How Important Is The Sexual History Of Your Partner?

[mitmit]

basta walang sakit, tanggap kahit ano pa ang past.

[UncleFrancy]

I’ m not one to ask a girl’s sexual history because I also have one

[binsanity]

Tanggap ko na yon. Ganun din sana siya sa akin.

[luckytrader11]

 

Pag nakarami na ng lakake I think fun pa lng not worth it na maging Asawa, madami pa choices, Kung fubu ok lng

[aStro_]

Not important. I prefer not to talk about our past partners. But I answer when asked.

[kurokaze]

Not that relevant.

 

STDs though are another story.

[sanchezZZZzz]

Super duper.

 

Whores cannot bond.

The future is bleak with whores.

Whores, pwedeng good time, fubu, side chick, sex worker... but not wife... malabo.

 

Cannot turn a whore into a wife.

My friend tried 2 whores.

He got 2 monsters.

 

I swear I learned from HIS experience.

Once for your friend is he got lucky to survive it.. The second time, its a miracle nakawala siya.. Good thought brother!!

 

for every men out there, if a woman had sex for more than 3, you might wanna re-think about it.. If a woman had sex for more than 3 men, the reason and ways she had sex with other, if she is good in the sack does it happen to cross your mind why no man lock her down yet into marriage?

 

do not compare her sex to his sex cos thats totally different. if any woman happen to read this, they know that their sex are far more deadly than ours.. Many great men fall because of women, do not be so arrogant to not look at their signs, be smart

[sanchezZZZzz]

The romantic in all of us would say "it doesnt matter" but the practical point of view says it does a bit.

It's really not about having multiple sexual partners in the past per se, but there will always be a nagging thought in your head that you might be just another one of her historical sexual partners in the future. Mga female friends ko na medyo loose, hindi tumatagal ang relationships kasi napapraning ang boyfriend na baka may nilalanding iba which may or may not be true.

Should you find out? Yes but discreetly. Ask around discreetly. Due diligence tawag dyan kasi somehow malalaman mo what to expect and how to deal with her. Iba syempre ang approach mo sa GF mo na ikaw first BF at GF mo na nagka 12 BFs at 24 casual fubus na. Anyway if you love her naman whatever you discover wont be a dealbreaker.

good observation sa mga actual friends mo na women.. okay na lahat huwag lang yung last part, kase sa HOPE Strategy nasisira ang mga lalake,.. let the emotion side to women and logical reasonable to men..

 

BASED on TRUE STORY!!

There is a truth in the saying, "She is not yours, it's just your turn, enjoy it while it lasts" >> story comes along, I have a friend may gf na 4yrs. itong lalakeng to, kahit alam niyang my secret boyfriend to si girl or lets just say f#&k buddy. Niligawan at napasagot niya si girl., Naging sila at pinakilala ni girl si guy a family niya (which its a measurement of us guys na seryoso ang babae sa atin at hindi na magloloko) in the first 6months lagi sila nagkikita at magkasama. The sex was great for both of them daw, she is so tight, she swallow everything, she licks every f#&king corner of his daw, f#&k like a rabbit, makinis, maputi, coca cola body tight, maalaga, maalalahanin (what a jackpot he said) pero pagkatapos ng sex alam niya na may ibang lalakeng involve in the shadows pero pinabayaan niya lang, he played it cool kase siya naman daw ang kilala ng parents.. On the 7th month nila, tsaka palang ni guy binuksan ung cp ni girl without her knowingly, then dun niya nalaman na may secret relationship si girl para hindi mabored sa buhay. My friend is working hard para sa gusto niyang future nila samantalang ung kabilang lalake wala man lang kahit anong binibigay pero binibigyan ni girl ng emotional love, sexual pleasure,

 

so etong friend ko nagalit thats what naturally, sane, nice guy would do.. Until pinapili niya, obviously pinapili ni friend ko si girl and obviously siya ang pinili.. Ang daming ups and downs, pero napagdesisyunan na din ni friend ko ayus (ang juicy and tight daw talaga ng throat and pussy e) with conditions > ipapaalam ang password ng cp pati na din ang fb.. Duon niya napagpaalaman ung mga sexual encounters, guys na nag aaligid aligid sakanya, mga ka trabaho na naging fubu, meron pa nga casual friend daw, then ex boyfriend na habang my ka fubu.. "How do you think would these hot, sexy girls good at sex if they don't try it out with twenty guys at least?"

 

Yung friend ko blue-pilled matrix, akala kaya nagloko si gf niya daw dahil kulang sa attention, kulang sa love, kulang sa pagaalaga coming from him.. Edi syempre un binigay ng friend ko because that would be a normal decent guy would do,. He cancels meeting para lang makapagbakasyon sila, makapunta sa iba ibang lugar, all of this with his expenses kase syempre mas malaki ung kita niya eh..

 

After months passed by, gumaganda ang career ni guy, nag iimprove and nakalimutan niya day by day ung nangyareng kawalang hiyaan kase todo performance si girl sa kanya until nagpagawa ng bahay sakanila with cash..

 

On the 43month naging busy siya sa construction ng bahay nila and nagkikita pa din sila with his gf sa house ng family nila, pinopost pictures nila on fb even profile picture pa, kaso he felt odd daw kase may new routine na ginagawa si girl. pero hindi daw pinansin ng friend ko kase whenever kailangan niya on his side ang girl andun naman ang girlfriend niya kahit puyat kahit pagod kahit kulang ang tulog.. pero napapadalas ang away nila even on trivial matters pero para magbati napapansin ng friend ko kailangan may pa bongga siya like kaen sa samgyup, bili ng fastfood, pa massage sa spa..

 

on the 46th month nung natapos na ung pinapagawang bahay nalaman na ng friend ko secretly na karelasyon si gf na guy sa work.. pinabayaan muna ni guy si gf kase daw may ebidensya pero hindi pa concrete kahit na nakita niya ang dummy account ni gf. until ginawa nanaman ni guy ang knowledge niya s pang iimbestiga, at nalaman niya exact location ng pinupuntahan ni gf at house nung ka work., confirmed nagpupunta si gf dun.. nakwento pa sa akin ng kaibigan ko, so ibig sabihin nung mga araw na nakikipag sex ng 45mins straight siya sa gf niya ibig sabihin katatapos lang nila nung lalake niya. ibig sabihin hindi satisfy ung gf niya sa lalake niya at kelangan pa ituloy ni bf..

 

eto na nga, nagka konfrontahan daw silang tatlo sa bahay ni other guy.. pumunta siya + si gf sa nirerentahang slum area ni guy.. though, gusto makipagsuntukan ng kaibigan ko pero he became logical and reasonable in an instant.. Baket pa siya makikipag away, may sasakyan siya, hindi naman siya lubog sa utang, hindi naman siya panget, nasa kanya ang bahay na ginawa niya, hindi naman buntis ang gf niya, umalis na lang silang daw with may threat na lubayan niya ang gf niya. Then pagkauwe nila, nakipag hiwalay ang friend ko sa gf niya. He remembers crying in his car way back home, ang sakit sakit, he thought he will never get a girl beautiful, sexy, hot, good in the sack, maalaga, blah blah blah, no matter how painful to leave the girl, he dropped it like a hot stone

 

After two months, with dieting, working out in the gym, cool headed na ang friend ko, oozing with confidence he met this woman. mas younger, mas maputi, mas sexy, mahinhin, hindi nagagalit, malambing ang boses, virgin, mas bata, mas na desente ang pamilya, marunong humawak sa pera, no boyfriend na pinakilala sa family, even her friends walang pinakilala na boyfriend.. The two of them were dating pero since my friend is oozing with confidence nilandi niya din ang exgf niya. Of course may nangyare sa kanila, sa isip ni friend ko, sa mga nice guys nga na ka work niya nagpapa galaw siya baket hindi sa bad boy na katulad niya (since he knows he is good in the sack). tumagal ng 4weeks ang pagkikita nila ng ng exgf niya ng 1x a week.. hanggang sa gusto ni exgf na 2x a week na, minsan pinagbibigyan ng friend ko pero mowt of the time hindi na kase he is been busy with his career and the other woman he is dating.. One day nag open up si exgf na ung lalakeng nag ka confrontation sila, binitawan daw siya sa ere.. Pero ang hindi alam ni exgf daw, alam na un ng friend ko at alam niya din na may new guy na din siya which is ka work niya din, of course, my friend play dumb and stupid na kunwari wala siyang alam but keep the conversation light and fun... Until nagka baligtad na ng situation, dating officially mag-on, sila na ang f#&k buddy.. yung boypren boyprenan niya na bago sa work hindi pa din siya masatisfy sa bed kaya nakikipag kita pa din sakanya.. Una ung friend ko ang boyfriend and she is fooling around but now her exgf has boyfriend and she is fooling around with my friend (thought on this, no matter who the guy she is with, she will fool around). Until nalaman ni friend ko, sa bahay ng ex gf niya medyo binibuild-up daw ulit ung friend ko na inaayos nila unti unti.. 3months has passed by screwing her ex gf around, nauntog ang kaibigan ko and dropped her completely kase pano kapag nabuntis pala ito at sa kanya ipaako since hindi naman kilala ung new bf niya sa bahay nila edi masisira pa ang buhay niya which is naging better nung nawala siya dahil nakakilala siya ng matinong babae na pwede niya daw pagkatiwalaan iwanan at makikipag usap sa ibang lalake, na hindi na kailangan bantayan, most of all walang ex boyfriend... Malamang sa malamang, pag nabuntis ung exgf niya sakanya ipapaako ung anak, he might be living the rest of his life believing that her child is his while in fact it is not. Masasayang lang daw ang new girl na nakita niya which is very rare in these era we are living in

 

 

 

So to answer this thread, PAST RELATIONSHIP of a GIRL MATTERS.. For us men, sex has little to nothing effect but for women, it works against them.. Its like asking how women has menstrual cycle and men don't..

 

FINAL WORD from my friend: If a woman cheats in you, never ever take her back. I know its hard, you will gonna cry like a baby, it gonna be hurt like hell, yeah!! Just don't marry her, don't get serious about her, and if in case you want to take her back just like my friend did with her ex gf. Do not take your eyes off of her, be wary, be tentative, walk with your eyes wide open. Cos the story I shared with you before, my friend found 3 names she is cheating with while they are being together, papano pa ung hindi niya nahuli? hindi nya nalaman?

 

**this is based on a true story. Learn from it,. Pinag aralan ko ung story ng friend ko, dahil ilang beses niya kinuwento saken toh. He is one of my best buddy kaya pinapakinggan ko.. After 3years ung exgf niya wala pa din anak, walang pinapakitang boyfriend, sinayang niya lang ang good relationship for nothing? she gambles with different men, at the end she left with nothing.. Sa side ng girl: muntik na siya magka bahay (nangungupahan lng sila kahit kelan), muntik na siya magkapamilya na inaasam asam niya, magka baby.. sa side ng guy: buti hindi pa sila tumira sa isang bubong dahil baka sa sarili niya pang bahay may dalhin na ibang lalake.. Even after years mabasa niyo ito sa mtc, nature of women don't change be wary, walk with your eyes open. Cos I don't wanna hear about you in the news na nagpakamatay dahil binuhos niyo ang buong buhay ninyo building a decent, nice family. binigay ninyo lahat ng pangangailan tapos malalaman ninyo na ung asawa ninyo hindi pa rin makuntento at nakikipag chukchakchenes sa kumpare ninyo, sa ninong ng mga anak ninyo, sa ka officemate niya.. We live in a different times now

Edited July 7, 2020 by sanchezZZZzz

[sanchezZZZzz]

I think there are two things to be considered in this discussion:

 

1. The past is an indication of what the future may be;

 

2. There is a possibility of change in every human person.

 

I believe in both. The question now is, how to balance both of these...

 

My most recent ex is a good example. She had so many failed relationships. She had several sexual partners because of these relationships. (That's her explanation. I am not even sure of the sexual relationships she has had because of pure sexual desire.) She is a self-professed hopeless romantic, and, according to her own acceptance, "madali siyang ma-inlove." She admits that her failed relationships are due "to her own fault." She has two kids from two different guys already.

 

From my initial assessment of her, she's a complete failure in my book. She doesn't even deserve to be given a chance, at least for me.

 

BUT, I did give her a chance. Perhaps, I was rather foolish to have done so, breaking my own initial major premises.

 

We stayed on for more than a year. That was something she felt happy about. According to her, I held the longest record among her bfs. She had wanted to bring it to a higher plane, i.e., discuss plans of settling down. But I held back because I felt, she needed to undergo further testing.

 

And this was the test. (I actually shared this in some past threads.) She left for an overseas employment which was to last two years. Before she left, I told her we will discuss matters after she returns from her two year stint. If she can remain steadfast and faithful in her two years of living abroad, I would most willing concretely discuss matters with her.

 

She didn't last for more than three months. She started seeing a middle eastern guy that early. Even in a rather restrictive middle eastern situation, they were checking in hotels and were screwing each other. She denied everything, and made all sorts of alibi why her attitude was changing. I'm glad I found out her escapades early, so I knew she was lying to me.

 

There you have it. A typical example of "a trend" of someone with a past. Notwithstanding, I gave her the chance of proving people can change. Yes, there are people who do change, and I thought, she could be one of them.

 

Unfortunately, that wasn't her case.

nice to hear this one on july 2020. quoting it again,, I was curious with the past threads of based on true to life story.. History repeats itself and hope change it however hope is what kills men at the bottom of the ocean. I congratulate you for dodging a bullet!! how are you today?,, nabasa ko ung mga comments niyo 4years ago, though mahaba, very informative

 

If you wanna marry a women, past matters. When its just screwing around, its just dont, especially when the pussy is tight and juicy

Edited July 7, 2020 by sanchezZZZzz

[The Janitor]

I don't care how many relationships or ONS she had. Just like many other things, experience sa sex in previous relationships or hookups makes us better performers in bed.

 

I'm not a hypocrite and go on saying mas importante sakin that she can hold a serious relationship kahit di sya magaling in bed, eh we're good. I've had my share of "parang unan lang" experiences. Not fun. Oh and yeah, she'd better hope wala syang STD because I don't.

[chessboxin]

Whether male or female, its important din to check a persons history. Kahit din naman sa lalake kung naka ilang mistress na sya dati redflag din naman yun para sa babae. It goes both ways.

 

Ang importante ay dont expect or hope na the person will change for you. Need mo siya tanggapin ng buo, past and present.

[mikebustos]

Very important.

 

I want to know kung pang ilan ako. Fling ba ko? Pampalipas oras lang? Nagkaron ba siya ng fubu ever? I need to know if I should invest emotionally so that at the end of the day we both know where we stand.

 

Fortunately, I never had to deal with those kind of issues. I may have had some detours in other aspects of my life, but I was lucky enough in the love department. Like what I always tell my friends, hindi ako choosy, hindi lang ako kumakain ng nalawayan na ng iba.

 

Owning a sought after sports car is great, getting it brand new is even better if you know what I mean. But of course, you cant just want it, you have to deserve it.

[NightWriter]

Past Relationships and Partners MATTER.

 

You just have to know what kind of person you're dealing with so you won't be wasting your time! Because your time is money.

 

1. If a girl says that she has a couple of kids with different fathers RED FLAG

 

2. If a girl makes you rush into sex and moving into your apartment RED FLAG

 

3. If a girl makes ' Tampo' and assume that you're a fockin mind reader RED FLAG

 

4. If a girl always has her eyes glued on the phone on social media while you are on a date RED FLAG

 

5. If a girl says awful things about their ex on the first date RED FLAG

 

6. If a girl talks to you about looming mental issues at home ( Dad's a drunk and mom's a whore) RED FLAG

 

7. If a girl makes temper tantrums and screams at you when you look at other women and gets anxious over a pretty Waitress RED FLAG

 

8. If a girl says that she has a bad relationship with her father RED FLAG ( Why do you think she wouldn't compare you to her father?)

 

9. If a girl is in her late 30s, had sex with a dozen of men in her 20s and now she says she's ready for marriage RED FLAG

 

10. If a girl keeps breaking up with you and coming back again after her lover leaves her RED FLAG

 

Lastly, if she wants you to change who you are, accuses of things you've never done or just ignores your needs

 

RED FLAG RED FLAG RED FLAG

[sirheinrichcu]

oo naman.important na virgin ang partner mo

ayaw kong dumaan na yung buong barangay sakanya noh.

ikaw ba gusto mo ng leftover na pagkain?

 

very important na ikaw yung unang bf

[niceNslow.2]

nope, masasaktan ka lang sa malalaman mo, hehehe...

[Pardskie23]

yes, because i want to know her more and i want to love her more. for me, what matters is that i'm her last

[Jr😋]

I dont mind it that much, because if you truly love the person you will forget his/her past and focus on the future.

[Kate of Eve and Adam]

i dont care about the past

[Kate of Eve and Adam]

wala akong pake sa past eh

[sextynine]

Acceptance is good but reputation is also important.

[Cruzwil]

Basta mahal mo tanggapin mo ikaw na yung ngayon tapos na yung nakaraan.

[mrobot3699]

Hindi na ganun kaimportante

[Sub.way]

As long as wala siya STD wala ka din right alamin history niya

[ProfJheremy]

As long as my partner doesn't have sexually transmitted disease, i don't care who he slept with.

[chessboxin]

Nako. When I was younger I was more idealistic and I'd say history doesnt matter, but experience over the years has shown that it does. Ang masasabi ko lang, her past is an indication of how she will act in the future.

 

Naexpound na ni Nightwriter mga red flags. Ang masasabi ko lang, exhaustively check her family background, her upbringing and her past relationships.

 

If you can, get a girl who was raised in a loving home and has good relationship with her mom and dad. If you can, find a girl na working ang parents and they can support the family naman. You really just want to avoid two women, gold diggers and nymphomaniacs. Stay away from both and you're probably good to go.