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I am new in MTC and I am reading this thread...I am NOT yet allowed to view the list of Spa though.

It appears that a lot of GMs fall for a Thera...but bottomline, it is not advisable and should be avoided at all.  That is my inferenece, I hope I am right

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Think pare is it worth fell for thera?

90% thera have a BF that one he love or even husband.

the question how can the bf and husband still let them work as thera?

i know that one thera of japanese spa have 2 kids and husband and still work for now.

is it impossible the husband dont know the wife work

 

just curious for men who can know that the wife work as thera and get bang of other men

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I am writing this not to seek advice but to share to those who might still be trying to find answers.

 

She’s a veteran, disciplined, single and endowed with top tier beauty both outside and inside -  good heart, above average height, slim, very fair complexion, pretty face, etc.  My thera GF lives less than ten-minute drive from me.  Her work discipline accumulated her a few properties which she is leasing and producing just enough passive income to support her parents and brothers.

 

I am in my early 50’s,  an executive of concurrent corporations.  Hindi ako guwapo pero hindi naman pangit -  just ordinary.  I’m in good shape because my work requires me to be physically active. My married life is blessed and happy.  I was loyal to my wife for many years and am not prolific in the flesh trade.

 

When I first availed my thera GF last Apr,  the previous one was decades ago when I worked overseas.  After much thought,  I decided to let loose of my feelings and our relationship progressed in recent months.  We see each other almost daily occasionally more than once.  The decision required considerable effort to find the answers to difficult questions.   The actual task of carrying out with the relationship came with heart aches as I rewired my mindset.

 

There are very few articles about relationships with sex workers.  This thread is a treasure and I wish I’ve found it earlier. So here is my share.

 

If a GM decides to pursue this kind of relationship,  then the GM must embrace the mindset that what the thera does is just work.  It is simply society’s prejudice that labels it dirty.  Minsan marangal ang tingin natin sa mga politiko pero alam natin na karamihan sa kanila ay kawatan.  When a GM needs to release,  the thera is there to offer the service for a fee within the bounds of her rules.  Even GFE can be purchased so don’t fool yourself that it is not fakery.

To avoid grief,  both the GM and thera must carefully delineate between work and personal.  In the West/NA,  personal starts when the hooker goes for a date without a fee.

 

Most of them started at the poorest of conditions.  The home of my GF was subject to squatter demolition in the long past.  When a thera gets to a relatively comfortable level,  she can be earning much more than an average manager in a corporation.  Theras know they are earning more than some of their clients.  Do not be surprised if you find a thera not wanting to be saved.  At this point,  she would have already acquired the trait of being independent.

 

Many theras do not know much about any other work likely because of limited education and lack of training.  My GF really tried and was swindled a few times -  eSabong, pautang, etc.  She has purchased another vacant lot and aims to build apartments there.  Now going to her dawn,  she has set herself to retire in just a few years with that little project as an end goal.  She’s independent and won’t accept money from me.  She knows it is within her means to earn it with her ‘work’.

 

Many of her friends did not succeed in the profession – got hooked with the wrong guy, drugs, hosto, casino, etc.  She’s relatively well off compared to her peers mainly due to her discipline and being a hard worker.  Be that as it may,  I concluded that even the better thera does not come to that high point without being severely scarred -  as in battle scars.

 

She has developed addiction to solitude.  She has loved several times and failed.  When we talk about relationships,  she would always brag – ‘been there,  done that’.  I am the amateur in those discussions.  She has a good heart and loved faithfully in the past.  Her last break up was in 2018,  she found out that her GM BF lied of being a married.  It took severe depression and two years with most nights in tears for her to move on.    I can still see telltale signs of that past.  She still has occasional bouts of depression.  There are also signs that she is now a man hater and perhaps I am the luckiest to have penetrated her barrier of distrust.

 

Why do I do this.  I loved my wife faithfully for two decades.  I thought that love was constant,  but the reality is the feelings fade in time.  When I crossed path with my thera GF,  I ‘really felt in love’ again and,  boy,  I was missing so huge.  This is like how it truly felt in my 20’s.  Love songs which I ignored for years has now acquired new meaning for me.  The sun shines differently now and in full colors.  It is grace.  It is priceless.  The least I can do is pay it back by truly loving her.

 

She is resigned to the notion she will grow old single and alone.  I always disagree with her.  She claims she has really prayed to God for me to arrive ‘kaya lang may sabit ang dumating’ -  i.e.,  married.  She is in no illusion that she’ll still find a mature and kind hearted bachelor,  thus her ‘will grow old single and alone’ disposition.  I promised to her that that will not happen because I intend to be there for her for life.  That is, unless she finds a better man than I am -  it will hurt bad but I will let go.  For now,  we try to enjoy each other. She is toying with the notion of bearing a child a few years from now.

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16 hours ago, Exec said:

I am writing this not to seek advice but to share to those who might still be trying to find answers.

 

She’s a veteran, disciplined, single and endowed with top tier beauty both outside and inside -  good heart, above average height, slim, very fair complexion, pretty face, etc.  My thera GF lives less than ten-minute drive from me.  Her work discipline accumulated her a few properties which she is leasing and producing just enough passive income to support her parents and brothers.

 

I am in my early 50’s,  an executive of concurrent corporations.  Hindi ako guwapo pero hindi naman pangit -  just ordinary.  I’m in good shape because my work requires me to be physically active. My married life is blessed and happy.  I was loyal to my wife for many years and am not prolific in the flesh trade.

 

When I first availed my thera GF last Apr,  the previous one was decades ago when I worked overseas.  After much thought,  I decided to let loose of my feelings and our relationship progressed in recent months.  We see each other almost daily occasionally more than once.  The decision required considerable effort to find the answers to difficult questions.   The actual task of carrying out with the relationship came with heart aches as I rewired my mindset.

 

There are very few articles about relationships with sex workers.  This thread is a treasure and I wish I’ve found it earlier. So here is my share.

 

If a GM decides to pursue this kind of relationship,  then the GM must embrace the mindset that what the thera does is just work.  It is simply society’s prejudice that labels it dirty.  Minsan marangal ang tingin natin sa mga politiko pero alam natin na karamihan sa kanila ay kawatan.  When a GM needs to release,  the thera is there to offer the service for a fee within the bounds of her rules.  Even GFE can be purchased so don’t fool yourself that it is not fakery.

To avoid grief,  both the GM and thera must carefully delineate between work and personal.  In the West/NA,  personal starts when the hooker goes for a date without a fee.

 

Most of them started at the poorest of conditions.  The home of my GF was subject to squatter demolition in the long past.  When a thera gets to a relatively comfortable level,  she can be earning much more than an average manager in a corporation.  Theras know they are earning more than some of their clients.  Do not be surprised if you find a thera not wanting to be saved.  At this point,  she would have already acquired the trait of being independent.

 

Many theras do not know much about any other work likely because of limited education and lack of training.  My GF really tried and was swindled a few times -  eSabong, pautang, etc.  She has purchased another vacant lot and aims to build apartments there.  Now going to her dawn,  she has set herself to retire in just a few years with that little project as an end goal.  She’s independent and won’t accept money from me.  She knows it is within her means to earn it with her ‘work’.

 

Many of her friends did not succeed in the profession – got hooked with the wrong guy, drugs, hosto, casino, etc.  She’s relatively well off compared to her peers mainly due to her discipline and being a hard worker.  Be that as it may,  I concluded that even the better thera does not come to that high point without being severely scarred -  as in battle scars.

 

She has developed addiction to solitude.  She has loved several times and failed.  When we talk about relationships,  she would always brag – ‘been there,  done that’.  I am the amateur in those discussions.  She has a good heart and loved faithfully in the past.  Her last break up was in 2018,  she found out that her GM BF lied of being a married.  It took severe depression and two years with most nights in tears for her to move on.    I can still see telltale signs of that past.  She still has occasional bouts of depression.  There are also signs that she is now a man hater and perhaps I am the luckiest to have penetrated her barrier of distrust.

 

Why do I do this.  I loved my wife faithfully for two decades.  I thought that love was constant,  but the reality is the feelings fade in time.  When I crossed path with my thera GF,  I ‘really felt in love’ again and,  boy,  I was missing so huge.  This is like how it truly felt in my 20’s.  Love songs which I ignored for years has now acquired new meaning for me.  The sun shines differently now and in full colors.  It is grace.  It is priceless.  The least I can do is pay it back by truly loving her.

 

She is resigned to the notion she will grow old single and alone.  I always disagree with her.  She claims she has really prayed to God for me to arrive ‘kaya lang may sabit ang dumating’ -  i.e.,  married.  She is in no illusion that she’ll still find a mature and kind hearted bachelor,  thus her ‘will grow old single and alone’ disposition.  I promised to her that that will not happen because I intend to be there for her for life.  That is, unless she finds a better man than I am -  it will hurt bad but I will let go.  For now,  we try to enjoy each other. She is toying with the notion of bearing a child a few years from now.

she great if she dont accept money from you. sorry no offense or insilt thera but many theras is only use this to deceiving GM

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17 hours ago, Exec said:

I am writing this not to seek advice but to share to those who might still be trying to find answers.

 

She’s a veteran, disciplined, single and endowed with top tier beauty both outside and inside -  good heart, above average height, slim, very fair complexion, pretty face, etc.  My thera GF lives less than ten-minute drive from me.  Her work discipline accumulated her a few properties which she is leasing and producing just enough passive income to support her parents and brothers.

 

I am in my early 50’s,  an executive of concurrent corporations.  Hindi ako guwapo pero hindi naman pangit -  just ordinary.  I’m in good shape because my work requires me to be physically active. My married life is blessed and happy.  I was loyal to my wife for many years and am not prolific in the flesh trade.

 

When I first availed my thera GF last Apr,  the previous one was decades ago when I worked overseas.  After much thought,  I decided to let loose of my feelings and our relationship progressed in recent months.  We see each other almost daily occasionally more than once.  The decision required considerable effort to find the answers to difficult questions.   The actual task of carrying out with the relationship came with heart aches as I rewired my mindset.

 

There are very few articles about relationships with sex workers.  This thread is a treasure and I wish I’ve found it earlier. So here is my share.

 

If a GM decides to pursue this kind of relationship,  then the GM must embrace the mindset that what the thera does is just work.  It is simply society’s prejudice that labels it dirty.  Minsan marangal ang tingin natin sa mga politiko pero alam natin na karamihan sa kanila ay kawatan.  When a GM needs to release,  the thera is there to offer the service for a fee within the bounds of her rules.  Even GFE can be purchased so don’t fool yourself that it is not fakery.

To avoid grief,  both the GM and thera must carefully delineate between work and personal.  In the West/NA,  personal starts when the hooker goes for a date without a fee.

 

Most of them started at the poorest of conditions.  The home of my GF was subject to squatter demolition in the long past.  When a thera gets to a relatively comfortable level,  she can be earning much more than an average manager in a corporation.  Theras know they are earning more than some of their clients.  Do not be surprised if you find a thera not wanting to be saved.  At this point,  she would have already acquired the trait of being independent.

 

Many theras do not know much about any other work likely because of limited education and lack of training.  My GF really tried and was swindled a few times -  eSabong, pautang, etc.  She has purchased another vacant lot and aims to build apartments there.  Now going to her dawn,  she has set herself to retire in just a few years with that little project as an end goal.  She’s independent and won’t accept money from me.  She knows it is within her means to earn it with her ‘work’.

 

Many of her friends did not succeed in the profession – got hooked with the wrong guy, drugs, hosto, casino, etc.  She’s relatively well off compared to her peers mainly due to her discipline and being a hard worker.  Be that as it may,  I concluded that even the better thera does not come to that high point without being severely scarred -  as in battle scars.

 

She has developed addiction to solitude.  She has loved several times and failed.  When we talk about relationships,  she would always brag – ‘been there,  done that’.  I am the amateur in those discussions.  She has a good heart and loved faithfully in the past.  Her last break up was in 2018,  she found out that her GM BF lied of being a married.  It took severe depression and two years with most nights in tears for her to move on.    I can still see telltale signs of that past.  She still has occasional bouts of depression.  There are also signs that she is now a man hater and perhaps I am the luckiest to have penetrated her barrier of distrust.

 

Why do I do this.  I loved my wife faithfully for two decades.  I thought that love was constant,  but the reality is the feelings fade in time.  When I crossed path with my thera GF,  I ‘really felt in love’ again and,  boy,  I was missing so huge.  This is like how it truly felt in my 20’s.  Love songs which I ignored for years has now acquired new meaning for me.  The sun shines differently now and in full colors.  It is grace.  It is priceless.  The least I can do is pay it back by truly loving her.

 

She is resigned to the notion she will grow old single and alone.  I always disagree with her.  She claims she has really prayed to God for me to arrive ‘kaya lang may sabit ang dumating’ -  i.e.,  married.  She is in no illusion that she’ll still find a mature and kind hearted bachelor,  thus her ‘will grow old single and alone’ disposition.  I promised to her that that will not happen because I intend to be there for her for life.  That is, unless she finds a better man than I am -  it will hurt bad but I will let go.  For now,  we try to enjoy each other. She is toying with the notion of bearing a child a few years from now.

I feel what you feel, having had to through the same thing a couple years ago but with a few twists. I would just say that the ending might not be as happy as you hope for. It's difficult to maintain a married life(even if for the sake of it) and have a gf on the side. If there are kids involved, then it's just a deep hole that you will dig for yourself. You can pull it off for a few years but it may not last and when the end is in sight, you need to choose and it won't be easy!!!

My apologies if I am off track but your words felt familiar!!!  All things said and done, I'll raise a toast to you and hope you get the happy life you wish for!!! If there is something all of us on this forum deserve, it's happiness and someone to share it with!! Theras and patrons alike!!!

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22 hours ago, Exec said:

I am writing this not to seek advice but to share to those who might still be trying to find answers.

 

She’s a veteran, disciplined, single and endowed with top tier beauty both outside and inside -  good heart, above average height, slim, very fair complexion, pretty face, etc.  My thera GF lives less than ten-minute drive from me.  Her work discipline accumulated her a few properties which she is leasing and producing just enough passive income to support her parents and brothers.

 

I am in my early 50’s,  an executive of concurrent corporations.  Hindi ako guwapo pero hindi naman pangit -  just ordinary.  I’m in good shape because my work requires me to be physically active. My married life is blessed and happy.  I was loyal to my wife for many years and am not prolific in the flesh trade.

 

When I first availed my thera GF last Apr,  the previous one was decades ago when I worked overseas.  After much thought,  I decided to let loose of my feelings and our relationship progressed in recent months.  We see each other almost daily occasionally more than once.  The decision required considerable effort to find the answers to difficult questions.   The actual task of carrying out with the relationship came with heart aches as I rewired my mindset.

 

There are very few articles about relationships with sex workers.  This thread is a treasure and I wish I’ve found it earlier. So here is my share.

 

If a GM decides to pursue this kind of relationship,  then the GM must embrace the mindset that what the thera does is just work.  It is simply society’s prejudice that labels it dirty.  Minsan marangal ang tingin natin sa mga politiko pero alam natin na karamihan sa kanila ay kawatan.  When a GM needs to release,  the thera is there to offer the service for a fee within the bounds of her rules.  Even GFE can be purchased so don’t fool yourself that it is not fakery.

To avoid grief,  both the GM and thera must carefully delineate between work and personal.  In the West/NA,  personal starts when the hooker goes for a date without a fee.

 

Most of them started at the poorest of conditions.  The home of my GF was subject to squatter demolition in the long past.  When a thera gets to a relatively comfortable level,  she can be earning much more than an average manager in a corporation.  Theras know they are earning more than some of their clients.  Do not be surprised if you find a thera not wanting to be saved.  At this point,  she would have already acquired the trait of being independent.

 

Many theras do not know much about any other work likely because of limited education and lack of training.  My GF really tried and was swindled a few times -  eSabong, pautang, etc.  She has purchased another vacant lot and aims to build apartments there.  Now going to her dawn,  she has set herself to retire in just a few years with that little project as an end goal.  She’s independent and won’t accept money from me.  She knows it is within her means to earn it with her ‘work’.

 

Many of her friends did not succeed in the profession – got hooked with the wrong guy, drugs, hosto, casino, etc.  She’s relatively well off compared to her peers mainly due to her discipline and being a hard worker.  Be that as it may,  I concluded that even the better thera does not come to that high point without being severely scarred -  as in battle scars.

 

She has developed addiction to solitude.  She has loved several times and failed.  When we talk about relationships,  she would always brag – ‘been there,  done that’.  I am the amateur in those discussions.  She has a good heart and loved faithfully in the past.  Her last break up was in 2018,  she found out that her GM BF lied of being a married.  It took severe depression and two years with most nights in tears for her to move on.    I can still see telltale signs of that past.  She still has occasional bouts of depression.  There are also signs that she is now a man hater and perhaps I am the luckiest to have penetrated her barrier of distrust.

 

Why do I do this.  I loved my wife faithfully for two decades.  I thought that love was constant,  but the reality is the feelings fade in time.  When I crossed path with my thera GF,  I ‘really felt in love’ again and,  boy,  I was missing so huge.  This is like how it truly felt in my 20’s.  Love songs which I ignored for years has now acquired new meaning for me.  The sun shines differently now and in full colors.  It is grace.  It is priceless.  The least I can do is pay it back by truly loving her.

 

She is resigned to the notion she will grow old single and alone.  I always disagree with her.  She claims she has really prayed to God for me to arrive ‘kaya lang may sabit ang dumating’ -  i.e.,  married.  She is in no illusion that she’ll still find a mature and kind hearted bachelor,  thus her ‘will grow old single and alone’ disposition.  I promised to her that that will not happen because I intend to be there for her for life.  That is, unless she finds a better man than I am -  it will hurt bad but I will let go.  For now,  we try to enjoy each other. She is toying with the notion of bearing a child a few years from now.

Sir, thank you for sharing your story. It was a nice read and the fact that I could relate to it.. 

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On 3/5/2022 at 12:34 AM, KID FIGHTER said:

My best friend (as in super best friend - we were classmates and roomates in college and also later on classmates again in California) is a lawyer who owns a hospital in Davao. Half Chinese too. Coincidentally both of us got married to Chinese doctors (pedia sa kanya; endo & gastro sakin). Una silang nag separate. After 2 years ako naman. Two years ago, pinakilala nya sakin yung pretty girl. Former thera! Smart girl. Parang si Yassi or Ara of TV Spa mag isip. Last year nagka baby sila nung thera. Syempre, I went to Davao para mag ninong sa binyag. Pina aral niya si thera ngayon ng business management. They seem to be happier!☺👍 Lawyer (owner of a hospital) now living happily with a former thera. That's my number 1 best friend. Will I fall for a thera just like my best friend? Or should I go back to my pretty ex-wifey who is also a doctor? Di ko alam eh.

 

I think it might work, but it will be more complicated than before...

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On 12/19/2022 at 6:04 PM, socratesaristotle said:

I feel what you feel, having had to through the same thing a couple years ago but with a few twists. I would just say that the ending might not be as happy as you hope for. It's difficult to maintain a married life(even if for the sake of it) and have a gf on the side. If there are kids involved, then it's just a deep hole that you will dig for yourself. You can pull it off for a few years but it may not last and when the end is in sight, you need to choose and it won't be easy!!!

My apologies if I am off track but your words felt familiar!!!  All things said and done, I'll raise a toast to you and hope you get the happy life you wish for!!! If there is something all of us on this forum deserve, it's happiness and someone to share it with!! Theras and patrons alike!!!

karamihan ng naririnig ko na kwento ganto lang din tlaga, may lifespan lang ng more or less a year

kaya better to sponsor na lang if may cash ka to burn and you want to solo the thera for a month or so, wag na palagpasin ng 3 months kasi thats when infatuations dies and love starts, then unto the next target na agad lol

tumatak saken yung nabasa ko dati na the more body count a girl have the harder for them to be exclusive sa isang guy, because their body will always compare you to the best sex she had, kung money lang bala mo well its bound to fail. kaya siguro (di ko nilalahat) a thera has a bf o asawa na tambay (sex), then sponsor (wallet), yung iba may taga hatid sundo pa na guy tapos may taga send ng pangkaen na guy. 

well in real world naman tlga a man's value is based on what he can provide 

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8 hours ago, Aqui Mendros said:

Hahahaha I fell inlove with my thera, sa pagpabalik balik ko sa spa taena do ko namamalayan nag iiba na pala connection namin and then i confes my feelings for her and nagulat ako kaya pla ung rates nya eh nagbago kse she felt the same way na din pala hahaha ayon share lng

be careful. maybe she feel the same others gm too

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On 12/19/2022 at 6:04 PM, socratesaristotle said:

I feel what you feel, having had to through the same thing a couple years ago but with a few twists. I would just say that the ending might not be as happy as you hope for. It's difficult to maintain a married life(even if for the sake of it) and have a gf on the side. If there are kids involved, then it's just a deep hole that you will dig for yourself. You can pull it off for a few years but it may not last and when the end is in sight, you need to choose and it won't be easy!!!

My apologies if I am off track but your words felt familiar!!!  All things said and done, I'll raise a toast to you and hope you get the happy life you wish for!!! If there is something all of us on this forum deserve, it's happiness and someone to share it with!! Theras and patrons alike!!!

 

You are not off track and have correctly raised a possibility.  I have accepted that the relationship might be time limited -  but then, it may not be.  However,  for the supreme happiness brought by being in love at this age even on that limited time,  my take is it is all worth it.

 

Thank you for wishing me well.  ‘Much appreciated.  I hope for your happiness as well.

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On 12/21/2022 at 9:20 AM, Ice Lover said:

karamihan ng naririnig ko na kwento ganto lang din tlaga, may lifespan lang ng more or less a year

kaya better to sponsor na lang if may cash ka to burn and you want to solo the thera for a month or so, wag na palagpasin ng 3 months kasi thats when infatuations dies and love starts, then unto the next target na agad lol

tumatak saken yung nabasa ko dati na the more body count a girl have the harder for them to be exclusive sa isang guy, because their body will always compare you to the best sex she had, kung money lang bala mo well its bound to fail. kaya siguro (di ko nilalahat) a thera has a bf o asawa na tambay (sex), then sponsor (wallet), yung iba may taga hatid sundo pa na guy tapos may taga send ng pangkaen na guy. 

well in real world naman tlga a man's value is based on what he can provide 

 

On the contrary,  veteran theras become desensitized of paid sex.  On the deed itself,  there is no “libog” so a greater proportion of the fee actually goes to the thera acting out as if she is “enjoying” the deed.  This is the portion of the theras work that takes the most ardous effort making artificial lubricant a must item in a Theras handbag.  A good looking GM is not an exception – my GF thera has been through many including a Korean celebrity.  Sometimes,  to get the hang of it,  theras would imagine her beloved BF in the middle of sex with a GM to achieve some semblance of “ganado”.  Theras very rarely ‘come’ in a paid deed.

 

The short of it is the most fulfilling and enjoyable sex is with a person someone loves.  It's just but natural.

 

Last night until dawn is among our better overnights together.  In my GF thera's apartment,  good food,  she carefully prepared the bed,  she’s fertile,  prolonged sensous sex and capped with a few creampies.  She climaxed a few times.  She was catching her breath and was perspiring profusely each time.  You know that she is really one with you in the act when she continuously and lovingly stares back at you, eyes half closed while you are thrusting, and says “Ang sarap mo”,  “I love you”.   Now, that is priceless. 

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