. Or you can help him thru other things. But the best thing to do is to let him grow, mature, see the world, and he will be a good man to marry someday. Now girls, please don't ask your men kung nagfa-fantasize sila sa inyo - malaking kasalan sa amin ang tanong na yan (manggigigil lang kami at baka mang-rape (baka lang)) Love comes with respect, and respect is observed when it should be. Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted December 6, 2005 Share Posted December 6, 2005 i dont mind a long wait. im not even going to pressure her. it's hers...she's entitled to preserve what is hers. frankly, i dont want to be first if i couldnt see myself marrying her in the future. Quote Link to comment
xuaeenr Posted December 7, 2005 Share Posted December 7, 2005 I can't. It's not that I can't wait, I just think that a healthy sexual relationship is essential between the two of us. I don't mean to be her "first" either. Virginity is not important to me, sexual compatibility is. It doesn't mean we have to hit the sack right away. My point is, sexual intimacy is part of a healthy relationship between partners. Hence, I'm not for waiting. Quote Link to comment
Clinks Posted December 7, 2005 Share Posted December 7, 2005 Actually...it depends on the situation... If you really really love this girl....and you think you will marry her ( bec u LOVE her not bec naka JACKPOT na kayo)...then waiting is worth it... Pero if you think this will not work....you better think twice before popping her cherry...my expereince with this is the girl will clung to you like hell....imagine that... in one way or another... Quote Link to comment
Hudson Posted December 7, 2005 Share Posted December 7, 2005 You know what girl? It is all up to you if you want to give up or not.A relationship should not pressure but should nurture.Don't succumb to the anything just because everybody is doing it. There is something with us older men that the young guns don't have and that is patience.We can wait for hell to freeze over if we truly want something as precious as a woman's heart.Prudence is the better part of valor. Quote Link to comment
antwanshakeel Posted December 7, 2005 Share Posted December 7, 2005 You know what girl? It is all up to you if you want to give up or not.A relationship should not pressure but should nurture.Don't succumb to the anything just because everybody is doing it. There is something with us older men that the young guns don't have and that is patience.We can wait for hell to freeze over if we truly want something as precious as a woman's heart.Prudence is the better part of valor. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> we should just settle for delayed gratification as against instant gratification Quote Link to comment
bootylicious214 Posted December 8, 2005 Author Share Posted December 8, 2005 wow... glad to know that most of the guys are willing to wait... Quote Link to comment
JUPITER Posted December 8, 2005 Share Posted December 8, 2005 It's not about waiting or leaving just because you don't wanna give up your virginity yet. It's about respecting ladies as human beings with the right to their own welfare. Usually lang naman mga atat sa ganyan yung di pa nakakatikim ng virgin eh. What a bunch of losers! Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted December 8, 2005 Share Posted December 8, 2005 wow... glad to know that most of the guys are willing to wait...<{POST_SNAPBACK}> hahaha. or maybe those guys who cant wait find this thread boring... i hope not. Quote Link to comment
brownman_made Posted December 9, 2005 Share Posted December 9, 2005 I believe that sexuality is an integral part of a relationship. I prefer to be with someone whom I could be sexually compatible. However if I really love the girl, I could try other things to convince her to do it with me but definitely I would not force the issue and respect her decision. Quote Link to comment
seiba Posted December 9, 2005 Share Posted December 9, 2005 me?..i can wait..basta only time can tell... Quote Link to comment
TheGeneral Posted December 9, 2005 Share Posted December 9, 2005 there's no harm in waiting. it's one thing to prove your patience and true colors. Quote Link to comment
antwanshakeel Posted December 10, 2005 Share Posted December 10, 2005 you're both consenting adults. you can do what you want. Quote Link to comment
torix Posted December 10, 2005 Share Posted December 10, 2005 there are those who will tell you na be gentle to her kasi virgin pa nga - meron na iba na papayag na ma penetrate mo and its ups to you to determine if she is a virgin or not - pag na pa inakup... yan - chances are talagang cherry Quote Link to comment
lancaster_raven Posted December 10, 2005 Share Posted December 10, 2005 if it's more than six months already and still she is not ready to take the next step, I might be in the position to reconsider our relationship. she must also be honest and open to her own limitations. but with most of my previous relationship, six months is the length of time I give. Quote Link to comment
babymaker Posted December 10, 2005 Share Posted December 10, 2005 what if ur girl is a virgin, and it takes forever for her to be ready pra may mangyari sa inyong dalawa...would you pressure her? magiging patient k b sa kanya... for how long kayo guys makakatagal na walang sex sa inyong dalawa?and will you be faithful to her?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Ibig sabihin nyan, lahing pang-kasalan yang girl na yan.Ganyan misis ko, pinakasalan ko. Quote Link to comment
pepsiman Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 i'd rather wait than losing her..kesa magsisi ako when finally i realize she's too important for me to lose...dba? ^^ Quote Link to comment
JUPITER Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 Ibig sabihin nyan, lahing pang-kasalan yang girl na yan.Ganyan misis ko, pinakasalan ko well said! Quote Link to comment
edc Posted December 13, 2005 Share Posted December 13, 2005 Mas ok syempre virgin babae. pero dapat yung lalake virgin din para fair sa lalake. Kung pde lang ibalik mas ok na virgin pa rin. yung nga lng puro jakol na lng gagawin mo. mahirap pag yung mapapangasawa mo canal na. Quote Link to comment
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