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#681 haroots2

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Posted 24 September 2019 - 09:05 AM

 

Exactly!

 

We can have family formation education in schools.

 

Prepare the next generation of pre-teens with pro-family strategies.  I do this actively with my kids.

 

Don't do they teach that already in schools?  And you are right parents is the most important factor to instill family values on kids, If the kids have that divorce won't even have an effect on them.  But we are not living on a perfect world and those couples may need the Divorce as a last option.

 

Also divorce stats in America is base on their culture not ours.  How about the stats from the rest of the world.   You mean only PH and Vatican  are the only countries that have high family values or better family values than the rest of the world  since they don;t have divorce?


Edited by haroots2, 24 September 2019 - 09:07 AM.


#682 camiar

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Posted 25 September 2019 - 06:41 PM

 

Don't do they teach that already in schools?  And you are right parents is the most important factor to instill family values on kids, If the kids have that divorce won't even have an effect on them.  But we are not living on a perfect world and those couples may need the Divorce as a last option.

 

Also divorce stats in America is base on their culture not ours.  How about the stats from the rest of the world.   You mean only PH and Vatican  are the only countries that have high family values or better family values than the rest of the world  since they don;t have divorce?

 

It's human behavior. People always take whats seems to be the easier way out, regardless of the long-term effects on them and the people around them. It's true in any culture.

 

If you make it easy for couples to separate, they will always take the easy way out -- to separate -- instead of working it out, regardless of how much it will make the children suffer.

 

Many couples separate because one (or both) of them found another person who is more sexually attractive. It's a universal human sexual behavior, regardless of culture.

 

We do not claim the PH have higher moral values than other countries. But rather, that our families are more cohesive than in the USA.


Edited by camiar, 25 September 2019 - 07:06 PM.


#683 khantan

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Posted 19 October 2019 - 12:14 AM

Majority of the masses don't need divorce.

 

What we need is to give limits to marriage, make it renewable.like a driver's license. 

When couples feel that marriage don't work, then just go on their separate ways on their birth month.



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Posted 19 October 2019 - 12:32 AM

Kung maraming ayaw sa divorce dito sa Pilipinas dapat alisin na din ang annulment. Unfair eh. Mas malaki kasi kita ng mga panyero at panyera at korte sa annulment eh kaya siguro parang ayaw nila maisabatas ang diborsyo..

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Posted 19 October 2019 - 10:34 AM

Well maybe majority of the masses are not vocal or afraid to voice out about divorce. It's going to be a different outcome once divorce is already a legalized. 

 

I'm not for divorce but yes, the formation of family foundation should be solidified.

 

Majority of the masses don't need divorce.

 

What we need is to give limits to marriage, make it renewable.like a driver's license. 

When couples feel that marriage don't work, then just go on their separate ways on their birth month.



#686 camiar

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Posted 20 October 2019 - 06:32 PM

Well maybe majority of the masses are not vocal or afraid to voice out about divorce. It's going to be a different outcome once divorce is already a legalized. 

 

I'm not for divorce but yes, the formation of family foundation should be solidified.

 

Why would they be afraid to voice out their thought on divorce? We have one of the freest freedom of speech in Asia.

 

I would rather believe it's irrelevant to them.



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Posted 27 October 2019 - 08:04 PM

No



#688 Mind Set

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Posted 08 November 2019 - 02:30 PM

Yes..........



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Posted 07 December 2019 - 07:35 PM

Marriage is like a gamble, hindi mo makikilala ng personal ang isang tao unless na nakatira na kayo sa iisang bubong, araw at gabi nagkikita at nagkakasama at sabay na hinaharap ang pang-araw-araw na problema. After few years na pagsasama, saka mo pa lamang malalaman at makikilala ang isang tao. The question is, is it worth na magtiis ka habang buhay (in case he/she turnout na different person pala in real life)? You can both try to meet halfway, pero dapat dalawa kayo - hindi 'yung isa lang ang mag-aadjust. And what if, along the way, one of them fall out of love? It is still worth to sacrifice his/her life just for the sake of marriage or even for children?

 

Life is short! So short that if we can correct things before its too late, we have to... even it meant of letting go one another...



#690 haroots2

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Posted 09 December 2019 - 09:40 AM

Sa mga ayaw mag divorce, wala naman pipilit sa inyo mag divorce kung ayaw ninyo, pero sa mga gusto they should have that option.  And that's the practicality the rest of the world are doing.  



#691 camiar

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Posted 11 December 2019 - 08:24 PM

Sa mga ayaw mag divorce, wala naman pipilit sa inyo mag divorce kung ayaw ninyo, pero sa mga gusto they should have that option.  And that's the practicality the rest of the world are doing.  

Wala namang namimilit mag-divorce, kasi, di puede. Divorce is not allowed in the Philippines. So for those who don't want to divorce, it's no problem for them. For those who want to divorce, they simply can't. They don't have that option.

 

Just because other countries allow it does not make it morally right.


Edited by camiar, 11 December 2019 - 08:25 PM.


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Posted 14 January 2020 - 11:10 AM

Yes for DIVORCE.........






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