You need to be at the least good looking to catch the attention of a cougar unless you have the call boy looks in my opinion. I always hang out in hotel lounges like Makati and Edsa Shang, Manila Pen, New World, Sofitel and Manila Hotel. I just like live lounge singing and having a few beers or a couple of glasses of wine before heading home after a business dinner.
Lots of middle aged women but they go out in groups.
In my opinion its always hit and miss. But from my personal experience, any place where they can have good music and probably dance, should be a hang out for these women.
If you want a cougar, lots of women in Tinder at the age of 45 and 60! hahahahaha