señor_bugoy Posted March 7, 2004 Share Posted March 7, 2004 talk to God...confide everything, ask for guidance...that'll lift you up for sure... Quote Link to comment
maximusmeridius Posted March 10, 2004 Share Posted March 10, 2004 i usually go shopping or hit the gym and pool. those two are nice for the spirit and good for the body. try it sometime. any sort of physical activity is best. sex is a very very good alternative to depression. Quote Link to comment
Wyld Posted March 10, 2004 Share Posted March 10, 2004 (edited) i literally stop. i take a breather. i tune out and just ... be. i try to empty my mind and from there i try to focus on gaining back the strength that ive lost... then ... when iv recharged and recovered, i go at it full speed ahead. no other way to face one's problems except head on .... Edited March 15, 2004 by WyldChik Quote Link to comment
Guest Insomnia Girl Posted March 10, 2004 Share Posted March 10, 2004 I'd scream for help. If no one comes then tough luck, I'll start helping myself. Quote Link to comment
batang_yakult Posted August 30, 2004 Share Posted August 30, 2004 get away from it all. baka yan ung empty ka na .. drained pare. go inwards tapos hanapin mo yung sarili mo. Quote Link to comment
Grimace Posted August 30, 2004 Share Posted August 30, 2004 MY advice is that you should try dating other than your comfort zone, like for instance if you dig ,really nice posh guys who are posers, why not try going out with nerds or even laid back guys who got extreme interests? i met one guy here and yes, we hit it off, he's nice and sweet and he's kinda nerdy but we get along pretty well, so anyway my advice to escape from your humdrum life is to go out and date people!! if they ask you to get alid..Well you better head the door! hehehehe Good luck! Quote Link to comment
in_style Posted October 5, 2004 Share Posted October 5, 2004 i will hold still... let the worse of the situation pass.then gather my efforts and my thoughts. work on a plan b.psyche myself to gather the pieces and start all over again. Quote Link to comment
ryc100 Posted October 12, 2004 Share Posted October 12, 2004 go down in flames! :evil: Quote Link to comment
performance Posted October 30, 2004 Share Posted October 30, 2004 as hard as it seems, break your life down and concentrate in fixing things one at a time... simplify... divide and conquer... Sometimes when things are going down for us, we panick and try to fix everything at the same time... gotta do it one by one Quote Link to comment
dc_maker1009 Posted October 30, 2004 Share Posted October 30, 2004 ika nga.... music soothes even the savage beast...... sound trippin lang at MTC, ok na, nakakapagisip na naman ulit ng matino... Quote Link to comment
trillian Posted October 30, 2004 Share Posted October 30, 2004 Read a book, it helps if its funny or inspiring Or if you're not much of a reader then: 1. Go to a bar2. have a few drinks3. nibble on something (mint leaf to freshen your breath)4. listen to the music5. if you're lucky you'll hit it off with someone (which isn't hard with the right attitude)6. dance with that person (preferrably slow numbers so you can brush against him/her)7. then if you're luckier you get a night of unforgettable passion Enjoy life, you only get one :cool: Quote Link to comment
heavygatin_but_cutie Posted October 31, 2004 Share Posted October 31, 2004 what i'd do...pray pray and pray! reassess your life..kasi the things that are happening in your life is the result of your decisions. so stop ka muna..think...reflect and plan out. face all your hardships ...trust in God and things will be better. :cool: Quote Link to comment
quality_checked Posted October 31, 2004 Share Posted October 31, 2004 i let things reach a stable point. then i think of probable steps to do.i have learned that its not good to strike when things are hot. emotions are highand we dont think straight. Quote Link to comment
Barenaked-NoMre Posted December 4, 2004 Share Posted December 4, 2004 well ... it's better to really have a good crying session ... let all the anger and emotions out ... play "angry" music like Alanis ... write whatever ur thinking on paper or in a diary ... have a stiff drink ... listen to soothing music after with a candle lit in the background then ... after the "storm" has past ... think, learn, listen ... to you, HIM ... "things happen for a reason" ... that you just cant explain ... you ask urself and you wonder why it has to be this way ... when you look inside you heart ... you will find the answer Go DEEP! ;-) Quote Link to comment
kups17 Posted December 9, 2004 Share Posted December 9, 2004 pray!!! :hypocritesmiley: :hypocritesmiley: :hypocritesmiley: Quote Link to comment
discount_card Posted December 9, 2004 Share Posted December 9, 2004 pick up the pieces of you which have been broken and continue to live... life is not by any chance a stream of clear and calm water... it's has strong waves that can topple you off your path but you need to continue to go on until you reach the calm waves... :cool: :mtc: Quote Link to comment
bigbadwolf Posted December 9, 2004 Share Posted December 9, 2004 do somethin' that would take my mind off the things that went wrong... Quote Link to comment
KristinLavransdatr Posted December 10, 2004 Share Posted December 10, 2004 i usually go to the Greenbelt Chapel to kneel and pray. i don't usually ask to be freed from pain or sadness. just being there is healing. is freedom. is bliss. Quote Link to comment
Agent_mulder Posted December 10, 2004 Share Posted December 10, 2004 There's no other thing to do but pray for guidance. Also, some people might find this rather unusual but i listen to this song from the 90's and somehow it gets me going. When the spoon is hot And the needle's sharp And you drift away I can hear you say That the world in black Is upon your back And your body shakes So you ditch away And you close the shades Don't try to do it Don't try to k*ll your time You might do it Then you can't change your mind You've got a hold on to your time Till your break through these Times of trouble When you try to talk And the words get hard And they put you down Don't you stay Don't you ditch away I saw you swinging Swinging your mother's sword I know you're playing but Sometimes the rules get hard But if somebody left you out on a ledge If somebody pushed you over the edge If somebody loved you and left you for dead You got to hold on to your time till you break Through these times of trouble Quote Link to comment
pinoybiggerbrother Posted December 28, 2004 Share Posted December 28, 2004 THIS IS IT............GET IT OVER WITH..........NO SHAME IT IT. Quote Link to comment
HimuraButosay Posted February 11, 2005 Share Posted February 11, 2005 say a prayer...that's what i do :cool: be it to thank God for the blessings... be it to thank God for the trials... i say a prayer. .. Quote Link to comment
Guest event_horizon Posted February 13, 2005 Share Posted February 13, 2005 hang on to anything i can hold on to... good thing there are really good friends.. Quote Link to comment
bastard69 Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 yup, frriends are indeed a lot of help when you are in the bad times... :cry: Quote Link to comment
LB Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 (edited) hurt yourself over and over... then, go with the flow of things... find new friends... try new things... when you cannot take it anymore... all of a sudden, stop... go to a church... pray and repent... join a cell group... climb a mountain... start over again... work hard... attend self-improvement classes... live in a place where nobody knows you... *** when you feel that life is soon to be game over or the term you used 'crashing,' add some spice to it or continue to explore or go through a transition. just remember, everytime you do things good or bad... there should always be a way out... on the back of your mind (just incase!)... you can lose at times but don't die there are plenty of reasons to war... :grr: ...that is why christina aguilera sang "fighter" Edited February 14, 2005 by lovelybabe Quote Link to comment
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