Well 100% loyal for the rest of his life may be almost impossible.
But at least strive for 90% - 95% pwede na di ba?
My Lola's Technique:
- pag kinalabit... GAME... "I never say no!"
My other Lola's Technique:
- where he is assigned... I go with him... do not believe in long distance relationships... wife must go with husband wherever he goes.
A tip I heard a mother in law say to her daughter in law:
- fulfill all your husband's (my son's) sexual fantasies.
- be his porn star
What I see from the ultimate 70+ year old grand mother I idolize:
- make children in great numbers
- love him, be sweet, thoughtful, respectful
- never ever nag
What I see in some advice columns
- initiate sex some times
What I think:
- give him all the sex he needs, women want monogamy but do not "put out" have sex enough with their husbands to justify monogamy. So you put out 1 or 2 times a month? Shit... that is obviously NOT ENOUGH.
- if your man is drained of semen when he gets out the door, he won't have bullets to shoot elsewhere.
- maintain health and figure and beauty
- wear the hottest shorts and tank tops at home until your 50s... kaya yan if you are healthy...
Do not use condoms on your husband... sex with condoms suck... big time.
Do not use chemical contraceptives or disabling ligation... disabled fertility... means disabled sexuality... no more pheromone or vibration beauty / attractiveness signals... you will lose it all.... including your man.
If you need birth control... learn NFP... skin to skin... internal vaginal cum is wifely sex... Pull out is frustrating for your man too.
If it is your fertile time... you can always SWALLOW... hell if you are the chick that swallows... you are the bomb!
Strive to be his best and most varied lover... learn various sex moves.