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#1 mrbig86

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Posted 01 March 2020 - 07:12 PM

I'm starting this topic for members who need someone to talk to, or ask advise from. Your online kuya is here to listen.

Please respect the posts of other members.

Edited by mrbig86, 01 March 2020 - 07:18 PM.

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Posted 02 March 2020 - 06:05 AM

Kuya, paano ba paungulin ang babae ng di nya namamalayan?

Good day,

Ang babae umuungol yan kasi nasasarapan - which means dapat may malay siya habang may ginagawa ka sa kanya. Kwestyonable na ang sitwasyon pag di namamalayan ng babae ang nangyayari.

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Posted 02 March 2020 - 08:05 AM

Good day,
Ang babae umuungol yan kasi nasasarapan - which means dapat may malay siya habang may ginagawa ka sa kanya. Kwestyonable na ang sitwasyon pag di namamalayan ng babae ang nangyayari.

Dagdag ko din, uungol siya basta ang attention mo ay nasa kanya, at para sa kanyang kagustuhan.

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Posted 02 March 2020 - 08:42 AM

Sharing this food for thought from Mark Manson:

"Many people measure their self-worth based on how much money they make or what kind of car they drive or whether their front lawn is greener and prettier than the next-door neighbor’s.

Research shows that once one is able to provide for basic physical needs (food, shelter, and so on), the correlation between happiness and worldly success quickly approaches zero. So if you’re starving and living on the street in the middle of India, an extra ten thousand dollars a year would affect your happiness a lot. But if you’re sitting pretty in the middle class in a developed country, an extra ten thousand dollars per year won’t affect anything much—meaning that you’re killing yourself working overtime and weekends for basically nothing.

The other issue with overvaluing material success is the danger of prioritizing it over other values, such as honesty, nonviolence, and compassion. When people measure themselves not by their behavior, but by the status symbols they’re able to collect, then not only are they shallow, but they’re probably assholes as well."

- Mark Manson (The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck)
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Posted 02 March 2020 - 08:49 AM

Online Kuya, kapag po ba may arraignment sa korte bilang nasasakdal kailangan ba makikinig ka na lang at huwag magsasalita?

Kasi di ba ang tawag dun ay Hearing? So dapat walang Speaking?😁😁😁
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Posted 02 March 2020 - 08:56 AM

Online Kuya, kapag po ba may arraignment sa korte bilang nasasakdal kailangan ba makikinig ka na lang at huwag magsasalita?
Kasi di ba ang tawag dun ay Hearing? So dapat walang Speaking?

Nasa sayo yan. Kung wala ka namang balak i defend ang sarili mo, then okay lang.😆😆😆

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Posted 02 March 2020 - 08:59 AM

Nasa sayo yan. Kung wala ka namang balak i defend ang sarili mo, then okay lang.😆😆😆



Tumpak.😅

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Posted 03 March 2020 - 05:17 PM

Thanks you po kuya.Kuya pwede pa po ba akong magtanong?


Ano yun Yorme?

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Posted 03 March 2020 - 10:19 PM

Food for thought:

“Save your skin from the corrosive acids from the mouths of toxic people. Someone who just helped you to speak evil about another person can later help another person to speak evil about you.”

― Israelmore Ayivor
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Posted 04 March 2020 - 05:22 PM

Ano yun Yorme?


Thanks po. Hehe

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Posted 05 March 2020 - 04:51 PM

Food for thought:

“People appear like angels until you hear them speak. You must not rush to judge people by the colour of their cloaks, but by the content of their words!”

― Israelmore Ayivor
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Posted 05 March 2020 - 07:31 PM

Kuys question ( i thought of posting it sa Frequently Asked thread kaso matumal dun so dito na lang).

 

Gusto ko kasi i-take out on a date or simple dinner yung isa kong regular na thera. Assuming na pumayag siya, whether it may be after her shift, during her break or kapag off duty siya and then we go on a date. Let's just say naaya ko siya to check in (though this is not the initial intention ah), i mean kung sakali lang, tipong kasi we want to make the most out of our time. Do I pay her for the deed? I'm just asking because una, ayaw ko namang magmukhang kuripot or worse, user kapag nai-check in ko siya pero hindi ako nagbayad, baka isipin minanyak ko lang but certainly was not the case. Pangalawa, the other way around, ayoko rin namang maging awkward na bigla ko siyang abutan ng pera kung hindi naman pala ito yung norm baka rin isipin nya na this was an outcall request and not a friendly date.

 

Thanks online kuya and for the peeps who will answer


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Posted 05 March 2020 - 10:45 PM

Kuys question ( i thought of posting it sa Frequently Asked thread kaso matumal dun so dito na lang).
 
Gusto ko kasi i-take out on a date or simple dinner yung isa kong regular na thera. Assuming na pumayag siya, whether it may be after her shift, during her break or kapag off duty siya and then we go on a date. Let's just say naaya ko siya to check in (though this is not the initial intention ah), i mean kung sakali lang, tipong kasi we want to make the most out of our time. Do I pay her for the deed? I'm just asking because una, ayaw ko namang magmukhang kuripot or worse, user kapag nai-check in ko siya pero hindi ako nagbayad, baka isipin minanyak ko lang but certainly was not the case. Pangalawa, the other way around, ayoko rin namang maging awkward na bigla ko siyang abutan ng pera kung hindi naman pala ito yung norm baka rin isipin nya na this was an outcall request and not a friendly date.
 
Thanks online kuya and for the peeps who will answer


Good evening Jimmy, and thank you for your question.

Medyo complicated nga yung situation na ganyan. Tingin ko, mas mabuting maidentify mo muna ang totoong intention mo sa thera - maging GF/friend ba ang habol mo sa kanya, or simpleng casual sex lang? Dun mo kasi malalaman kung ichicheck in mo siya o hindi sa unang date.

Pangalawa, kailangan mo ding ma gauge kung ano ba ang habol sayo ng thera. Hindi kasi porke thera sila, eh di na sila nagkakagusto sa lalake on a romantic level. So kailangan niyong dalawa na maging clear ang intention niyo sa isa't isa bago kayo mag date. Dun mo din kasi malalaman kung mag eexpect ba siya ng payment o hindi.

Kung yung offer mo sa kanya ay friendly date, i suggest wag mong i check in. Sensitive ang mga babae sa ganyan, and if friendly date ang inaasahan niya, at bigla mong pinasok sa hotel/motel, I doubt na magiging enjoyable ang experience niyong dalawa.

So, pagisipan mong mabuti, at wag basta basta padadala sa tukso. :) Good luck!
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Posted 05 March 2020 - 11:41 PM

I love you intension for starting your own thread! Keep it up!
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Posted 06 March 2020 - 12:30 AM

Good evening Jimmy, and thank you for your question.

Medyo complicated nga yung situation na ganyan. Tingin ko, mas mabuting maidentify mo muna ang totoong intention mo sa thera - maging GF/friend ba ang habol mo sa kanya, or simpleng casual sex lang? Dun mo kasi malalaman kung ichicheck in mo siya o hindi sa unang date.

Pangalawa, kailangan mo ding ma gauge kung ano ba ang habol sayo ng thera. Hindi kasi porke thera sila, eh di na sila nagkakagusto sa lalake on a romantic level. So kailangan niyong dalawa na maging clear ang intention niyo sa isa't isa bago kayo mag date. Dun mo din kasi malalaman kung mag eexpect ba siya ng payment o hindi.

Kung yung offer mo sa kanya ay friendly date, i suggest wag mong i check in. Sensitive ang mga babae sa ganyan, and if friendly date ang inaasahan niya, at bigla mong pinasok sa hotel/motel, I doubt na magiging enjoyable ang experience niyong dalawa.

So, pagisipan mong mabuti, at wag basta basta padadala sa tukso. :) Good luck!

 

Tama bro, di ko nga naisip na i-identify yung intention ko sa kanya. Last thing that i want is mag pa fall kasi personally medyo ayoko pa naman ng anything serious at the moment, I dont want her to expect din. At most cguro is friends or even friends who do casual sex from time to time (kung gusto niya). 

 

Anyway, baka best to gauge what will happen na lang when it happens and yep, agreed dun sa wag papatukso haha

 

Salamat bro!


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Posted 06 March 2020 - 08:11 AM

I love you intension for starting your own thread! Keep it up!


Thanks Lyan.

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Posted 06 March 2020 - 08:25 AM

Tama bro, di ko nga naisip na i-identify yung intention ko sa kanya. Last thing that i want is mag pa fall kasi personally medyo ayoko pa naman ng anything serious at the moment, I dont want her to expect din. At most cguro is friends or even friends who do casual sex from time to time (kung gusto niya). 
 
Anyway, baka best to gauge what will happen na lang when it happens and yep, agreed dun sa wag papatukso haha
 
Salamat bro!


You're welcome Jimmy. Have a nice day.

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Posted 06 March 2020 - 08:36 AM

Food for thought:

“You and everyone you know are going to be dead soon. And in the short amount of time between here and there, you have a limited amount of f*cks to give. Very few, in fact. And if you go around giving a f*ck about everything and everyone without conscious thought or choice—well, then you’re going to get f*cked.”

― Mark Manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck
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Posted 07 March 2020 - 06:56 AM

Kuys question ( i thought of posting it sa Frequently Asked thread kaso matumal dun so dito na lang).
 
Gusto ko kasi i-take out on a date or simple dinner yung isa kong regular na thera. Assuming na pumayag siya, whether it may be after her shift, during her break or kapag off duty siya and then we go on a date. Let's just say naaya ko siya to check in (though this is not the initial intention ah), i mean kung sakali lang, tipong kasi we want to make the most out of our time. Do I pay her for the deed? I'm just asking because una, ayaw ko namang magmukhang kuripot or worse, user kapag nai-check in ko siya pero hindi ako nagbayad, baka isipin minanyak ko lang but certainly was not the case. Pangalawa, the other way around, ayoko rin namang maging awkward na bigla ko siyang abutan ng pera kung hindi naman pala ito yung norm baka rin isipin nya na this was an outcall request and not a friendly date.
 
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Happened to me more than 2 times yata. Yung isa after naming mag check out eh hinatid ko pa sa spa. Pag baba ng taxi inaabutan ko ng pera ayaw tanggapin. Sabi nya sakin wag na "ano ka ba?"..
Sabay smile then kiss good bye. Naisip ko din yung kagaya ng naisip mo na magbibigay ba ako ng bayad after or wag na lang at baka mainsulto. Pero mas pinili kong magbigay. Kung tanggapin ok lang. Kung tumanggi then okay lang din. Yung isang girl naman eh sya nagyaya sakin makipagkita. 10hours kami sa hotel. Halos di na kami natulog. Mutual understanding lang yung nangyari. Nakapalagayan ng loob siguro. Pangatlong girl. Hmmm. Nagkayayaan lang din. Tried her only once sa spa. Nagkaruon ng chemistry. Then nagkaruon ng attraction. We went out and see each other almost 2 to 3 times a week in a span of 2 or 3 weeks. Eat out.. watched movie.. Checked in sa isang hotel and spent 12 hours maybe there just to f#ck and eat also. Missed her. She is really cute and kind. Happy for her now. I guess we are not meant for each other. Had fourth, fifth girls.. and so on..yata.. anyway. Just sharing my past.
Could not reveal their names so don't bother asking. I respect their privacy. :)
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Posted 07 March 2020 - 02:56 PM

Happened to me more than 2 times yata. Yung isa after naming mag check out eh hinatid ko pa sa spa. Pag baba ng taxi inaabutan ko ng pera ayaw tanggapin. Sabi nya sakin wag na "ano ka ba?"..
Sabay smile then kiss good bye. Naisip ko din yung kagaya ng naisip mo na magbibigay ba ako ng bayad after or wag na lang at baka mainsulto. Pero mas pinili kong magbigay. Kung tanggapin ok lang. Kung tumanggi then okay lang din. Yung isang girl naman eh sya nagyaya sakin makipagkita. 10hours kami sa hotel. Halos di na kami natulog. Mutual understanding lang yung nangyari. Nakapalagayan ng loob siguro. Pangatlong girl. Hmmm. Nagkayayaan lang din. Tried her only once sa spa. Nagkaruon ng chemistry. Then nagkaruon ng attraction. We went out and see each other almost 2 to 3 times a week in a span of 2 or 3 weeks. Eat out.. watched movie.. Checked in sa isang hotel and spent 12 hours maybe there just to f#ck and eat also. Missed her. She is really cute and kind. Happy for her now. I guess we are not meant for each other. Had fourth, fifth girls.. and so on..yata.. anyway. Just sharing my past.
Could not reveal their names so don't bother asking. I respect their privacy. :)

 

Thanks for sharing sir. Good to know na possible nga palang mangyari yung nasa isip ko. I mean, don't get me wrong I am attracted to the thera but after a traumatizing relationship, I prefer to enjoy the single life muna eh last thing that I would want to make her fall for me tapos hindi ko properly ma reciprocate yung feelings nya. So yep, I guess if something other than our usual thera-client encounters happen, I have to communicate properly na lang. 

 

May I just say, I admire your composure and maturity in tackling sensitive 'relationships' such as those na you mentioned. Judging from your stories, I'd say you handled yourself very well which led to a fruitful and mutual relationship with your theras. Kudos sir!


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