How can a cheater stop cheating
Posted 02 November 2020 - 09:29 AM
kahit anong rason pa yan..kung hindi mo na mahal o ayaw mo na.. iwanan mo nalang. wag mo ng lokohin. ang sakit ng panloloko. napakahirap gamutin.. madaling sabihin na patawin mo sya.. pero mahirap gawin at kalimutan
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Posted 04 November 2020 - 06:49 AM
Stay away from serious relationships for a long time, like years. Then go and explore casual dating again, yung tipong hook up hook up lang, no labels. Kung ma tiis mo na mag stick to one kahit pa dun lang sa hook up mo, malaki ang chance na mas kaya mo nang maging loyal. Best thing about that, you can upgrade your current relationship into a real once since at least may foundation ka na
Posted 21 November 2020 - 11:33 PM
No way! It's like a disorder. There is a root cause. Cheating is just the effect.
Posted 22 November 2020 - 12:37 AM
To correct that problem, abstain from meat, garlic, onion, alcohol.
Posted 22 November 2020 - 01:19 AM
everything begins with choice, something neo said sa matrix trilogy of movies. di na ako sure which one.
cheating is a personal choice, at least it is for me. sa simula walang cheating kasi takot. then konting cheating kasi di nahuli. then cheat pa more kasi walang naghuhuli. then boom, huli ka. di ako sure kung may pagsisi involved.
mapa test sa school or sa love life, to cheat or not to is a personal choice.... depende rin kung nasaang stage ka ng development mo.
ako, 10 years ago, walang cheating, straight arrow. boring happy.
7 years ako started cheating.
4 years ako balls deep sa lahat ng klaseng cheating.
2 years ago got bored.
now, well, trying to be a better person.
mas madalas na akong umayaw sa tukso now
hopefully tuloy tuloy lang ako and someday maging happy boring ako ulit.
sa mga cheaters dyan, i dont judge, madumi rin ako.
advise ko lang, konting self examination pa minsan minsan,
libog lang ba
exciting yung bawal
worth it ba yung risk para ma feel mo na alive ka pa,
ako ito yung top 3 reasons ko - libog exciting at feeling alive ako.
ito rin yung nakukuha ko sa significant other ko dati, na nawala, at di ko alam kung babalik pa. time will tell.
sa mga makakabasa, and hoping na wag mag cheat ang partner nyo - best advise ko keep the libog, exciting, and alive feeling,
p.s. magastos maging cheater.
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Posted 23 November 2020 - 11:26 PM
Heard this line from a TV show I was watching a few weeks back:
"The person you want when you're in a crisis or when you're dying, isn't the same as the person you want when you're living."
We stick to our marriages, long-term relationships because they're the ones we can count on when times get tough. Problem is, we often end up with people who we have nothing in common with; malayo ang preferences, malayo ang mga gusto gawin, malayo ang mga passion.
Not all people have the cojones to break things up, so what do we do? They wander off the reservation until they find that someone na nabibigay yung hinahanap na wala sa current relationship and when things get boring again, they move on to the next person available.
Can't stop people from cheating. What you can do is stop being their doormat.
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