boner51873 Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 hehe. natawa ko dito. lalo na since we belong to the same highly-competitive field...kaya ako i'd go for anything under the sun, as long as the talk is not highly intellectual....a witty talk is more like it highly-competitive field? bakit? HILOT po ba kayo :upside: para hindi OT: talk about anything under the sun...i dont try to impress or seduce the girl. the aim is to get to know each other in the shortest amount of time (the first date) and to determine if getting to know more about each other would entail another date...or if you still want to get to know about each other on another date... :goatee: Quote Link to comment
utog Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 cyempre about likes and dislikes in life, sexual experiences and among others Quote Link to comment
rebel_biatch Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 really depends in the IQ level of my date.hehe!!! i just usually go with the flow 'coz i want a spontaneous conversation.no scripts needed.i always try to be my self for him to know my true personality. Quote Link to comment
bogliboi_blue Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 Dr. James Wilson of "House" swears by "hopes, dreams and aspirations." Supposedly an "instant panty-peeler." Not proven, though. Bwahahahaha! Ulterior motives aside, though, that's a good place to start. Personally, I try to find out her interests and ask about what happened to her recently, and build up a conversation from there. I don't believe in "research," too much of it can backfire. She might think you're a stalker. Quote Link to comment
tagpi Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 Inquire about her. Show your interest in her. That is the reason why you are in a date in the first place. Otherwise, if it is a blind date of EB lang, try to talk about your common interests. Nothing cerebral, just plain fun. Everything has its place under the sun. :goatee: Quote Link to comment
darling Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 something she has passion for---her work, the weather, her dog. Anything. Try to share (not just pretend to) share her interests. There is a saying: To be interesting, you have to be interested. Quote Link to comment
temari Posted July 6, 2007 Share Posted July 6, 2007 something about work...interest..well honestly i dunno..never been to a date that i never know or havent seen.. Quote Link to comment
Boysbe Posted July 6, 2007 Share Posted July 6, 2007 Most of the time its hard to gain some info on your date so often times we try to figure her out in another way.For instance, I ask her to help me out in shopping for a gift for a sister or a relative of mine, so often times I get positive results. Anything from her taste,to what she likes and hates, and thus, knowing her better. Then after shopping, I ask her out to accompany me to a nearby restaurant, and then we would talk about family life,school,work,anything in particular. The best way to a woman's heart is a sense of humour, so try to make her laugh as well as to look as if all you attention is fixed on her, but not in a way that she would feel out of place or anxious. So often times I first ask her about what type/kind of music she likes. (makes her guessing,its a good topic starter because all people love music, and a lot of sub-topics can be derived from it) Then about her background = if she mentions about the music she liked since highschool,collage (Proves that shes not keeping any secrets about her past.) Or her friends = If she liked that band or song because her friends used to enjoy it. Quote Link to comment
shaggy Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 Small talks infused with humor and wit. In my case,use my environment as conversation pieces and more importantly I always incorporate dry humor if she gets it, man alive ... I'll thank my lucky stars and throw a few worthy stories to get the ball rolling. Quote Link to comment
cherrrrypickerrrr Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 how our day went... Quote Link to comment
darling Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 Usually what we talked about on the phone, or chat, or txt before the first date. That ensures some level of familiarity and removes some of the awkwardness that comes with first dates. Quote Link to comment
mark_pogi Posted November 3, 2007 Share Posted November 3, 2007 anything under the sun except sex. dapat sya maginitiate nung topic na yun. :evil: :evil: Quote Link to comment
reimond Posted November 3, 2007 Share Posted November 3, 2007 tungkol sa buhay buhay... Quote Link to comment
moichi Posted November 3, 2007 Share Posted November 3, 2007 could be anything... her day? her work?latest movies?favorite books?the weather? anything ala slum book... key for me is i probe but don't pryshe leads, i dance... bottomline is we both have a good time... Quote Link to comment
DonImus Posted November 8, 2007 Share Posted November 8, 2007 (edited) Her life if I'm interested. Edited November 8, 2007 by DonImus Quote Link to comment
gerryandrada Posted November 8, 2007 Share Posted November 8, 2007 ...anything about her... ...about me... ...movies...music...work... ...family... ...reading the posts above... ...i am still doing the right thing... ...the girl even commented... ..."para kang rejoice shampoo, ang gaang ng feeling..." Quote Link to comment
SexyMedChic Posted November 9, 2007 Share Posted November 9, 2007 likes.. dislikes... experiences... but not intimate topics... pede din.. hehe.. Quote Link to comment
tombone Posted November 10, 2007 Share Posted November 10, 2007 more on introduction, then about experiences in work and life as general Quote Link to comment
ilb4u2nyt Posted November 11, 2007 Share Posted November 11, 2007 Something that we've previously discussed then confirmed and add more into it... had a very great time indeed :goatee: Quote Link to comment
deviantartist Posted December 3, 2007 Share Posted December 3, 2007 Yup mostly what interests your date, searching for commonalities and differences.. Things that would let him/her talk passionately and without pretensions Quote Link to comment
AtLastAmFree Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 whereabouts...what are you into...and then sharing past love stories Quote Link to comment
Guest Yavanna Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 i like first dates because i can ask questions and genuinely be clueless of the answers. meaning... there's a whole new person to discover. so just ask away. better to focus on interests. but anything can be a topic so long as they are not very personal. learn to take hints. if the other person is not willing to answer a question the first time, that means you have to move on to the next topic. Quote Link to comment
imogen Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 he tries to talk about work.i avoid it. LOL Quote Link to comment
yhance Posted December 20, 2007 Share Posted December 20, 2007 something very much interesting...mixed with humor Quote Link to comment
totertz Posted December 20, 2007 Share Posted December 20, 2007 be yourself..strive to be happy.. Quote Link to comment
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