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#41 Mobius Stripper

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Posted 17 September 2007 - 01:58 PM

As long as there are things to look forward to in love & in sex.

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Posted 17 September 2007 - 02:03 PM

As long as there is the effort to make or find things to look forward to in love & in sex.

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Posted 20 September 2007 - 02:07 AM

BOTH.... loving alone will not suffice, you will still need those intimate moments together...

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Posted 20 September 2007 - 10:49 AM

I read an article before about sex n love. the article said the stages of man were: he gets attracted, then sex her up then love the partner.

In a woman, she gets attracted, give her love and last is sex.

The way i see things nowadays is that both gender develops attraction first then sex. As to love, that is a big question.............and most marriage failed because of this.

Was there really love at all between a husband and a wife? dont they tied a knot because the guy thought he loved the girl and married her for a constant hot sex not knowing it is just sex all along he wanted? And when he realized he is done with her, he starts looking for a hottie??????

Same goes with a girlfriend , boyfriend thing. sometimes sex goes a long long way, a year or two or more (hot sizzling sex with your mate) then one day u'll past out and say urself u dont want ur partner no more. And u start to see ur partner in a different way.

Love is hard to find. when u do, u r blessed.

How to find love? We can find it only through "HIM"! both male and female should ask "HIM" to change us , see us the beauty of love, see us our boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband in a perspective the way "He" wants us to see our partner.

Then I can say with our Gods help, the relationship will work.

#45 Victor Davion

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Posted 20 September 2007 - 01:37 PM

Love. Once the sex gets stale, as long as both partners try to make an effort to keep the caring alive, the relationship has a leg to stand on.

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Posted 20 September 2007 - 01:48 PM

it has to be a well balanced mix of the two... it actually depends on the temperament of the individuals involved in the relationship... both parties should be mutually satisfied... just my opinion though...

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Posted 20 September 2007 - 06:12 PM

to have a long lasting relationship...you just need to have both..but if I need to choose one I think its love..becuase you can buy sex to satisfy your need but not love....


i aggree with this.. money cant buy love, but sex is...
sex boosts the relationship at first,.
but, ssometimes ruins the relationship.

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Posted 20 September 2007 - 08:30 PM

i guess it depends on how serious are you about that particular relationship.

for me, a serious relationship would entail 100% love...counting sex as merely a bonus. like spaghetti, you consider the sex as the cheese...you can eat spag w/ or w/o cheese, and both would be delightful to the palate if your a pasta lover, but admittedly cheese do add a distinct and more wonderful taste.

i mean, if you want just the cheese, then you might as well eat a whole bar of cheese :rolleyes: :rolleyes:


+1 ako d2!

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Posted 20 September 2007 - 09:21 PM

both love and sex is needed

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Posted 21 September 2007 - 08:48 PM

I read an article before about sex n love. the article said the stages of man were: he gets attracted, then sex her up then love the partner.

In a woman, she gets attracted, give her love and last is sex.

The way i see things nowadays is that both gender develops attraction first then sex. As to love, that is a big question.............and most marriage failed because of this.

Was there really love at all between a husband and a wife? dont they tied a knot because the guy thought he loved the girl and married her for a constant hot sex not knowing it is just sex all along he wanted? And when he realized he is done with her, he starts looking for a hottie??????

Same goes with a girlfriend , boyfriend thing. sometimes sex goes a long long way, a year or two or more (hot sizzling sex with your mate) then one day u'll past out and say urself u dont want ur partner no more. And u start to see ur partner in a different way.

Love is hard to find. when u do, u r blessed.

How to find love? We can find it only through "HIM"! both male and female should ask "HIM" to change us , see us the beauty of love, see us our boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband in a perspective the way "He" wants us to see our partner.

Then I can say with our Gods help, the relationship will work.



amen to that sister... ;)

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Posted 21 September 2007 - 09:11 PM

Love perseveres through all the thicks and thins. Sex lasts only an hour or three.

I agree Love is harder to find, but if I find it again I will take good care of it and would never exchange it for just Sex.

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Posted 21 September 2007 - 09:26 PM

balance of both..

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Posted 21 September 2007 - 10:51 PM

parehas, 50-50..

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Posted 22 September 2007 - 03:23 PM

both love and sex makes relationship work

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Posted 22 September 2007 - 06:41 PM

parang gusto ko ng maniwala na SEX pero isama natin ang TIme (peo time for sex hehe)

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Posted 23 September 2007 - 12:31 AM

First..sympre LOVE muna..pro lets be honest SEX would really help a lot in a relationship..

i remember something that a fren used to say to me medyo corny pro just want to share it..sb nya in a relationship dpat
daw may HURTS




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Posted 23 September 2007 - 07:40 AM

^^ agree!!! :thumbsupsmiley:

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Posted 24 September 2007 - 01:03 AM

love cguro panu ung mga uber tanda na. mga 60+. palagay ko love ang nagkokonek na sa kanila

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Posted 24 September 2007 - 01:08 AM

love cguro panu ung mga uber tanda na. mga 60+. palagay ko love ang nagkokonek na sa kanila


hehe...kaya po naimbento ang viagra at cialis.... :rolleyes:

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Posted 25 September 2007 - 04:26 PM

Well said and I agree

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