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#1 DJ TiŽsto

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 10:39 PM

hey anyone?? what makes relationship work?? sex or love??

i think sex makes relationship work partners should be compatible.

parang 80% sex 20% love

what do you think?? hmmm <_<

Edited by DJ TiŽsto, 26 June 2007 - 10:41 PM.


#2 yomar

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Posted 27 June 2007 - 10:39 AM

In my book, 60% love, 30% sex. Some people actually say that sex has nothing to do with making a relationship last. Well, that applies to a FEW but I believe sex is very important in a relationship (but not to a point that the relationship revolves around it.)

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Posted 27 June 2007 - 10:44 AM

equally important for me... love creates the bond... sex keeps the fire going...

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Posted 27 June 2007 - 02:20 PM

Pareho kailangan yan sa tingin ko.

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Posted 27 June 2007 - 02:31 PM

90% - 10% for me... im still in my peak

#6 jhelicious_04

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Posted 27 June 2007 - 04:24 PM

60% Love
40% Sex

or vice versa...

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Posted 27 June 2007 - 08:42 PM

Di ba puwede 100% sex, 100% love? :thumbsupsmiley:

#8 DJ TiŽsto

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Posted 27 June 2007 - 10:03 PM

Di ba puwede 100% sex, 100% love? :thumbsupsmiley:


bro e di 200% ka na hahaha pang dalawang relationship yan hahaha

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Posted 27 June 2007 - 10:46 PM

i guess it depends on how serious are you about that particular relationship.

for me, a serious relationship would entail 100% love...counting sex as merely a bonus. like spaghetti, you consider the sex as the cheese...you can eat spag w/ or w/o cheese, and both would be delightful to the palate if your a pasta lover, but admittedly cheese do add a distinct and more wonderful taste.

i mean, if you want just the cheese, then you might as well eat a whole bar of cheese :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

#10 Carmela

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Posted 28 June 2007 - 07:17 AM

of course love but shempre need din ng make love/ sex. :heart:

#11 lomex32

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Posted 28 June 2007 - 08:08 AM

Precisely ...

As the saying goes, ung isa pang PAMILYA (Love), ung isa pang SPORTS (Sex)

bro e di 200% ka na hahaha pang dalawang relationship yan hahaha


Di ba puwede 100% sex, 100% love? :thumbsupsmiley:



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Posted 28 June 2007 - 08:24 AM

pareho na nga yta e.
one way or another lalabas ang issue ng sex...

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Posted 28 June 2007 - 08:34 AM

for me 60% love and 40% sex. well after siguro ng sex all day everyday e you'll get tired din lalo na pag lahat na ng position nagawa nyo, porn doesnt work for you na, done it in public places...etc....there will always be a point of saturation...and thats when you need to have love for you to keep your relationship going. nothing beats the feeling of making love with the one you love! ;)

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Posted 28 June 2007 - 05:14 PM

pareho na nga yta e.
one way or another lalabas ang issue ng sex...



i agree..anyway kung talagang mahal mo darating talaga ung tym na mag sex kau
or should i say mag make love kau... :heart: :heart: :heart:


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Posted 28 June 2007 - 05:19 PM

di bah nga my kasabihan? "If you love someone, SEX them free!" hehe! tama ba yon? wahahaha! :lol:

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Posted 28 June 2007 - 05:52 PM

hehehe funny na-pa smile tuloy ako sa comment ni pinkylicious... I thin there's alot of factors to consider whent its comes to making a relationship work... indeed yes sex is part of it. But i think it only counts to 5-10%. Love is about 30-40%.

Often we only look at these two factors only, and deny other factors... two of the other factors that could help make a realtionship work are compassion, and sense of security. Having compassion for your partner is very important in a relationship it's not healthy that one is more aggresive than the other, there should be understanding of roles... security is more on magical disappearance od worries even for temporary only...

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Posted 28 June 2007 - 06:44 PM

Pareho lang...

Love affects sex and vise-versa.

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Posted 01 July 2007 - 08:38 PM

I must say COMMITMENT coz if both people are committed to each other then... there will no obstacle at all. I guess...

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Posted 01 July 2007 - 09:44 PM

I would say both are essential... and by percentage it would mean 50-50. :thumbsupsmiley:

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Posted 02 July 2007 - 01:20 AM

Precisely ...

As the saying goes, ung isa pang PAMILYA (Love), ung isa pang SPORTS (Sex)



wehehe!! kulit ni lomex. but seriously, both counts. we shouldn't isolate sex as something done out of love. besides, if u love someone, you would satisfy him or her in all aspects. mentally, emotionally, and even sexually. u begin to share each aspect of ur love without prejudice.




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