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#1 FleurDeLune

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Posted 04 June 2017 - 06:07 PM

Alright, let us also hear the MEN's side. Particularly about what they won't tell you, but you should know about them.

 

Read on.

 

Men are not the best communicators, especially, when it comes to the slightly embarrassing things about themselves that they want to tell their partner, but just can’t. They’re fine when it comes to boasting about their prowess on the sports field or discussing cars, but when it comes to some of the more personal topics, they get all shy and coy. So to help the guys out, here are the top ten things that they would like to tell you about themselves:

 

1. Be naughty, but don’t go too far

Most men like a little bit of adventure in the bedroom, but are often too embarrassed to ask you about trying new things. Take the lead a little and widen your bedroom repertoire, but don’t go too far, too quick, or you might just embarrass him.

 

2. He just can’t read minds like you can

Call it what you like: feminine intuition, empathy or mind reading, men just don’t have that same ability. He’d love to be able to gauge your moods better, but he just can’t! So, don’t get upset when he can’t figure out what you want, instead, just plain and simple, tell him clearly what’s on your mind.

 

3. He craves respect, as much as he does love

Basically, most men are on one long ego trip! He wants your love and affection, but that’s as important to a man, as it is too a woman, what he needs is your respect and even admiration, so don’t forget to pat him on the back, when he does something right.

 

4. He wishes that you’d appreciate his reliability

Men have different priorities in life, so when your man is one who always turns up on time, even for the things that he’d rather not be doing, he’d really like to be appreciated for it. A simple ‘thanks for coming shopping with me’ wouldn’t go amiss!

 

5. You need to tell him if he’s doing it wrong in bed

A man assumes that all is going well for both of you in the bedroom, if you don’t tell him otherwise. After all, his technique always works for him! He would be devastated to find, that after years of being together, he’s been getting wrong all that time, so he won’t mind a little gentle guidance from you.

 

6. Men need contestant affirmation

Most men are essentially very insecure, especially about their relationships. In everything else in life, they get feedback. Whether that’s a pay rise at work, so they know they are doing a good job, or a result on the sports field but, in love, they don’t know if they’re doing things right, unless you tell them.

 

7. Men love your femininity

Cuddly toys and pink pyjamas may not be his thing, but he loves you for it all the same. Don’t try and man up for him, it’s all your little girlie traits that he loves so much, your feminine charm and gentle spirit is what turns him on (in a good sense).

 

8. He doesn’t like it if you have too much to drink

It’s a fact. Men will laugh at a friend who has one too many and will think nothing of it, if they do it themselves, but nearly all men dislike seeing any woman drunk, especially you!

 

9. Men wish that people  would understand that a father is just as important, as a mother

A big complaint of men, and one that they often talk to one another about, is that most people seem to think the mother is more important to a child, than the father. Not true, we know, but he doesn’t like to feel that he is any less essential to a child’s upbringing, than you are. So make sure to show him his importance and significance to reassure him.

 

10. Men look at other women, they just do!

No matter how much he is in love with you and would never stray, how much he is faithful and loyal, but you will never stop him from looking at other women (and we don’t mean cheating, just looking). If your man has stopped, then check his pulse quick!  :ohmy:

 

What other things on your opinion do guys want? Feel free to share your relationship advice.

 

Stay happy!

 

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Posted 04 June 2017 - 09:46 PM

It covers most of it..

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Posted 05 June 2017 - 03:13 PM

A little clarification on some points though:

 

1. Men are naughty! It's not that we don't know how to say it, sometimes we just want it really kinky. We don't want to sound bastos or make women uncomfortable. We love when you take the lead because either we are just too lazy to move or not that enticed enough.

 

2. You pretty much covered it, we are not sophisticated creatures like women. We are cavemen, we are simple thinking people, we tend not to overanalyze anything women say because that's not how we are built.

 

3. Yup, we live for praise. It doesn't matter who it's from, it's just what we need. Why do you think every man plays a sport or do something they really excel in? It's for the admiration that comes with being the best in that field.

 

4. You may be surprised but we are reliable to a point, we do appreciate the pat on the back or a much "better" reward when we do come through. 

 

5. You don't need to tell us if we're doing something wrong in bed, guide us using body language. It would be extremely embarassing for us if you tell me straight to my face.

 

6. Yup we love hearing that especially from the person you care about.

 

7. It depends though, some men love the girly girls or the more athletic ones (I won't say anything politically incorrect to get my point across. Hehe.)

 

8. We LOVE women getting drunk but not the woman that he loves on their own or if they're out with friends. That's where things get crazy, if I'm out with my girl I wouldn't mind, it makes things better if you ask me :blush:

 

9. Yup, more reassurance please!

 

10. I'm a very cautious guy, but it doesn't mean that I'm checking out every woman who pass by. I define looking at women 

 

 

Hope this helps even just a little :)


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Posted 06 June 2017 - 10:50 AM

men look at other woman. ofcourse :) we men are born to appreciate gods given beauty of women. if we arent around women's beauty would have no purpose!



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Posted 06 June 2017 - 10:57 AM

Men are visual and so they will look at other women even if they are faithful and loyal.

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Posted 06 June 2017 - 06:47 PM

Men are competitive by nature. Do we not like games and sports and we are never there to lose or merely to while away the time. Men are collectors -- cars, toys, magazines, girlfriends, name it --- and not just for the thrill of amassing their horde but also for the reason of having mire than the others. It's always, whether they admit it or not, about being better, and having more.

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Posted 06 June 2017 - 09:18 PM

Oh. I love this.
Guys, question:
If you keep calling a girl and asking her to hangout or go to her place, always on wee hours of the night, is that super likely a booty call?

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Posted 07 June 2017 - 11:01 AM

yeah seems like its conveying the exact message :))

 

Oh. I love this.
Guys, question:
If you keep calling a girl and asking her to hangout or go to her place, always on wee hours of the night, is that super likely a booty call?



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Posted 07 June 2017 - 11:22 AM

Oh. I love this.
Guys, question:
If you keep calling a girl and asking her to hangout or go to her place, always on wee hours of the night, is that super likely a booty call?

 

In a nutshell, YES.

 

But, there can be exceptions; it just depends how you look at it.

Whether you respond to it accordingly, OR not, that's totally on you GIRLS afterwards.



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Posted 07 June 2017 - 11:28 AM

:)) nevertheless most girls responds based on their interest to the guy.
it doesnt matter if what is the guy up to but it boils down to what the girls interest.
 



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Posted 07 June 2017 - 11:36 AM

That much I agree on, GM_Marty.



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Posted 07 June 2017 - 08:34 PM

Eto.
This is strictly for the ones who are engaged or married:
When you first got into a relationship, was your first goal from the onset was to marry that girl or it just came into your realization over time?

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Posted 07 June 2017 - 11:35 PM

Oh. I love this.
Guys, question:
If you keep calling a girl and asking her to hangout or go to her place, always on wee hours of the night, is that super likely a booty call?


Kahit hapon. That would be a booty call.

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Posted 08 June 2017 - 10:39 AM

Eto.
This is strictly for the ones who are engaged or married:
When you first got into a relationship, was your first goal from the onset was to marry that girl or it just came into your realization over time?

Depends, usually it doesn't. You develop it over time & it really depends on the circumstances. If you met via booty call,nauna na yung passion kasi gigil kayo parehas so sobrang bago ng pakiramdam kung maging relationship na. 

 

 

Yup tama si Piaggio, walang difference kung anong oras. Basta tumawag babae booty call na yun.



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Posted 08 June 2017 - 12:20 PM

develops overtime :) i dont believe in love at first sight! 

most people misinterprets sudden attraction with LOVE.

thats why most people fails their marriage because of unconfirmed emotional state.



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Posted 08 June 2017 - 03:39 PM

when i was youger i always think of marrying the girl i am courting especially when shes an 8 to 9 level and i am not rich or good looking. may utak lang ako presentable and matyaga. mas may chance ka mapasagot yun girl if your sincere coz di naman ako mayaman and gwapo. i think it works since i had 3 hot gf where my 3rd gf is my wife.

If the girl comes to you and you feel pwede maging fling tutuluyan mo rin pero technically di mo sya nililigawan. vague lang ba pero mga lumalapit sa akin na freebie mga 5 to 7 lang. since libre naman e di tukain na din.



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Posted 08 June 2017 - 05:48 PM

Oh. I love this.
Guys, question:
If you keep calling a girl and asking her to hangout or go to her place, always on wee hours of the night, is that super likely a booty call?


Definitely it's a booty call esp if you met them online.

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Posted 13 June 2017 - 12:33 PM

Monogamy is not true. It never was.

Believing in monogamy is like believing in Santa Claus.
If both men and women are honest about this fact, we would have stronger and bigger families. Instead these monogamy bullshit fanatics set themselves up for failure, divorce, separation when a man is found out to be fucking other women.

Sarcastic shocker! It is the way it has always been. Im pro family cohesion and this stupid monogamy fantasy needs to be trashed now for future families to be solid again.

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Posted 14 June 2017 - 02:26 AM

Lots of generalizations, but the intent is good

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Posted 14 June 2017 - 11:38 AM

Banking on the premise that men are bad communicators in general, they rather ghost on you than rip the band-aid off the relationship. They hate uncomfortable confrontation, so instead, they go into this whole unpleasant situation of slow fade (The Casper Effect, Houdini and His Magical Disappearing Act, etc) rather than having an upfront, honest conversation on why they don't want to see you anymore. 

 

No matter how busy you are, you'll always make time for someone you truly care for. Otherwise, find the cojones to break it off to her face and don't let her pull the trigger. You could say you just want to spare her feelings but honestly, its just a dick move. 

 

 

*This rant is brought to you by some personal and anecdotal experiences LOL!


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